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What's changed your sex life more adventurous?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We all on here because we have or want a more adventurous sex life...... I what changed you what brought you to this point ?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Leaving my husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in an abusive relationship for like 13 years... Met when I was 17 and stayed till I was 30 so when I left I just decided I wanted to live for me and please myself a bit, catch up on lost time and finally start enjoying life a bit... Figured I'd have a few months of fun and meet somome butt a few years later I'm still here and not ready to settle back down... Fab life is kinda addictive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Similar to above ^^^

Domestic abuse

..trapped n controlled.

I escaped

Found freedom and liberation..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stuck in rut so moved 60miles away to completely change myself. Awoke a whole new side.

Returned to home town 18months later someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone very hedonistic who showed me more about sex than i had ever experienced after many years. It made me more curious about things so came here though yet to act on things on Fab. I stay here to chat as lovely, open people.

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By *rya MyneWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I was in an abusive relationship for like 13 years... Met when I was 17 and stayed till I was 30 so when I left I just decided I wanted to live for me and please myself a bit, catch up on lost time and finally start enjoying life a bit... Figured I'd have a few months of fun and meet somome butt a few years later I'm still here and not ready to settle back down... Fab life is kinda addictive "

This is so insightful, I never thought about fabs being a way of maintaining freedom. My story is the same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Leaving my husband. "

I left my wife and my eyes opened up

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

We just decided that after bringing up 2 kids, the time was right for us to let our hair down a bit and explore our sexual side more.

We have both been pretty sheltered in our upbringing

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Leaving my husband.

I left my wife and my eyes opened up "

My married sex life was abysmal, because his idea of excitement was to try to get people to catch us having sex, or showing off my genitals to truck drivers; which wasn't my idea of adventurous.

It didn't even make our sex better as he was cold and robotic and it lasted all of 15 minutes from start to finish.

My eyes were opened to many things by many men, after we split up- some good, some not so good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence. I met my husband quite young, and when I was a teenager I didn't have the confidence to sleep around much, even though I wanted to. A couple of years ago I decided I didn't want to miss out and finally plucked up the courage to put myself out there. Turns out I am the slut I always thought I was lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

started reading erotic fiction books, and ended up getting talking to some girls from america and facebook who really helped me come out of my shell and become body confident (would never have taken a naked pic let alone put it on the internet)

realised what i really want in life (girls) and decided to confess to hubby whos happy for me to explore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was seduced by a guy I bumped into on an underground train. That is how this started for us.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

In late 90s, I (Mr) had a spontaneous visit to a fetish club in Amsterdam with my then GF having been wandering in and out of sex shops and her trying on outfits. In one shop they gave us free tickets for a club that night (clever as we then needed to buy some outfits). We were crapping ourselves but plucked up courage and went and it was amazing. Great people. Friendly. Great voyeurism (it was fetish/swinging club). No pressure but met an American girl who we had threesome with and it turned out my GF was bi and hadn’t realised (not really anyway).

Back in UK we then started out in fetish scene but slowly progressed to a more swinging focus. Together 3 years then split and I carried on swinging (and fetish club going) for 2 years then met future Mrs B in vanilla world. After few months of getting to know each other I spilled beans on my sordid past. Turned out her and her ex BF had dabbled too!

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

Relationship ended sour - then a lady friend of mine pointed me towards this site. Joined 5 years ago & I still come back, be it deleting my accounts then coming back.

But I guess the good ones I do meet, remind me it’s not all doom & gloom on here

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By *enuineguy81Man
over a year ago

isle of man

I was stuck in a long term relationship with someone who just didn’t like sex, I’d been in a very passionate relationship before and enjoyed trying lots of different things. Now I’m free again, and hanging on in the hope that one day I’ll meet the right lady or couple to start experimenting with.

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By *ookingfun82Man
over a year ago

Enniskillen

Married my first serious girlfriend and wasn't that sexually experienced beforehand. She used sex to control and manipulate but I didn't know any better but even then wanted knew I wanted to be much more adventuruous. She left and I got introduced to fab by someone on a dating app, realised that was the kind of sex life I craved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped being someone I wasn’t and started being the person I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been together for nearly 10 years and both wanted to explore this wild side and we certainly don't regret it

Her x

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