FabSwingers.com forum: Your worst experience on here?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone had any bad experience when they met someone from fab ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure lots have and here's mine. Some years ago I met a couple for a 3some. When I got there (an hour's drive away) I was told I couldn't touch her feet or breasts, then the guy revealed he was bi(not a problem in itself but he was listed as straight), then when I said I preferred to fuck his wife, he went off in a huff and didn't re-appear. Despite wearing a condom for the final act, I still managed to bring home enough of her bacteria to give my wife a very unpleasant discharge (yes, she had agreed to my going, before you ask)which ended up in us both going for an STI test but were clear. Needless to say, it was a long time before I was allowed out again.

Moral: don't just rely on a short phone chat and do leave if they aren't what they seem.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I was massively disappointed in his performance. Or lack of it.

That's all I'm going to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was massively disappointed in his performance. Or lack of it.

That's all I'm going to say."

Iv had the same as above ...

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Had a few instances.

Being stood up whilst we where in a bar waiting for them because, and I quote, "We wont be coming because we forgot the football was on". Fully verified multi meet account as well...

Not being what was advertised on the tin.

Being overly pushy and grabby from word go.

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By *urioustoswingMan
over a year ago

london

The worst meets are with those than behave like they have a personality and you feel you’ll get along with them perfectly well and have lots of fun, only to discover they are cold, reserved, nervous and shy lacking any personality whatsoever.

There are also a couple of people I’ve met up who made out they were so damn horny, and end up not being able to perform or come up with a BS excuse.

There are also those who say: “I haven’t got enough time so we need to be quick”

Don’t meet with anyone if you’re like the above!

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By *exy24uCouple
over a year ago

bristol

We are very lucky to have had some fab times. One meet come to mind. Meeting a much younger couple in a bar. After some very hard working chat they decided we were playing with them. Urmmm When we said hey it’s lovely to meet you but we really don’t feel the same they really got the hump. They complained we wasted there time. We laughed as we traveled over an hour to there home town paid a bridge toll and bought them a drink ?? the childish reaction just confirming the right decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone had any bad experience when they met someone from fab ? "

Yes, I've had a few, that's the reason I'm extremely fussy about who I meet and prefer to go to Clubs.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Anyone had any bad experience when they met someone from fab ? "

All my experiences have been exceptional quality and it's been a delight to still be in touch away from the site as well as few still here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I had...Met one guy who was way older than he stated by at least 15yrs & he looked it. So disappointing...He was also meant to be single but I found out later he was married...He still has an account here & is still claiming to be way younger than he is...I don't get his mentality at all... He looks like he's in his 50s but trying to claim he's in his 30s

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Haven't had many meets on here but the one's I have had have all been spot on.

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By *antingmore72Woman
over a year ago

Hastings

2 words..... Pleaseeeee wash!!! Urghhhhh absolutely horrific! Completely put me off meeting anyone for the forsseable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was with my guy. Id talked to him. He's sent pics. 6ft tall and 47. Good looking. Well I thought.

Turned up 5ft 6. Had a claw hand (no lie) was at least 64 yes my age but I dnt fuck men that old lol. So he came into the room. I said you aren't quite what I was expecting. Oh he says thats my sons profile I just use it. So we showed him the door and reported him. 3 mths later he contacts me asking when we can meet hahaha BLOCK lol

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I've mentioned my worst experience was at a hotel. Had been great, both had fun, laughed and stuff. In the morning I went for a quick shower, came out and he had gone. Didnt even shout a goodbye or nothing. Or give me his half of the room which I had booked and paid for and he said would give me then.

* paying for the room was a rookie mistake i made years ago and defiantly learnt from it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a very odd one of recent, meet arranged I turned up to the address, door opens I’m like hi, she’s like hi can I help you? I’m looking at her thinking she is the woman from the pics? So I’m like hi yeh I’m here to meet Sue is she in? Erm no sorry she says, I’m like oh shit I’ve been done over here so started blabbering on about buying something off eBay and this was the address, no she says, now I’m walking away apologising when she says your not off a dating site are you? Stopped me in my tracks, she then goes on how someone’s got it in for her and set up a fake profile, oh I say, then she invites me in to continue talking and then is like well it’s a shame you’ve come all this way but as your hear you fancy coming upstairs??? Why not, I’m still not sure if she was genuine, playing games or just bonkers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine was with my guy. Id talked to him. He's sent pics. 6ft tall and 47. Good looking. Well I thought.

