FabSwingers.com forum: What happens when emotions get involved?

By *urvycrimson OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Hi everyone,

I’m just curious really, I’ve chatted with a few of my friends from this scene and the biggest obstacle we all seem to have to overcome from time to time is the battle with our emotions...from time to time one of us will have a ‘wobble’ when we suddenly question what we are even doing here, or if we are good enough, ‘does my husband fancy her more than me... ‘ ‘she seems to be moaning louder with him’.... ‘you know what I mean’... ‘will they be dissapointed when they meet me for real?’....

It seems to be the thing that trips us up more than anything else, so I just wondered if it’s something that many people struggle with, and if so, how do you overcome it to just enjoy the great sex?

I guess this is particularly for those in relationships but it could apply to anyone... I’m intrigued.... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle a bit with this. But I think of my lover as a stud who comes to service me once in a while... I'm not one for shagging a different guy every weekend, but I do know and accept I'm not the only one he's fucking....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes struggle with being on here. Sure meeting women and couples is fun. I miss things like, having somebody to laugh with, kissing, cuddling, romantic meals for 2, etc.

There is a woman on here I would love to be in a relationship with but I am too afraid to tell here lol. I know she is also looking to be in a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I sometimes struggle with being on here. Sure meeting women and couples is fun. I miss things like, having somebody to laugh with, kissing, cuddling, romantic meals for 2, etc.

There is a woman on here I would love to be in a relationship with but I am too afraid to tell here lol. I know she is also looking to be in a relationship. "

What do you have to lose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple of FWB and it sort of got a bit too much, one on my end and 2 the other, for me the sex was totally unreal and amazing, I wanted to see her all the time and we did but I think looking back it wasnt a good idea she left the site and we lost contact, others were younger and she lived the next street to me so it was on tap as they say, she would come round when she was horny but she ended up wanting more where I didnt , sex was good but she just wasnt what I wanted full time and we just stopped speaking and ignored each other. Shame tbh she was a top girl

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I have genuinely never felt that op, I love watching my partner with another woman, but always know we will be going home together.

Always remember your partner or with you and this is just an added extra

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

BTW you look lovely in your pics, I know it's easy to say, but I don't think you need worry!

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

From time to time i think we all have a wobble i know we have a few times. It does pay to have a break and then see how it goes and then come back to it. The main thing id say is we are as open as we can be to try and stop any niggling thoughts. I know tash might have a different insight from a female prospective but from as a males point im there for the fun and no matter what my wife is my top priority and she is the one i get to take home every Night! Even if a guy makes her do things/ noises different than usual or his hung like i dont know what we are still a couple and trust each other and i like to see her have her fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an interesting question OP. Its soo difficult to overcome our emotions. My FWB got very attached to me. Things got out of hand too

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By *urvycrimson OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

"BTW you look lovely in your pics, I know it's easy to say, but I don't think you need worry! "

Bless you. Thank you! X

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By *urvycrimson OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

"What an interesting question OP. Its soo difficult to overcome our emotions. My FWB got very attached to me. Things got out of hand too"

How so? X

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't get attached, so I don't have to worry about emotions.

What put me off meeting couples was the woman being insecure, and getting upset, as I wanted the man as much as the woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What an interesting question OP. Its soo difficult to overcome our emotions. My FWB got very attached to me. Things got out of hand too

How so? X"

She was more attached to me. Even though it was FWB in her view it was a lot more.

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