FabSwingers.com forum: What’s your biggest non-sexual turn on?

By *phrodite_Adonis OP Couple
over a year ago

Yeah tits and cocks are cool, but what about the rest?

For me, someone that follows through with what they say, emotional intelligence and a side of cheekiness thrown in

Marley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah tits and cocks are cool, but what about the rest?

For me, someone that follows through with what they say, emotional intelligence and a side of cheekiness thrown in

Marley

Intellect. Dungarees. Wit. Less make up. Natural curves. Backless dresses. Musical/artistic creativity (or at least a preference for non manufactured pop). Passion. Humility.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Polite, respectful guys

Mrs N

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By *obo999Man
over a year ago

Fife

Someone with a sense of adventure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Polite, respectful guys

Mrs N"

“Wonderful profile, you two look beautiful together” (he said, politely and in a very respectful manner)

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Dominance

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

For Her - A Man lifting weights

For Him - A Lady brushing her hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Polite, respectful guys

Mrs N"

This, and humour xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligent classy ladies, with a hint of naughtiness in their eyes.

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By *phrodite_Adonis OP Couple
over a year ago

"Dominance "

Agree, a bit of this wouldn’t go amiss either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A broad scottish or irish accent (Yorkshire will do it too) lol

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Cheeky sense of humour, varied musical taste, unusual jobs/hobbies.

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

Down to earth and funny

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Polite

Funny

Selfless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A beautiful smile. And... As said above... Backless dresses..

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

Confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching a man excercise or get soapy in the shower.

An ideal combination if they get hot and sweaty working out and then let me watch shower time! Pwoarr

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

A genuine smile, engaging eyes, sense of humour...I could be here all day x

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

"A genuine smile, engaging eyes, sense of humour...I could be here all day x"

I’m not blowing my own trumpet

But I’m the funniest person I know

I’d probably be the funniest person you know ... you just need to get to know me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A confident woman with a good sense of humour

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"A genuine smile, engaging eyes, sense of humour...I could be here all day x

I’m not blowing my own trumpet

But I’m the funniest person I know

I’d probably be the funniest person you know ... you just need to get to know me

I like a challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour, ambition and sexy forearms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For both women and men making an effort in their appearance!

Women who bite their lip when flirting is a huge turn on.

Guys who are confident but not cocky, all too often these are both confused for each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe it of not, cooking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smelling divine and hot wet slow kisses

Mmmmmm!

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beautiful eyes and smile in a dress...

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Humour, confidence, ambition, an infectious laugh, great banter and a sense of individuality and style x

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By *olo54Man
over a year ago

st austell

Sharing an activity , walking kayaking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Humour - Make me smile & my shortbread finger is yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Openness. Just being receptive and open minded with a curiousness to explore what is possible.

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By *phrodite_Adonis OP Couple
over a year ago

"Openness. Just being receptive and open minded with a curiousness to explore what is possible."

This is a good one!

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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago

Northwich

Charisma

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By *olinOfBathMan
over a year ago

Corsham

"A broad scottish or irish accent (Yorkshire will do it too) lol "

Och aye, begorrah, tha's reet...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welsh, Irish or north east accent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Charisma "

That’s me out

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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago

leeds

Confidence and and a good vibe

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Passion. Whether that's about sports, an obscure mythos, gardening... whatever. The fact that someone has that intensity, that keen interest in something, regardless of whether or not I'm interested in it, I'll always find it an attractive trait. And if I find them attractive, I'll be hoping some of that can be directed in my direction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it has to be a cheeky sense of humour and the element of surprise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always had a thing for red heads too. Natural or not.

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By *phrodite_Adonis OP Couple
over a year ago

"Passion. Whether that's about sports, an obscure mythos, gardening... whatever. The fact that someone has that intensity, that keen interest in something, regardless of whether or not I'm interested in it, I'll always find it an attractive trait. And if I find them attractive, I'll be hoping some of that can be directed in my direction. "

I like that you’ve thought about this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah tits and cocks are cool, but what about the rest?

For me, someone that follows through with what they say, emotional intelligence and a side of cheekiness thrown in

Marley

Intellect. Dungarees. Wit. Less make up. Natural curves. Backless dresses. Musical/artistic creativity (or at least a preference for non manufactured pop). Passion. Humility. "

Finally a guy who appreciates dungarees

Me... watches

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Fields of blue bells always z temptation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree with this thing about passion - I love hearing people talking - passionately - about their passions. It’s very endearing and attractive. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cake.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

When they put the toilet seat down

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By *odieCI5Man
over a year ago

Solihull

Pillow talk and giggles, watching her laugh

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By *ostguy321Man
over a year ago

Bucks

Big blue eyes with a hot smile, a great dress or well fitted jeans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately confidence x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

A cooking spatula.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a confident smiley woman ..tanned and red lips ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been with someone that knows what they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone with a sense of adventure. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone with a sense of adventure.

This "

What’s believable

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By *ackt815Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Dr martens are soo sexy

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By *rya MyneWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Nice hands, someone who can make me laugh hard, accents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nice hands, someone who can make me laugh hard, accents"

My accent says my hands are funny...so I win

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

When someone smells good, and when you click personality wise

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By *r_StockingtopsMan
over a year ago

Selby

Intelligence and being funny. That always supplants physical appearance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When someone smells good, and when you click personality wise "

Smell and hygiene are super important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nice hands, someone who can make me laugh hard, accents"

Which accents do you like most, Arya?

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

Someone who makes me laugh and has a cheeky nature , definitely helps to get me in to bed

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By *riskyrickyMan
over a year ago

Reading

I love it when people smell good! A really nice spelling perfume/aftershave can literally make the biggest difference for me personally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman filled with confidence and banter.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Polite, respectful guys

Mrs N

This, and humour xx"

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By *i-guy1966Man
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Someone who makes me laugh and has a cheeky nature , definitely helps to get me in to bed

What's the difference between Coq Au Vin and a good blow job?

Don't know?

Fancy dinner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lady that can get a usb lead in first time

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Empathy..

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By *i-guy1966Man
over a year ago

Gravesend

More seriously, I do like tatoos on a lady, plus when their ears stick out. I know! Go figure!

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By *ensualpleasures69Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Dominance

Agree, a bit of this wouldn’t go amiss either

Eh up lass lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The scent of a woman is so powerful on me and A quick witted woman is so sexy.

The rest falls into place.

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