FabSwingers.com forum: Kissing

By *ed cj OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

Is this more intimate than oral or penetrative sex. I know ladies who will perform oral to completion but won't allow a kiss on the lips.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I find it very intimate, sometimes it's actually more of a turn on than oral xx

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Sex without kissing is almost unimaginable. It would be like a big void.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I would say it's more intimate..

A kiss is a sign of affection for some people, where as a fuck is just a fuck.

It varies for everyone, so we try not to judge.

We used to have a no kissing rule, now we don't. But we get that everyones will have different limits that need to be respected.

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By *ed cj OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

I must be meeting the wrong people

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

More intimate or not, its a deal breaker for me if someone says no kissing - a good kiss is a massive turn on and gets the right physical reaction.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Is this more intimate than oral or penetrative sex. I know ladies who will perform oral to completion but won't allow a kiss on the lips. "

Feels to me like it's a way of masking insecurities in their swinging exploits. But hey, I'm only me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is the starting point no matter what.

I adore kissing , a woman lips are so incredible.

Just posted on another thread about my oral fixation. Lol

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By *ustfun009Man
over a year ago

oxford

Kissing is most important...i am told i am good at it..who wants one

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"Is this more intimate than oral or penetrative sex. I know ladies who will perform oral to completion but won't allow a kiss on the lips.

Feels to me like it's a way of masking insecurities in their swinging exploits. But hey, I'm only me."

Sounds a bit judgemental to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met one lady who didn't like kissing and the meet felt so mechanical. Kissing adds so much passion and intensity to a meet.

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By *rancis6Couple
over a year ago

sale

kissing can be a doomed relationship for many women fall in love too easily men can have sex without love PS dont shoot the messenger thanks have a good one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much more intimate than oral or fucking

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"kissing can be a doomed relationship for many women fall in love too easily men can have sex without love PS dont shoot the messenger thanks have a good one.

What?

I think I've taken crazy pills, kissing neither dooms a healthy relationship, nor suggests the non kisses have issues.

Crickey had no idea that people were so bothered by others boundaries.

Either meet or don't.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"kissing can be a doomed relationship for many women fall in love too easily men can have sex without love PS dont shoot the messenger thanks have a good one.

What?

I think I've taken crazy pills, kissing neither dooms a healthy relationship, nor suggests the non kisses have issues.

Crickey had no idea that people were so bothered by others boundaries.

Either meet or don't. "

Hey, you're shooting the messenger, when they specifically told you not to. That's like pinching and punching after they said "no returns"!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"kissing can be a doomed relationship for many women fall in love too easily men can have sex without love PS dont shoot the messenger thanks have a good one.

What?

I think I've taken crazy pills, kissing neither dooms a healthy relationship, nor suggests the non kisses have issues.

Crickey had no idea that people were so bothered by others boundaries.

Either meet or don't.

Hey, you're shooting the messenger, when they specifically told you not to. That's like pinching and punching after they said "no returns"!"

I counted to 10 really quickly to give them a head start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing x

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By *TFSeventyMan
over a year ago

Weybridge

I have turned down meets if there is a no kissing rule, for me it’s a crucial part of sex.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I have turned down meets if there is a no kissing rule, for me it’s a crucial part of sex. "

When have you found this out? Zero experience of it, but I'd presume that if someone doesn't want to kiss, they'll very likely say it in their profile?

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By *reestylingWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Essential throughout play for me. X

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By *ouple2playCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

Definitely more intimate, and a definite yes for us - big turn on (with the right person / people) xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Is this more intimate than oral or penetrative sex. I know ladies who will perform oral to completion but won't allow a kiss on the lips. "

For some people it is more intimate.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I have turned down meets if there is a no kissing rule, for me it’s a crucial part of sex.

When have you found this out? Zero experience of it, but I'd presume that if someone doesn't want to kiss, they'll very likely say it in their profile? "

We do.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Is this more intimate than oral or penetrative sex. I know ladies who will perform oral to completion but won't allow a kiss on the lips.

Feels to me like it's a way of masking insecurities in their swinging exploits. But hey, I'm only me."

Yeah, a lot of people think that.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Is this more intimate than oral or penetrative sex. I know ladies who will perform oral to completion but won't allow a kiss on the lips.

Feels to me like it's a way of masking insecurities in their swinging exploits. But hey, I'm only me.

Yeah, a lot of people think that. "

TBH your comments on the subject do always stick in my mind, in a good way.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Is this more intimate than oral or penetrative sex. I know ladies who will perform oral to completion but won't allow a kiss on the lips. "
it's not that I wont allow it but I prefer not to kiss random Men on meets. I dont find it adds anything to it for me and to be fair feels awkward a lot of the time and I am happier without it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"kissing can be a doomed relationship for many women fall in love too easily men can have sex without love PS dont shoot the messenger thanks have a good one.

What?

I think I've taken crazy pills, kissing neither dooms a healthy relationship, nor suggests the non kisses have issues.