Lol how to people think they’ll get away with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone had any bad experience when they met someone from fab ? "

I did, it was with one of the couple. Guy annoyed me with over talking during fun. He was telling his wife what to do during all the process, it didn’t only annoy me, she was annoyed too, could see from her face. although she was stunning.

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By *urioustoswingMan
over a year ago

london

"Had a very odd one of recent, meet arranged I turned up to the address, door opens I’m like hi, she’s like hi can I help you? I’m looking at her thinking she is the woman from the pics? So I’m like hi yeh I’m here to meet Sue is she in? Erm no sorry she says, I’m like oh shit I’ve been done over here so started blabbering on about buying something off eBay and this was the address, no she says, now I’m walking away apologising when she says your not off a dating site are you? Stopped me in my tracks, she then goes on how someone’s got it in for her and set up a fake profile, oh I say, then she invites me in to continue talking and then is like well it’s a shame you’ve come all this way but as your hear you fancy coming upstairs??? Why not, I’m still not sure if she was genuine, playing games or just bonkers lol"

Omg... I’ve done that before! I come up with a story when I’ve knocked the wrong door and was also taken advantage of

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple
over a year ago

TELFORD

Oh yes. Rocking up looking nothing like thier pics, cumming just by breathing on it, limp dicks, the list goes on. But have had some amazing meets too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once messaged a woman on here and she didn’t reply.

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

I've waited in my local for single guys that don't turn up several times, lied to about being single ghosted, I just don't believe any excuse to cancel a meet now. Thinking of leaving.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"I once messaged a woman on here and she didn’t reply."

Funny that I’ve had the same experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had a conversation with a man. We talked about what we were into and I asked him his ultimate fantasy. He made a reference to a couple of infamous serial killers. Frightened the life out of me. Blocked and reported immediately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

years ago, with a previous partner, we met a couple and we had a naughty chat before heading up to the bedroom, he came as soone as his cock was touched, but to be fair he said sorry and the fem half still wanted to play and he agreed, so we did

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Not on here but on another site - went to flat. Tried calling, no answer. Was very much ghosted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paying for hotel , getting dressed then they cancel!

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By *eirdscienceMan
over a year ago

Postwick

Keep seeing these bloody worst experience threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disappointing rather than bad on a previous profile. The old pics number and guys unable to perform when it mattered x

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Keep seeing these bloody worst experience threads"

I find them fascinating and helpful

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My first fab meet 4 years ago.

Had 2 social meets with a woman and a third then at an hotel.

We weren't on the same wavelength because out of the blue she punched me in the face in the hope of getting a reaction.

Told her she had picked the wrong guy if she expected me to retaliate and I went to leave. She apologised and convinced me to stay but an hour later drove her knee into my balls.

Our definitions of rough sex were completely different.

I left at that point even though I had paid for the room and left fab a few days later because I assumed all meets would be like that.

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By *urvycrimsonWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Wow... I feel super lucky with the meets I/we have had, but then I do take a long time to get to know people beforehand, and reading this thread I’m glad that I do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a bad meet. Had a strange one though. It was an outdoor/car meet. She never mentioned bringing anyone else with her. When I turned up basically her partner was driving us round while we played in the back.

I was a bit apprehensive when I turned up and saw him but she looked incredible in her outfit so I carried on. Glad I did.

Unfortunately I've also had a few cases of time wasters or fakes where a meet was planned, I've turned up, and no one was there and I've then been blocked on here and had my number blocked.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

That's just plain weird. Hard to believe the story she gave you, getting her kicks off watching you squirm and the confusion is my guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine was with my guy. Id talked to him. He's sent pics. 6ft tall and 47. Good looking. Well I thought.

Lol how to people think they’ll get away with it

Well obviously a chancer because he was shocked when we asked him to leave . Said Oh but I've travelled a long way. Hahahs. So expected a mercy fuck. Never gonna happen. Bye bye

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By *acial giverMan
over a year ago

hull

Met a larger lady on here. She bent over asking me to do her doggy.all I could see was poo round her bum hole. Dressed said had to go

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By *ownhamguyMan
over a year ago

Battle

I've not met many women off here but they've all been good, but have had the usual timewasters.

