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Best way to get couples or females attention

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By *iscretemale6911 OP   Man
over a year ago

Letchworth

Is it best to send a wink or message to get the attention of a female / couple? If a message is the preferred way of breaking the ice does it need to be short and to the point or a full on essay? Any tips much appreciated as this is a subject I am never sure on.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Is it best to send a wink or message to get the attention of a female / couple? If a message is the preferred way of breaking the ice does it need to be short and to the point or a full on essay? Any tips much appreciated as this is a subject I am never sure on. "

It's very much an individual thing, so you need to respond to their profile, most will have clues (or clear instructions) as to what they prefer to receive in the first instance.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Is it best to send a wink or message to get the attention of a female / couple? If a message is the preferred way of breaking the ice does it need to be short and to the point or a full on essay? Any tips much appreciated as this is a subject I am never sure on. "

We would say the best way would be to come on here as a couple.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

If she is looking for something that's not sexual, go find it (say a picture of her favourite thing) and if it is relevant post in the forums)...

"Hey Miss X, I saw this and thought of you: can I PM you the link?". This is your best chance of getting an invite to PM her.

This will allow you to break the ice and use this golden opportunity to make her smile, as she will make the effort NOT to auto delete your message in an overstuffed mail box."

You will only get one chance, to make a first impression.

The conversation might come to a very short ending, or even blossom into something more...who knows?

Go with the flow, then move on. She might have some friends, so good karma is key here.

Good luck.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Messages have a more universal appeal.

The best ones are tailored to the recipient. Be respectful, honest and warm. They will look at your profile, so it's ideal to get that as good as possible.

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By *attenbergCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Best way to get a couples attention is to be what they’re looking for…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biggest mistake most single guys make is message a couple profile and assume it's the Mrs who's reading it. If you're messaging a couple be aware that there a 3 people who need to feel a connection, you, and both sides of the couple. The Mrs might like you, but if the Mr doesn't respect you, it's a non starter.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Is it best to send a wink or message to get the attention of a female / couple? If a message is the preferred way of breaking the ice does it need to be short and to the point or a full on essay? Any tips much appreciated as this is a subject I am never sure on. "

Winks are lazy best way to get the attention is with a message, but making this message interesting to the point of grabbing their attention remember everyone is different and expect not always the same, and something small but not too small can be very powerful done correctly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pics. The more the better. That always gets positive attention from couples and women.

Just send em as many cock pics as you can, taken from as many angles as possible. To really seal the deal, make sure your cock is wearing a different style little hat in each pic.

There are so many photogenic options. The top hat. The bowler. The deerstalker. It never fails!

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Is it best to send a wink or message to get the attention of a female / couple? If a message is the preferred way of breaking the ice does it need to be short and to the point or a full on essay? Any tips much appreciated as this is a subject I am never sure on.

Winks are lazy best way to get the attention is with a message, but making this message interesting to the point of grabbing their attention remember everyone is different and expect not always the same, and something small but not too small can be very powerful done correctly."

Sometimes the filters can be a bit too strict, or you met at a party and need to carry on the conversation.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Cock pics. The more the better. That always gets positive attention from couples and women.

Just send em as many cock pics as you can, taken from as many angles as possible. To really seal the deal, make sure your cock is wearing a different style little hat in each pic.

There are so many photogenic options. The top hat. The bowler. The deerstalker. It never fails!"

The helmet?

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We'd say start with having a profile pic. We don't understand why it isn't a requirement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be perfectly honest, it wouldn't matter how well wrote or tailored to us the message. Its an instant delete for no profile pic, and can't accom. Two massive red flags from the start. So try changing that and maybe you will get a better response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need a more variety of pics including a profile pic.

Remove any reference to how amazing your penis is from your profile.

And 3 years since your last veri is quite a gap

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