FabSwingers.com forum: Foreplay vs fcuking??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering what people’s thoughts are when it comes to foreplay and fcuking?

Personally I prefer

80% - foreplay

20% - fcuking

(Not sure whether I’m actually allowed to sweat on these forums hence the wrong spelling lol)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm a 99% foreplay 1% fucking kind of a person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer foreplay to fucking agree with op

80% foreplay

20% fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want all the fucking... With a sprinkling of foreplay in between... Penetration is what gets me off best so ya know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

You can swear

just not at other people

Haha. Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a 99% foreplay 1% fucking kind of a person "

I’ve come very close to that ratio a few times lol

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By *lassy_but_sassyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm about 20% foreplay 80% fucking. I don't know if I'm broken as aaaaall the women's mags/pages/articles scream "80% of women don't orgasm through penetrative sex!!!" whereas I'm more likely to orgasm through fucking!

Honestly? I like foreplay if done properly. Only two people have ever made me cum through foreplay/oral

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By *lassy_but_sassyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I want all the fucking... With a sprinkling of foreplay in between... Penetration is what gets me off best so ya know

Yay I'm not alone after all!

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Love the foreplay!

I seem to last much longer on it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm about 20% foreplay 80% fucking. I don't know if I'm broken as aaaaall the women's mags/pages/articles scream "80% of women don't orgasm through penetrative sex!!!" whereas I'm more likely to orgasm through fucking!

Honestly? I like foreplay if done properly. Only two people have ever made me cum through foreplay/oral

Sounds like a challenge haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly? I like foreplay if done properly. Only two people have ever made me cum through foreplay/oral

can totally relate to this ..

whats with all these vrs post sex is about all of it not bits n pieces

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By *lassy_but_sassyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Honestly? I like foreplay if done properly. Only two people have ever made me cum through foreplay/oral

Sounds like a challenge haha"

Maybe that's it! I just need to find someone who's good at it. We're all adults here so fuck it I'll share. I have a very small clit, and it never ever gets enough attention!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Honestly? I like foreplay if done properly. Only two people have ever made me cum through foreplay/oral

Sounds like a challenge haha

Maybe that's it! I just need to find someone who's good at it. We're all adults here so fuck it I'll share. I have a very small clit, and it never ever gets enough attention!

Well I’d happily show your small clit lots of attention trying various methods and see what it reacted to the most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I much prefer the intimacy of foreplay and kissing to actual penetrative sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay for a long time then penetration back to Foreplay and then finish

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Honestly? I like foreplay if done properly. Only two people have ever made me cum through foreplay/oral

can totally relate to this ..

whats with all these vrs post sex is about all of it not bits n pieces "

Totally agree!!

Depends on the mood, the place, the occasion etc... I was just wondering what the general consensus was?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly? I like foreplay if done properly. Only two people have ever made me cum through foreplay/oral

can totally relate to this ..

whats with all these vrs post sex is about all of it not bits n pieces

Totally agree!!

Depends on the mood, the place, the occasion etc... I was just wondering what the general consensus was? "

OP what’s your thoughts. I’m a massive foreplay fan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends. With a regular partner I just want the dick in me so it’s all about the fucking. With a newer partner I like to explore them more so foreplay. But I guess I just love a good mix. Would be bored with hours of foreplay without the fucking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Honestly? I like foreplay if done properly. Only two people have ever made me cum through foreplay/oral

can totally relate to this ..

whats with all these vrs post sex is about all of it not bits n pieces

Totally agree!!

Depends on the mood, the place, the occasion etc... I was just wondering what the general consensus was?

OP what’s your thoughts. I’m a massive foreplay fan"

I love pleasuring a woman and making them orgasm / cum / climax / squirt / multiple orgasm etc before I fuck them because then I feel less guilty if I’m quick haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It depends. With a regular partner I just want the dick in me so it’s all about the fucking. With a newer partner I like to explore them more so foreplay. But I guess I just love a good mix. Would be bored with hours of foreplay without the fucking. "

Totally with you there!! I’d be gutted if there was no fucking at the end haha

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Wife is same!

Almost immediately after giving her oral orgasm, she wants me inside her.

Not that I don't want to but it never goes how I'd like it once we start playing.

I'd love a BJ to orgasm first, then oral until she cums and then fucking.

What kinda female psychology is going on where that's not the right way to go?

Once I get her hot she just wants cock inside her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly? I like foreplay if done properly. Only two people have ever made me cum through foreplay/oral

can totally relate to this ..

whats with all these vrs post sex is about all of it not bits n pieces

Totally agree!!

Depends on the mood, the place, the occasion etc... I was just wondering what the general consensus was?

OP what’s your thoughts. I’m a massive foreplay fan

I love pleasuring a woman and making them orgasm / cum / climax / squirt / multiple orgasm etc before I fuck them because then I feel less guilty if I’m quick haha"

I hear ya

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I don't really think of foreplay and penetration as separate categories... It's all just part of fucking for me kissing, touching, licking, sucking, fingering, can all be done before during and after fucking.....

If you're worried you're about to cum to early, then pull out and lick and finger her till the feeling is under control and then cary on fucking again in a different position....

And if you do cum before her final orgasm, then the least you can do if finish her off with your mouth and fingers!