Made a stupid mistake once of forwarding money to a girl once to book a hotel.

Got chatting to a local girl not long ago and she was up for an early morning meet. She gave me her address, drove there and couldn't find the doornumber, as didn't exist. Messaged her on here, no reply, eventually she replied calling me a waste of time.....

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By *nvincible ButterflyWoman
over a year ago

LEEDS

My worse experience was when me and my partner was swinging together.

We'd arranged a neet at a club with a couple much younger than us and was really looking forward to it.

When we arrived the male half Was very withdrawn and I just put it down to nerves. We moved in to one of the playrooms and my partner and the female half was getting it on and enjoying themselves but the male wouldn't even touch me even though I invited him to multiple times.

I ended up inviting one of the single guys who was watching us in to play with me and ended up having a great time.

The next day we got a message off them saying that I was incredibly rude and had disrespected the male half by refusing to play with him and had left him sat in the corner while I played with someone else! After challenging it they admitted that he wasn't in to me and had only stayed because she was in to my partner.

Needless to say that was the start of the conversations with my partner to play away from each other as it was so hard to find couple's who we both was comparable with.

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

I've had a 2 socials btry to follow me round the city centre to work out where I live when I mentioned in passing I live in the city centre and one meet was following me round the shopping centre trying to get my attention when I was out with my oap mam and grandma

Stopped meeting locals

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"My first fab meet 4 years ago.

Had 2 social meets with a woman and a third then at an hotel.

We weren't on the same wavelength because out of the blue she punched me in the face in the hope of getting a reaction.

Told her she had picked the wrong guy if she expected me to retaliate and I went to leave. She apologised and convinced me to stay but an hour later drove her knee into my balls.

Our definitions of rough sex were completely different.

I left at that point even though I had paid for the room and left fab a few days later because I assumed all meets would be like that. "

Sorry I giggled. I know I shouldn’t.

I’ll get my coat.

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By *eanieggMan
over a year ago

UXBRIDGE

just the usual lies really .. not looking anything like the pictures .. bigger or ugly .. one lady i was chatting to .. eventually sent me a face picture and she had teeth like the guy out of the pogues band .. .. looked awful

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Got talking to a guy, chatting for some time on the phone. Sounded lovely, we got on great! Agreed to meet for a social, met in a bar, I was driving so non alcoholic for me. Had a great evening, so agreed to go back to his for some fun.

As soon as the door closed, he changed. Wannabe Christian Grey, I firmly believe he was filming me at one point without my permission, there was absolutely nothing in it for me.

A few days later he sent me videos and pictures of his FB (she was similar to me at the time, lack of confidence, didn’t like photos etc). Told him I wasn’t interested and was she aware of said photos and videos being taken and sent, he said yes. Next morning he admitted she didn’t know, apologised and blamed it on alcohol. I’ve never said the words I said to him ever before then.

I reported, blocked, got rid of him. Over the years he’s since made 3 accounts and tried talking to me, I’ve reported and blocked.

Took me a long time to find some trust in people

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By *onochrome2Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Thankfully nothing too horrific, just being stood up, ghosted, not looking like their pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are very lucky to have had some fab times. One meet come to mind. Meeting a much younger couple in a bar. After some very hard working chat they decided we were playing with them. Urmmm When we said hey it’s lovely to meet you but we really don’t feel the same they really got the hump. They complained we wasted there time. We laughed as we traveled over an hour to there home town paid a bridge toll and bought them a drink ?? the childish reaction just confirming the right decision. "

Younger couples are the worst when it comes to wasting time. We had one such experience, although we was at the meeting stage ,they went silent 12 hours prior to meet and proceeded to block us without any word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stood outside the address given curtains then twitched..rang their mobile and could hear it ring from outside..no answer apparently they were at the hospital after an accident in the kitchen .....blocked and moved on ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a 2 socials btry to follow me round the city centre to work out where I live when I mentioned in passing I live in the city centre and one meet was following me round the shopping centre trying to get my attention when I was out with my oap mam and grandma

Stopped meeting locals"

That's scary isn't ?

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Had had a couple of car meets with a woman off here when she then invited me to hers for the 3rd.

I was a bit taken aback at the grass and moss growing inside the front door. Between door mat and door.

The standard of cleanliness did not improve, the further I got into the house.

