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By *moothmaker OP   Man
over a year ago

Hemswell cliff gainsborough

On couples profiles,

Why are there more pictures of women and mostly none of the men !!!

I only find it fair for both parties to have pictures of bodies fair enough facial pictures for friends only,

It’s not really all about just the women in my opinion,

It’s fairness to both parties,

On my profile / what do you see is what you get to put it bluntly no offence xx

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

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"On couples profiles,

Why are there more pictures of women and mostly none of the men !!!

I only find it fair for both parties to have pictures of bodies fair enough facial pictures for friends only,

It’s not really all about just the women in my opinion,

It’s fairness to both parties,

On my profile / what do you see is what you get to put it bluntly no offence xx"

Maybe the women are better looking

Or perhaps, as a general rule, they prefer taking selfies and getting attention and so post more photos

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By *inojCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"On couples profiles,

Why are there more pictures of women and mostly none of the men !!!

I only find it fair for both parties to have pictures of bodies fair enough facial pictures for friends only,

It’s not really all about just the women in my opinion,

It’s fairness to both parties,

On my profile / what do you see is what you get to put it bluntly no offence xx"

It depends what you're looking for...for us just looking for single guys, so not advertising Vinny. We put pics of him on just to prove we are a couple

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

There is just not as much men can do and all the picks tend to look the same,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to be the way with a lot of profiles . I’m sure they have their reasons though

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I suppose it depends on there target audience but I find it odd when they expect someone to have sex with both and only show pictures of one person in the couple.

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

For us, it’s because we are only seeking men. Not couples or females as gorgeous as you all are. Simple reason, I (hubby) do not play with anyone except my wife, while she will play with guys. Therefore, as I am not “what’s available” so to speak, we don’t feel it is important what I look like. And, to be honest, she is 100% more sexy than me!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"On couples profiles,

Why are there more pictures of women and mostly none of the men !!!

I only find it fair for both parties to have pictures of bodies fair enough facial pictures for friends only,

It’s not really all about just the women in my opinion,

It’s fairness to both parties,

On my profile / what do you see is what you get to put it bluntly no offence xx"

It's because that is what the couple want to show. It's their profile and their choice, and they certainly have no need to explain why to anyone else. What you find fair is, in all honesty, immaterial, and those who don't like the balance of photos have access to thousands of other profiles that meet their needs.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"On couples profiles,

Why are there more pictures of women and mostly none of the men !!"

Because I (Bry) very rarely join in, and then only with the occasional bi guy. We only want single guys, women and couples for Char to play with so it's pretty irrelevant what I look like.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

A bit of an instant turn off for us is when a profile has photos but none/very limited of the male. We don't mind more of the female than the males but we don't like it when you get the sense the male is hidden away. At the end of the day Mrs Mifit wants to see the male or I want to see if it's someone Mrs Misfit would fancy. We like to have a range of photos of both of us. Yes we may have a few more of Mrs Misfit (she can be a show off) but we hope people like our photos and can fully check both of us out.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We are currently only looking for single, straight guys - I doubt they'd be interested in loads of pics of the male half. If in the future we change our search to bi women or couples, we would adjust our profile accordingly.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"On couples profiles,

Why are there more pictures of women and mostly none of the men !!!

I only find it fair for both parties to have pictures of bodies fair enough facial pictures for friends only,

It’s not really all about just the women in my opinion,

It’s fairness to both parties,

On my profile / what do you see is what you get to put it bluntly no offence xx

It's because that is what the couple want to show. It's their profile and their choice, and they certainly have no need to explain why to anyone else. What you find fair is, in all honesty, immaterial, and those who don't like the balance of photos have access to thousands of other profiles that meet their needs. "

While this is of course 100% correct, the op is offering their opinion to give different viewpoint for couples to consider. It's possible a couple think people prefer only shots of the woman and this post will encourage them to put up more of the men.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

It’s a fair challenge.

Can only talk for ourselves but it comes down to the following factors:

1. Mr B enjoys taking photos and is a better photographer. He is a pretty crap model!

2. Mrs B likes having her photo taken and is a better model. She doesn’t much enjoy taking photos (framing etc).

3. In our opinion (probably everyone’s opinion) Mrs B is nicer to look at than Mr B.

We have a few (and more “action” shots) in the private pics but think there are enough in public pics to “get the gist”

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By *randmrsrusCouple
over a year ago

legbourne

We have couple of myself in our freinds gallery but all our public pics or of J. There are a couple of reasons, I hate having my picture taken, always have since being a kid. J enjoys posing and I love taking pics of her. Over the years we have been on here it has become obvious to us that meeting potential playmates is far more successful in clubs than through this site. We almost exclusively now only meet at clubs so having pics of myself on here has become less important. But if a single or couple are sufficiently interested and it looks promising regarding a meet the we will always send face pics of us both.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If a couple is looking for other couples, I'd expect pics of both of them (we have plenty of Jack on my couple profile).

If there aren't any, I'd just not engage with that profile, I'm straight so it's really important for me to see and be attracted to the male of the couple. On profiles with only the lady or one of his cock, it feels like I wouldn't be important.

If the couple only meet men or its only the lady who meets, then I totally get why its just pics of her.

People can choose to run their profiles however they like, but I share your frustration,ehen they send us a wink or message on our couple profile.

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