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"You seem like a nice couple from your profile and pics" Thank you. We are. Lol xxxx | |||
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"We know there has been a little bug doing the rounds lately but! We just want to reassure the Single Males amongst you that it’s not only you who have trouble engaging with folk. Us couples are suffering the same plight. Messages deleted without being read etc. It’s harder when you need 4 way attraction but wowzers. It’s like walking through treacle at the moment. Mrs DH. Xxxxxxxxxx " We have had and are still facing the same difficulties, Like yourselves we realise 4 way attraction is difficult, we get a wink send one back and the next thing we are blocked starting to find it very confusing indeed x Storm x | |||
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"We know there has been a little bug doing the rounds lately but! We just want to reassure the Single Males amongst you that it’s not only you who have trouble engaging with folk. Us couples are suffering the same plight. Messages deleted without being read etc. It’s harder when you need 4 way attraction but wowzers. It’s like walking through treacle at the moment. Mrs DH. Xxxxxxxxxx " God knows why you look really nice couple and what sane person could resist  | |||
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"We know there has been a little bug doing the rounds lately but! We just want to reassure the Single Males amongst you that it’s not only you who have trouble engaging with folk. Us couples are suffering the same plight. Messages deleted without being read etc. It’s harder when you need 4 way attraction but wowzers. It’s like walking through treacle at the moment. Mrs DH. Xxxxxxxxxx "  I don’t believe you | |||
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"We know there has been a little bug doing the rounds lately but! We just want to reassure the Single Males amongst you that it’s not only you who have trouble engaging with folk. Us couples are suffering the same plight. Messages deleted without being read etc. It’s harder when you need 4 way attraction but wowzers. It’s like walking through treacle at the moment. Mrs DH. Xxxxxxxxxx We have had and are still facing the same difficulties, Like yourselves we realise 4 way attraction is difficult, we get a wink send one back and the next thing we are blocked starting to find it very confusing indeed x Storm x" Did you want profile advice? Can't give it unless it's asked for, of course! | |||
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"It doesn't have to be 4 way attraction. The women should always take one for the team. That's why many couples only have pics of the woman. "It's SO CHUFFING BACKWARDS! The wives are generally... generally... the easy bit, they're the ones who DON'T usually need photos! | |||
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"We think it is even harder to find couples if you are a bi couple . Sometimes we think it's better to meet at a club on a set night and if you click you can take it from there or go to private house parties " Yes it is. Mr is only lightly Bi but being honest is what we are about so don’t hide it. We would love to build up a circle of naughty friends. Love the idea of house parties etc. We used clubs a lot but found it hard to infiltrate the cliques and the Group Rooms were just couples lined up playing with each other and maybe just a quick grope. Not the kind of thing we are looking for. We are sure it wasn’t this hard 10 years ago lol xxxxx | |||
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"It doesn't have to be 4 way attraction. The women should always take one for the team. That's why many couples only have pics of the woman.