Now I don't expect freshly ironed sheets but neither do I expect to find a half eaten instant porridge container and spoon under the covers.

That was the end of that relationship!

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

We have had a lot of great meets.. However the subject is of disastrous meets.

I put this into two categories, being stood up and not being what they said they were.

Just recently we had a guy not show up. We sat had a coffee, enjoyed the sun and waited. Nothing. Eventually later he messaged to say he turned up early on the off chance we turned up early (half an hour early) because he had to take his son to the Dr's and did not have time.

Then in the other category, a man with no front teesh. Great for whistling... However not what it said in the tin. Another awkward sharp exit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a bad experience as such but after a very quickly arranged meet (same day) with a very local lady we discovered our sons were in the same school and year after having sex. I steered clear of local meets after that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's just plain weird. Hard to believe the story she gave you, getting her kicks off watching you squirm and the confusion is my guess."

Possibly, can’t say I enjoyed it much, my mind was just wondering wtf is goin on here, it’s not like she even admitted to anything to make sense, blocked!! Lol

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Being stood up twice was not the best. My time is precious and hate having it wasted.

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By *ltrMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Her husband turning up at the meet slapping her and saying she was at it again cheating on fab , not sure if it was some sort of sex game but I fxxked off sharpish before he took his anger out on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met with one couple a few years back. During the initial conversation they revealed their son had just died in a motorbike crash and they were filling in time before his funeral.

Time for a sharp exit!

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Apart from the usual no shows not many thankfully,and the 2 guys who couldn't perform ,I made the mistake of not telling hubby that during a meet a guy bit my lip and my back twice said if I'd told him he would have thrown him out ,lesson learned if I'm not happy or comfortable I speak up ,also guy we met one morning came to our room ignored hubby (he is bi so bi guys only) and soon as got on top of him few pumps and he came got dressed and left the one time I've felt used on here ,been very very picky since knocked my confidence for a long time ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I had...Met one guy who was way older than he stated by at least 15yrs & he looked it. So disappointing...He was also meant to be single but I found out later he was married...He still has an account here & is still claiming to be way younger than he is...I don't get his mentality at all... He looks like he's in his 50s but trying to claim he's in his 30s

Had a very similar meet, he’d used his son’s face pic! Also had BO. Not sure what he was expecting to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once turned up to meet a single lady who was that d*unk that she forgot that she had invited me an hour earlier. Needless to say, I didn't stop long.

Also, I drove 90 mins to a meet at 10pm one night. Just as I was getting near, I had a message to say "The wife has changed her mind, sorry..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a very similar meet, he’d used his son’s face pic! Also had BO. Not sure what he was expecting to happen. "

That's is scummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes one ... won’t say but ... not very good !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These sound like nightmares lol I've had had the odd no show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very first meet was in a pub.. Excitement through the roof.. Couple goes unlos...as we were leaving, hubby assaulted by a pissed random bloke. Hubby worked in prison service, manhandled guy to ground.. "bent him up" and held him there till police turned up..laugh about it now....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes sadly. He was pushy and manipulative even though I had said what I was and wasn’t prepared to do on a second meet. (First was a social) Unfortunately he’s still active on the site

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

I've had a couple very bad experiences. One in particular was too awful to write about.

But one that has stuck with me was I arranged to meet with a well verified single guy. It was to be pretty much social but with small kink elements. He turned up and we went for a walk in the park. He kept talking about being in a rush so he was speeding things along, which was already annoying because there was no mention of a time limit before and I wasn't planning to have one.

So anyway he rushes the whole thing and then offers to drop me to meet my friends on his way home, I accept and in the car just before I leave he admits he is cheating on his wife.

I won't meet someone who is cheating for my own personal reasons and I ask everyone I meet if they are actually single. He lied to me and tricked me into a situation I'm not comfortable being in.

Not only that but he changed my plans and wasted my time in the process.

I was turned off meeting men here after that.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Straight guy not off here, chatting me up in a gay bar. Went back to my hotel room had some fun, then after he finished he went quiet. Quickly getting his stuff together I asked if he was alright ?

That’s when he started to blame me for his actions and created a new history for the night. Claimed I chatted him up and practically dragged him back to my room (he was over 6ft I’m 5’7).

I could see he was getting himself riled up and knew anything I would say could end up with us scrapping on the floor. So I went into the bathroom until he left.

