FabSwingers.com forum: Hmmm, we must be ugly!!

By *-and-K OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Got a message and a friends invite earlier today. Accepted of course like you do. Took a quick look at the profile and waited for Katee to come home from work to show her, Guess what?

Yep the invite had been withdrawn, guess we must be far uglier than we thought

Seriously though why do people do this? If they are that desperate to see photos there are plenty out there without having to do it by subterfuge

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Got a message and a friends invite earlier today. Accepted of course like you do. Took a quick look at the profile and waited for Katee to come home from work to show her, Guess what?

Yep the invite had been withdrawn, guess we must be far uglier than we thought

Seriously though why do people do this? If they are that desperate to see photos there are plenty out there without having to do it by subterfuge"

you are doing better than me..... I had a wink request from a couple, so I said "hello, how are you?, thanks for the wink.. flattered!, would like to get to know you a little"

The lovely couple blocked me......

I need to be talked off a ledge and the application for "munters anonomous"

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By *rank_SimoneCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

"Got a message and a friends invite earlier today. Accepted of course like you do. Took a quick look at the profile and waited for Katee to come home from work to show her, Guess what?

Yep the invite had been withdrawn, guess we must be far uglier than we thought

Seriously though why do people do this? If they are that desperate to see photos there are plenty out there without having to do it by subterfuge"

Happened to us many a time ..... as we say its their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got a message and a friends invite earlier today. Accepted of course like you do. Took a quick look at the profile and waited for Katee to come home from work to show her, Guess what?

Yep the invite had been withdrawn, guess we must be far uglier than we thought

i think some just like a perv at pictures!! any as forrest gump said ugly is what ugly do!! or somethin along those lines!! sod them im sure they no exactly vogue cover material or open coffin material!!

Seriously though why do people do this? If they are that desperate to see photos there are plenty out there without having to do it by subterfuge

you are doing better than me..... I had a wink request from a couple, so I said "hello, how are you?, thanks for the wink.. flattered!, would like to get to know you a little"

The lovely couple blocked me......

I need to be talked off a ledge and the application for "munters anonomous""

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Got a message and a friends invite earlier today. Accepted of course like you do. Took a quick look at the profile and waited for Katee to come home from work to show her, Guess what?

Yep the invite had been withdrawn, guess we must be far uglier than we thought

Seriously though why do people do this? If they are that desperate to see photos there are plenty out there without having to do it by subterfuge"

Where's the subterfuge there? They might have been loads of reasons they deleted you, they might even have thought you were TOO attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got a message and a friends invite earlier today. Accepted of course like you do. Took a quick look at the profile and waited for Katee to come home from work to show her, Guess what?

Yep the invite had been withdrawn, guess we must be far uglier than we thought

Seriously though why do people do this? If they are that desperate to see photos there are plenty out there without having to do it by subterfuge"

Might have been someone who knows you - or even worse - a relative! I added someone who I then found out was a friend of my little sisters. The last time I saw this girl she was about 12 - so seeing her all grown up and stark bollock naked unnerved me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ha ha ha moan moan moan. aint life great people moaning about getting a friends invite then getting blocked. ha ha ha just do what we do if it happens just do the same to another cple its better if there dead good looking like me n linda that really pisses them off but it makes u feel great lol we luv this game but like we have told many a cple over the years treat it as a game sum u win sum u lose and never let it get you down in fact if it makes anyone feel good just do it to us go on go on go on lol jimmy n linda in lush newcastle xxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ha ha ha moan moan moan. aint life great people moaning about getting a friends invite then getting blocked. ha ha ha just do what we do if it happens just do the same to another cple its better if there dead good looking like me n linda that really pisses them off but it makes u feel great lol we luv this game but like we have told many a cple over the years treat it as a game sum u win sum u lose and never let it get you down in fact if it makes anyone feel good just do it to us go on go on go on lol jimmy n linda in lush newcastle xxxxxxxxxxx"

oh you bad ass!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Might have been someone who knows you - or even worse - a relative! I added someone who I then found out was a friend of my little sisters. The last time I saw this girl she was about 12 - so seeing her all grown up and stark bollock naked unnerved me!"

