FabSwingers.com forum: somewhat dissapointed

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find this sote exceptional at being "stuck up"

I think there is no problem with having a preference or a style, but I feel there are too many people who act way above their station.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I find this sote exceptional at being "stuck up"

I think there is no problem with having a preference or a style, but I feel there are too many people who act way above their station."
in what way? Care to elaborate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i couldnt have said that better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand what the opening post is about???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I find this sote exceptional at being "stuck up"

I think there is no problem with having a preference or a style, but I feel there are too many people who act way above their station."

how ironic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by the profile i think this is meant to be ironic.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

i suspect you just like getting a rise out of people

for that reason im out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you smelt your own fart OP... somehow

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i suspect you just like getting a rise out of people

for that reason im out "

aint that the idea....to get a rise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no station in life. I live it as I please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what is undoubtedly more disappointing is to see people using a fun site and it's forums to criticise others for the fact they cannot make it (the site) work for them, when in actual fact, it is pretty obvious it is only their own snobbery, expectations and pre-conceptions that stand in the way

i look forward to seeing the 'user no longer on this site' at the head of the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't what peeps think if I am a snobbish stuck up cow.

I live my life the way I see fit.

If peeps don't like it, it is their problem, not mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yawn

Angel

Ps get over yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is that sote as in "scum of the earth" or did you mean site dear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its quite easy to see where the OP is coming from if people care to read profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel there are too many people who act way above their station."

yeah,people who are up themselves.I mean,some of them don't even have an office role fer crissakes

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Remember though, that us people on the site, you included David, are all individuals - though the sum total equals Fab. As such you may notice trends, but we're all doing our own individual thing.

Would it be right for others to cast you in the same light as someone of the same sex, town, age or social group? Probably not, even if you share some commonality of behaviour and tastes, you're still unique.

I think you were saying though, above all - and you didn't say much - that too many/most people on Fab are too up themselves, or something like that.

Perhaps you'd like to clarify? Other than that, you seem a decent person, here for the same things that the rest of us are too, so we do share things in common, but not everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't what peeps think if I am a snobbish stuck up cow.

I live my life the way I see fit.

If peeps don't like it, it is their problem, not mine.

there is a difference between appreciating fine things, looking after yourself and not accepting anything that you regard to be the best and having such an arrogant attitude that you cannot see your own reflection in the statements you make

i wouldn't have said you were snobbish pearl

sorry if that disappoints

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"I feel there are too many people who act way above their station.

yeah,people who are up themselves.I mean,some of them don't even have an office role fer crissakes"

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I agree, everyone should just shag anyone, no attraction at all, just pump and go...

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"I agree, everyone should just shag anyone, no attraction at all, just pump and go...

UNLESS they act above their station!!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

It only seems to be a problem for people when they're not included in other people preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree, everyone should just shag anyone, no attraction at all, just pump and go...

{drags _iew over to the corner of the room and mounts him}

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I agree, everyone should just shag anyone, no attraction at all, just pump and go...

{drags _iew over to the corner of the room and mounts him}

well I did have a condom already unwrapped, just fire in and lets bounce x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a nutshell our own preference give is stimulus. If we all liked the same. There would be a lot of single people in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the OP was having a stab at the arrogance of some people. The mistake I see is that it's tied it to wealth, class and background, which are not always deciding factors.

Whether you're rich or poor, good-looking or not, there is a very fine line between confidence and arrogance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the OP was having a stab at the arrogance of some people. The mistake I see is that it's tied it to wealth, class and background, which are not always deciding factors.

Whether you're rich or poor, good-looking or not, there is a very fine line between confidence and arrogance."

You forgot education. Won't shag anyone without at least a BA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Says he!! Who doesn't answer his own questions, still waiting to find out the answer to the slag or swinger question!

Now where is my butler!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i couldnt have said that better myself

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Would you have spelt it better tho?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i couldnt have said that better myself

Would you have spelt it better tho?

tho? probably lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i couldnt have said that better myself

Would you have spelt it better tho?

So disappointed you brought that up.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I think the OP was having a stab at the arrogance of some people. The mistake I see is that it's tied it to wealth, class and background, which are not always deciding factors.

