FabSwingers.com forum: What to say.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you met someone and had sex with them

and you didnt realy like them.

then a few months later they want to see you again.

do you tell them the truth or just keep making excuses.

or delete their messages.

then if someone you have met before asks to see you again, only you dont realy want to, but you say you will.

should you say you have changed your mind or just make excuses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how wierd you would ask this today lol

I have actually just had this

I met a guy a few weeks ago and he mailed me yesterday asking if i wanted to meet again so i gave him a polite no thanks, didnt say way i just said id rather leave it and he replied this morning saying that he was glad i didnt want to meet him again as i was a shit ahag anyway

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I just say I don't do repeat meets.

To be absolutely honest I do find it difficult to turn people down or say no, but it's something we need to learn or we'll end up having crap sex with people we really don't want it with. Just say you're very sorry but you've had a change of heart and don't want to, then ignore further messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be honest, within reason. Maybe a polite message saying that you had a good time with them but you didn't feel the chemistry was right, so you'd prefer to just remain friends only. Then let it fizzle out from there.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"he replied this morning saying that he was glad i didnt want to meet him again as i was a shit ahag anyway

He's a keeper then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"how wierd you would ask this today lol

I have actually just had this

Oh, thats alright then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest, tell them straight. It's difficult but it's better for everyone involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its best to be honest, you dont have to give a reason just say no thanks, or im not interested in meeting again, id sooner do that than lead people along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had this a couple of times and just reply that I don't tend to meet people more than once. I have had no problems from anyone with that response.

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