I now actively avoid straight guys on here and as a general rule only meet in clubs, once I get to know someone and trust them I may invite them over.

But I now laugh at the messages I sometimes get off blokes on here when they say they’d like to experiment with their sexuality with me.

Like fuck you will

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Had had a couple of car meets with a woman off here when she then invited me to hers for the 3rd.

I was a bit taken aback at the grass and moss growing inside the front door. Between door mat and door.

The standard of cleanliness did not improve, the further I got into the house.

Now I don't expect freshly ironed sheets but neither do I expect to find a half eaten instant porridge container and spoon under the covers.

That was the end of that relationship!"

Sorry but this one did make me laugh

Off to trim my moss.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Not from this site, but someone a female friend and I met from a contact magazine.

When they turned up, it was obvious the pictures were a few years out of date. Nevertheless they still looked like a nice enough couple.

As we had a few drinks, she got a bit pissed, but again, not quite enough for us to change our minds.

We went back to their hotel with them and she flopped on the bed as he began to strip her off. She looked great until she started to gag, then ran off to the bathroom and puked!

That was the point at which we left!

Oddly, I bumped into him in a work conference a few weeks later. I ghosted him, but I think he recognised me.

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess I share some of the horror stroies above;

Bad hygine - biggest turn off

Bad breath - 2nd biggest turn off

Bad manners - you got the drift lol

and my all time favourite is;

MF couples who are really just a man hiding behind a couples profile in order to rouse you into meeting for sex (I'm Bi if that now makes more sense)

J xx

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"Anyone had any bad experience when they met someone from fab ? "

I've been fortunate as my Husband found me on here so I can't comment on this personally

but I had a friend who was on here, and met somebody, and ended up loosing a lot over it.

The person my friend met clearly had other ideas about what this site is for, all I can say is be careful if you don't want to fall victim to those who would take advantage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fair few years ago, Was a meeting posted “couple looking for VWE male fuck and go” perfect.

Messaged with some photos and get a quick reply with some return photos, both look lovely and I think I’m onto a good night.

Turn up and it’s two blokes, which was very strange, but one of them was from the couple in the photo so didn’t panic, asked where the lady was and was told she’s on her way she’s been to pick up something nice.

Fair enough I think, I have a drink and get chatting and they start pushing about bi sex, then asking if I would like to get sucked off, I politely decline, they then ask me to get naked ready for the lady, after I affirm I’m not doing that til she’s here it turns dark very quickly.

I get up to leave but one stands by the living room door, says not to worry and lady is on the way, now I start to panic, I grab a weird lamp thing and launch it at one of them, then manage to push the other lad from the door giving him a dig or too, managed to get to the front door but couldn’t get the front door open, they didn’t chase though and finally worked it out and fucked right off

Reported it here but didn’t report to police, didn’t want the awkward questions. Profile was long gone by then, not sure that fab did, never heard back from them, but as profile was already taken down I presume there isn’t much could be done.

Was scary and not pretty much ask to FaceTime or WhatsApp before a meet to make sure. Live and learn.

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By *irdlover69Man
over a year ago

SE London

Had this happen to me more than once. Spent weeks chatting, flirting, planning a meet including several phone calls where I chatted to both, and on the day got blocked after travelling to another town and paying for a hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a couple but mostly they've been good.

Notably though, there was one guy who I agreed to meet, sent him half the hotel money (wasn't a lot, thankfully) and then he had to cancel as his Nan had to be taken to hospital. I thought, okay, fair enough, family first. We rearranged for a two weeks later - in that time he disappeared for a few days, came back, apologised and said he couldn't wait to meet that coming weekend. I never heard from him again

Couple others have been guys I've met and have been absolutely lovely, up until after we've played. Once they got what they wanted they turn into jackasses.

Learning curves for sure

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

" [ ...] guys I've met and have been absolutely lovely, up until after we've played. Once they got what they wanted they turn into jackasses. "

I'm amazed that this has happened to you! You look really pretty in your pics and I'm just bemused that guys wouldn't want to meet you for a repeat performance. Weird!!

Gbat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" [ ...] guys I've met and have been absolutely lovely, up until after we've played. Once they got what they wanted they turn into jackasses.

I'm amazed that this has happened to you! You look really pretty in your pics and I'm just bemused that guys wouldn't want to meet you for a repeat performance. Weird!!

