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By *uicybbw OP Woman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Ok so when you take a woman from behind...do you always smell shitty dirty arse smells?

I’m with a guy and have been for seven months.

We are both almost 50

We have only had sex in missionary or rarely he lets me ride him.

He’s never given me oral although I’m not overly a lover of it I would like the intimacy of it between two people who love each other.

He claims he hates it doggy because he can always smell if a woman has farted hours ago or had a crap since showering etc

In all my years I’ve never heard this.

He won’t do oral because he had a smelly woman once twenty years ago.

His marriage broke down through sex snd I’m sure his last relationship did.

He’s so closed minded he doesn’t even like me moving and getting into the rhythm during sex and has told me to stay still.

He’s never cum in me says he rarely has in a woman

He has to use viagra or it’s six strokes and out.

He’s never tried these things with me snd he knows I regularly shower and always before Sex in the hope of something exciting.

I love him but wtf

He claims he finds me attractive etc...he’s never even looked closely at me intimately

Only just started doing some finger play and then he acts like his hand is contaminated

These are massive hang ups yes...how do we get over this? I’m yearning for a slightly more exciting sex life.

He thinks I have sex habit issues because I want to make love more than once in a three night weekend.

Sorry I got carried away but men do you smell women in that way? I don’t even want anal as I know that’s a major no no never ever!!

What’s a girl to do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, it sounds like the two of you are just sexually incompatible and he might have some issues to work through re: germs etc.

If I were in your shoes I'd probably end the relationship.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

See ya. There's the door...

He has way to many hang ups and your no shrink..

Time to step out of the cloud and enjoy the sunshine «snaps fingers in a bitch like hollywood fashion»

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By *xTwo4FunTimesxXCouple
over a year ago

chester

Sounds like a girl needs to move on xx

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By *eductiveEyesKillerThighsWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere & Everywhere

To put it bluntly... Hes a fucking knob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the issue are with him and definitely not you. Dosent sound like your sexual needs match and in the lond run this can't work out.

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By *uicybbw OP Woman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Thing is we have fun and laughs in other ways

He’s a sweet lovely guy and I’ve had a history of major narcissistic Abusive men.

I know in every way he’s a nice guy.

He accepts my past and accepts my disabled special needs boy even though he’s never had kids.

Do women smell from behind or is it an excuse?

He’s not overly sexually experienced

However I’ve had less experienced do a way better job in bed

I also worry well I’m going through menopause and worry what if I go off the boil like half the wives of the men in here and go off it...least it won’t be an issue for him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How short is he if he's close to smell. It's an excuse!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

If they haven't cleaned then yes it can smell, but in my experience even a freshly showered bum will small musty and have a natural bum scent within minutes which is different to shit.

Bacterial Vaginosis can be off putting smell wise, but I would think you would be aware of this.

Women, like men, have natural pheromones and scents which are separate to pee and poo. It sounds like he has a lot of hang ups, and you need to decide if the positives are worth putting up with the negatives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys a fool can tell if farted hours ago lol fart in his face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a real twat to me tbh

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