Whether you're rich or poor, good-looking or not, there is a very fine line between confidence and arrogance."

then it probably is one of the most ironic posts ever on this site..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i couldnt have said that better myself

Would you have spelt it better tho?

tho? probably lol"
That wasn't a spelling mistake, that was my txt spk cos I is common like that . . . innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i couldnt have said that better myself

Would you have spelt it better tho?

So disappointed you brought that up.

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Sorry Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i dunno about you lot, but i find being up myself rather horny, a bit wet, and a means to an end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i couldnt have said that better myself

Would you have spelt it better tho?

tho? probably lolThat wasn't a spelling mistake, that was my txt spk cos I is common like that . . . innit

reminds me of the women in here who wont fuck you cos you use txt speak lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i couldnt have said that better myself

Would you have spelt it better tho?

tho? probably lolThat wasn't a spelling mistake, that was my txt spk cos I is common like that . . . innit

reminds me of the women in here who wont fuck you cos you use txt speak lolol"

nowt to do with them finding the guys using txt speak repulsive, desperate or simply unattractive then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i couldnt have said that better myself

Would you have spelt it better tho?

tho? probably lolThat wasn't a spelling mistake, that was my txt spk cos I is common like that . . . innit

reminds me of the women in here who wont fuck you cos you use txt speak lolol

nowt to do with them finding the guys using txt speak repulsive, desperate or simply unattractive then

erm, it says it in their profiles, not that i messaged them personally, and how does text speak make someone repulsive? confused.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text speak, to me, indicates laziness and poor attention to detail.

It's difficult to understand and I can't be bothered.

If someone can't make the effort to write a coherent message, I doubt they'll be a decent shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

using text speak indicates a certain lack of maturity, and makes the user appear to be uneducated and plain lazy...imho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i couldnt have said that better myself

Would you have spelt it better tho?

tho? probably lolThat wasn't a spelling mistake, that was my txt spk cos I is common like that . . . innit

reminds me of the women in here who wont fuck you cos you use txt speak lolol

nowt to do with them finding the guys using txt speak repulsive, desperate or simply unattractive then

erm, it says it in their profiles, not that i messaged them personally, and how does text speak make someone repulsive? confused.com"
Maybe it's just an excuse incase they are repulsive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the OP was having a stab at the arrogance of some people. The mistake I see is that it's tied it to wealth, class and background, which are not always deciding factors.

Whether you're rich or poor, good-looking or not, there is a very fine line between confidence and arrogance.

You forgot education. Won't shag anyone without at least a BA

You're funny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally one tries to converse in all manner of conversations on the forum pages however I must dash.

Now how the devil can I get the lid of the top of the champagne bottle oh bother

Jeeves come and attend to this bottle thing forthwith

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i couldnt have said that better myself

Would you have spelt it better tho?

tho? probably lolThat wasn't a spelling mistake, that was my txt spk cos I is common like that . . . innit

reminds me of the women in here who wont fuck you cos you use txt speak lolol

nowt to do with them finding the guys using txt speak repulsive, desperate or simply unattractive then

erm, it says it in their profiles, not that i messaged them personally, and how does text speak make someone repulsive? confused.comMaybe it's just an excuse incase they are repulsive

makes me laugh that, as most women here are headless anyway, i wonder why, repulsive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i couldnt have said that better myself

Would you have spelt it better tho?

tho? probably lolThat wasn't a spelling mistake, that was my txt spk cos I is common like that . . . innit

reminds me of the women in here who wont fuck you cos you use txt speak lolol

nowt to do with them finding the guys using txt speak repulsive, desperate or simply unattractive then

erm, it says it in their profiles, not that i messaged them personally, and how does text speak make someone repulsive? confused.comMaybe it's just an excuse incase they are repulsive

makes me laugh that, as most women here are headless anyway, i wonder why, repulsive?