Gbat x"

That's really sweet of you to say, thank you.

Its all good, I've met many more amazing people, socially and for play so it cancels the crap ones out aha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve had very similar experiences a few times. We only meet occasionally and to stood up is very frustrating.

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By *ooboo73Woman
over a year ago

Truro

"2 words..... Pleaseeeee wash!!! Urghhhhh absolutely horrific! Completely put me off meeting anyone for the forsseable! "

Iv not had that but it would be my worse nightmare, lack of hygiene x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 words..... Pleaseeeee wash!!! Urghhhhh absolutely horrific! Completely put me off meeting anyone for the forsseable! "

This. Turned up to a house that was absolutely disgusting. Dog hair everywhere and the place stunk. Didn’t hang around.

Also turned up to meet a couple and it was blatantly the guys idea and his wife wasn’t really into it. She was lovely but clearly only doing it for him so I didn’t stick about there either.

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By *efinetly_darcyMan
over a year ago

Northwest

We have all been in bad encounters. One of mine turned into great. Basically we arranged to meet in a bar near hers, it was definitely a locals bar, strange looks etc.

The night went horrid, we both had nerves. I fancied her stupid.

Cut along story she was nervous also, met for a second time at her request, spent 3 months together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranged a social with a guy, on his profile he said he was 5.10, I am 5.7 and had flat shoes on that day.

I walked in to the bar to be greeted by this guy in a gangster looking pinstriped suit, greasy slicked back hair, and he came up to my nose and must have been all of 4.10 in his Cuban heels.

He then proceeded to tell me that he was into cock worship and only receives and never gives.

I told him that wasn't something I was looking for, he then had the nerve to tell me that my profile was deceiving and I should state on it that I expect to receive too, totally ignoring he had knocked a foot off his height

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By *0FLHMan
over a year ago

Devon

Arranged a meet with a 52yo guy but when I got there he said he was close to 70,but for a 70yo he was good in bed

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Only one.

Went wrong from misinterpretation and my weird humour.

Still, while I regret it, it happens.

Equally, every stick has two ends.

Taught me that clean communication is imperative.

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By *igkidexyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Met a women in a bar everything was going well until she told me she loves hair she said she never shaved her legs arms or under her arms I just left said no thanks left

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By *rincessPaula99Woman
over a year ago

near barnsley

I've had a stalker who found where I lived and worked. That was why I left first time round.

I've left a fab guy sitting at a table in Leeds once and never returned from the toilet (sorry if he's reading). x p

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We had one but it was just a case of not compatible. C had a great time with her but he just wasn't doing it for me at all.

It was a spur of the moment meet which we don't normally do. However, we did and it just didn't really work out all that well.

Tried to make the best of it. And C enjoyed himself.

Another one we had a single male who got too clingy. Like I think he thought he was dating me at one stage!

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By *eanieggMan
over a year ago

UXBRIDGE

my last play session before lockdown was with a couple .. the lady had BO it was very offputting

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By *ovelaughliveCouple
over a year ago

Oldham

Weve had meets where we have chatted on here and swapped pics prior to meeting, the pics they have shared must have been about 10 years old and and very misleading!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I called round to a young couples house once!

I couldn't get in the front door for rubbish,

Never again x

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By *ovelaughliveCouple
over a year ago

Oldham

"I called round to a young couples house once!

I couldn't get in the front door for rubbish,

Never again x"

Wow no way!!! How the other half live ha

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

In the beginning on here when I was still nieve and trusted people enough to take them at face value, I arranged a meet with a Bi couple. Hubby arranged it all because she was to 'shy' to talk on the phone..... needless to say, when I got there 'she' had popped out to the shops for five min and he, (who was clearly a lot older than his pics) suggested we just start without her.... I wasn't comfortable and said that I'd rather wait for her..... He kept trying to push me, and it all felt very wrong, since looking around it was increasingly clear that no woman had stepped foot in the house for a very long time.... So I made an excuse to get something from my car and then bolted.

