FabSwingers.com forum: Are there many sub females on this site

By *avexxl OP Man
over a year ago

local

I’ve been on this site for some time and I’ve had fun and experienced new things

I’m a moderately experienced Dom male and I wonder how many sub females use this site to find Dom’s for play sessions or more

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Oh what a tiny.....profile picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh what a tiny.....profile picture

Jo "

Tiny Dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been on this site for some time and I’ve had fun and experienced new things

I’m a moderately experienced Dom male and I wonder how many sub females use this site to find Dom’s for play sessions or more

There are some but you would find they are already owned. But this site is not generally focus on that kind of relationship as I found out myself lol

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By *avexxl OP Man
over a year ago

local

Thank for the reply

I’ve noticed the same and I’ve tried other sites like fet

But it seems that unless you have the luxury of living somewhere with an active bdsm /fetish scene and are willing to attend clubs it very hard to find a sub play partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are 3 sub females on the site. I counted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found my Dom on here. There are subs out there, it’s just finding them.

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By *avexxl OP Man
over a year ago

local

you found all of them lol

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

There are quite a few on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" you found all of them lol "

Yup. It was a tiring day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op - use reply + quote

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By *avexxl OP Man
over a year ago

local

Your not kidding !

But I’m sure it will be well worth the time

Nothing good comes easy

Loving the

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By *avexxl OP Man
over a year ago

local

"Op - use reply + quote "
thanks I’m new at forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank for the reply

I’ve noticed the same and I’ve tried other sites like fet

But it seems that unless you have the luxury of living somewhere with an active bdsm /fetish scene and are willing to attend clubs it very hard to find a sub play partner "

Of course it’s hard and difficult. And it should be. Too much risk and depends what you are into could also be dangerous.

I am sure there are some munch or kinky events back on soon in your area unless you live that remotely?

If you only start it will even be harder as no sub would trust a newby. Just be prepared for years of fantasy land.

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By *avexxl OP Man
over a year ago

local

"Thank for the reply

I’ve noticed the same and I’ve tried other sites like fet

But it seems that unless you have the luxury of living somewhere with an active bdsm /fetish scene and are willing to attend clubs it very hard to find a sub play partner

Of course it’s hard and difficult. And it should be. Too much risk and depends what you are into could also be dangerous.

I am sure there are some munch or kinky events back on soon in your area unless you live that remotely?

If you only start it will even be harder as no sub would trust a newby. Just be prepared for years of fantasy land. "

I’m near Worksop and Doncaster so I’ll have to keep a look out for munches to start up again

I’m not new just out of scene for a few years

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Thank for the reply

I’ve noticed the same and I’ve tried other sites like fet

But it seems that unless you have the luxury of living somewhere with an active bdsm /fetish scene and are willing to attend clubs it very hard to find a sub play partner "

With regards to the attending clubs bit...

For me it's essential. What it is that we do is inherently risky, I want to be able to minimise the risks to myself and ensure my safety.

RACK, SSC and IC cover pretty much every are of my life not just a BDSM play scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank for the reply

I’ve noticed the same and I’ve tried other sites like fet

But it seems that unless you have the luxury of living somewhere with an active bdsm /fetish scene and are willing to attend clubs it very hard to find a sub play partner

Of course it’s hard and difficult. And it should be. Too much risk and depends what you are into could also be dangerous.

I am sure there are some munch or kinky events back on soon in your area unless you live that remotely?

If you only start it will even be harder as no sub would trust a newby. Just be prepared for years of fantasy land.

I’m near Worksop and Doncaster so I’ll have to keep a look out for munches to start up again

I’m not new just out of scene for a few years "

There was one on the 6 June so best to join the group and follow update….

Forget about finding one on here.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

To me there is a fair amount of cross over between fet and swing on fab.

Clubs are great for events, plus the dungeons at weekends are often very busy.

I (the male) have had some stunning D/s relationships off fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty but they don’t always want to disclose due to the amount of dim Dom’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a sub, and looking for a Dom. Unfortunately far too many wannabes on here, who want an instant ego boost, ruins it for the genuine ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, there are quite a few and it’s not in the way many imagine.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"I am a sub, and looking for a Dom. Unfortunately far too many wannabes on here, who want an instant ego boost, ruins it for the genuine ones. "

I'm absoutely not a dom but I'm becoming interested in the concept of it and perhaps becoming one. Wife has no desire to be a sub though.

It's a question of learning about it and seeing if it suits me. I dont see the point in telling someone I'm something I'm not. Itll only end in disappointment all round.

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Present - and not currently owned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are plenty but they don’t always want to disclose due to the amount of dim Dom’s"

There is a big difference between being kinky and wanted to submit and having a Ds relationship!

I read lots of profile and didn’t noticed that many. I also specified it on my profile to start with and nobody show any interest. Hence I took it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sub. But incredibly selective about what I want in a Dom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are plenty but they don’t always want to disclose due to the amount of dim Dom’s

There is a big difference between being kinky and wanted to submit and having a Ds relationship!

I read lots of profile and didn’t noticed that many. I also specified it on my profile to start with and nobody show any interest. Hence I took it off "

I’m fully aware of what a Ds relationship entails

I was answering the OP!!

And I repeat many subs do not disclose they are subs on here due to dim doms/ bullies and the like who wouldn’t understand a Ds relationship if it hit them in the face.

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm an unowned sub but it takes time and trust before I let someone dom me. So many guys watch 50 shades (of sh*te!) and spank a girls ass a couple of times so think they ate a dom

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

***are a dom*** not ate a dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a few subs but not many who actually find someone who they will submit to, I've found alot like the thought but but in reality can't let go for whatever reason

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By *avexxl OP Man
over a year ago

local

"Present - and not currently owned"
you’re quite local to me

Have you much experience of the clubs and munches in our area ?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"There are plenty but they don’t always want to disclose due to the amount of dim Dom’s"

Some one I knew called them con doms

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I'm an unowned sub but it takes time and trust before I let someone dom me. So many guys watch 50 shades (of sh*te!) and spank a girls ass a couple of times so think they ate a dom

Think you got it right, most behavioural Submissive ladies would eat a con Dom alive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are plenty but they don’t always want to disclose due to the amount of dim Dom’s

Some one I knew called them con doms"

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm an unowned sub but it takes time and trust before I let someone dom me. So many guys watch 50 shades (of sh*te!) and spank a girls ass a couple of times so think they ate a dom

We are here. When I was single, I was still under the radar here, due to the aptly referred to Fab con-doms for the same reasons ^^^.

I needed a decent amount of time establishing a solid understanding/ trust before considering any d/s dynamics.

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