Oh I had a similar thing happen when I suddenly realised, with horror that the rather interestingly tattooed cock pic, belonged to my brother in law

and yes I had to block quick, before he spotted my naughty bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't annoy me but it is a bit weird.

I was on the meet today list yesterday and got a message saying that the woman was wet and waiting for my cock - saying I should contact them immediately. So I did.

Message deleted without even the courtesy of a response. I suspect they probably block message people somehow and as soon as they get the response they want they delete everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love it. infact im waiting till all them who have sent me friends invites sod off to bed, then i can accept, have a good nosey at their pics, then delete em....

well i never asked them to send me their invites did i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i love it. infact im waiting till all them who have sent me friends invites sod off to bed, then i can accept, have a good nosey at their pics, then delete em....

well i never asked them to send me their invites did i

Friends invite sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i love it. infact im waiting till all them who have sent me friends invites sod off to bed, then i can accept, have a good nosey at their pics, then delete em....

well i never asked them to send me their invites did i

Instead of deleting them Im going to do this from now on

I think its a great idea

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I had a similar thing happen when I suddenly realised, with horror that the rather interestingly tattooed cock pic, belonged to my brother in law

and yes I had to block quick, before he spotted my naughty bits

What i'm intrested in is how did you know it was your brother in laws cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it has happened to us a few times and to be honest we now do it ourselves couple sent a wink or message with only a pic of the female in their profile and with the face usually blocked out so we do like to see the faces before we get into any sort of chat with them and if they are not what we are lookign for we delete them,no point keeping them in your frineds list is there but on saying that to save all the adding and deleting why not just attach a face pic to your origional message etc ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like pic farmers have been farming your private collection. Never accept friend invites unless you met them in person or have had extended chats on mail/phone I say

Also that method by puresilk is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that happens very ofton dont take it to heart there are a lot of pic collectors out there ! The same happend to us last week x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to us all, doubt it was pic collectors though as you got to see there pics, some people just dont like letting people down gently and take the easy option, it's difficult at times when four people are involved, as all parties have to find each other attracive, chin up though, theres a match for everyone out there and when it happens it's all worth while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I had a similar thing happen when I suddenly realised, with horror that the rather interestingly tattooed cock pic, belonged to my brother in law

and yes I had to block quick, before he spotted my naughty bits

What i'm intrested in is how did you know it was your brother in laws cock? "

I wondered that also, but didn't want to ask really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

interesting comments here about this.i was blocked by someone just because i sent them a message.wasnt rude in fact i was polite but i guess they were shaken up by that and clicked the block button lol.

i just thought stuff em and moved on.also i notice sometimes you get blocked in the chatroom by people who look at your cam.you look back to see if they are male/female/couple etc only to find your blocked lol.

i do like for like.stuff them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I had a similar thing happen when I suddenly realised, with horror that the rather interestingly tattooed cock pic, belonged to my brother in law

and yes I had to block quick, before he spotted my naughty bits

What i'm intrested in is how did you know it was your brother in laws cock?

I wondered that also, but didn't want to ask really.

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not like you to be so shy ! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had the same sort of things happen to us, I think theres alot of pic collectors and guys pretending to be women or cpls out there, dont take it personally, we're fussier who we add now and have seen every1 on our friends list on cam and we'll only add ppl we've seen on cam....unless you have very very hot pictures and we want to see your pvt pics lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive not had the friend request thing, but ive had messages off people saying they are interested etc, and when i message them back, it either just gets read and i dont get a reply, or it gets deleted. very strange thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well just checked out your profile and far as im concerned its their loss xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well just checked out your profile and far as im concerned its their loss xx"

was that to me? thank you very much if it was! wish everyone on here was as nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ive not had the friend request thing, but ive had messages off people saying they are interested etc, and when i message them back, it either just gets read and i dont get a reply, or it gets deleted. very strange thing to do."

Same as us but we just take it that if our message is deleted they dont want to know anyway so move on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I had a similar thing happen when I suddenly realised, with horror that the rather interestingly tattooed cock pic, belonged to my brother in law

and yes I had to block quick, before he spotted my naughty bits

What i'm intrested in is how did you know it was your brother in laws cock?

I wondered that also, but didn't want to ask really.