And if you aren't to scared of a bit of cum, the licking her clean afterwards will def leave her with a smile on her face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

60/40 for me

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

65% foreplay and 35% good old fashion retro style fucking ... think 1970s or 1980s porn from the Europeans ... x Anne

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By *incskinksCouple
over a year ago

lincoln

(Mrs) totally agree 80/20 foreplay is amazing. Quite often we enjoy lots of foreplay, then fucking then back to foreplay

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Does texting each other and describing what we're going to do count as foreplay? If so I like that before the actual foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies for me (Mrs) , 70% foreplay 30% sex I would say is perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pre foreplay ie the build up and mostly foreplay for me to

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

I'm with the OP, 80/20 in favour of foreplay seems about right for me. However, that ratio changes depending on partner, circumstance, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say maybe 50/50 depends on ny mood.

On the right day its 0/ 100

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Honestly? I like foreplay if done properly. Only two people have ever made me cum through foreplay/oral

Part of the 20% here.

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By *ovelaughliveCouple
over a year ago

Oldham

Tricky one as we love the build up, teasing and flirting that happens before play, for us makes the actually play more exciting!! X

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By *eirdscienceMan
over a year ago

Postwick

One is the lead up to sex and the other is a perfume brand so that's the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering what people’s thoughts are when it comes to foreplay and fcuking?

Personally I prefer

80% - foreplay

20% - fcuking

(Not sure whether I’m actually allowed to sweat on these forums hence the wrong spelling lol)"

This

I much prefer foreplay and mutual oral with loads of teasing much more than sex itself, and when turned on intensively sex is always more enjoyable for both parties

in my opinion

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Yes we would go with that, we sometimes play and don’t fuck just cum from playing if that makes sense! 80/20 is prob right

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

Depends on my mood tbh

Sometimes the long slow build up.& foreplay is what I need & want

Other times I just want fucking & no matter how determined he is to slow me down I always come out on top - literally

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By *lldaybreakfastMan
over a year ago

leeds

90% foreplay

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Do enjoy foreplay amazing what you can do with just your tongue alone

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

Foreplay is good but I need cock in me so I'm 20% foreplay 80% fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm probably 50/50 xx

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

20% foreplay 80% fucking, I soon get bored of foreplay.

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By *ella chowMan
over a year ago

Bradford

A variety is the spice of life.

Being vocal is number 1

Listening is number 2

And number 3 mix it up.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"Just wondering what people’s thoughts are when it comes to foreplay and fcuking?

Personally I prefer

80% - foreplay

20% - fcuking

(Not sure whether I’m actually allowed to sweat on these forums hence the wrong spelling lol)"

never considered the % of one thing over another, it's all good with me... however it goes down.

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By *ella chowMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"A variety is the spice of life.

Being vocal is number 1

Listening is number 2

And number 3 mix it up.

My personal favourite is keep foreplay going while fucking ie depending on positions and speed run your hands down her back lightly play with earlobes and neck,suck each other fingers, rub the clit suck and lick nipples evan men like theirs licked ect ect.

Also I like a nice quick fuck sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love foreplay for me it a good 90%.

A bit of role play, mixed with a very vocal person, toys, tease, and loads of oral.

I mean been a bigger guy, I just find it more satisfying then fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay every time! Love to tease and Edge.

Fucking is good but it doesn't hit all the spots like foreplay can.

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By *hatalovelypairCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Yep. Love foreplay.

We are probably 70% foreplay and 30% fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly? I like foreplay if done properly. Only two people have ever made me cum through foreplay/oral

Sounds like a challenge haha

Maybe that's it! I just need to find someone who's good at it. We're all adults here so fuck it I'll share. I have a very small clit, and it never ever gets enough attention!

I’ve had my eye on you for a quite a while now & it seems like my PMs are lost in your inbox so I’m just gonna shoot my shot here lol… I’d give you & your clit all the attention it’s deserves and then some

If your body is the canvas then my tongue will be the brush

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By *morous_EntanglementMan
over a year ago

Telford

Both.... just both. Foreplay is where a lot of the intimacy is at, or at least where it gets kindled, but despite this..... gotta love a fuck, lol

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I’m alllll about the rough fucking!

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By *ovelaughliveCouple
over a year ago

Oldham

The teasing and flirting for us, helps make the build up to the actual play more exciting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the foreplay, intense,hot,and the knowing you'll be fucking soon,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love loads of foreplay especially when there's toys involved, also like the after play if possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love lots of foreplay, having my nipples licked and pinched gets me nice and wet then it's a good fuck

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By *entleman Blue EyesMan
over a year ago

Saffron Walden

I'm with OP. I love great and unrushed foreplay.. But a good fuck at the end of it is essential. The best quickies I've had have always been with someone I know really well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us foreplay is the key to open all things kinky, a good foreplay session gets the juices flowing ready for a good pounding

75% foreplay 25% fucking for us

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Foreplay with my partner hell yes.. via swinging.. nope.. not really interested. I will give a bj but rarely allow anyone to go down on me... however its rare anyone even needs telling no.

I always get straight to it but then again I dont meet 121 it's just group and gangbang play x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

80% foreplay and 20% fucking for us aswell

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

80% oral and 20% fucking me. I’m all about the kissing and oral and touching xx

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