FabSwingers.com forum: Wrong side of 60

By *rGen OP Man
over a year ago

Bingley

I have noticed that the levels of interest in me have dipped somewhat since hitting 60. Now I know, I know why that is but I am if anything fitter and more sexual active since taking early retirement and not having the stress of holding down a demanding full time job.

Anyway I am sticking to trying and yes I am fully aware the clock is ticking lol

Age is just a number right?

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

The current life expectancy for males in England is 78.2 years so plenty of time for the clock to keep ticking.

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By *rGen OP Man
over a year ago

Bingley

i think the best age is 30/40 as you can look down and up the scale 20plus years.....more choice lol.

I was chatting to a 20 year old who preferred older men recently but although she seemed lovely I was not wanting to pursue well only as a fantasy lol

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By *rGen OP Man
over a year ago

Bingley

"The current life expectancy for males in England is 78.2 years so plenty of time for the clock to keep ticking.

Loving the positivity and realism in your profile...thumbs up from me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No, age is not just a number.

Youth is the preferred sexual currency for most people. If a man had a choice between me and a woman 20 years younger I'd expect him to choose the younger one, all other things being equal

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By *rGen OP Man
over a year ago

Bingley

"No, age is not just a number.

Youth is the preferred sexual currency for most people. If a man had a choice between me and a woman 20 years younger I'd expect him to choose the younger one, all other things being equal"

Well IMHO they would have made a mistake based on your lovely sexy pics but I take your point...that's mother nature for you I guess...seems we still have loads of miles left

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No, age is not just a number.

Youth is the preferred sexual currency for most people. If a man had a choice between me and a woman 20 years younger I'd expect him to choose the younger one, all other things being equal

Well IMHO they would have made a mistake based on your lovely sexy pics but I take your point...that's mother nature for you I guess...seems we still have loads of miles left "

Thanks.

We undoubtedly do have loads of miles left, we just have to understand that there are limits on who wants to travel them with us now.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"The current life expectancy for males in England is 78.2 years so plenty of time for the clock to keep ticking.

Loving the positivity and realism in your profile...thumbs up from me

As a point of interest all my health issues surfaced after the 78.2 year threshold

So much for the three bonus years.

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By *rGen OP Man
over a year ago

Bingley

"No, age is not just a number.

Youth is the preferred sexual currency for most people. If a man had a choice between me and a woman 20 years younger I'd expect him to choose the younger one, all other things being equal

Well IMHO they would have made a mistake based on your lovely sexy pics but I take your point...that's mother nature for you I guess...seems we still have loads of miles left

Thanks.

We undoubtedly do have loads of miles left, we just have to understand that there are limits on who wants to travel them with us now.

I do wish I live near Hastings

to use up some of those miles

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By *rGen OP Man
over a year ago

Bingley

"The current life expectancy for males in England is 78.2 years so plenty of time for the clock to keep ticking.

Loving the positivity and realism in your profile...thumbs up from me

As a point of interest all my health issues surfaced after the 78.2 year threshold

So much for the three bonus years.

Bugger lol good luck with your health young man

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No, age is not just a number.

Youth is the preferred sexual currency for most people. If a man had a choice between me and a woman 20 years younger I'd expect him to choose the younger one, all other things being equal

Well IMHO they would have made a mistake based on your lovely sexy pics but I take your point...that's mother nature for you I guess...seems we still have loads of miles left

Thanks.

We undoubtedly do have loads of miles left, we just have to understand that there are limits on who wants to travel them with us now.

I do wish I live near Hastings

to use up some of those miles"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, age is not just a number.

Youth is the preferred sexual currency for most people. If a man had a choice between me and a woman 20 years younger I'd expect him to choose the younger one, all other things being equal"

That would be their loss

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No, age is not just a number.

Youth is the preferred sexual currency for most people. If a man had a choice between me and a woman 20 years younger I'd expect him to choose the younger one, all other things being equal

That would be their loss"

That's very nice of you to say but it wouldn't be their loss really, they'd be getting what they wanted

I'm very much at ease with my age except for when I have the occasional wobble about a dress being "too young" lol. I think I look ok and I'm happy to accept that interest from other people wanes as we grow older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the more reason for us matures to get together and enjoy ourselves and each other.

I'm constantly amazed at the number of younger people who look at my profile then don't do anything. It's like they don't notice the age when they search.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually don't care about my age, nothing can change it so no point getting in a twist about it.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"All the more reason for us matures to get together and enjoy ourselves and each other.

I'm constantly amazed at the number of younger people who look at my profile then don't do anything. It's like they don't notice the age when they search."

I think it is morbid curiousity, I have had a 20yr old female and a 23yr old female look at my profile today

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I actually don't care about my age, nothing can change it so no point getting in a twist about it.

