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By *eandHim2019 OP   Couple
over a year ago

preston

All I want is a genuine woman who's up for fun, hot sex with my hubby and I.

I either get someone who can't hold a convo or a partner pops up and ends up that it's all for him wanting sex not her.

Is it possible or are women less likely to be attracted to Bigger women ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean with the couples that turn out to just be chaps, it’s a persistent problem here in my experience but it is possible to find genuine couples/women too so please don’t give up hope, they are out there.

And as for women who are attracted to “bigger women”, it’s not an issue and can be a bonus for some of us

Hope you have some better luck soon

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By *hat_alt_coupleCouple
over a year ago

near you

We are in the same position

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By *oodwifeyukCouple
over a year ago

London

Ditto x

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

I leave a trail of bread crumbs and they just follow them

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs


"All I want is a genuine woman who's up for fun, hot sex with my hubby and I.

I either get someone who can't hold a convo or a partner pops up and ends up that it's all for him wanting sex not her.

Is it possible or are women less likely to be attracted to Bigger women ? "
It’s the luck of the draw , till you have been with them your not going to know

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"All I want is a genuine woman who's up for fun, hot sex with my hubby and I.

I either get someone who can't hold a convo or a partner pops up and ends up that it's all for him wanting sex not her.

Is it possible or are women less likely to be attracted to Bigger women ? "

Women are as likely to be less attracted to bigger women as they are to be less likely attracted to any other aspect of you or your partner’s physicality.

And if it’s not that, it can be something in your profile, or the way you communicate. And all may seem agreeable up to the point you meet, and then any aspect of the initial meeting could be the cause of them deciding they don’t want to take things further with you - or you them.

In short, you are best off being honest about yourselves, and if someone finds that attractive it may lead to a meet. There’s no point agonising over things beyond your control. The number of women seeking threesomes with a couple as a single is relatively small, so it’s best to be realistic about your expectations.

Which is not to say you won’t find and meet someone who likes you both - it just takes a lot of looking.

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Ditto

Nice genuine sexy ladie.....reveal yourself

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

You'll find most (not all) single Ladies on here who play with couples actually have a Male partner who also will be playing. If any Ladies would like to prove us wrong they're welcome too

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"You'll find most (not all) single Ladies on here who play with couples actually have a Male partner who also will be playing. If any Ladies would like to prove us wrong they're welcome too "

We’ve met a number of women on here, and only one had a male partner (who didn’t play).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'll find most (not all) single Ladies on here who play with couples actually have a Male partner who also will be playing. If any Ladies would like to prove us wrong they're welcome too "

I disagree with you on this . I know a fair few single females on fab that are single. I do know a few females from a couple that have their own account but not that many tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ditto

Nice genuine sexy ladie.....reveal yourself "

We’re looking too

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By *ower Couple - NorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Watton

We are searching, but think we might look a little too kinky for fab ??. Which is annoying as we love vanilla too

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Ditto

Nice genuine sexy ladie.....reveal yourself

We’re looking too "

You may find it difficult because you are looking for such a narrow age range...on the other hand, you’re in East Midlands, which accounts for around 75% of Fab!

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"We are searching, but think we might look a little too kinky for fab ??. Which is annoying as we love vanilla too"

Well, you are in control of your profile - if you want to appear more vanilla, that’s in your hands to change.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"You'll find most (not all) single Ladies on here who play with couples actually have a Male partner who also will be playing. If any Ladies would like to prove us wrong they're welcome too

I disagree with you on this . I know a fair few single females on fab that are single. I do know a few females from a couple that have their own account but not that many tbh "

We personally know couples where the Lady has a single profile that the Man actually runs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'll find most (not all) single Ladies on here who play with couples actually have a Male partner who also will be playing. If any Ladies would like to prove us wrong they're welcome too "

Well I have a female partner who doesn’t play at all (knows and approves of me being here) and I live playing with couples. Does that count as proving you wrong ?

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By *eandHim2019 OP   Couple
over a year ago

preston


"I know what you mean with the couples that turn out to just be chaps, it’s a persistent problem here in my experience but it is possible to find genuine couples/women too so please don’t give up hope, they are out there.

And as for women who are attracted to “bigger women”, it’s not an issue and can be a bonus for some of us

Hope you have some better luck soon "

Thank you not one for giving up. We did think trying a club when they open maybe more of a chance xx

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

We do exist. My preference, in pre pandemic times, was to meet on a semi regular basis with carefully selected couples. It can be difficult to find though as all 3 people need to be attracted to each other. Unfortunately there are many 'couples' on here where the female half seems to work exceptionally long hours and is never available to chat

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It can be hard because most couples are seeking a bi fem to join them too.

Maybe try a club when they open up as I think people seem to have more success there.

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By *eandHim2019 OP   Couple
over a year ago

preston

I always try be honest and we're just us. I don't even mind a partner but I don't wanna have sex with them or soft swapping is an option .

Maybe I need to rethink my profile but a lot of people don't read half if it lol

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"I know what you mean with the couples that turn out to just be chaps, it’s a persistent problem here in my experience but it is possible to find genuine couples/women too so please don’t give up hope, they are out there.

And as for women who are attracted to “bigger women”, it’s not an issue and can be a bonus for some of us

Hope you have some better luck soon

Thank you not one for giving up. We did think trying a club when they open maybe more of a chance xx"

Clubs & organised socials are a really good way to meet & get to know people. I find that a much better way to make connections

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By *andVCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

3 quarters of fab are looking haha hence why single women looking for couples are coined as "Unicorns".

