FabSwingers.com forum: When did you realise you are kinky?

By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

when did you findout you are kinky and have a penchant for BDSM?

In my case, when I was at uni, I worked in a pizza place to make ends meet. The lady boss and i soon had a thing and she used to ask me to spank her and pull her hair while intimate.

at the beginning, I was surprised but gradually I started to enjoy it. The rest is History.

Do share please!

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

When Sam spat on my face and I got wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i was 25ish.. just out of an horrific marriage, and finding out who i really am and what i like, with nothing holding me back. turns out i'd be surpressed for far too long

that's all you're getting.. i don't want a forum ban for revealing details

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"When Sam spat on my face and I got wet

How did you feel?

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"when i was 25ish.. just out of an horrific marriage, and finding out who i really am and what i like, with nothing holding me back. turns out i'd be surpressed for far too long

that's all you're getting.. i don't want a forum ban for revealing details

Px "

I understand

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

Try not to be too graphic please!

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"When Sam spat on my face and I got wet

How did you feel?"

Determined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was asked to put on my first hood. Was an amazing thing to wear and I felt a change then and have never looked back. The kinkier the better now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seen a few pictures of readers wives in those magazines that used to line the top shelf.

Immediately interested and never looked back

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"When Sam spat on my face and I got wet

How did you feel?

Determined

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

4yrs old was the first inclination that was different. Would wrap myself up in my sister's rubber bed sheet...found fetish magazines when I was 16. Spent most of my wages on rubber and bdsm magazines . Found fetish events and clubs at 26. Never looked back...

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
over a year ago

Somerset

"when did you findout you are kinky and have a penchant for BDSM?

In my case, when I was at uni, I worked in a pizza place to make ends meet. The lady boss and i soon had a thing and she used to ask me to spank her and pull her hair while intimate.

at the beginning, I was surprised but gradually I started to enjoy it. The rest is History.

Do share please!"

When I was 19 and a one night stand asked me to tie up and fuck her _mongst other things. We saw each other for a while on and off after that. It was a bit of a revelation that real life smart independent women can choose to do things for sexual pleasure that many would frown on and say only happen in men’s fantasies and it was ok to enjoy the journey with them.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"when did you findout you are kinky and have a penchant for BDSM?

In my case, when I was at uni, I worked in a pizza place to make ends meet. The lady boss and i soon had a thing and she used to ask me to spank her and pull her hair while intimate.

at the beginning, I was surprised but gradually I started to enjoy it. The rest is History.

Do share please!

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

When I was about 18, never been fully able to express a lot of it though

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

I was 40 when I discovered BDSM was an actual thing. Before then I'd just thought I was exceptionally broadminded. It changed my life in that suddenly I understood who I was and why I did the things I did. It was a bit of an epiphany.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I was 40 when I discovered BDSM was an actual thing. Before then I'd just thought I was exceptionally broadminded. It changed my life in that suddenly I understood who I was and why I did the things I did. It was a bit of an epiphany. "

wonderful

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

When I split with my ex and had the freedom to explore. Got chatting with a bi femme sub online and decided to look into it and I’ve never looked back. I was late 50s. Had a thing about spanking etc when I was much younger but never thought anything about it.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

I think I've always been aware of my tendancies, but never had a partner interested enough to explore with.

Separation from my wife gave me that opportunity. So quite late in life to finally access that side of my sexuality.

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By *illingVicMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Too early to say in a moderated public forum, but after the awakening of my fledgling sexuality. I was at an after-party for a show I’d been in and I was desperately trying to chat up/dance with one particular girl.

All of a sudden this other girl, about a year older than me, appeared out of nowhere, apparently having taken a liking to me. She was, as the kids say, hench - broad shouldered and muscular. She physically picked me up and took me to a corner to...snuggle

Needless to say I was instant putty and ever more enjoyed submissive leanings.

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By *oner HornCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

(Mr) had a school friend (18) I used to mess about with. He had issues with his sexuality so he'd verbally humiliate me and piss on me.

For him, I think, he just couldn't handle playing with a guy... i nearly stopped it because of the not very healthy context...but it turned out I liked it too much.

Wouldn't do that now though...have learned that respect for youreslf and your partner is too important. (BDSM is about trust innit?)

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By *ilk and all things niceTV/TS
over a year ago

secret bunker

I remember but hard to say in public

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By *N72TV/TS
over a year ago

Cork

"I remember but hard to say in public "

Lol I know what you mean!

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By *unisher999Man
over a year ago

Salford

when reading specific posts on reddit made me cum more than normal porn

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"(Mr) had a school friend (18) I used to mess about with. He had issues with his sexuality so he'd verbally humiliate me and piss on me.

For him, I think, he just couldn't handle playing with a guy... i nearly stopped it because of the not very healthy context...but it turned out I liked it too much.

Wouldn't do that now though...have learned that respect for youreslf and your partner is too

important. (BDSM is about trust innit?)"