Yeah I think like that although nobody tells you about the chin hair

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By *he MuffinmanMan
over a year ago

West Gloucestershire

"No, age is not just a number.

Youth is the preferred sexual currency for most people. If a man had a choice between me and a woman 20 years younger I'd expect him to choose the younger one, all other things being equal"

Ummmm.... After looking at your profile I don't think I would choose the 20yr old. You look perfectly sexy for your age as you are, if I'm honest.

Maturity and confidence does have a certain appeal over a 20 Yr old.

I think anyway.

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By *rGen OP Man
over a year ago

Bingley

"No, age is not just a number.

Youth is the preferred sexual currency for most people. If a man had a choice between me and a woman 20 years younger I'd expect him to choose the younger one, all other things being equal

That would be their loss

That's very nice of you to say but it wouldn't be their loss really, they'd be getting what they wanted

You look more than ok x

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We have very sexy friends that are just over 60, age is just a number

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By *he Wandering WelshmanMan
over a year ago

The Valleys

With my 60th birthday rapidly approaching,I'm still trying to enjoy myself both in my vanilla and FAB life.

A couple of tweaks to my fitness and diet have payed dividends Heathwise and socially.

I'm here for the long haul

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By *illycarrolCouple
over a year ago

n/cle on tyne

Not sure age is a down factor ,we get loads of msgs off young guys wanting to meet Carol who is now 62 ,it seems mature ladies with big tits are young guys Kryptonite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have noticed that the levels of interest in me have dipped somewhat since hitting 60. Now I know, I know why that is but I am if anything fitter and more sexual active since taking early retirement and not having the stress of holding down a demanding full time job.

Anyway I am sticking to trying and yes I am fully aware the clock is ticking lol

Age is just a number right?"

If you don’t have any pictures on your profile how can you expect any women to be interested in you?

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"Not sure age is a down factor ,we get loads of msgs off young guys wanting to meet Carol who is now 62 ,it seems mature ladies with big tits are young guys Kryptonite

And an old mans Phyllosan

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No, age is not just a number.

Youth is the preferred sexual currency for most people. If a man had a choice between me and a woman 20 years younger I'd expect him to choose the younger one, all other things being equal

Ummmm.... After looking at your profile I don't think I would choose the 20yr old. You look perfectly sexy for your age as you are, if I'm honest.

Maturity and confidence does have a certain appeal over a 20 Yr old.

I think anyway.

Thanks.

I think some men do prefer older women but the truth is the majority prefer younger, even the old 'uns

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No, age is not just a number.

Youth is the preferred sexual currency for most people. If a man had a choice between me and a woman 20 years younger I'd expect him to choose the younger one, all other things being equal

That would be their loss

That's very nice of you to say but it wouldn't be their loss really, they'd be getting what they wanted

You look more than ok x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, age is not just a number.

Youth is the preferred sexual currency for most people. If a man had a choice between me and a woman 20 years younger I'd expect him to choose the younger one, all other things being equal

Ummmm.... After looking at your profile I don't think I would choose the 20yr old. You look perfectly sexy for your age as you are, if I'm honest.

Maturity and confidence does have a certain appeal over a 20 Yr old.

I think anyway.

Thanks.

I think some men do prefer older women but the truth is the majority prefer younger, even the old 'uns

Well im one of the men who prefer the older uns like your good selves lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blokey type thing is 61 and I can't get enough of him.

I adore his silver locks, experience and maturity.

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

My only issue with older men is ED. I love being fucked not licked .

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No, age is not just a number.

Youth is the preferred sexual currency for most people. If a man had a choice between me and a woman 20 years younger I'd expect him to choose the younger one, all other things being equal

Ummmm.... After looking at your profile I don't think I would choose the 20yr old. You look perfectly sexy for your age as you are, if I'm honest.

Maturity and confidence does have a certain appeal over a 20 Yr old.

I think anyway.

Thanks.

I think some men do prefer older women but the truth is the majority prefer younger, even the old 'uns

Well im one of the men who prefer the older uns like your good selves lol

Ah Jack, thank you

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

If I had the opportunity to advise a lady to choose me now at 52 or me at 32 unfortunately I would advise me at 32.

But I doubt I would've appreciated it then.

As they say youth is wasted on the young.

Fuck me at 20 I was a walking hard on literally like a stick of rock 24/7

These days I rejoice if it happens once a week!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually don't care about my age, nothing can change it so no point getting in a twist about it.

Yeah I think like that although nobody tells you about the chin hair

The what???

lolol

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

it all depends how many orgasms you have left in you.

If I stop orgasmingthingy I`ll cash in my chips but then again there are other ways to get pleasure and there`s giving to orally.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I actually don't care about my age, nothing can change it so no point getting in a twist about it.

