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"I don't class it as a kink personally, it just is, for me anyway. I know it's different for everyone and that's okay. "Everyone has their thing, and some things are different.  | |||
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"I don't class it as a kink personally, it just is, for me anyway. I know it's different for everyone and that's okay.
Everyone has their thing, and some things are different. "Exactly!   | |||
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"Sorry new to this what is DDLG?" Daddy Dom / Little girl | |||
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"Sorry new to this what is DDLG? Daddy Dom / Little girl" This is totally new to me? How does this play out? | |||
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"I don't class it as a kink personally, it just is, for me anyway. I know it's different for everyone and that's okay. "I love it | |||
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"Sorry new to this what is DDLG? Daddy Dom / Little girl This is totally new to me? How does this play out?" There's no right or wrong, it's different for everyone. And as said below, the gender roles can be reversed too. There's lots of options and dynamics. | |||
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"I don't class it as a kink personally, it just is, for me anyway. I know it's different for everyone and that's okay. "I think calling it a 'kink' makes it seem seedy. | |||
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"Sorry new to this what is DDLG? Daddy Dom / Little girl This is totally new to me? How does this play out?" Very much depends on the couple. To me personally it's similar to a D/s dynamic but with a nuturing aspect to it. | |||
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"I don't class it as a kink personally, it just is, for me anyway. I know it's different for everyone and that's okay.
I think calling it a 'kink' makes it seem seedy. "Agree with you there. | |||
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Like all things, when done with the right person it's amazing | |||
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"I can understand uncle but not daddy Can you explain the daddy thing to me girls? " Not all who are in a DDlg call their DD daddy or are called lg. People get bogged down with the name of the dynamic not the actual dynamic itself. | |||
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"If Bemorefreda could message me and answer a few questions I have… "Happy to answer them on the thread | |||
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"I see so the actual term daddy is not the key? Explain the dynamic please?" It varies from couple to couple. But the emphasis is on caregiving along with the dominace. | |||
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"A wonderful thread, so lovely to read the replies
Like all things, when done with the right person it's amazing " | |||
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"I see so the actual term daddy is not the key? Explain the dynamic please?" No it's not. I don't use the name "daddy" at all. It's about the dynamic, not the label. | |||
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"I can understand uncle but not daddy Can you explain the daddy thing to me girls? Not all who are in a DDlg call their DD daddy or are called lg. People get bogged down with the name of the dynamic not the actual dynamic itself. " The name really put me off. I'll be honest I felt it was creepy. Then NYCSausage did a thread a few weeks/ months ago and it made more sense to me. People discussed their experiences and the different terms they use. It was interesting and helpful. To me anyway. | |||
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"I see so the actual term daddy is not the key? Explain the dynamic please? No it's not. I don't use the name "daddy" at all. It's about the dynamic, not the label. " agreed. its about the connection and quality of relationship. the label could have a different connotation but couples who play this out will come from a wide range of ages. fab is not a space to judge. its a place to enjoys kinks and fetishes of all descriptions  | |||
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"I can understand uncle but not daddy Can you explain the daddy thing to me girls? Not all who are in a DDlg call their DD daddy or are called lg. People get bogged down with the name of the dynamic not the actual dynamic itself. The name really put me off. I'll be honest I felt it was creepy. Then NYCSausage did a thread a few weeks/ months ago and it made more sense to me. People discussed their experiences and the different terms they use. It was interesting and helpful. To me anyway. "It was a good thread, here's the link to others who may want to read it https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1141347 | |||
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"I don't class it as a kink personally, it just is, for me anyway. I know it's different for everyone and that's okay.
I think calling it a 'kink' makes it seem seedy.
Agree with you there. "Isn’t that a reflection of your own personal prejudices though? DD/LG absolutely is a kink, there’s no doubt about that. As is anything based around power exchanges in sex that don’t fit within the parameters of ‘vanilla’ sexual relations. Which then might make you wonder why you think kink is seedy, as you know from your own experiences of the kink you personally enjoy, that seediness is not implicit with kink. | |||
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"I don't class it as a kink personally, it just is, for me anyway. I know it's different for everyone and that's okay.
I think calling it a 'kink' makes it seem seedy.
Agree with you there.
Isn’t that a reflection of your own personal prejudices though?
DD/LG absolutely is a kink, there’s no doubt about that. As is anything based around power exchanges in sex that don’t fit within the parameters of ‘vanilla’ sexual relations.
