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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why do the couples profiles only ever have pics of the female half, surely the male is just as important to the female of the other couple they are gonna meet or am i wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's even worse when the private pics only have the female too

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By *eclan_and_AimeeCouple
over a year ago

dunblane, stirling

We've always had pics of the both of us.

Even though we're only looking for girly fun when we meet couples, it sometimes puts me off contacting a couple who only have pics of the female.

After all, everyone has to be comfortable in each others company? (and I always hated blind dates!)

xAx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have male pics in our PG ...but we dont want to scare of couples before they contact us which is why we dont have them in our public profile ...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find generally speaking its only the female that others want to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i suppose it depends what you're looking for. if you're just looking to have fun with the female half, then it probably wouldnt matter to a lot of people what the male looks like as he wont be involved anyway.

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By *eclan_and_AimeeCouple
over a year ago

dunblane, stirling


"we have male pics in our PG ...but we dont want to scare of couples before they contact us which is why we dont have them in our public profile ...lol"

scare off couples?

like i said above i tend to avoid profiles with pics of just one half (it's not just the female half, i've seen couple profiles with just photos of a male) what if, a couple of messages down the line you exchange pics and then dont like what you see, if you were to either politely decline or run away screeching EEEK... wouldn't you still be classed as a 'timewaster'?

We prefer to just have everything on the main page then people know what they are getting themselves into lol

... they could still run away from our face pics i spose

xAx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is important. i always like to see both halfs of the couple before a meet.

same as i always chat to both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

once they make contact they are free to see our pics in our pg or we send them via the message thing , the scare them off was an attempt of humour...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"once they make contact they are free to see our pics in our pg or we send them via the message thing , the scare them off was an attempt of humour...lol"

suppose thats right.only show to those who interest you.

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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago

n/wales

ours have both

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

We have a pic of both on the profile and other pics showing faces inside for friends only

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By *eclan_and_AimeeCouple
over a year ago

dunblane, stirling


"ours have both "

I could only see female pics?

A

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

It is very frustrating; with Sarah not bi she needs to know what the guy looks like

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By *wsometwosomeCouple
over a year ago

its a village

We have both on display, so what you see ,is what you get. As I am the one with the deciding vote, couples pictures without the male dont really stand a chance. Goes the same for single guys with only their genitals on show Gross (

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure I have posted this before, several times, but here goes again ... there are face pics of us both in our private gallery, not for friends to readily see, but for us to send to people that we may be interested in meeting or them us. Equally we can camchat at weekends (not cam fun though) so we think that's a fair compromise .... if potential playmates are not satisfied with that, then don't contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im bi not gay, if im meeting a couple i need to be attracted to both....even if hes just watching - i can imagine nothing worse than being watched by someone i dont find attractive! apart from them then touching me ...ewwww.

so, id never contact a couple where theres only pics of the woman because i coudnt be arsed with the whole swapping friends invites, seeing a bloke i dont fancy then having to tell them...and them say "well it was you who contacted us in the first place blah blah blah..."

if theres at least body pics of both partners on the profile and i like them both, theres more chance of further chat and a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put one up on the public profile although it dont show much ....lol

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By *erekduvallCouple
over a year ago

swansea

I am the only one who can operate the camera....................I"ll get my coat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats why we always like to meet for a social drink before a second meet. make sure we are all compatibale. But agree with what you are saying about profile pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think that what ever people put on their profiles is entirely up to them and them alone.

We take each profile fact/pic with a pinch of salt until we have actually met in person. Any picture on any profile could be new or could be 10 years old and any fact on a profile could be spot on or a load of old tosh.

For us a profile is nothing more than a basic indicator, a phone chat tells us something more and meeting for a chat tells us the rest

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By *ust JoanWoman
over a year ago

caerphilly

We have pics on our profile and always have had, but when u meet as we do with mainly single guys there's hardly any point having mine up, but like we say we don't hide anything and we defo not ashamed of what we do, so why not have pics of us both, in fact we don't even bother with a private gallery, every pic we have (yes all 32 of them) are in general gallery. We are what you see and read, only gripe we have is the fact people click on profile and scroll straight to pics without reading a word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good or bad we have both on ours too.. Its a pet hate when we get mail and no pics of the guy anywhere..

There are two in a couple.. neither of us do the blind date thing lol.

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By *ust JoanWoman
over a year ago

caerphilly

Furthermore we tend to find pics on the site tend to be outdated, so before we decide to meet we always ask to cam, we change our pics every couple of months, we have seen pics on here that have been used on many different sites for the last couple of years, which is why we ask for recent pics, if not we state clearly coffee only, if we get on we will meet again to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have also noticed this trend and wondered why such is the case. Being a single male and at the bottom of the swinging pile, I have always overlooked it. I do however ensure that I see BOTH on cam before I even contemplate a meet.

Being a str8 fussy f****r, even though im not going to physically play with the male, a dp situation might arise. This has to be pleasing to the eye else it just wont work.

I suppose thats another reason why I DONT do the club/spa scene.

Call me fickle but hey, thats your perogative , lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose because ultimately the female will decide whether to play or not, the male is merely academic. We dont normally ask for pics of the male and touch wood have never been disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Furthermore we tend to find pics on the site tend to be outdated, so before we decide to meet we always ask to cam, we change our pics every couple of months, we have seen pics on here that have been used on many different sites for the last couple of years, which is why we ask for recent pics, if not we state clearly coffee only, if we get on we will meet again to play."

Good thing about this site there.. the latest pics go at the top.. The ones on the top of ours are very very recent, in fact this weekend gone lol.. Most of the others within months.. Some older but fair to say were pretty much the same..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suppose because ultimately the female will decide whether to play or not, the male is merely academic. We dont normally ask for pics of the male and touch wood have never been disappointed."

But surely its the very fact that "ultimately the female will decide whether to play" that makes pics of the guys so important.

Even if the women are bi,they still have to fancy the guys if they're playing as couples.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suppose because ultimately the female will decide whether to play or not, the male is merely academic. We dont normally ask for pics of the male and touch wood have never been disappointed.

But surely its the very fact that "ultimately the female will decide whether to play" that makes pics of the guys so important.

Even if the women are bi,they still have to fancy the guys if they're playing as couples.

XXXX"

Couldnt agree more, we have pics of both of us on profile and face pics in private. hate it when you accept a friends invite and find still no pics of the guy

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By *ytraCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

As newbies here we have been more interested in profiles with pics of both partners.

We have both of us body shots on profile and head shots in pvt.

S & T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same as a lot of guys even 'hung' ones dont like another guy to see them naked in a meet and they are terrified of bi guys in case one might get turned on looking at them lol. Yeah I know there are some pushy guys but most of us bi's arent!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"same as a lot of guys even 'hung' ones dont like another guy to see them naked in a meet and they are terrified of bi guys in case one might get turned on looking at them lol. Yeah I know there are some pushy guys but most of us bi's arent!"

Did have a meet with another guy that was all up for watching me shagging. When it came to his turn, the blighter wanted everyone to leave the room. And I aint the slightest bi either.

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

were going to have a photo session at some point this week after a nice hot bath. will get some tipsof hear and make some changes to our photos.

thease posts are good it helps people know what it is people look for.

M&M

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By *ndreaJohnCouple
over a year ago

Farnborough

Possibly because I am an ugly bastard and the wife isn't lol. seriously though I think it is just courtesy for all involved that if you are a couple then post a picture of you as a couple. We do. I am an ugly bastard but at least people can see i am a nice ugly bastard

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