It's SO CHUFFING BACKWARDS! The wives are generally... generally... the easy bit, they're the ones who DON'T usually need photos!"The wives are easy. As if | |||
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"We know there has been a little bug doing the rounds lately but! We just want to reassure the Single Males amongst you that it’s not only you who have trouble engaging with folk. Us couples are suffering the same plight. Messages deleted without being read etc. It’s harder when you need 4 way attraction but wowzers. It’s like walking through treacle at the moment. Mrs DH. Xxxxxxxxxx We have had and are still facing the same difficulties, Like yourselves we realise 4 way attraction is difficult, we get a wink send one back and the next thing we are blocked starting to find it very confusing indeed x Storm x" Wow..... not the reaction you'd get from me! | |||
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"We think it is even harder to find couples if you are a bi couple . Sometimes we think it's better to meet at a club on a set night and if you click you can take it from there or go to private house parties Yes it is. Mr is only lightly Bi but being honest is what we are about so don’t hide it. We would love to build up a circle of naughty friends. Love the idea of house parties etc. We used clubs a lot but found it hard to infiltrate the cliques and the Group Rooms were just couples lined up playing with each other and maybe just a quick grope. Not the kind of thing we are looking for. We are sure it wasn’t this hard 10 years ago lol xxxxx" Search for couples 'where both are bi'. Think it's the advanced search. Great way to find bi couples and sort a small bi party. Then if you have 3+ couples it's easier for people to swap around and find a match. We find couples we like then everyone swaps details so we can all chat before the party. | |||
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"It's really tough to find a nice couple The dynamics of all getting on is tough Throw the bi lady into the mix , and tue fact that we like to kiss , and suddenly you are in a world of hassles Lots of couples seem to have something going on between them We don't do drama , we just do fun lol X " Agreed. We are the same. We love kissing. Full swap etc. The only thing we won’t do is separate room. Hands. Fingers. Tongues. Cocks. Pussy. Yum yum. Just enjoying others bodies xxxx | |||
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"We know there has been a little bug doing the rounds lately but! We just want to reassure the Single Males amongst you that it’s not only you who have trouble engaging with folk. Us couples are suffering the same plight. Messages deleted without being read etc. It’s harder when you need 4 way attraction but wowzers. It’s like walking through treacle at the moment. Mrs DH. Xxxxxxxxxx We have had and are still facing the same difficulties, Like yourselves we realise 4 way attraction is difficult, we get a wink send one back and the next thing we are blocked starting to find it very confusing indeed x Storm x" What can happen is that one half of the couple likes what they see and sends a wink, and the other half doesn’t like what they see and blocks so that an awkward conversation doesn’t have to be had about why they’re not interested when they winked first. | |||
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"The women can have that trouble too! Maybe get as far as swapping a few messages then get left hanging in the inbox as they have already spotted the next victim as they have the attention span of a fish haha " Totally agree. You are as only as good til something better comes along. Then the messages stop. | |||
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"The women can have that trouble too! Maybe get as far as swapping a few messages then get left hanging in the inbox as they have already spotted the next victim as they have the attention span of a fish haha Totally agree. You are as only as good til something better comes along. Then the messages stop. " This ^^ | |||
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"I have a single woman’s profile and a couples one. It’s the same on both. I can’t wait for clubs to open properly, it’s much easier to meet in clubs xx" We love clubs but as mentioned before, there seems to be very little swapping going on unless you’re in the in crowd. We try to chat but the defensive circle gets tighter lol. We think the dynamic has changed considerably in recent years. Maybe because it’s gone more mainstream? Anyway. Whatever you get up to this weekend have a fun but safe time xxxxx Our quest continues  xxxxxxxx | |||
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"I have a single woman’s profile and a couples one. It’s the same on both. I can’t wait for clubs to open properly, it’s much easier to meet in clubs xx We love clubs but as mentioned before, there seems to be very little swapping going on unless you’re in the in crowd. We try to chat but the defensive circle gets tighter lol. We think the dynamic has changed considerably in recent years. Maybe because it’s gone more mainstream? Anyway. Whatever you get up to this weekend have a fun but safe time xxxxx Our quest continues xxxxxxxx"I’ve never found that apart from in one club, the others have been very inclusive x | |||
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"I have a single woman’s profile and a couples one. It’s the same on both. I can’t wait for clubs to open properly, it’s much easier to meet in clubs xx We love clubs but as mentioned before, there seems to be very little swapping going on unless you’re in the in crowd. We try to chat but the defensive circle gets tighter lol. We think the dynamic has changed considerably in recent years. Maybe because it’s gone more mainstream? Anyway. Whatever you get up to this weekend have a fun but safe time xxxxx Our quest continues xxxxxxxx
I’ve never found that apart from in one club, the others have been very inclusive x"As a single woman? Xx | |||
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"I have a single woman’s profile and a couples one. It’s the same on both. I can’t wait for clubs to open properly, it’s much easier to meet in clubs xx We love clubs but as mentioned before, there seems to be very little swapping going on unless you’re in the in crowd. We try to chat but the defensive circle gets tighter lol. We think the dynamic has changed considerably in recent years. Maybe because it’s gone more mainstream? Anyway. Whatever you get up to this weekend have a fun but safe time xxxxx Our quest continues xxxxxxxx
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As a single woman? Xx"Or a couple, although I’m quite chatty so will introduce myself fairly confidently x | |||
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"Without pointing any rule breaking fingers... Again... WHERE ARE THE PICTURES OF THE HUSBANDS? I struggle to see how any couple can feel its OK to complain about their lack of success despite so much effort messaging when there are no useful pictures of the man in their galleries. Of course you're going to "waste time" if there are no pictures directly available to others before messaging. How else are others going to know if it's a miss without messaging if there's no photos?" Are you on about full face photos on public display? X | |||
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"We know there has been a little bug doing the rounds lately but! We just want to reassure the Single Males amongst you that it’s not only you who have trouble engaging with folk. Us couples are suffering the same plight. Messages deleted without being read etc. It’s harder when you need 4 way attraction but wowzers. It’s like walking through treacle at the moment. Mrs DH. Xxxxxxxxxx " Why are you surprised..?? Who on Earth wouod want to meet a couple who were both born with identical black birthmarks right across their faces..?!?!