Because of there rarity (and Beauty of course ;p ).

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By *eandHim2019 OP   Couple
over a year ago

preston


"It can be hard because most couples are seeking a bi fem to join them too.

Maybe try a club when they open up as I think people seem to have more success there. "

Yea I think that's the way to go. And imagine the fun looking for that unicorn

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By *irliefunsussexWoman
over a year ago

Crawley


"All I want is a genuine woman who's up for fun, hot sex with my hubby and I.

I either get someone who can't hold a convo or a partner pops up and ends up that it's all for him wanting sex not her.

Is it possible or are women less likely to be attracted to Bigger women ? "

I personally am attracted to women who are bigger like me xx

Wish I didn't live so far away

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By *eandHim2019 OP   Couple
over a year ago

preston


"All I want is a genuine woman who's up for fun, hot sex with my hubby and I.

I either get someone who can't hold a convo or a partner pops up and ends up that it's all for him wanting sex not her.

Is it possible or are women less likely to be attracted to Bigger women ?

I personally am attracted to women who are bigger like me xx

Wish I didn't live so far away "

We were literally just looking at you

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

Single ladies to play with couples are called unicorns for a reason. We guess is relatively easy for a lady to meet up with another lady but to become a threesome is more difficult since she will need to be attracted to both halves of the couple and of course works the other way around too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'll find most (not all) single Ladies on here who play with couples actually have a Male partner who also will be playing. If any Ladies would like to prove us wrong they're welcome too

I disagree with you on this . I know a fair few single females on fab that are single. I do know a few females from a couple that have their own account but not that many tbh

We personally know couples where the Lady has a single profile that the Man actually runs!"

So do I. They are very far and few between though. There's plenty single females on fab that are actually single. All the single females on my veris are single apart from one

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Clubs are full people wanting to meet fab is a bit rubbish for meeting..

Not long until reopen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I want is a genuine woman who's up for fun, hot sex with my hubby and I.

I either get someone who can't hold a convo or a partner pops up and ends up that it's all for him wanting sex not her.

Is it possible or are women less likely to be attracted to Bigger women ? "
youd be most welcome at our bi parties xxx

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Clubs are your best bet, I'd say.

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW


"You'll find most (not all) single Ladies on here who play with couples actually have a Male partner who also will be playing. If any Ladies would like to prove us wrong they're welcome too "

I don’t have a partner at all anymore. I had a couples profile when I did.

So unfortunately I come alone.

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I have a husband but he is not involved in any shape or form.....

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By *ornycouplepzCouple
over a year ago

here and there

We find it a struggle to find someone who can hold a conversation let alone getting a social lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Clubs is your answer, have met a fair few single ladies in clubs.

Some have become good friends.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"You'll find most (not all) single Ladies on here who play with couples actually have a Male partner who also will be playing. If any Ladies would like to prove us wrong they're welcome too

I don’t have a partner at all anymore. I had a couples profile when I did.

So unfortunately I come alone. "
Oh dear, it's sad when couples are no longer a couple, it seems to happen a lot on Fab. To those who it does happen to, we hope they find happiness

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By *irliefunsussexWoman
over a year ago

Crawley


"You'll find most (not all) single Ladies on here who play with couples actually have a Male partner who also will be playing. If any Ladies would like to prove us wrong they're welcome too "

I'm not a single lady but on fab I am. My boyfriend is in no way involved with my profile. He doesn't know my login, doesn't look at my profile or messages x

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By *eandHim2019 OP   Couple
over a year ago

preston


"All I want is a genuine woman who's up for fun, hot sex with my hubby and I.

I either get someone who can't hold a convo or a partner pops up and ends up that it's all for him wanting sex not her.

Is it possible or are women less likely to be attracted to Bigger women ? youd be most welcome at our bi parties xxx"

Sounds fun please keep us in mind when you have ur next one x

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester


"I have a husband but he is not involved in any shape or form..... "

Same. For the person saying it’s easier to find a woman to be one on one I disagree too. I’ve been on here like 14 years and I’ve only ever met two that genuinely turned up without asking for a man to come along.

GG xx

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By *eandHim2019 OP   Couple
over a year ago

preston


"We find it a struggle to find someone who can hold a conversation let alone getting a social lol"

Yes I seem to attract ppl that don't say anything more than hi

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By *eandHim2019 OP   Couple
over a year ago

preston


"I have a husband but he is not involved in any shape or form.....

Same. For the person saying it’s easier to find a woman to be one on one I disagree too. I’ve been on here like 14 years and I’ve only ever met two that genuinely turned up without asking for a man to come along.

GG xx"

Defo parties it is then lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a husband but he is not involved in any shape or form.....

Same. For the person saying it’s easier to find a woman to be one on one I disagree too. I’ve been on here like 14 years and I’ve only ever met two that genuinely turned up without asking for a man to come along.

GG xx"

14 years . You legend

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW


"You'll find most (not all) single Ladies on here who play with couples actually have a Male partner who also will be playing. If any Ladies would like to prove us wrong they're welcome too

I don’t have a partner at all anymore. I had a couples profile when I did.

So unfortunately I come alone. Oh dear, it's sad when couples are no longer a couple, it seems to happen a lot on Fab. To those who it does happen to, we hope they find happiness "

It wasn’t a fab issue and I had a single profile previously and a couples one before that with my second husband. It’s been about 14 years here for me too on various profiles. I have had some good meets as a single fem with couples but prefer parties in reality for couple play.

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