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Headless women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i couldnt have said that better myself

Would you have spelt it better tho?

tho? probably lolThat wasn't a spelling mistake, that was my txt spk cos I is common like that . . . innit

reminds me of the women in here who wont fuck you cos you use txt speak lolol

nowt to do with them finding the guys using txt speak repulsive, desperate or simply unattractive then

erm, it says it in their profiles, not that i messaged them personally, and how does text speak make someone repulsive? confused.comMaybe it's just an excuse incase they are repulsive

makes me laugh that, as most women here are headless anyway, i wonder why, repulsive?

Headless women

dont or dare not show their face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i couldnt have said that better myself

Would you have spelt it better tho?

tho? probably lolThat wasn't a spelling mistake, that was my txt spk cos I is common like that . . . innit

reminds me of the women in here who wont fuck you cos you use txt speak lolol

nowt to do with them finding the guys using txt speak repulsive, desperate or simply unattractive then

erm, it says it in their profiles, not that i messaged them personally, and how does text speak make someone repulsive? confused.comMaybe it's just an excuse incase they are repulsive

makes me laugh that, as most women here are headless anyway, i wonder why, repulsive?

Headless women

dont or dare not show their face

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Perhaps, like me, they're repulsive too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i couldnt have said that better myself

Would you have spelt it better tho?

tho? probably lolThat wasn't a spelling mistake, that was my txt spk cos I is common like that . . . innit

reminds me of the women in here who wont fuck you cos you use txt speak lolol

nowt to do with them finding the guys using txt speak repulsive, desperate or simply unattractive then

erm, it says it in their profiles, not that i messaged them personally, and how does text speak make someone repulsive? confused.comMaybe it's just an excuse incase they are repulsive

makes me laugh that, as most women here are headless anyway, i wonder why, repulsive?

Headless women

dont or dare not show their face

Perhaps, like me, they're repulsive too

lol i wouldnt know

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

absolute munter here!

and arrogant beyond belief!

and yet im fending them off with a big stick - except for bussy and _iew who like that sort of thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Apologies for the typo; I'm not the best with a keyboard...

I write my post because I believe some of the attitude discovered in profiles stinks. You would have thought many profiles would have been written by an "untouchable princess" who has a problem with reality.

However it comes as some surprise (at first) that many of these profile are written by foul mouthed keyboard-cowgirls.

For a website that should have at its core an ethos of friendship, it is unfortunate that many profiles display examples of cattyness and hostility.

A pity

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By *otmkcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apologies for the typo; I'm not the best with a keyboard...

However it comes as some surprise (at first) that many of these profile are written by foul mouthed keyboard-cowgirls.

For a website that should have at its core an ethos of friendship, it is unfortunate that many profiles display examples of cattyness and hostility.

A pity

This is a swingers site, not a friendship site! Remember, your the person who just yesterday called all swinger ladies slags!! That's not very friendly!!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

This is a site which should have at it's core an ethos of total sexual honesty...

And yet I get many messages from people who are playing away without their partner's consent or knowledge.

And yet I get messages from people who would never have a "woman like me" in their home or bed.

And yet I get messages from people who when they are turned down tell me that I am not their type either as I am "a bit fat really for a self-respecting man" or then I am "not at all pretty" (those are the polite versions!).

The common denominator?

All of these messages come from men - I don't have any interest in couples or single women.

This site has it's fair share of idiots and morons and rude people.

Perhaps some women get carried away by being in such demand on here. But there are plenty of balanced, polite, courteous and fun people on here.

You can discover a lot about who you are about to message by the way the profile is written. If it reads as arrogant then simply move on. If someone doesn't reply then they're not interested, move on.

I hope that you got it all out

of your system in your rant. Take a breath, count to ten, make a cup of tea and then have another browse and hopefully you will find some of the gems this site has.

And welcome to the bear pit, sorry, forum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didnt say that, you are twisting my words.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I didnt say that, you are twisting my words. "

So. Have you got two profiles then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didnt say that, you are twisting my words. "

I am lost, as I do not believe the previous post was directed at you, as you have not participated in this thread until now I believe.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I didnt say that, you are twisting my words.

I am lost, as I do not believe the previous post was directed at you, as you have not participated in this thread until now I believe.

Possibly because one says bi the other doesn't. Think he may have forgotten which one he logged on as...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is a site which should have at it's core an ethos of total sexual honesty...

