FabSwingers.com forum: Xtasia

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I've been accepted as a male member for an Xtasia membership.

It's my very first club, as I never been to one before.

As a big chunky BHM I'm quite nervous.

Will I be accepted by one and all as I'm bigger?

What sort of etiquette should I adopt when I go?

Any advice would be gladly appreciated.

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

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Congratulations on your membership.

You’ll be accepted for who you are, in other words be nice to others and they’ll be nice too.

Advice being the same as any club, always ask before any physical contact and even watching in some instances.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Congratulations on your membership.

You’ll be accepted for who you are, in other words be nice to others and they’ll be nice too.

Advice being the same as any club, always ask before any physical contact and even watching in some instances. "

I mean I'm quite a socialable person. At the moment I Know physical contact in the mentioned environment is not permitted.

But in a sense how would you know if someone was interested in physical contact, is there something they say or do?

Do people approach single males?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just been recently accepted as a single male at Xtasia too. I’m thinking I’ll probably go in a couple of weeks but it is a bit daunting. I’m definitely not a hottie or physically attractive so I’ve wondered the same, if I’d be setting myself up to be laughed out of there but ultimately, what people find attractive is subjective and there will be a range of people there with different preferences. I’m a bit confused though. At Xtasia, single blokes can’t just turn up on the night? I think you have to arrange a day your going to go but have I have no idea on how that done? Searched the site but couldn’t find it. Do you call or email them? I originally put the 16th of this month when signing up for a swingers membership but couldn’t do that date so want to arrange my first time there but not sure how lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think there an area for singles to mix and flirt and chat with etc on nights signal makes can attend. Don’t think there a particular signal like wink wink, and flick your hair to indicate if some one wants to progress beyond a chat. The website gives some info though on singles and what expected on their website and some simple things you can say if not interested or you are and chatted for a bit and want to know how they’re feeling about things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry too much OP, Xtasia is a very relaxed and welcoming club. It's a different place with no play but always friendly. Even as a couple, our first time was nerve wracking! Just enjoy yourself and good luck

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

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Enjoy the experience op

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