Damned shame I’m not part of a couple or I wouod be around to see you both soonest..lol
I’m sure you’re now going to be swamped with messages and that treacle-type substance will disappear almost immediately
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"We know there has been a little bug doing the rounds lately but! We just want to reassure the Single Males amongst you that it’s not only you who have trouble engaging with folk. Us couples are suffering the same plight. Messages deleted without being read etc. Lock downs hasnt seemed to help ...rude folk about...nice to be nice ...we think ..X It’s harder when you need 4 way attraction but wowzers. It’s like walking through treacle at the moment. Mrs DH. Xxxxxxxxxx " | |||
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We're lucky to have found some of them!
Keep searching, you look like a lovely couple
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"Without pointing any rule breaking fingers... Again... WHERE ARE THE PICTURES OF THE HUSBANDS? I struggle to see how any couple can feel its OK to complain about their lack of success despite so much effort messaging when there are no useful pictures of the man in their galleries. Of course you're going to "waste time" if there are no pictures directly available to others before messaging. How else are others going to know if it's a miss without messaging if there's no photos? Are you on about full face photos on public display? X" Nope, not at all. | |||
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"It doesn't have to be 4 way attraction. The women should always take one for the team. That's why many couples only have pics of the woman.
It's SO CHUFFING BACKWARDS! The wives are generally... generally... the easy bit, they're the ones who DON'T usually need photos!
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" Are you on about full face photos on public display? X Nope, not at all. " But to add to this, you can clearly see our face pics. As such we have a far better success rate. Even if that means far... FAR... fewer initial messages. | |||
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"It doesn't have to be 4 way attraction. The women should always take one for the team. That's why many couples only have pics of the woman.
It's SO CHUFFING BACKWARDS! The wives are generally... generally... the easy bit, they're the ones who DON'T usually need photos!
The wives are easy. As if
That must be a joke..it has to be.."Which bit? For clarity I mean the wives are almost always "better" looking than the husbands. | |||
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"We know there has been a little bug doing the rounds lately but! We just want to reassure the Single Males amongst you that it’s not only you who have trouble engaging with folk. Us couples are suffering the same plight. Messages deleted without being read etc. It’s harder when you need 4 way attraction but wowzers. It’s like walking through treacle at the moment. Mrs DH. Xxxxxxxxxx We totally agree xx " | |||
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"Without pointing any rule breaking fingers... Again... WHERE ARE THE PICTURES OF THE HUSBANDS? I struggle to see how any couple can feel its OK to complain about their lack of success despite so much effort messaging when there are no useful pictures of the man in their galleries. Of course you're going to "waste time" if there are no pictures directly available to others before messaging. How else are others going to know if it's a miss without messaging if there's no photos?" When you say useful photos, how do you mean? Ones that show their face or body shots? You hear on here often that M doesn't want or like having pics taken but times I've looked for couples I do get put off if no pics of M or ones that just show his hand on her ass cheek or something. | |||
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" Are you on about full face photos on public display? X Nope, not at all. But to add to this, you can clearly see our face pics. As such we have a far better success rate. Even if that means far... FAR... fewer initial messages. " Having clear face pics will help. We will send them after a couple of messages. If people say no after that then so be it. We move on. No hard feelings. Thanks to everyone who has posted. There are reasons we didn’t think of as to why we are finding it difficult but now know. Xxx | |||
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"Without pointing any rule breaking fingers... Again... WHERE ARE THE PICTURES OF THE HUSBANDS? I struggle to see how any couple can feel its OK to complain about their lack of success despite so much effort messaging when there are no useful pictures of the man in their galleries. Of course you're going to "waste time" if there are no pictures directly available to others before messaging. How else are others going to know if it's a miss without messaging if there's no photos? When you say useful photos, how do you mean? Ones that show their face or body shots? You hear on here often that M doesn't want or like having pics taken but times I've looked for couples I do get put off if no pics of M or ones that just show his hand on her ass cheek or something. " As a starting point, just broadly equal to whatever there is of her. Not necessarily in quantity, but filling the rest of that annoying phrase... definitely the qualtiy. | |||
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"It doesn't have to be 4 way attraction. The women should always take one for the team. That's why many couples only have pics of the woman.