Yeah I think like that although nobody tells you about the chin hair

The what???

lolol"

Oh maybe its just me who turned into David Bellamy overnight

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

"No, age is not just a number.

Youth is the preferred sexual currency for most people. If a man had a choice between me and a woman 20 years younger I'd expect him to choose the younger one, all other things being equal"

Not sure that's always the case. Maybe I'm just weird but as I've got older the women I find sexy have also got older. (And it's not just because I understand what they are talking about!!). I find more mature women far more likely to turn my head than pretty young things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually don't care about my age, nothing can change it so no point getting in a twist about it.

Yeah I think like that although nobody tells you about the chin hair

The what???

lolol

Oh maybe its just me who turned into David Bellamy overnight

Lol I am absolutely sure you have not lol x

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I'm 62...pretty fit, cycle several times a week at 50 miles each time...still working too....my head is 18...lol... no blood, heart or diabetic meds...in fact no prescribed meds...

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By *ummer breeze300Woman
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Totally get the chin hair lol

Definitely got more randy as I've got older and Definitely more adventurous

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

OP you've turned 60 during an 18 month pandemic. That might just have something to do with the dip in interest.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"I actually don't care about my age, nothing can change it so no point getting in a twist about it.

Yeah I think like that although nobody tells you about the chin hair

The what???

lolol

Oh maybe its just me who turned into David Bellamy overnight

Never mind the chin hair. I have sideburns Elvis would envy

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No, age is not just a number.

Youth is the preferred sexual currency for most people. If a man had a choice between me and a woman 20 years younger I'd expect him to choose the younger one, all other things being equal

I don't think it's always the case either. However my experience is that on fab and elsewhere younger women will usually attract more attention.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I actually don't care about my age, nothing can change it so no point getting in a twist about it.

Yeah I think like that although nobody tells you about the chin hair

The what???

lolol

Oh maybe its just me who turned into David Bellamy overnight

Never mind the chin hair. I have sideburns Elvis would envy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, age is not just a number.

Youth is the preferred sexual currency for most people. If a man had a choice between me and a woman 20 years younger I'd expect him to choose the younger one, all other things being equal

Ummmm.... After looking at your profile I don't think I would choose the 20yr old. You look perfectly sexy for your age as you are, if I'm honest.

Maturity and confidence does have a certain appeal over a 20 Yr old.

I think anyway.

Thanks.

I think some men do prefer older women but the truth is the majority prefer younger, even the old 'uns

Well im one of the men who prefer the older uns like your good selves lol

Ah Jack, thank you

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Being slightly the wrong side of fifty, my partner much younger, but for many reasons we both prefer couples and ladies older, the dynamics work for us and now have some good friendships.

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago

TAMWORTH any midlands areas areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

Anyway I am sticking to trying and yes I am fully aware the clock is ticking lol

Age is just a number right?"

O.P

Just a polite helpful suggestion.

Add a couple of photos too your gallery for all to see.

And enhance your written profile a bit.

And hopefully your age will not matter and you may get more Ping HELLOS.

Good luck and happy fab times

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By *rGen OP Man
over a year ago

Bingley

Anyway I am sticking to trying and yes I am fully aware the clock is ticking lol

Age is just a number right?

O.P

Just a polite helpful suggestion.

Add a couple of photos too your gallery for all to see.

And enhance your written profile a bit.

And hopefully your age will not matter and you may get more Ping HELLOS.

Good luck and happy fab times

Thank you for suggestion

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By *rGen OP Man
over a year ago

Bingley

"OP you've turned 60 during an 18 month pandemic. That might just have something to do with the dip in interest.

Good point...never thought of that Doh!

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

When I turned 61 back in March, that instantly put me one year over the upper age limit of many...

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

60? Lucky you don't live in my area where 45 seems to be the cut off age.

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By *hades Of GreyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Age is just a number right?

I'm the wrong side of 70 but still get quite a bit of interest. Have a look at my profile I try to keep it interesting and upload new pictures from time to time.

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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago

Northwich

Anyway I am sticking to trying and yes I am fully aware the clock is ticking lol

Age is just a number right?

If you don’t have any pictures on your profile how can you expect any women to be interested in you?"
Based on his varies he's doing significantly better than the younger blokes on here (without pics), I'm just curious as to how much much attention he got pre-60s that he now feels he is less successful now?

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

"My only issue with older men is ED. I love being fucked not licked ."
even younger guys get ED

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

64 this year.

Yes it's soooo much quieter on here now, but every now and then I get a little yellow light on my inbox, and my old heart gives a little flutter

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

You haven’t asked for profile advice…. But seriously how would anyone know if they were interested or not

V x

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