Which then might make you wonder why you think kink is seedy, as you know from your own experiences of the kink you personally enjoy, that seediness is not implicit with kink."This is a sexy brain. | |||
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"I can understand uncle but not daddy Can you explain the daddy thing to me girls? Not all who are in a DDlg call their DD daddy or are called lg. People get bogged down with the name of the dynamic not the actual dynamic itself. The name really put me off. I'll be honest I felt it was creepy. Then NYCSausage did a thread a few weeks/ months ago and it made more sense to me. People discussed their experiences and the different terms they use. It was interesting and helpful. To me anyway.
It was a good thread, here's the link to others who may want to read it https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1141347
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"We like it, but we wouldn’t involve others in it. It’s our special thing! " This... So much this...we don't quite live it 24/7,but a good proportion..as others have said, it's so much more than the name suggests.. My DD is my protector. He comforts, cares and nurtures me. We also have aspects of "trad wife". We both have our roles in the relationship, but there is a lot of cross over.. It works for us and that's all that matters | |||
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"Sorry new to this what is DDLG? Daddy Dom / Little girl" I wish folk would just say what they mean as we are not mind readers. | |||
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"Guys like mommy types too so it works both ways. Nothing wrong if it turns you on. " Some guys do indeed | |||
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"Canot fathom how DDLG is kink. " Why not if you don't mind me asking? | |||
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"Canot fathom how DDLG is kink. Why not if you don't mind me asking? " My personal opinion, each one has there own liking. Perhaps such word wont turn me on, rather would do reverse. Once you establish connection with some one age gap wont matter, but after connection i wont call daddy or mommy in debauchery. | |||
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"Canot fathom how DDLG is kink. Why not if you don't mind me asking? My personal opinion, each one has there own liking. Perhaps such word wont turn me on, rather would do reverse. Once you establish connection with some one age gap wont matter, but after connection i wont call daddy or mommy in debauchery. " Fair, some things turn me on others don't. I think it was saying it wasn't a kink confused me. | |||
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"It’s not a link to me it just is with the right person. I know when the person in question calls me baby girl it just makes me totally melt " Kink  | |||
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"I see so the actual term daddy is not the key? Explain the dynamic please?" No. That's not the key. The dynamic varies from relationship to relationship. It is a Ds dynamic. But with a softer side nurturing core. A little doesn't really play at that. It's a deep part of who they are and should be nurtured and looked after | |||
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"I see so the actual term daddy is not the key? Explain the dynamic please? No. That's not the key. The dynamic varies from relationship to relationship. It is a Ds dynamic. But with a softer side nurturing core. A little doesn't really play at that. It's a deep part of who they are and should be nurtured and looked after " I agree with this, my little side needs patience, support, love and understanding. There’s no playing at it, it’s just who I am, kind of my innocent side? I am extremely lucky that I’ve found a DD who’s perfect for me, he’s supported me through a lot, and is amazing | |||
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"I see so the actual term daddy is not the key? Explain the dynamic please? No. That's not the key. The dynamic varies from relationship to relationship. It is a Ds dynamic. But with a softer side nurturing core. A little doesn't really play at that. It's a deep part of who they are and should be nurtured and looked after I agree with this, my little side needs patience, support, love and understanding. There’s no playing at it, it’s just who I am, kind of my innocent side? I am extremely lucky that I’ve found a DD who’s perfect for me, he’s supported me through a lot, and is amazing "That's lovely to hear. I'm glad you've connected with a good Daddy. Hope everything works out well for you both | |||
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"I see so the actual term daddy is not the key? Explain the dynamic please? No. That's not the key. The dynamic varies from relationship to relationship. It is a Ds dynamic. But with a softer side nurturing core. A little doesn't really play at that. It's a deep part of who they are and should be nurtured and looked after I agree with this, my little side needs patience, support, love and understanding. There’s no playing at it, it’s just who I am, kind of my innocent side? I am extremely lucky that I’ve found a DD who’s perfect for me, he’s supported me through a lot, and is amazing "Lucky lady (and hes very lucky ) | |||
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"I see so the actual term daddy is not the key? Explain the dynamic please? No. That's not the key. The dynamic varies from relationship to relationship. It is a Ds dynamic. But with a softer side nurturing core. A little doesn't really play at that. It's a deep part of who they are and should be nurtured and looked after I agree with this, my little side needs patience, support, love and understanding. There’s no playing at it, it’s just who I am, kind of my innocent side? I am extremely lucky that I’ve found a DD who’s perfect for me, he’s supported me through a lot, and is amazing
Lucky lady (and hes very lucky )"We both are, and we appreciate that, it’s hard to find isn’t it. | |||
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"I see so the actual term daddy is not the key? Explain the dynamic please? No. That's not the key. The dynamic varies from relationship to relationship. It is a Ds dynamic. But with a softer side nurturing core. A little doesn't really play at that. It's a deep part of who they are and should be nurtured and looked after I agree with this, my little side needs patience, support, love and understanding. There’s no playing at it, it’s just who I am, kind of my innocent side? I am extremely lucky that I’ve found a DD who’s perfect for me, he’s supported me through a lot, and is amazing That's lovely to hear. I'm glad you've connected with a good Daddy.
