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Tips on lasting long.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could anyone give me some pointers on lasting longer, back in my teens I could go for long now be lucky if it 5mins!

Thank you

X

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By *osmicRobMan
over a year ago

Chorlton cum Hardy

Lasting longer as in not cumming so soon or losing your erection?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could anyone give me some pointers on lasting longer, back in my teens I could go for long now be lucky if it 5mins!

Thank you

X"

Foreplay. If you feel you may cum and it’s too early, treat them to more oral, then continue penetrating once you are ready to go again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Little bit of both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I try this but they keep asking me to put it back in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey better at oral maybe

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

My problem is I fuck for to long hours before cumming a lot of women don’t like it to many orgasms exhaust them wish I could do quickies between 30 and 40 mins

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham


"Could anyone give me some pointers on lasting longer, back in my teens I could go for long now be lucky if it 5mins!

Thank you

X

Foreplay. If you feel you may cum and it’s too early, treat them to more oral, then continue penetrating once you are ready to go again"
the trouble is for a lot men when they stop fucking it starts to go down a bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would love to last 30-40mins seems like a good time.

Only good thing I got is I’m a heavy cummer lol

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham


"I would love to last 30-40mins seems like a good time.

Only good thing I got is I’m a heavy cummer lol"
i am a heavy cummer as well

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By *ssexhamptonMan
over a year ago

Rayleigh


"Could anyone give me some pointers on lasting longer, back in my teens I could go for long now be lucky if it 5mins!

Thank you

X"

Whistle the National Anthem?

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton


"Could anyone give me some pointers on lasting longer, back in my teens I could go for long now be lucky if it 5mins!

Thank you

X

Whistle the National Anthem?

"

This while closing your eyes and thinking of England!

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"My problem is I fuck for to long hours before cumming a lot of women don’t like it to many orgasms exhaust them wish I could do quickies between 30 and 40 mins "

Ah the classic humble brag.

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham


"My problem is I fuck for to long hours before cumming a lot of women don’t like it to many orgasms exhaust them wish I could do quickies between 30 and 40 mins

Ah the classic humble brag. "
exscuse me Adam and Tina I am not bragging some men fuck for to long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try using toys as well. Can make the whole thing last longer.

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

Tina how would you feel if you were being fucked for hours I suspect not good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try dip and lick.

Alternate between cook and tongue.

As soon as you fell you are nearly cumming take it out and change to oral. Bring her off with your tongue and fingers.

Giving O will keep,your cock,hard. Then slide it back in until you feel as tho you might cum again. Go down on her again to bring her off.

You can go on and on once you’ve mastered it.

They will love it.

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By *ighugs69Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Your body changes over time & sorry you'll never be a teenager again

It does depend on the type of meet you're having. I've found these days the 2nd & 3rd goes last so long I normally give up before cumming again.

Making sure you're in good health helps after all it's blood flow that gets you hard. Cutting back on drinking & smoking & taking regular exercise. I also found Pomegranate juice helped. That's drinking it not dipping your cock in it .

You could also try desensitising yourself with a toy like a flesh light. That may help you last longer

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

From experience, lasting for extended periods is principally psychological; I have found that I have 'trained' myself to delay ejaculation in order that my partners can cum on multiple occasions.

When I realise my partners have orgasmed, I make a point of telling her that I am going to cum.

Myself and my former partner had perfected this to such an extent that she would push back and massage the head of my BB penis with her cervix.

Premature ejaculation is principally a consequence of anxiety, so being relaxed together is key; toys, lots of unhurried foreplay, 69s, massages with baby oil, vibrators, dildos, buttplugs, etc.

Focusing too much on ejaculation is inadvisable. Breaks also help.

Watching mutually enjoyable porn together facilitates relaxation.

Properly managed with forethought and training, penetrative sex can last for a whole night, in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time out for toys helps , oral too but but a fine line between stopping in time and a tongue full of your own cum lol

Ultimate help is a wing man to tap out too !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with previous posters that slowing down and thinking of something completely unrelated to sex can help - at least it helps me. Then coming out and doing something else - petting or oral - for a while then trying again can work if you are able to keep stiff in the meantime.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Stop pressuring yourself into thinking all women want to be fucked all night. Quality over quantity is where its at and giving her the cock at the moment she wants it the mostpenetration isn't the only thing that you can be doing. When you feel yourself about to cum them ease off and find something else to keep her going.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Calculate prime numbers

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By *werty1999Man
over a year ago

greater Manchester

Try edging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your time .. explore all of her ...

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By *werty1999Man
over a year ago

greater Manchester

Try edging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mentally re-arrange the socks in my sock drawer, works a treat xx m

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My problem is I fuck for to long hours before cumming a lot of women don’t like it to many orgasms exhaust them wish I could do quickies between 30 and 40 mins

Ah the classic humble brag. "

Definitely. As if anyone who has ever had sex with another person actually believes this.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"My problem is I fuck for to long hours before cumming a lot of women don’t like it to many orgasms exhaust them wish I could do quickies between 30 and 40 mins

Ah the classic humble brag. exscuse me Adam and Tina I am not bragging some men fuck for to long "

Some men don't, just the women and couples they meet enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easiest way is to just hold your breath, since it will start killing your circulation and erection. Be careful as doing it too much will just end up with a dead dick and fuzzy head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bang one out before you go for a meet you may last longer then you might not be so hyped up

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Try dip and lick.

Alternate between cook and tongue.

As soon as you fell you are nearly cumming take it out and change to oral. Bring her off with your tongue and fingers.

Giving O will keep,your cock,hard. Then slide it back in until you feel as tho you might cum again. Go down on her again to bring her off.

You can go on and on once you’ve mastered it.

They will love it. "

fingers my dear boy, fingers: as they can control her orgasms and give your cock time to recover/calm down.

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