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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We’ve previously met with another guy and the whole experience was great. We’re now thinking of meeting up with 2 other guys at the same time but would like some advice on the best way to go about it. If one turns up before the other do you just wait or make a start and invite them to join in when they arrive? Is it best to let the female “introduce” her self and let them get to know each other before things get crowded?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate to say it but in my experience it’s hard enough getting two guys who don’t know each other already to actually turn up in the first place. Been let down so many times with this kind of arrangement and it’s really frustrating

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hate to say it but in my experience it’s hard enough getting two guys who don’t know each other already to actually turn up in the first place. Been let down so many times with this kind of arrangement and it’s really frustrating "

Yes we had thought about inviting a couple more on the chance that probably half would drop out but could be a bit intimidating if everyone turned up

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By *elleshellsCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester

Why don’t you arrange to meet in a local pub first - might be less intimidating? Xxx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Just get on with the first one ..the other one might not turn up.

..then if he does he can take over when the first one's done...or hopefully just join in lol

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I think it's quite difficult. I would suggest inviting two people you have already met, or two people that know each other so at least there is some familiarity. If not maybe invite them both together to a social first and then you can invite them a second time for more, if it feels comfortable and right for you.

If none of the above is what you are looking for, I personally would wait for the second person to arrive if one arrives first, I would spend some time after they have arrived chatting and getting to know them both before anything further happened.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

How about searching for a mm couple on here?

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By *ow are you ABCMan
over a year ago

Chester

2 guys is fun

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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago

Alton


"How about searching for a mm couple on here?"

Any other guys wanna set up this

"service"

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Hate to say it but in my experience it’s hard enough getting two guys who don’t know each other already to actually turn up in the first place. Been let down so many times with this kind of arrangement and it’s really frustrating "

I've done this several times; arranged meetings with couples in clubs and at private addresses and there's only ever been 1 person that didn't show up (that's 1 out of 13 guys)... Maybe I've just been lucky?

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"How about searching for a mm couple on here?"

Totally agree with you, or go to a Club

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh


"Why don’t you arrange to meet in a local pub first - might be less intimidating? Xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been invited to join many couples when they had also invited another guy (sometimes more than one other guy) but there has only been one time that another guy actually turned up. Whereas if I say I'll meet then I 100% do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to play with Fem FB and we had many a "moresome" meet (FFMMMMM) being the most, on every occasion we met socially first - no sex on first meet and we then decided between us - it never failed us

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

We have managed this a few times it is important to understand things are difficult to predicted. So we try to select a day and time in conjuction with blokes before hand. We meeting in the lounge or bar of the hotel, at the agreed time. We have all been on WhatsApp confirming ETA. Everyone knows if there is a problem no message means not again. The actual meet is where we run through each others desires and boundaries again! Small chat flirt flash then off to the games. Recommend at least one extra in case of emergencies. Selection of those with verifications reduces no shows and really good communication before hand to keep the focus.

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

Arrange to meet in a bar first, either at a hotel or elsewhere, and then you can have a drink and relax first before moving on. Speak on the phone to arrange rather than relying on messages here. I've always found people to be more reliable than some folks make out but that is only personal experience. And good luck.

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