FabSwingers.com forum: Interracial sex ... I am hoping that it's ok to ask about this

By *issysbee69 OP Woman
over a year ago

Brandenburg

OK, so the persons color of their skin is no problem with me what So Ever but the way that it always is....Have you ever been with a black guy before... is annoying to me because it is not a conversation starter in my opinion but I know that it is a deal breaker for some people. But I am not going to make that the way I think because you can be purple and silver and you are an arrogant asshole and its not your race but if you are an asshole that is the deal breaker with me..

Is this a issue of the time and the way that the world is now..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK, so the persons color of their skin is no problem with me what So Ever but the way that it always is....Have you ever been with a black guy before... is annoying to me because it is not a conversation starter in my opinion but I know that it is a deal breaker for some people. But I am not going to make that the way I think because you can be purple and silver and you are an arrogant asshole and its not your race but if you are an asshole that is the deal breaker with me..

Is this a issue of the time and the way that the world is now.. "

It’s all to do with what turns us on

Black or Asian men or women do not turn us on in the slightest.

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By *pices69Couple
over a year ago

Gravesend

It’s ok to specify who you want,

it’s also ok to specify who you don’t meet,

sometimes a bad experience can put you off, sometimes different shapes, sizes, hair colours or no hair, can give you a wrong vibe.

male here got rejected once because of shaved head - it reminded someone of her ex. it doesn’t make her bald’ist.

anyone who thinks because you express a preference it makes you an ‘ist - just ignore or block.

be safe & have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a issue of the time and the way that the world is now.. "

Its more common than you think. I’m black, I get asian guys asking do i go with asian guys, white guys will ask if i go with white guys they will also ask if i’ve been with black guys. Funnily enough a black guy has never asked me if i go with black guys. Couples never question it either. I get annoyed as its none of anyones business who i choose to have sex with. If i choose you then thats between us.

I suppose people feel like they have to ask as skin colour is used as a rejection reason, its also used as a fantasy/fetish fulfiller. So it gives someone an idea if you’ll be into them? As a conversation starter its certainly naff.

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By *oam_ShrimpsCouple
over a year ago

Exmouth

We don't care what your skin colour is, but if it stinks we walk away. Any whiff of BO and it stops play for us. We've walked away from white guys, black guys and Asian guys. Don't get us wrong, we've been in a club room with 20+ bodies on the bed, everyone sweating it's so hot, but BO hasn't been a problem as everyone has used deodorant/perfume, so when a guy approaches before (or during) play and we smell BO it just ruins it for us. We don't want to stereo-type, but we haven't played with many Asian men as nearly all have failed to spray before they play!

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By *xotic guyMan
over a year ago

west midlands

"We don't care what your skin colour is, but if it stinks we walk away. Any whiff of BO and it stops play for us. We've walked away from white guys, black guys and Asian guys. Don't get us wrong, we've been in a club room with 20+ bodies on the bed, everyone sweating it's so hot, but BO hasn't been a problem as everyone has used deodorant/perfume, so when a guy approaches before (or during) play and we smell BO it just ruins it for us. We don't want to stereo-type, but we haven't played with many Asian men as nearly all have failed to spray before they play!

I hate to stereotype either but when I used to go to the pub or a club (pre covid) it was mostly white guys who walked out the toilet without washing hands and back to their drink/food etc really put me and partner off meeting for fun.

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