Good lesson, as it's made me a lot more careful about who I meet, and vetting potential meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread should be mandatory reading. Quite shocking what some of yous have gone through. Nice to see it hasn't deterred anyone from continuing to meet

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

I chatted to a lady for a while on here and we eventually decided to meet at her house. She was about 60 miles from me so about an hours drive. Turned up at her place, knocked on the door and was met with what can only be described as a stench when the door opened. I needed the loo so went in anyway and was just gobsmacked by the amount of rubbish, old food, etc, lying around the place. Managed to stop myself throwing up long enough to use the toilet and then left. Was a real shame as she'd come across so eloquently in her messages and there was nothing in her photographs to give an impression that she lived in an absolute pig sty. There was no further contact between us and she went unlos soon after.

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

He sent photos, looked very attractive, came across well so late one night I invited him over.

I was upstairs and hubby let him in. When I walked into the living room I looked at him and said 'you aren't the guy on the photos!' He started laughing and told me they were maybe a few years old, but since he'd driven over an hour to get to me I at least owed him a BJ!

He was escorted out rather swiftly

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

I chatted to a couple for a while, eventually they gave me their postcode and said they'll give me the door number when I got near, I checked the postcode before I left home, it was a field! When I messaged them, they blocked me, btw they're still on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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maybe he he had a hard paper round.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Turning up when there is already a mattress on the floor (that's not a problem) and the wife nowhere to be seen. She then turns up 4 minutes later and he keeps trying to bare back and because he can't he gets the huff and loses his erection when makes him even more huffier

So made our excuses - spent more time in the McD's car park than in their house

Another couple where the bloke came in a second and the asian wife complained my cock was "toooo big" (we still laugh about it today) - they also had a penchant for porn films with machine guns

A couple where the husband tried to cure me of my dog phobia by getting me to stroke the dog all of the time

Turning up at a stately home to meet a couple and she joining us in a cramped elevator to get to the upper floors (in hindsight a really stupid risky thing to do)

I will have to think as there are loads more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine was with my guy. Id talked to him. He's sent pics. 6ft tall and 47. Good looking. Well I thought.

This is kinda terrifying …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just came for a quick look to make sure none of these stories are about me....

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

" […] she was to 'shy' to talk on the phone..... "

And you still believed she was going to have a threesome with you in real life??? A very suspicious type of shyness.

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

We got approached by a couple and we agreed to a meet. They changed the venue three times and the timing twice. We pointed out that my wife would be working that afternoon but they insisted I went alone. Eventually found the house after some very dodgy directions. I was met at the door and the first words were "take your shoes off.We had this carpet fitted new 6 weeks ago".

"Wife" was sat on the sofa in just a sarong He never sat down and kept walking out of the room. All the wife wanted to do was tell me about her son's car. I left after about 45 mins still non the wiser what they wanted!

In total 3 hours of my life wasted!

That evening they deleted themselves from this site.

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By *akedduo66Couple
over a year ago

Near Bordon

Unfortunately we've had more than just a few occasions where we end up sat in a hotel room waiting for a no show.

We always get the ladies to chat on the phone (to catch out the single guy "couples") and social first,though still get the

no shows who range from cancellation at the last minute (due to sickness etc etc) to them finding someone more interesting than us and then verifing each other and blocking us.

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By *KentMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

I’ve been quite lucky so far, only had one weird experience when I was here as part of a couple.

We went to the home of another couple, all going well with the female half, but the male half couldn’t maintain an erection with either of the women, so he ended up using one of those vibrating bullets on each of them...Was extremely weird to be honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a meet with a couple who sounded perfect until we met. He was supposedly 6ft and fit she was 5ft8 and a gym bunny.

We sat there looking for them when we were approached by 2 OAPs who greeted is like old freinds.

They admitted they had "borrowed" the photos off another profile as no one fabbed there origional ones.

Did a disappearing trick from there and went to a club instead.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

You read these horror stories then in another thread see people complaining about profiles who ask people to jump through a few hoops to check they are genuine!

I wonder why experienced swingers want to put in place a few checks?

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By *ripodius WillyusMan
over a year ago

Here and there

My worst was my 1st with a single lady. Had spoke on phone etc.

Knocked on door she opened it she fell into my arms I know am good

but even that suprised me.

She was pissed as fart could not stand up she fell on settee said lets fuck.

Alarm bells ringing in head if i fucked her and she had moment of clarity and wonder wtf i could be charged with sex againt wishes i had not taken my coat off.

Told her no thanks but not in state she was. Some may have took chance but my standards and moral compass more important it put me fab for ages well ok few days

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