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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How to people manage to arrange meets, I can't even get my messages read?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles with pictures are more likely to get a response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And a bio that actually says something about them rather than a song title

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

We can't give profile advice unless you ask, but most of us women look at a profile before deciding to reply or delete.

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Photos, a decent profile and site supporter all help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously though, try to look at your profile from someone elses point of view.

What does it scream at you?

Lack of effort, that's what.

It gives the impression that you've come to fab assuming that all you need do is knock up a quick profile in 5 minutes and be fighting off offers by lunch time.

If you can't be bothered to soend some time crafting a half decent, informative profile and upload some pictures, then what dies it say about you?

People will assume tgat you'll take the same approach to meets.

Others on fab are here for their pleasure, not yours. They want to know what they will get out of an encounter with you.

Your profile tells them nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How to people manage to arrange meets, I can't even get my messages read? "

Your title straight away put them off! Girl? Really…

You need to rebuilt your entire profile but think about it first.

I have a fairly good profile explaining to hat I am looking for, great body, good sense of humour and still don’t get that many messages so..

Anyway good luck

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"How to people manage to arrange meets, I can't even get my messages read? "

meh got your sights set to high, you’ve a profile just calm down.

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By *ots of fun 123Woman
over a year ago

Leicester


"How to people manage to arrange meets, I can't even get my messages read? "

We arranged to meet 3 guys today. Must have had 60 offers, so we were in the fortunate position of being able to be selective. The 3 we picked had interesting profiles, nice pics, had clearly read and understood our wants from the meet, and were able to demonstrate they had a good track record of turning up.

I don't want to be mean but I have to say, a look at your profile and you wouldn't have even got into the maybe pile. I appreciate if you have no veris, a track record of turning up is difficult to overcome, but you can do things to make other aspects more appealing.

The above is intended as good advice from a couples perspective, not to knock single guys.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

No profile photo single guy we would delete

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Like everyone else says, your profile says nothing and shows nothing.

Assume the person you message is going to look at that before your message...because they usually will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How to people manage to arrange meets, I can't even get my messages read?

We arranged to meet 3 guys today. Must have had 60 offers, so we were in the fortunate position of being able to be selective. The 3 we picked had interesting profiles, nice pics, had clearly read and understood our wants from the meet, and were able to demonstrate they had a good track record of turning up.

I don't want to be mean but I have to say, a look at your profile and you wouldn't have even got into the maybe pile. I appreciate if you have no veris, a track record of turning up is difficult to overcome, but you can do things to make other aspects more appealing.

The above is intended as good advice from a couples perspective, not to knock single guys."

Mmm I wonder which position i would be? Too 10?

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Theres nothing to entice anyone on it!

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

When someone says they are "bored" OP this is often read as that the person is "boring" because they lack vitality to be interesting and to be doing interesting things especially on a sunny day like today so it's a word best avoided.

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By *ydia_LovegoodWoman
over a year ago

St. Ives

I see OP has taken all the comments on board... ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see OP has taken all the comments on board... ... "

Lol!! Oh well it’s his choice, ignoring being ignored then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you haven't put the time in on your profile, why expect anyone to put in the time to reply?

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By *amesRobs1987Man
over a year ago

Brighton


"We can't give profile advice unless you ask, but most of us women look at a profile before deciding to reply or delete. "

I thought you were all just eager sluts who would fuck anything? Huh..

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"We can't give profile advice unless you ask, but most of us women look at a profile before deciding to reply or delete.

I thought you were all just eager sluts who would fuck anything? Huh.."

Grabbing my popcorn

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By *amesRobs1987Man
over a year ago

Brighton


"We can't give profile advice unless you ask, but most of us women look at a profile before deciding to reply or delete.

I thought you were all just eager sluts who would fuck anything? Huh..

Grabbing my popcorn "

May as well put it down I was being ironic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How to people manage to arrange meets, I can't even get my messages read? "

They put in the effort to appeal.

Starting with their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We can't give profile advice unless you ask, but most of us women look at a profile before deciding to reply or delete.

I thought you were all just eager sluts who would fuck anything? Huh..

Grabbing my popcorn

May as well put it down I was being ironic "

Me too lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bio has been updated.. Feed back welcome.

Not ready to post pics at the moment but always send a face pic when I have messaged fabs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People you message will usually check out your profile before even considering opening your message.

If it's not enticing enough, and it isn't, then they either won't bother readingbit or will delete it straight away.

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