It's SO CHUFFING BACKWARDS! The wives are generally... generally... the easy bit, they're the ones who DON'T usually need photos!
The wives are easy. As if
That must be a joke..it has to be..
Which bit? For clarity I mean the wives are almost always "better" looking than the husbands. "My mind just read we should take one for the team and sleep with anything...I've read it again now .. | |||
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"Without pointing any rule breaking fingers... Again... WHERE ARE THE PICTURES OF THE HUSBANDS? I struggle to see how any couple can feel its OK to complain about their lack of success despite so much effort messaging when there are no useful pictures of the man in their galleries. Of course you're going to "waste time" if there are no pictures directly available to others before messaging. How else are others going to know if it's a miss without messaging if there's no photos? When you say useful photos, how do you mean? Ones that show their face or body shots? You hear on here often that M doesn't want or like having pics taken but times I've looked for couples I do get put off if no pics of M or ones that just show his hand on her ass cheek or something. As a starting point, just broadly equal to whatever there is of her. Not necessarily in quantity, but filling the rest of that annoying phrase... definitely the qualtiy." Can you explain? Or are we being thick? Sorry xx | |||
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"Without pointing any rule breaking fingers... Again... WHERE ARE THE PICTURES OF THE HUSBANDS? I struggle to see how any couple can feel its OK to complain about their lack of success despite so much effort messaging when there are no useful pictures of the man in their galleries. Of course you're going to "waste time" if there are no pictures directly available to others before messaging. How else are others going to know if it's a miss without messaging if there's no photos? When you say useful photos, how do you mean? Ones that show their face or body shots? You hear on here often that M doesn't want or like having pics taken but times I've looked for couples I do get put off if no pics of M or ones that just show his hand on her ass cheek or something. As a starting point, just broadly equal to whatever there is of her. Not necessarily in quantity, but filling the rest of that annoying phrase... definitely the qualtiy. Can you explain? Or are we being thick? Sorry xx" I may have started on the friday wine... Well personally, I think your photos are great. My comments aren't aimed towards you. Other couples though, just have NO pictures of the men. That's "fine" whatever that means, but for many other couples, it doesn't sit well, and leads to some presumptions that the man looks like the wrong end of a donkey. | |||
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"Without pointing any rule breaking fingers... Again... WHERE ARE THE PICTURES OF THE HUSBANDS? I struggle to see how any couple can feel its OK to complain about their lack of success despite so much effort messaging when there are no useful pictures of the man in their galleries. Of course you're going to "waste time" if there are no pictures directly available to others before messaging. How else are others going to know if it's a miss without messaging if there's no photos? When you say useful photos, how do you mean? Ones that show their face or body shots? You hear on here often that M doesn't want or like having pics taken but times I've looked for couples I do get put off if no pics of M or ones that just show his hand on her ass cheek or something. As a starting point, just broadly equal to whatever there is of her. Not necessarily in quantity, but filling the rest of that annoying phrase... definitely the qualtiy. Can you explain? Or are we being thick? Sorry xx" Basically, for me, I think it's good to hsve an nice balanced mix of pics of both M&F on a couples profile, as a single women if meeting a couple then I'm meeting you both so woukd want to pics of both included in the photos.. but that's what I'd be looking for, up to people what they do. | |||
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"Without pointing any rule breaking fingers... Again... WHERE ARE THE PICTURES OF THE HUSBANDS? I struggle to see how any couple can feel its OK to complain about their lack of success despite so much effort messaging when there are no useful pictures of the man in their galleries. Of course you're going to "waste time" if there are no pictures directly available to others before messaging. How else are others going to know if it's a miss without messaging if there's no photos? When you say useful photos, how do you mean? Ones that show their face or body shots? You hear on here often that M doesn't want or like having pics taken but times I've looked for couples I do get put off if no pics of M or ones that just show his hand on her ass cheek or something. As a starting point, just broadly equal to whatever there is of her. Not necessarily in quantity, but filling the rest of that annoying phrase... definitely the qualtiy. Can you explain? Or are we being thick? Sorry xx I may have started on the friday wine... Well personally, I think your photos are great. My comments aren't aimed towards you. Other couples though, just have NO pictures of the men. That's "fine" whatever that means, but for many other couples, it doesn't sit well, and leads to some presumptions that the man looks like the wrong end of a donkey." No offence taken at all lol. Just couldn’t understand what you were trying to say lol Xx | |||
