FabSwingers.com forum: Old people’s accounts

By *ammski OP Man
over a year ago

lytham st.annes

Does anyone know if admin can resurrect old profile,s.A lady I was talking to scammed me for £1,000 ,just wondering before I go down the police route,thanks Wamski

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you asking us and not Admin.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Why would you want it resurrected? I'm sure the police will ask for relevant information that the site owners can access.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice is to go straight down the police route.

NBVN x

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By *ammski OP Man
over a year ago

lytham st.annes

How do I contact admin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do I contact admin?"

Homepage, at the very bottom in dark banner section it has a contact us link.

NBVN x

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By *ammski OP Man
over a year ago

lytham st.annes

Sorry can’t see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ultimately you won’t get your money back as sad as it is need to be smarter in future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just below my comment is a band of blue...look for contact.....then contact directly

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Sorry can’t see it "

Are you on the desktop site or mobile?

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By *ammski OP Man
over a year ago

lytham st.annes

Mobile

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Can i be nosey and ask how she done this?

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"Mobile "

Go to home page.. right at bottom

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Mobile "

Ok so click on the Home button on the top left hand side of the screen (with a little house on it) then scroll all the way to the bottom and there is a contact link there at the very bottom OK the right hand side.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Can i be nosey and ask how she done this?

I presume a plane ticket to come to the uk.

but if people are stupid enough to send money to people then its there own fault and loss.

Just another user thats brought the site into disrepute.

sorry you cant blame the site for your own sillyness in what you did.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Can i be nosey and ask how she done this?

I presume a plane ticket to come to the uk.

but if people are stupid enough to send money to people then its there own fault and loss.

Just another user thats brought the site into disrepute.

sorry you cant blame the site for your own sillyness in what you did."

There's no need for this type of comment, surely?

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"Does anyone know if admin can resurrect old profile,s.A lady I was talking to scammed me for £1,000 ,just wondering before I go down the police route,thanks Wamski "

How did you end up scammed buddy

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Can i be nosey and ask how she done this?

I presume a plane ticket to come to the uk.

but if people are stupid enough to send money to people then its there own fault and loss.

Just another user thats brought the site into disrepute.

sorry you cant blame the site for your own sillyness in what you did."

No people making harsh judgy comments does that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can i be nosey and ask how she done this?

I presume a plane ticket to come to the uk.

but if people are stupid enough to send money to people then its there own fault and loss.

Just another user thats brought the site into disrepute.

sorry you cant blame the site for your own sillyness in what you did."

Let's help, not judge the OP. They are asking for advice and as a community we should offer it.

NBVN x

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"Can i be nosey and ask how she done this?

I presume a plane ticket to come to the uk.

but if people are stupid enough to send money to people then its there own fault and loss.

Just another user thats brought the site into disrepute.

sorry you cant blame the site for your own sillyness in what you did."

Did I ask you?

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By *ammski OP Man
over a year ago

lytham st.annes

Sorry for the late reply,she asked for money to come and see me,kept going up and up,eventually I lost my patience and asked for it back,got a Torrance of abuse and then she disappeared,many thanks for all the replies,wamski

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"Sorry for the late reply,she asked for money to come and see me,kept going up and up,eventually I lost my patience and asked for it back,got a Torrance of abuse and then she disappeared,many thanks for all the replies,wamski "

Ahh am sorry this happened too you... hope you get it sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - sadly I think this one you will have to chalk down to experience and take the hit - a sad reality of life is that scammers are very good to get what they want

However if you went to the police, they might help out if they have enough information / leads to follow.

Not the same thing, but I was very badly stalked by a MF couple off here a few years back, it ended up me biting the bullet and contacting the police - being married man that scared me - however they where very good and did step in to help

Onwards and upwards

J xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just how full were your balls at the time?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

How did you get the money to her ?

Take that info to the police.

I feel for you but I don't think that FAB should get involved.

You must have other evidence, like names , addresses , phone numbers , descriptions etc....

Cos if you haven't ..... you are pretty much on a loser.

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By *ammski OP Man
over a year ago

lytham st.annes

Very full

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By *ammski OP Man
over a year ago

lytham st.annes

"How did you get the money to her ?

Take that info to the police.

I feel for you but I don't think that FAB should get involved.

You must have other evidence, like names , addresses , phone numbers , descriptions etc....

Cos if you haven't ..... you are pretty much on a loser. "

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By *ammski OP Man
over a year ago

lytham st.annes

"How did you get the money to her ?

Take that info to the police.

I feel for you but I don't think that FAB should get involved.

You must have other evidence, like names , addresses , phone numbers , descriptions etc....

Cos if you haven't ..... you are pretty much on a loser. "
thanks very much for all your help

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"Can i be nosey and ask how she done this?

I presume a plane ticket to come to the uk.

but if people are stupid enough to send money to people then its there own fault and loss.

Just another user thats brought the site into disrepute.

sorry you cant blame the site for your own sillyness in what you did."

Oh look, another gatekeeping victim blamer.

Should people be a bit more cautious, yes. Is it ok to post tosh like this when they do get scammed, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://m.fabswingers.com/contact/owners

Try this op.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

This is the place to report it

https://www.actionfraud.police.uk/a-z-of-fraud/dating-fraud

its also known as romance fraud/scams

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

Sadly you won't get your money back, my son was scanned over some festival tickets a couple of years ago, his own niaviety. Went to the fraud action line, gave all the details including the scammer's bank account and never heard a thing.

I don't know where she said she was traveling from to want £1000 from you but most members seem to be UK based. A hard lesson learned and I'm sorry.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

A bit of late advice:

Never give anyone on Fab any money,

1. It is against site rules to ask for money or offer it.

2. It leaves you open to being scammed.

OP you need to contact the police who in turn can get in touch with Admin.

https://www.fabswingers.com/contact-us

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