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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

First time on this forum… be kind please people!

Mia here (F).

Need some advice. I have a specific fantasy I want to try, but it could sound a bit… weird? Offensive? Something like that.

I don’t want to be the weirdo that is talked about on these forums!

So… do I just literally lay it on a plate and ask anyone who messages/winks?

Do you build up to asking?

Help a girl out here people…

Mia x

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By *heKinkExplorerMan
over a year ago

leicester

A good way to start with this is put it in your bio, then anyone who is interested in said fantasy can apply within, what is it by the why as im intrigued

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel free to pm to discuss, get an opinion on the matter at hand.. personally I find that putting it in your bio or being straight up works best, no time wasted that way...

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By *lassy_but_sassyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I put it as a sort of 'oh btw I still want to try...' in my profile, and have had many many willing offers, I'm sure you'll get the same!

Mine is quite, uhm, niche too and I was worried people would think I was a freak. Turns out it's not as rare a fantasy as I thought it would be! I still haven't done it as it's very much about trust, and atm there's only maybe two guys I trust to do it, but it's aligning free time etc. Soon I hope!

Good luck to you lovely, I'm sure you'll get offers flooding in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there's a tease. Now I REALLY want to know what it is! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t leave us all hanging now, think we speak for the whole of fab when we say we’d like to know what it is

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By *iercedItMan
over a year ago

North West

I've found when discussing my kinks and tastes that it's often worth building up so if you have a fantasy where you dress up and take on the persona of an animal (A furry is the kink) then bringing up role play and collar and leash is a softer intro.

It's also possible to post anonymously on various websites and see what the feedback is, but I can confidently say your idea of weird is probably not even a blip on many peoples radar

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Sometimes you will find that those you get to know and talk to may be happy to try your kinks and fetish desires out with you as many are also experimental and finding things out for themselves too.

Often it's the suggestion of stuff that opens their eyes to it.

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

For every kink you think is weird. There's 1000's who enjoy it. Concentrate on them

R

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Ww just take the open route. Happy discuss what we would like to do with whoever asks in a social meeting but dont put pressure on anyone to play along. If they happen, they happen, if not, no shortage of other fun to be had.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

I'm sure folk have seen"worse"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say what you want.

Some people are offended at everything,I'm guessing they're not the people you are looking for anyway.

Good luck with your search

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"Just say what you want.

Some people are offended at everything,I'm guessing they're not the people you are looking for anyway.

Good luck with your search

"

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By *odkaboy2Man
over a year ago

bristol

All I’d say is that one persons “weird” as you put it is another’s vanilla. So don’t be concerned about what others think or say. Assuming your fantasy is fully above board the revel in it. You might be surprised about how many others would revel with you lol

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