FabSwingers.com forum: Why do you Swing?

By *ed cj OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

Serious question. For me it is to meet new people and experience and explore new bodies and feelings. It's not about life long partnerships but friendships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply to have hot naughty, amazing sex. If we become friendly with people as a result of that then that's fine but it's not the primary goal for us

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By *ornyj37Man
over a year ago

Devon

Yes for me it's about making new connections and living life. Life is too short! It's also the social and general fun aspect of it too. I also don't underestimate how privileged I am to have been invited into couples sex lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it’s the liberation and sight of pleasure all around. It started when I was with my ex girlfriend. She had needs - to sleep with others and explore these after we both left long marriages. We both had the same thoughts.

Once in the life we were both hooked. Sadly no longer together but still both on the scene. It is liberating and fulfilling. Roll on clubs reopening. Meeting new people in the scene is brilliant and lots of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it’s the opportunity to have occasional sexual fun without the baggage that comes with a monogamous relationship.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Literally because we want to. There's no deeper reason than that. It's fun, it's interesting and there's not much on the telly

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By *scottMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"Serious question. For me it is to meet new people and experience and explore new bodies and feelings. It's not about life long partnerships but friendships."

My late wife and I dabbled a little. Once she was taken from me I missed sex. I had no desire to get into a relationship (Though I am now very happy in one) and I don't do "casual sex" in the real world. Mainly because I didn't want somebody thinking there was more to it than there was. In a swing environment that risk of confusion is greatly deminished.

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By *eandHim2019Couple
over a year ago

preston

Simply sexy fun. If the mood takes us then why not.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

So many reasons that I never thought about when we entered the lifestyle.

Fun, pleasure, meeting interesting people, stepping out of our comfort zone and pushing our boundaries.

We had also got bored watching Netflix every night

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We've got incredible sex drives. The occasional bit of group fun helps keep it that way, it enhances our fun at home, which keeps us content.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We're both perves, both big sexual appetites, both love variety of people and connecting with people. And most of all we love sharing our adventures in life together, including all our depravity.

Having said that the sex is only an aspect of swinging for us. We've generally club swingers. We mainly in it to have a good night out together, some good company, a few drinks and a good laugh. Then with the option of some filthy with others should the right situation present its self.

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Sex sex and more sex

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By *acial giverMan
over a year ago

hull

Just to Shah women blunt but honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it would be selfish to keep my self for just one female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married for 12 years, and although I loved my wife very much, our sex life was pretty standard. so after getting divorced, and discovering swinging I realised that I had a hight hight sex drive and a very naughty mind.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Most of my mates would find it sometimes amusing as when out I tended to be the one who always went home alone. Or did i tend to be the only one who didn't go home pissed up to a random guys place, I didn't know where amd then wake up mostly regretting it amd not even knowing his name. I joined at first as wanted to get my kicks but at least know the person and like them first! Started on a different placeany years ago but since coming here a few years back I've come to value and appreciate the socal side so much more.

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By *ed cj OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

"Sex sex and more sex "
my kind of woman ??

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

For me it's about the friendships and fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To make fantasies a reality. Reclaim sex.

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Sex sex and more sex "
Ditto / Amen

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I need sex but not a boyfriend plus I am a lover of group sex.

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By *lackhrnyMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'm divorced and I have absolutely no interest in a traditional relationship nor do I think I could do monogamy again, however I get horny and I have a decent sex drive

I also really like talking about sex, what people's likes and dislikes are sexually, how people got started etc.

There's an openness in this lifestyle that is hard to find elsewhere

I've been lucky enough to meet some great people and with things easing up I'm hoping for more!

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Because I'm a big kid..I also go on the slide too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually thinking about giving up swinging maybe not clubs but considering leaving fab it doesn't seem quite the same anymore was great about 4 years ago but has steadily got less and less people that I'm interested in using it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After my divorce I needed to satisfy my lust for pussy but then I discovered how much I like the taste of cock so swinging was an obvious solution

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

It enhances our sex life using the other guy as a human vibrator

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex sex and more sex "

Wish that was the case for me but I'm a male I a sea of males, ladies have the advantage here x

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

To meet like minded individuals, explore sexuality as a whole and discover and live out my fantasies. I love the social element of this lifestyle, not been here long (just over a year) but have made some really great friends and had some fun times along the way also. Long may it continue

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Cos you can do in a 3, 4 or moresome, that you just can't do as a couple.

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

Extra little excitement in our relationship wether it’s an extra lady an extra guy or 2 or a couple so many possibilities to enjoy

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By *inkyisfunukMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

For the fun, friends, and fabulous, exciting, kinky sex. It’s just a part of me that I want/need.

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

"Sex sex and more sex

Wish that was the case for me but I'm a male I a sea of males, ladies have the advantage here x"
sorry I guess we do

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK

Because in vanilla life, my friends regard me as average, run of the mill bloke - whereas in fab life, I take on a different persona and unleash the inner stud muffin!

Also - I find it funny on Monday morning being asked what i got up to oer weekend...and i reply "not much" - when in reality, have had a sweaty MFM session!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Serious question. For me it is to meet new people and experience and explore new bodies and feelings. It's not about life long partnerships but friendships."

29 years is a long time to be with the same person, we needed a change.

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

"Serious question. For me it is to meet new people and experience and explore new bodies and feelings. It's not about life long partnerships but friendships.

29 years is a long time to be with the same person, we needed a change."
were in our 30th year. Luckily still enjoy each other’s company lol lol

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Swingers are open genuine friendly people ...

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By *ed cj OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

"Swingers are open genuine friendly people ..."
very true

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By *hubster2016Man
over a year ago

Had a very bad experience with first love which killed my already low self confidence!

As such withdrew from trying with women for years and thinking no one would want someone like me.

Always been horny as fuck and recently noticed I get a few looks, then a workmate mentioned fab and I joined to feed my hornyness of looking at naked people and them looking at my cock and now I’d like to get back out there and enjoy some of the sex I’ve been missing out on!

If any women want to that is lol

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

I got into the swing scene being a young budding photographer, was never that interested in taking part. Invited to take photos (before digital cameras ), by word if mouth (not a euphemism) then invited to parties, got a lot of work via the scene. Met my partner we which was the best thing that came from the scene, swung a little as a couple but she decided she was very happy and was only interested in sex other 'than us' with females. Which is fine by me and why we are still involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex sex and more sex

Wish that was the case for me but I'm a male I a sea of males, ladies have the advantage here x sorry I guess we do "

Don't be sorry it's just statistics x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swingers are open genuine friendly people ..."

like the general population, some are some aren’t

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