Hope everything works out well for you both"Thank you | |||
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"I see so the actual term daddy is not the key? Explain the dynamic please? No. That's not the key. The dynamic varies from relationship to relationship. It is a Ds dynamic. But with a softer side nurturing core. A little doesn't really play at that. It's a deep part of who they are and should be nurtured and looked after I agree with this, my little side needs patience, support, love and understanding. There’s no playing at it, it’s just who I am, kind of my innocent side? I am extremely lucky that I’ve found a DD who’s perfect for me, he’s supported me through a lot, and is amazing
Lucky lady (and hes very lucky )
We both are, and we appreciate that, it’s hard to find isn’t it. "Yes  | |||
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"I can understand uncle but not daddy Can you explain the daddy thing to me girls? Not all who are in a DDlg call their DD daddy or are called lg. People get bogged down with the name of the dynamic not the actual dynamic itself. The name really put me off. I'll be honest I felt it was creepy. Then NYCSausage did a thread a few weeks/ months ago and it made more sense to me. People discussed their experiences and the different terms they use. It was interesting and helpful. To me anyway. "I can’t believe you remembered it was me thank you. Really does mean a lot. It was a great thread and I learnt so much from it.
Still not managed to enact it yet, maybe one day. | |||
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"I believe that there are no kink, and if you enjoy whatever you are doing then all the best to you" The reason we refer to these preferences or practises as ‘kink’ is to create a clear separation between that and what would be called vanilla. The word ‘kink’ doesn’t imply there is anything negative or wrong about them. | |||
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"I see so the actual term daddy is not the key? Explain the dynamic please? No. That's not the key. The dynamic varies from relationship to relationship. It is a Ds dynamic. But with a softer side nurturing core. A little doesn't really play at that. It's a deep part of who they are and should be nurtured and looked after I agree with this, my little side needs patience, support, love and understanding. There’s no playing at it, it’s just who I am, kind of my innocent side? I am extremely lucky that I’ve found a DD who’s perfect for me, he’s supported me through a lot, and is amazing
Lucky lady (and hes very lucky )
We both are, and we appreciate that, it’s hard to find isn’t it.
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"It is a kink to many, but one, especially being a little that is misunderstood by the majority on here." It is a kink to many, it is also a lifestyle to many others. People will take it where they want to. We don't use the labels MD/lb but that is our relationship dynamic, I care, protect and nuture him to help him become the man he wants to be. | |||
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"Guys like mommy types too so it works both ways. Nothing wrong if it turns you on. " Have to disagree with that one as i think the courts would tend to be in favour of the victim | |||
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"Guys like mommy types too so it works both ways. Nothing wrong if it turns you on. Have to disagree with that one as i think the courts would tend to be in favour of the victim " It’s a dynamic between two consenting adults | |||
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"Guys like mommy types too so it works both ways. Nothing wrong if it turns you on. Have to disagree with that one as i think the courts would tend to be in favour of the victim " There are no “victims” in this dynamic, it’s 2 consenting adults enjoying what they like | |||
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"But don’t mind the kink at all, everyone’s entitled to carry out any role play they wish if they both consent to it x What’s everyone’s opinion?" *Safe Sane Consensual *Risk Aware Consensual Kink If it falls within those definitions, it’s all good. | |||
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"But don’t mind the kink at all, everyone’s entitled to carry out any role play they wish if they both consent to it x What’s everyone’s opinion? *Safe Sane Consensual *Risk Aware Consensual Kink If it falls within those definitions, it’s all good." Don’t forget Personal Responsibility in/informed Consensual Kink | |||
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"But don’t mind the kink at all, everyone’s entitled to carry out any role play they wish if they both consent to it x What’s everyone’s opinion? *Safe Sane Consensual *Risk Aware Consensual Kink If it falls within those definitions, it’s all good. Don’t forget Personal Responsibility in/informed Consensual Kink" An unnecessary definition in my view, as it doesn’t add anything to RACK. RA is by definition PRI, although you may certainly disagree. | |||
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"What takes your interest? The dynamic?" It’s something that developed within an existing D/s dynamic for us, I was always opposed to it, but it just happened. | |||
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"Would love to explore this "Always great to hear. Don't rush into a dynamic though | |||
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