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"Firstly I hate the name but this tends to be what most call it. Secondly, this is absolutely my favourite type of meet. Any couples out there who enjoy inviting a guy round to find mrs waiting, blindfolded and on all fours. He is then instructed by mr to please her without any talking. Once finished, simply zips up and leaves. I was pleasantly surprised to hear that so many couples do this kind of thing. I’m reliably informed that the sex afterwards is amazing. Shout up if this is a bit of you x" The ones where the woman is just a receptacle? | |||
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"when did anyone stick to one type of meet ? a fuck n go has its place so if i fancy that ill ask for that and see whos around .. still has to be someone i fancy tho that dont change" Its anon thats the horny part. Seeing what someone looks like to "fancy" just defeats the object of the meet. Each to their own but i want these meets to be anon as they should be. | |||
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"I’ve done something like that once but I wouldn’t do it again. I discovered I didn’t like not knowing who it was, and when I found out I was a bit upset because it was someone I wouldn’t have agreed to meet." May i ask why you wouldnt have agreed to meet them? Seems they were genuine and turned up as arranged which is more than most on this site would do. Dont see the problem but again just my observation. | |||
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"We prefer where the lady is actual treated as a lady not something just to use " this | |||
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"We prefer where the lady is actual treated as a lady not something just to use " Yes, totally agree. Looking for a connection (even if it is just momentary lust). Mutual desire for mutually beneficial outcomes. | |||
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"I’ve done something like that once but I wouldn’t do it again. I discovered I didn’t like not knowing who it was, and when I found out I was a bit upset because it was someone I wouldn’t have agreed to meet. May i ask why you wouldnt have agreed to meet them? Seems they were genuine and turned up as arranged which is more than most on this site would do. Dont see the problem but again just my observation." Because he was a smoker and 420 user, which are absolute “no”s for me. There’s a lot more than “turns up as arranged” to whether I want to meet someone. | |||
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"I’ve done something like that once but I wouldn’t do it again. I discovered I didn’t like not knowing who it was, and when I found out I was a bit upset because it was someone I wouldn’t have agreed to meet. May i ask why you wouldnt have agreed to meet them? Seems they were genuine and turned up as arranged which is more than most on this site would do. Dont see the problem but again just my observation. Because he was a smoker and 420 user, which are absolute “no”s for me. There’s a lot more than “turns up as arranged” to whether I want to meet someone." Thats fair enough. Druggies are a big no. Thanks for explaining  | |||
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"I'm a social bunny so, love a bit of a laugh & natter over a cuppa tea too. That's not to say 'fuck & go' doesn't have it's place. If it's someone you've met before & time limited, it can be good. " You’ve summed this up perfectly dunker. The meet wasn’t derogatory or offensive. Not blowing my own trumpet but apparently it was even better than they expected and their evening afterwards was amazing. | |||
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"Yeah done this as a couple. He was the one blindfolded and fucked though. By a man. "Wow. That’s a different take on things! | |||
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"Yeah done this as a couple. He was the one blindfolded and fucked though. By a man.
Wow. That’s a different take on things! "It was great fun.  | |||
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"Yeah done this as a couple. He was the one blindfolded and fucked though. By a man. "Was that planned or was it a last minute switch | |||
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"Yeah done this as a couple. He was the one blindfolded and fucked though. By a man. "Can we chat about this!?? I absolutely need to arrange this for him! | |||
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"This is definitely something that we’d like to try. Very sexy. "  | |||
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"Yeah done this as a couple. He was the one blindfolded and fucked though. By a man.
Was that planned or was it a last minute switch "It was planned. | |||
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"Yeah done this as a couple. He was the one blindfolded and fucked though. By a man.
Can we chat about this!?? I absolutely need to arrange this for him! "Looks like you are very capable of sorting it!
Get him in some under bed restraints, a blindfold and maybe some headphones... | |||
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"Favourite type of meet if I’m being honest " I must admit I've preferred this lately | |||
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"This is our ideal scenario to be honest. Although we do have the advantage of being a couple so I (husband) will always know who had been invited even if my wife doesn’t. So I may have some communication to try to ensure my wife is safe at al times. She also enjoys CNC so if they are guys she would not usually “fancy” then it heightens the fantasy for her. " Sorry if we sound stupid. What’s CNC? | |||
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"I know a lady,independent and know what she wants, has had a few meets like this. She has thoroughly enjoyed them and is no less a lady because of it. Or has felt like a receptacle or felt used because of them. " Exactly. In fact I occasionally wonder if I'm using the guy by getting him to fuck me and go. | |||
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"This is our ideal scenario to be honest. Although we do have the advantage of being a couple so I (husband) will always know who had been invited even if my wife doesn’t. So I may have some communication to try to ensure my wife is safe at al times. She also enjoys CNC so if they are guys she would not usually “fancy” then it heightens the fantasy for her. Sorry if we sound stupid. What’s CNC? " Consensual Non Consensual. Where the person agrees to have sex without choice. | |||
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"Firstly I hate the name but this tends to be what most call it. Secondly, this is absolutely my favourite type of meet. Any couples out there who enjoy inviting a guy round to find mrs waiting, blindfolded and on all fours. He is then instructed by mr to please her without any talking. Once finished, simply zips up and leaves. I was pleasantly surprised to hear that so many couples do this kind of thing. I’m reliably informed that the sex afterwards is amazing. Shout up if this is a bit of you x The ones where the woman is just a receptacle? " Doesn't have to just be a woman  | |||
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"Yeah done this as a couple. He was the one blindfolded and fucked though. By a man.
Wow. That’s a different take on things!
