FabSwingers.com forum: Help Needed for lost of enthusiasm after cumming

By *leet5124 OP Man
over a year ago

Jamaica

I am full of enthusiasm for having sex with all the variations possible with my partner, but as soon as I cum, the enthusiasm vanishes no matter how hard I try to prevent that. All the things I promised to do sexually pre ejaculation disappear. It even happens at parties where there is a lot of other simulation available.

There was a thread here recently on this subject, but I have been unable to locate it again.

How can I overcome this instantaneous lost of enthusiasm after I cum. I know someone will suggest “don’t cum” but sometimes it is that good that I cannot not cum.

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Post but clarity, I use to get that a lot, you cum and then you no longer have any sexual urges.

This is going to sound like shit advice, but your best tool is too power through, even if the little man isn’t up for it, just push through and try and please the partner for a bit, and slowly but sure I use to get a second wind.

I kept doing that and now I recover extremely quickly.

Biological there is nothing stopping you from continuing, you balls still produce 15,000 sperm a second, it’s your mind saying “I’ve done what I need to do genetically and that blood in my penis is needed elsewhere” however you need to teach your mind that, it’s not over and you want more, very difficult but pushing through is the only answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called post nut syndrome and really does exist apparently. I think as above just get on with it and the mind and body will soon be back in tandem again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is age related I reckon - as I have got older once can be enough - urge then gone. It does cum back but need an hour or 2 now. O to be 20 again.

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By *apperleymanMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think it depends on who you’re with too, if you’re cheating you’re gonna get guilt/ regret.

If you’re with someone you don’t like personally or fancy that myth but you’ve let the small brain win then again those feelings are going to flood the brain.

Do what you’ve promised, quick shower or wash and hopefully those feelings have passed somewhat..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practise full body male orgasm without ejaculation, starts with learning to edge properly...porn is not allowed and neither is full masturbation....will take you a few months but once you get it sussed you WILL HAVE multiple orgasms much are more intense than with ejaculation and last much much longer through your whole body.... you can have much more fun...many many more times the satisfaction with zero recovery time between...then you can ejaculate whenever you feel its over...then take your nap

Hit that with a dose of cialis and yeah..... you will be a sex god*

*no guarantee implied

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By *ack69erMan
over a year ago

Beverley

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By *mpishMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

I lose that enthusiasm when the tip of my penis gets way too sensitive after cumming. I have to have a cool down of 10 minutes before being able to go again.

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By *leet5124 OP Man
over a year ago

Jamaica

Good morning. Is there anymore advice available? Thanks for the ones already received.

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