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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thanks for the info .. i know it seems them stupid inconsiderate ****s (sorry for my language) have ruined for genuine single guys such as myself.
so is there any in particular i should put ?"
no ones ruined it for anyone mate, if you think like that then you join the pack of guys who cant get regular meets
the main areas your profile is lacking that will hold you back are these
cannot accomodate - this will kill at least 50%+ of possible meets, as half would be at your place, half the rest, the figure though is probally much higher than 50% because some will assume you cant accom coz you got a girlfriend/wife and others will think well if you wont accomodate why should i? (even if they want to accomodate in the first place)
photos, you need good photos, sending face pics over messages is good, but you should have them on your profile - reason why is because most people dont read messages first, they read profiles first, so if the pictures arnt on there and all they see is an annoymous cock then thats all they see you as an annoymous cock and they will probs not read your message as they will get the impression that your "like the rest of them"
good mix of public photos will always help you get meets, women are attracted to more than the cock, that photo is the icing on the cake on your profile,
but the public facepic and body shots is the actual cake - not many people are interested in just eating icing are they! people want to see what they are getting before they start chatting and wasting each others time, if you dont show it then you aint giving them much reason to open your message when they are many other guys who do have it all on show
no verfications wont help you, but its something that will be overcum with improovements to your profile etc - if you struggle to get meets to start it off, can get webcam ones from chat and also goto socials or clubs or try to get a party invite and you will get a small bulk from various people on the site if you socialise and find out if they on here as most will be happy to give you verification after meeting if they like you
also your profiles very negative, makes you seem like a negative person, your probally not and someone being ignorant or off with you on here might just put you in the mood to write it at the time, but that as well will put more people off as no one wants to meet with someone whos moody
profiles are to talk about you and give a short insight into your personality, and show what you look like to create some attraction (if u dont get people thinking phroar i want some of that and your a decent looking guy then your profile is selling you short!)
women need that desire and level of attractiveness much more than men, and profiles without much positive on them and just showing your cock just come accross as a dirty and pervy man, instantly tarred with the same as the rest of them brush
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I don't believe what I'm reading on this forum,this is supposed to be a swinging site where consenting adults are looking for sex and not correcting someone's grammar,etc and all that nonsense ...there are plenty of sites for that
Don't get me wrong it's attractive being articulate but come on people lighten up a bit 