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"Without pointing any rule breaking fingers... Again... WHERE ARE THE PICTURES OF THE HUSBANDS? I struggle to see how any couple can feel its OK to complain about their lack of success despite so much effort messaging when there are no useful pictures of the man in their galleries. Of course you're going to "waste time" if there are no pictures directly available to others before messaging. How else are others going to know if it's a miss without messaging if there's no photos? When you say useful photos, how do you mean? Ones that show their face or body shots? You hear on here often that M doesn't want or like having pics taken but times I've looked for couples I do get put off if no pics of M or ones that just show his hand on her ass cheek or something. As a starting point, just broadly equal to whatever there is of her. Not necessarily in quantity, but filling the rest of that annoying phrase... definitely the qualtiy. Can you explain? Or are we being thick? Sorry xx I may have started on the friday wine... Well personally, I think your photos are great. My comments aren't aimed towards you. Other couples though, just have NO pictures of the men. That's "fine" whatever that means, but for many other couples, it doesn't sit well, and leads to some presumptions that the man looks like the wrong end of a donkey." No offence taken at all lol. Just couldn’t understand what you were trying to say lol Xx | |||
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"Is it a 4 way attraction problem? Or the women attracted to the men problem? When I've been in clubs coupled up and we've got talking to other couples 99% of the time im well up for a play, and then normally the girl/woman I'm with whispers 'i don't fancy him' well because like someone else has said most look like the the back end of a donkey (not me tho I'm like 8/9-10 )"I think 4-way is generally a nice way of saying it. But I think it's an interesting subject... It must be true that in a healthy relationship, it *should* be the case that the woman says no. For better or worse, society judges a woman's appeal as much more visual than men. Women are taught to look for protectors, providers etc. Attributes that come from a much more advanced personal relationship that mere looks. There's healthy and unhealthy versions of all these things, but ultimately it's reasonable that a lot more is likely to be missing for men than women when they are being assessed for short term play, rather than committed relationships. | |||
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"We know there has been a little bug doing the rounds lately but! We just want to reassure the Single Males amongst you that it’s not only you who have trouble engaging with folk. Us couples are suffering the same plight. Messages deleted without being read etc. It’s harder when you need 4 way attraction but wowzers. It’s like walking through treacle at the moment. Mrs DH. Xxxxxxxxxx " Yeah it’s normal just brush it off smile and be happy the bonus of being a couple though is you still have each other no matter what the single guys just have themselves  | |||
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"Without pointing any rule breaking fingers... Again... WHERE ARE THE PICTURES OF THE HUSBANDS? I struggle to see how any couple can feel its OK to complain about their lack of success despite so much effort messaging when there are no useful pictures of the man in their galleries. Of course you're going to "waste time" if there are no pictures directly available to others before messaging. How else are others going to know if it's a miss without messaging if there's no photos?" nobody has to put a face pic on there profiles ... we do all our face pics private but then as said we only meet couples at clubs only on here for guys | |||
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"Yep it's the everyone finding each other attractive is the hardest thing. Then finding a bi lady that is really bi and not just playing to please her OH. " I'd love to think this scenario is a myth, but sadly personal experience says otherwise. | |||
