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By *ornycoulpledoncaster OP   Couple
over a year ago

doncaster

We know it happens to quite a few on here but had a guy messaged us sat asking for Skype fun we asked if his wife/partner was there(he had a couples profile) but gave us usual excuses she’s asleep/in shower/gone to shop etc so I politely say no thanks we are only looking for couples and the abuse he gave us was shocking EG He knows where we live he’s going to burn house down,meet me half way I’m going to slash you up etc etc. We know about report button but it has put us off a bit xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg thats terrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not surprised it's put you off

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By *ornycoulpledoncaster OP   Couple
over a year ago

doncaster

That was the mild abuse we got

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does he know where you live? Contact the police.

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By *ornycoulpledoncaster OP   Couple
over a year ago

doncaster

No we were thinking of contacting police

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By *andD300Couple
over a year ago

london

That’s terrible. Please inform the police.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Theres no need for that on here come on men show some respect take no as no

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I wouldn’t worry OP, if that’s what he was going to do he wouldn’t tell you.

Just another disgruntled coward thinking with his dick.

Problem is if he thinks he’s got a rise out of you, it may form into a programmed response he’ll use on others.

There are some rather unpleasant people on the internet. Luckily they are only a very small number.

Most people are great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you've given any details of where you live I wouldn't worry about it there's no way he can know where you live not by the tracking on fab ..sorry you had to put up with this it's not on at all we've had our share of weirdos but not abuse to that extent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depressing

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

He’s probably shit in bed and I pity the poor fools who he manages to meet. Demented idiots like that don’t deserve to be here or even breathe the same air as normal people. Block and report for sure. He doesn’t know where you live. He’s just bleeting like a little kid. But report for sure.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

It is beyond me why fab dont police this sort of stuff more ...its depressing, a bit of effort on their part to set an example would change peoples behaviour I think

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire


"We know it happens to quite a few on here but had a guy messaged us sat asking for Skype fun we asked if his wife/partner was there(he had a couples profile) but gave us usual excuses she’s asleep/in shower/gone to shop etc so I politely say no thanks we are only looking for couples and the abuse he gave us was shocking EG He knows where we live he’s going to burn house down,meet me half way I’m going to slash you up etc etc. We know about report button but it has put us off a bit xx"

God that is truly shocking and I'm not surprised it has put you off slightly, shocking behavior, and I would also be afraid, so does he know where you live? I would contact the Police for some advice. I really feel for you both.. Hope you both are Ok!!

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By *o and peepCouple
over a year ago

falkirk

Don’t let it put you off I get threats occasionally in my business and they DO know where I live but nobody has ever turned up all hot air with a floppy dick

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By *uttingstagsMan
over a year ago

Navan


"We know it happens to quite a few on here but had a guy messaged us sat asking for Skype fun we asked if his wife/partner was there(he had a couples profile) but gave us usual excuses she’s asleep/in shower/gone to shop etc so I politely say no thanks we are only looking for couples and the abuse he gave us was shocking EG He knows where we live he’s going to burn house down,meet me half way I’m going to slash you up etc etc. We know about report button but it has put us off a bit xx"

Suffice to say that you’ve encountered a complete dickhead who’s very brave on a keyboard or a touchscreen. Block and ignore would be my preferred course of action. If it escalates any further consider reporting it to the Police. Harassment and misuse of telecommunications might earn a little appearance in front of the local RM.

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

Let's be real here. These people don't just exist on the internet...they also go to the supermarket / bank / pub etc.

What the internet gives them is anonymity to say & do as they please.

It's a sad reflection on the world unfortunately.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"We know it happens to quite a few on here but had a guy messaged us sat asking for Skype fun we asked if his wife/partner was there(he had a couples profile) but gave us usual excuses she’s asleep/in shower/gone to shop etc so I politely say no thanks we are only looking for couples and the abuse he gave us was shocking EG He knows where we live he’s going to burn house down,meet me half way I’m going to slash you up etc etc. We know about report button but it has put us off a bit xx"

That should be reported to the police. No ifs or buts about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he needs reporting to police

and on here

sorry you had to put up with it

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We’ve had our fair share of keyboard pricks, you would enjoy five minutes alone with. The reality is just sad frustrated nobody’s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No we were thinking of contacting police "

I would contact the police. Idiots like him need to be told what he did is unacceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg... Another reason to be uber careful with personal details... Report + block xx

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

I got a lot of this sort of thing in a previous job and found the lould months like this nothing to worry about, it's the quite sneaky little fucks you need to keep an eye on

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Bet if you agreed to skype he`d bottle out. Some people get off on being abusive.

Report him for threatening you to be on the safe side to teach him a lesson.

Probably just frustrated with being turned down too often, letting off steam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's many keyboard warriors on all internet sites...the thing is... the majority are cowards with a split personality

But saying that...make sure you keep a copy of the threats he sent you... There are some lunatic predators about too unfortunately

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's best to always report to police as he is dangerous, just by threatening people. Report and block too. Fab improves incrementally by us each identifying these inappropriate people for the society. If I was coupled again, I'd just be meeting them in clubs, where they have to provide traceable ID.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bet if you agreed to skype he`d bottle out. Some people get off on being abusive.

Report him for threatening you to be on the safe side to teach him a lesson.

Probably just frustrated with being turned down too often, letting off steam."

^^^^^^^ Some defo get off on being abusive & using scare tactics...they get Seriously sexually aroused...I too have received uncalled for unprovoked abuse...really messed up threatening stuff for no reason whatsoever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every time I here these comments I get more confused. These things happen all the time in every city or town in the world. You are not unique, far easier to deal with online than in real life?

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"Every time I here these comments I get more confused. These things happen all the time in every city or town in the world. You are not unique, far easier to deal with online than in real life?"

Yes but some people don't see this and it can be a shock when it's aimed at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time I here these comments I get more confused. These things happen all the time in every city or town in the world. You are not unique, far easier to deal with online than in real life?

Yes but some people don't see this and it can be a shock when it's aimed at them "

Of course but it doesn’t change how things are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does he know where you live? Contact the police."

100% contact the police..don’t even think twice

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"Every time I here these comments I get more confused. These things happen all the time in every city or town in the world. You are not unique, far easier to deal with online than in real life?

Yes but some people don't see this and it can be a shock when it's aimed at them

Of course but it doesn’t change how things are "

Where it happens or not is not the point, there is no excuse for making people feel unsafe in there oun homes, not everyone can just brush these things off

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

It’s horrible and can be really off putting.

If they don’t know where you live, I’d not be bothered. Report, block and move on.

Just an idiot seeing his arse.

If they do know where you live I’d report to the police. Even just to make yourself feel better.

Try not to let it bother you too much lots of decent people on here xx

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Disgusting behaviour

Block and report op

No excuse for saying things like that to anyone, sounds unstable.

Hope you're ok

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By *eWillMakeYouSquirtCouple
over a year ago

leicester

I’ll call the sort of people

Oxygen thieves hahah

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

That is truly shocking.

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