Crickey had no idea that people were so bothered by others boundaries.

Either meet or don't. "

The kissing boundary does worry some people. Not sure why but it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need kisses, it’s part of the foreplay leading to fabulous sex

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

I’d say so - especially if you’re a good kisser.

Blowing my own trumpet but I’m an exceptional kisser that’ll most likely leave you remembering it more than anything else.

Kissing throughout also helps intensify the connection leading to more enjoyment all round

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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago

Alton

"Sex without kissing is almost unimaginable. It would be like a big void. "

My first threesome was with a couple who stimulated no kissing. They wanted me as a toy haha.

Did nearly put my off felt so weird but I didn't know better from meeting couples

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By *ilkandhoneyxWoman
over a year ago

leicester

it’s way more intimate. i have no issues with oral, but i don’t like kissing at all unless i know the person rlly well

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Kissing makes you wet ....fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at swinging parties or meets with seasoned male swingers ive found there's barely kissing or pussy eating...guys don't want to kiss if a lady has just sucked a different dick or lick her pussy if several dicks have dipped it..reducing direct STI risk

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"kissing can be a doomed relationship for many women fall in love too easily men can have sex without love PS dont shoot the messenger thanks have a good one.

What?

I think I've taken crazy pills, kissing neither dooms a healthy relationship, nor suggests the non kisses have issues.

Crickey had no idea that people were so bothered by others boundaries.

Either meet or don't.

The kissing boundary does worry some people. Not sure why but it does."
it seems to be the unaccepted preference.. they can understand no anal, no oral , no full sex etc but no kissing seems to be the thing people feel its okay to be really judgey about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last time me and Gemma properly kissed was when I had my cock in another lady

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Kissing makes you wet ....fact

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it isn't a fact though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a great kisser, it would be criminal not to kiss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a great kisser, it would be criminal not to kiss!

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definitely! What's the point of a meet without kissing

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I am a great kisser, it would be criminal not to kiss!

definitely! What's the point of a meet without kissing

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well thankfully my meets haven't thought like that. To be fair its cost me about 2 meets in over a decade on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex without kissing is almost unimaginable. It would be like a big void. "

What a load of rubbish. My partner does not kiss but our sex is fantastic. If you knew all about the bacteria in your mouth you would probably think twice about kissing. Ask any dentist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought it would be a bit strange not kissing on a meet!What happens to start things off just bend over and brace yourself

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

"Sex without kissing is almost unimaginable. It would be like a big void.

What a load of rubbish. My partner does not kiss but our sex is fantastic. If you knew all about the bacteria in your mouth you would probably think twice about kissing. Ask any dentist "

Truly disgusting, I agree.

But then again, imagine the sheer amount of bacteria transmitted during sex! Surely you wash your hands after every touch! No oral too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regularly lick my partners arse hole and she licks mine I think a bit of mouth bacteria isn’t going go to harm us, and wow I feel sorry for you in ways I have never experienced on fab I can understand not kissing strangers due to the intimacy blah blah blah but to not kiss your own partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone to their own I guess. Does not stop us loving each other any less etc. She makes up for it in my opinion in other ways which still rock my boat and satisfy me. We are all different.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"kissing can be a doomed relationship for many women fall in love too easily men can have sex without love PS dont shoot the messenger thanks have a good one.

What?

I think I've taken crazy pills, kissing neither dooms a healthy relationship, nor suggests the non kisses have issues.

Crickey had no idea that people were so bothered by others boundaries.

Either meet or don't.

The kissing boundary does worry some people. Not sure why but it does. it seems to be the unaccepted preference.. they can understand no anal, no oral , no full sex etc but no kissing seems to be the thing people feel its okay to be really judgey about "

Yep. I don't understand the need for a feeling of intimacy with someone you don't love or have a really close relationship with but I'd never judge a person's ability to great sex on that

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thought it would be a bit strange not kissing on a meet!What happens to start things off just bend over and brace yourself

Foreplay is a thing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The risk of passing covid on or catching it is much higher if you miss too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thought it would be a bit strange not kissing on a meet!What happens to start things off just bend over and brace yourself

Foreplay is a thing.

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oh yea that old chestnut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thought it would be a bit strange not kissing on a meet!What happens to start things off just bend over and brace yourself

Foreplay is a thing.

oh yea that old chestnut

Foreplay can be very erotic and sensual. On par with kissing if you know what you are doing and how to turn the women on. A big part on lovemaking in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need kissing, such a turn on for me especially if it’s my nipples being kissed

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thought it would be a bit strange not kissing on a meet!What happens to start things off just bend over and brace yourself

Foreplay is a thing.

oh yea that old chestnut

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By *unxxxMan
over a year ago

Leicester

It's horny as lots of people underate but if you know you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must! Tongue twisters the lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is only reserved for the closest and most trusted connection.

Everything else is emotionally meaningless.

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