It is crucial

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By *moMan
over a year ago

Salford

When I was 17, I met my friends aunty on a public bike track, within minutes she was sucking my cock whilst people were riding past.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"When I was 17, I met my friends aunty on a public bike track, within minutes she was sucking my cock whilst people were riding past. "

wow

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By *ilberryMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

A watching brief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was studying A levels so like 17 ish and me and my boyfriend went on a camping trip with my friend and her boyfriend we all ahd a few drinks and I decided to instigate a foursum haha... That was followed by a wild couple of years before I settled down and had kids and a very vanilla relationship, when that ended a few years ago I decided to just go back to being a bit wild

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my late teens at uni, I bought my girlfriend a book of erotic short stories as one if her birthday presents. There were two bdsm stories and they helped me realise that maybe my thoughts wernt odd. Maybe I wasnt strange after all.....well not completely strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I got to university and everyone was just wild on sexual ideas, life changed for the better afterwards!

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I was studying A levels so like 17 ish and me and my boyfriend went on a camping trip with my friend and her boyfriend we all ahd a few drinks and I decided to instigate a foursum haha... That was followed by a wild couple of years before I settled down and had kids and a very vanilla relationship, when that ended a few years ago I decided to just go back to being a bit wild "

Thank you for sharing

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

At age 15.

I found that sexual pleasure could be obtained elsewhere.

I sometimes cringe at what I did in that bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby here. When in one of my early relationships she bought a realistic big cock dildo. When it arrived in the post we were both amazed how realistic it looked and felt but also that it was fucking huge! I remember how turned on I was soon as I saw it. She put it away saying she was not sure and it was way too big. I purposely didn't ever mention it even though I couldn't stop getting turned on thinking about seeing her take it. Then one night, after long sex session, she got up from bed and fetched it. I was so turned on. It felt wild. We'd fucked but she wanted this big cock still. And I'd just kinda prepped her pussy for it. No internet then so didn't know about Hotwives or Cucks etc.. I suppose the only swinging dynamic was the keys in a bowl wife swapping parties. I didn't know why the idea of this big cock dildo going into my Mrs was turning me on so much. And for her to decide to use it, her choice, her power, and after I'd fucked her was incredible. She held it and laughed about its size and then told me to hold me hand out and she slapped it into my palm and said feel the weight of that! I could of fainted with excitement. She struggled at first and I didn't want it to hurt or not be a joy so I kinda said don't worry. Then she shocked me, stopped laughing and said no I fucking want it. She told me my cum inside her was lubing it for her. And I remember in perfect detail that she got really wet as she took it all and I sat watching, mouth dry, dick hard. I asked if she liked it as it made squelching sounds as she put it all in and out and she looked up at me and said in a strained voice, "It's Huge" . And it was the first time that I ever cum without touching my dick. I just spurted instantly watching her when she said that....

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Tv and fetish contact mags in the early 90's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define kinky, are we only talking about BDSM? Not my thing but i've always had a desire to put my tongue in an ass and eat pussy with cum in it. I've only found one person in my life who has been up for letting me do that, not easy to find those kind of people.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Tv and fetish contact mags in the early 90's"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and the wife got together young she was 16 I was 17 we married at 18 and 19 had kids very young and felt we never really got to explore sexually the things you hear about when your a young teen we were both securely inexperienced aswell so we discussed some of the things we wanted to try and indulge each other fantasies we've been on here ever since xx

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Me and the wife got together young she was 16 I was 17 we married at 18 and 19 had kids very young and felt we never really got to explore sexually the things you hear about when your a young teen we were both securely inexperienced aswell so we discussed some of the things we wanted to try and indulge each other fantasies we've been on here ever since

xx"

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

It was at school. A gang of girls used to home into the history room at lunch time when I was doing my home work and sort of humiliate me. I used to fantise being striped put over each of their knees and spanked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 21, I had got married young and had just left my husband who was violent. I didn’t want a relationship and met a older guy who became my best friend, fwb and eventually Dom. He helped me explore my sexuality and helped me gain confidence in myself again, he took me to both swingers and fetish clubs and really let me explore my way.

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

When I was about 19 and tried to put a candle up my bum. BDSM, came years later when I stumbled across chastity in porn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I pissed all over an ex mine

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I was 21, I had got married young and had just left my husband who was violent. I didn’t want a relationship and met a older guy who became my best friend, fwb and eventually Dom. He helped me explore my sexuality and helped me gain confidence in myself again, he took me to both swingers and fetish clubs and really let me explore my way. "

Thank you for sharing

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By *ragon ArmMan
over a year ago

here there and everywhere

I have been a Dom for the best part of 30 years

I have worked as a Dugeon master at clubs and hsve been the House Dom

And I have seen many weird and wonderful things In my time but many people are put off or scared of this side of my life so I have only eluded to it in my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found out I was quite kinky in my late teens. I lost my virginity to a much older lady who introduced me to many kinky and erotic forms of sex.

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By *as_no_ideaWoman
over a year ago

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I was introduced to the kinky lifestyle in my 30's, and haven't looked back since.

However, maybe I should have had an inkling I was kinky when I purchased my first pair of thigh boots at 17 years of age.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I was introduced to the kinky lifestyle in my 30's, and haven't looked back since.

However, maybe I should have had an inkling I was kinky when I purchased my first pair of thigh boots at 17 years of age."

precocious?

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