I looked at the profile and the profile photo was of my sisters chest, complete with distinctive tattoo over her heart (husbands name) ... I also recognised the pendant round her neck ... shame on those of you who assumed I had been shagging him

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By *-and-K OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

As one of the replies stated, I think it may have been someone from my workplace (hospital) it's a big place and even though I never recognised them, they may have recognised me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I had a similar thing happen when I suddenly realised, with horror that the rather interestingly tattooed cock pic, belonged to my brother in law

and yes I had to block quick, before he spotted my naughty bits

What i'm intrested in is how did you know it was your brother in laws cock?

I wondered that also, but didn't want to ask really.

Hangs my head in shame...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I had a similar thing happen when I suddenly realised, with horror that the rather interestingly tattooed cock pic, belonged to my brother in law

and yes I had to block quick, before he spotted my naughty bits

What i'm intrested in is how did you know it was your brother in laws cock?

I wondered that also, but didn't want to ask really.

Hangs my head in shame...

Tis OK

Easy mistake to make on a Swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably nothing more sinister than someone wanting a quick perv at any private pics you may have.

Ok' now they've looked at your pics, probably copied then to their massive collection and now you're of no use to them so they delete you from the friends list

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

"Probably nothing more sinister than someone wanting a quick perv at any private pics you may have.

Ok' now they've looked at your pics, probably copied then to their massive collection and now you're of no use to them so they delete you from the friends list "

just thought i'd let you all know that now i've been through 95% of the profiles on here with all my fake profiles, and coppied all the private pictures and reformatted them ready for publication under the readers wives section i'll be great full if you'd kindly remove the blocks so i can just go once more around and make sure i haven't missed anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is kinda why we have in block capitals at the top of our profile that we wont accept Friends Invites from people we've never heard of.

We got sick of peoples' stupid games and spinelessness.

Now we insist on a few messages back and forth first to vet out the sort of people we want and THEN we get access to each others' private pics.

Still, it's amazing how many people are too thick to even clock the block capitals at the top and click the Invite button. I even saved the text as a big JPG and posted it as one of our photos for the benefit of the illiterate among us, but Admin removed it

lol. Ho hum

It's just a pity that all the people whose Invites we delete don't get a message back telling them why...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i love it. infact im waiting till all them who have sent me friends invites sod off to bed, then i can accept, have a good nosey at their pics, then delete em....

well i never asked them to send me their invites did i

Yeah, we do the same and ain't it amazing how many of them have no pic's in their Private Gallery?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got a message and a friends invite earlier today. Accepted of course like you do. Took a quick look at the profile and waited for Katee to come home from work to show her, Guess what?

Yep the invite had been withdrawn, guess we must be far uglier than we thought

Seriously though why do people do this? If they are that desperate to see photos there are plenty out there without having to do it by subterfuge"

Its happened to us too,most time think its just to perve at pics but i do realise that we not for some people,that why we have put on our profile that we will only accept friends if we think we will meet or have met,we not into collecting friends on here having a massive friends list.

We reccomend that you do the same as us,only add peeps who you have met or feel you would like to meet.

A lot of time people sending friends invites are guys pretending to be fem or couple and want to perve at pics...

Tell them to buy a mag like we do to wank over pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i love it. infact im waiting till all them who have sent me friends invites sod off to bed, then i can accept, have a good nosey at their pics, then delete em....

well i never asked them to send me their invites did i

Yeah, we do the same and ain't it amazing how many of them have no pic's in their Private Gallery?

XXXX"

So true,majority of them have no pics whatsoever on profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well theres two sides of this ,, lol you could have looked so lovely and thay could not handle it . I have had this sorry we can not meet you my wife would hate it you have bigger tits ,, lol ... or my wife would hate not being center of the fun ,, lol we go for people who are not nice as us ,, lol I have had all sorts ,,, from people in the passed XX dont let it get too you xxx as you look fab xx kisses jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i occasionally add people to friends list, to perv their piccies ... then remove them, they aren't friends ... just have pics only viewable to friends

i prefer my friends list to be for actual friends lol ... if i accepted everyone ... there would be no room on profile for anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had a couple mail me and were very interested... they wanted to see more private pics so i sent them one..... they did a kaiser soze on me........

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