FabSwingers.com forum: Sex mad

By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

Just because we are on a swingers site does that mean we are all sex mad and constantly want to shag 24/7

Why do some blokes think that just because we got up early we should be shagging or just because it’s sunny we should be horny

Get a bloody life

There’s other things in life apart from this site

Is this just me having a rant or do others get bombarded with assumptions

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By *lexw53Man
over a year ago

Crete

I do like to get to know others before we play.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think that mixed messages are often given.

Seductive photographs, flirty comments etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that mixed messages are often given.

Seductive photographs, flirty comments etc "

Thats sad really as you want to be able to have a good profile with out people going overboard with why youre on fab.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Is this just me having a rant.."

It does rather read that way!

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"Just because we are on a swingers site does that mean we are all sex mad and constantly want to shag 24/7

Why do some blokes think that just because we got up early we should be shagging or just because it’s sunny we should be horny

Get a bloody life

There’s other things in life apart from this site

Is this just me having a rant or do others get bombarded with assumptions"

It can get... tedious... when your inbox is full of "wanna fuck?" type messages, it's true.

There is so much more to life than just that for so many of us.

But I guess thats' one of the downsides of being on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just because we are on a swingers site does that mean we are all sex mad and constantly want to shag 24/7

Bear in mind that when guys are looking at your profile they're seeing sexy pics and lots of veris, they've probably got a hardon going to waste, and they make an assumption. Nothing to do with reality of course.

I've got that same corset by the way (black pleather with lacy skirt bits) but I'll concede it looks better on you

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By *han26993Man
over a year ago

Near Watford

It happens with me so often too. I like sucking guys but it doesn't mean I am sitting on my phone waiting for their msg and I will b on way to sucking their dick. Some of them get very annoyed as I reply sorry I am not free.

I do have life like every one else on this scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just because we are on a swingers site does that mean we are all sex mad and constantly want to shag 24/7

Why do some blokes think that just because we got up early we should be shagging or just because it’s sunny we should be horny

Get a bloody life

There’s other things in life apart from this site

Is this just me having a rant or do others get bombarded with assumptions"

I know, literally read messages at 6.30am saying meet now. When I’m still tucked in bed one eye open… lol it’s ridiculous x

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

You could always use your filters to stop men from messaging if messages annoy you that much and go looking for profiles yourself that you are interested in .

It's a swingers site. You will always get messages like that they are easy enough to ignore I find .

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I think that mixed messages are often given.

Seductive photographs, flirty comments etc

Thats sad really as you want to be able to have a good profile with out people going overboard with why youre on fab. "

I think to an extent we need to accept that some people will react in a different way to others or interpret things differently.

I have to say though that we don't get people expecting us to be sex mad.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Think it is because it a swingers site they assume if you are on here you are horny 24/7.

if you want to see how some people think log on at 2 in the morning, that is when the real crazies are online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg yes, sometimes I get bombarded, I admit some of my pictures are quite fetishy but that’s more about my kink and I just love dressing up and taking dumb photos more than anything.

The early morning ones are funny “wanna fuck?”

“Nah, I want to chill out in my Batman pjs and drink tea whilst I chill with my cat”

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We are always awake in the early hours loads of people think it's because we're having sex.

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

Well at least I’m not the only one thinks this way

Thought it was just me having a sunday rant

I agree with one person that yes I could ignore but I can’t be bothered to go through them all quite honestly

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Omg yes, sometimes I get bombarded, I admit some of my pictures are quite fetishy but that’s more about my kink and I just love dressing up and taking dumb photos more than anything.

The early morning ones are funny “wanna fuck?”

“Nah, I want to chill out in my Batman pjs and drink tea whilst I chill with my cat”"

Chilling out with the cat sounds much better!

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I get insomnia so sometimes look at the forum in the early hours and immediately get 4 or 5 msgs asking why I'm awake at that time

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

"Just because we are on a swingers site does that mean we are all sex mad and constantly want to shag 24/7

Why do some blokes think that just because we got up early we should be shagging or just because it’s sunny we should be horny

Get a bloody life

There’s other things in life apart from this site

Is this just me having a rant or do others get bombarded with assumptions"

I kind of agree but I would not really log on to fab unless I was horny. So I think it is not that strange.

If I was on a reditt forum then I'd find a question about how horny am I as far less appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have actually the same. Because we are a couple, single guys think that I walk around with sexy lingerie on all day just waiting to be fuked and that we are obviously at it like rabbits 24/7 even if we are just in from work!

And why do we need to see someone's face we are in fab you must want to fuck anyone anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a sex site with sex pics and sex menus. I'm never surprised people are online looking for sex. If I'm not interested they are easy to ignore. Even easier to use filters so no mail at all.

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

Yes it’s a sex site but there are also lots of forums that discuss anything other than sex so I like to look at those as well

Also I use holiday forums too

So it’s not all about constant sex and being available

If we want it we will ask

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Try being a single old boy in his own home with no offspring and looking like he won't last through another winter.

Absolutely overwhelmed with messages from women who have no idea how many other things i have to attend to besides making my will with their help and checking my heart rate with riotous sex.

If I want, I will ask!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try being a single old boy in his own home with no offspring and looking like he won't last through another winter.

Absolutely overwhelmed with messages from women who have no idea how many other things i have to attend to besides making my will with their help and checking my heart rate with riotous sex.

If I want, I will ask!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just because we are on a swingers site does that mean we are all sex mad and constantly want to shag 24/7

Why do some blokes think that just because we got up early we should be shagging or just because it’s sunny we should be horny

Get a bloody life

There’s other things in life apart from this site

Is this just me having a rant or do others get bombarded with assumptions"

Well said. I fancy my Sir like crazy, but don't even want to 'shag' 24/7 with him because I like the snuggles and cuddles.

Before I get into any intimate sex talk or action, I like to get to know the person, so there's no point at all in a stranger messaging asking for phone/text/video sex or a meet up.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

That’s how some guys think on here. Lol.

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By *appypaul69Man
over a year ago

vale

I must say I'm very disappointed in you all. Fancy not being available 24/7. Next you'll be telling us you have things to do lol

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

Most of us take the time to write a profile saying when we are free so why people insist on assuming we are free at other times is beyond a joke

Take a little time to read then a meet could possibly be arranged and who knows….we may even get horny for you

Pmsl

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