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"Totally agree, it’s almost impossible to get a conversation with a genuine couple and utterly impossible to get to meet for a chat over a coffee The site is filled with fakes, frauds and dreamers at the moment " Yup that’s always the case though and has been for years and years there’s always fakes so get on phone or video chat early on before you waste your time if there serious and real they won’t hold back x | |||
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"Totally agree, it’s almost impossible to get a conversation with a genuine couple and utterly impossible to get to meet for a chat over a coffee The site is filled with fakes, frauds and dreamers at the moment Yup that’s always the case though and has been for years and years there’s always fakes so get on phone or video chat early on before you waste your time if there serious and real they won’t hold back x"
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"Yep it's the everyone finding each other attractive is the hardest thing. Then finding a bi lady that is really bi and not just playing to please her OH. I'd love to think this scenario is a myth, but sadly personal experience says otherwise. " Its definitely real, it's like we are the entertainment, warm up act before the main event. I've had women cry on me telling me they are not bi or drinking so much they don't know what's going on. | |||
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"We struggle to find couples that are close, most we have met seem miles away, it’s a struggle as we feel we have missed more fun meets because of distance. Lily " Certainly spoken to lots of new couples who think they'll be able to happily stay within their county boundary! Do wonder what role Fabs coders have to play in this all though tbh... It *could* be do muvh better if there was the will to improve the site! | |||
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"Yep it's the everyone finding each other attractive is the hardest thing. Then finding a bi lady that is really bi and not just playing to please her OH. I'd love to think this scenario is a myth, but sadly personal experience says otherwise. Its definitely real, it's like we are the entertainment, warm up act before the main event. I've had women cry on me telling me they are not bi or drinking so much they don't know what's going on. " I agree it's a real issue. I had a woman say afterwards that she wasn't into women at all but only did it so that her man could watch her with another woman. Some women really need to think hard about what they are doing. It's disgraceful behaviour. Mrs | |||
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"Yep it's the everyone finding each other attractive is the hardest thing. Then finding a bi lady that is really bi and not just playing to please her OH. I'd love to think this scenario is a myth, but sadly personal experience says otherwise. Its definitely real, it's like we are the entertainment, warm up act before the main event. I've had women cry on me telling me they are not bi or drinking so much they don't know what's going on. I agree it's a real issue. I had a woman say afterwards that she wasn't into women at all but only did it so that her man could watch her with another woman. Some women really need to think hard about what they are doing. It's disgraceful behaviour. Mrs" | |||
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"It's definitely harder because we're looking for 4 people to gel, out the fake couples, and it becomes harder again. " Cant disagree with that! | |||
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"We know there has been a little bug doing the rounds lately but! We just want to reassure the Single Males amongst you that it’s not only you who have trouble engaging with folk. Us couples are suffering the same plight. Messages deleted without being read etc. It’s harder when you need 4 way attraction but wowzers. It’s like walking through treacle at the moment. Mrs DH. Xxxxxxxxxx " | |||
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"We can completely relate to what you have wrote here OP. It’s hard work at the moment. We have met some lovely people from fab pre covid but lately we’re personally finding it’s impossible to even get chatting to anybody. The site is becoming flooded with fake profiles, time wasters or people so far up their own arse they can’t find the time to come back down and communicate like any normal civil human. " So true ! | |||
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Does seem to be getting harder to even strike up conversations though. We get some winks,messages etc and it goes somewhere for a bit then just dies a death. Cynicism is starting to grip to the point that we are now doubting that any profile that we interact with isn't what they say they are. Sad state of affairs really as this was a great site when we first joined. It's being wasted now by the fakes,dreamers and OF/Snapchat profiles. | |||
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