And yet I get many messages from people who are playing away without their partner's consent or knowledge.

And yet I get messages from people who would never have a "woman like me" in their home or bed.

The common denominator?

All of these messages come from men - I don't have any interest in couples or single women.

This site has it's fair share of idiots and morons and rude people.

Perhaps some women get carried away by being in such demand on here. But there are plenty of balanced, polite, courteous and fun people on here.

I hope that you got it all out

of your system in your rant. Take a breath, count to ten, make a cup of tea and then have another browse and hopefully you will find some of the gems this site has.

And welcome to the bear pit, sorry, forum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't understand what the opening post is about???

It's about sotes.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"I didnt say that, you are twisting my words.

I am lost, as I do not believe the previous post was directed at you, as you have not participated in this thread until now I believe.

Possibly because one says bi the other doesn't. Think he may have forgotten which one he logged on as...

whoops

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I didnt say that, you are twisting my words.

So. Have you got two profiles then?"

ooh er what a give away..

now im not a betting man but would wager a chocolate bar or something that your spot on there..

too many similarities in the profiles..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry we all dont get what you are talking about mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl what a novice mistake to make. Bet he's kicking himself

That's soooo funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PMSL!!!!!!!!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Pmsl what a novice mistake to make. Bet he's kicking himself

That's soooo funny

and so at odds with some of the previous contributions..

intelligence eh..

gotta love it..

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"its quite easy to see where the OP is coming from if people care to read profiles

It's even eaier to see where he's coming from if you read other threads.

The one about slags and swingers is very interesting.... and you did yourself proud in that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apologies for the typo; I'm not the best with a keyboard...

However it comes as some surprise (at first) that many of these profile are written by foul mouthed keyboard-cowgirls.

For a website that should have at its core an ethos of friendship, it is unfortunate that many profiles display examples of cattyness and hostility.

A pity

Sorry mate, this is a Swingers site - not a friendship site. It's meant to help those who enjoy recreational sex enjoy that to the full and to talk to and/or meet others who are looking for the same. Friendship does not have to be part of that. Mutually enjoyable sex (and what each participant 'enjoys' about it may be completely different) does have to be part of it.

Although I do agree with you to some extent that there are some VERY 'off-putting' profiles on here (It's no different on any other swinging-orientated site) and all you can take from those is...... 'It's his/her/their loss' [that you click on to the next profile]...

You just have to focus on the few which ARE written in a way that attracts YOU and that YOU feel warrant your BEST efforts in writing an effective intro message and 'hope' it gets you a positive response...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear. Is it out yourself day today or something?

Still I suppose it's understandable someone would be bitter and twisted if they have two profiles, designed to cover all options, and still can't get laid.

How very dare women have standards?

Arrogant or a slag. Damned if you do, Damned if you don't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i couldnt have said that better myself

Would you have spelt it better tho?

tho? probably lolThat wasn't a spelling mistake, that was my txt spk cos I is common like that . . . innit

reminds me of the women in here who wont fuck you cos you use txt speak lolol

nowt to do with them finding the guys using txt speak repulsive, desperate or simply unattractive then

erm, it says it in their profiles, not that i messaged them personally, and how does text speak make someone repulsive? confused.com"

It was a sarcastic joke.

I'm not on about you personally, it's the ones who complain in the forums about not being able to get a shag when to be honest they ain't the most aesthetically pleasing specimens to start with and can't really string a cohesive sentence together and they then blame the way they type messages as to why they ain't getting a shag and nothing to do with the women possibly thinking they wouldn't touch him with a barge pole to start with.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Oh dear. Is it out yourself day today or something?

Still I suppose it's understandable someone would be bitter and twisted if they have two profiles, designed to cover all options, and still can't get laid.

How very dare women have standards?

Arrogant or a slag. Damned if you do, Damned if you don't..."

I'm an arrogant slag whose very profile name suggests that I accept and rejoice in my damnation!

Funnily enough I'm getting lots of meets and they usually want to meet more than once, so the Socratic aphorism 'know thyself' holds true.

(Kudos to any who know the rest of the quote without google)

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