It was great fun. "Did u watch? | |||
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). Not our favourite thing as we like to get know who we're playing with (chat, drink, games etc). | |||
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"May have done something similar the same once or more times. Each Each their own and all that. Would like to point out though why is it always seen as her being objectified, used, treated as just a hole and not inviting him round to be used and to just borrow his cock for a few mins then he csn do one? Really I don't think anyone who takes part feels anything but mutually satisfied. " I think it can be seen as either person being used, or neither of them. Though what other people think from the outside isn’t important. I think if either does feel used, either it’s not for them, or it hasn’t been handled well. Personally, I didn’t feel used, I just found that it’s not something that works for me. If I were to try anything similar again, I think I’d want a pre-approved list to be selected from. That way I’d know it would be someone I’m comfortable having sex with, even if I didn’t know exactly who, and the other person would know that I’d definitely consented. | |||
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"May have done something similar the same once or more times. Each Each their own and all that. Would like to point out though why is it always seen as her being objectified, used, treated as just a hole and not inviting him round to be used and to just borrow his cock for a few mins then he csn do one? Really I don't think anyone who takes part feels anything but mutually satisfied. I think it can be seen as either person being used, or neither of them. Though what other people think from the outside isn’t important. I think if either does feel used, either it’s not for them, or it hasn’t been handled well. Personally, I didn’t feel used, I just found that it’s not something that works for me. If I were to try anything similar again, I think I’d want a pre-approved list to be selected from. That way I’d know it would be someone I’m comfortable having sex with, even if I didn’t know exactly who, and the other person would know that I’d definitely consented." Thats also another great way to arrange things. Still gives you the "who" factor. I only wanted to say as much as I when I have been in a similar sexy time, we are all getting what we want at the time, so I guess if anything we are all using each other? Obviously the thought can differ very much from the reality though. | |||
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"Yeah done this as a couple. He was the one blindfolded and fucked though. By a man.
Wow. That’s a different take on things!
It was great fun.
Did u watch?"Of course not. I joined in! | |||
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"It not for me, I like longer meets with plenty of laughing ala" | |||
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"May have done something similar the same once or more times. Each Each their own and all that. Would like to point out though why is it always seen as her being objectified, used, treated as just a hole and not inviting him round to be used and to just borrow his cock for a few mins then he csn do one? Really I don't think anyone who takes part feels anything but mutually satisfied. I think it can be seen as either person being used, or neither of them. Though what other people think from the outside isn’t important. I think if either does feel used, either it’s not for them, or it hasn’t been handled well. Personally, I didn’t feel used, I just found that it’s not something that works for me. If I were to try anything similar again, I think I’d want a pre-approved list to be selected from. That way I’d know it would be someone I’m comfortable having sex with, even if I didn’t know exactly who, and the other person would know that I’d definitely consented. Thats also another great way to arrange things. Still gives you the "who" factor. I only wanted to say as much as I when I have been in a similar sexy time, we are all getting what we want at the time, so I guess if anything we are all using each other? Obviously the thought can differ very much from the reality though. " I think, as with many things, there can be a lot of judgement when people don’t understand something. And often people assume the woman is “being used”, especially when she is the one blindfolded and maybe even tied up, because I think people may not understand a particular dynamic or scenario. But ideally, no-one should be “being used”, it would hopefully be mutually enjoyable for everyone involved. Of course, the woman might have a kink for being used, which is also totally valid! | |||
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"May have done something similar the same once or more times. Each Each their own and all that. Would like to point out though why is it always seen as her being objectified, used, treated as just a hole and not inviting him round to be used and to just borrow his cock for a few mins then he csn do one? Really I don't think anyone who takes part feels anything but mutually satisfied. I think it can be seen as either person being used, or neither of them. Though what other people think from the outside isn’t important. I think if either does feel used, either it’s not for them, or it hasn’t been handled well. Personally, I didn’t feel used, I just found that it’s not something that works for me. If I were to try anything similar again, I think I’d want a pre-approved list to be selected from. That way I’d know it would be someone I’m comfortable having sex with, even if I didn’t know exactly who, and the other person would know that I’d definitely consented. Thats also another great way to arrange things. Still gives you the "who" factor. I only wanted to say as much as I when I have been in a similar sexy time, we are all getting what we want at the time, so I guess if anything we are all using each other? Obviously the thought can differ very much from the reality though. I think, as with many things, there can be a lot of judgement when people don’t understand something. And often people assume the woman is “being used”, especially when she is the one blindfolded and maybe even tied up, because I think people may not understand a particular dynamic or scenario. But ideally, no-one should be “being used”, it would hopefully be mutually enjoyable for everyone involved. Of course, the woman might have a kink for being used, which is also totally valid!" I was trying to say exactly that but you just done it alot better lol its hard to explain there's good "used" and "bad" used lol | |||
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"Firstly I hate the name but this tends to be what most call it. Secondly, this is absolutely my favourite type of meet. Any couples out there who enjoy inviting a guy round to find mrs waiting, blindfolded and on all fours. He is then instructed by mr to please her without any talking. Once finished, simply zips up and leaves. I was pleasantly surprised to hear that so many couples do this kind of thing. I’m reliably informed that the sex afterwards is amazing. Shout up if this is a bit of you x"   
Ammmmmmmmmmmmm I was chatting to a guy for quite a while... Until he turned freaky & creepy... He expected me to leave my front door open & me bent over doggy waiting for him... I thought he was having a laugh... But No... He was serious
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So he'd need to know where I lived & he honestly thought I'd be on all fours doggy style as he walked in... Crazy Fker | |||
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"Firstly I hate the name but this tends to be what most call it. Secondly, this is absolutely my favourite type of meet. Any couples out there who enjoy inviting a guy round to find mrs waiting, blindfolded and on all fours. He is then instructed by mr to please her without any talking. Once finished, simply zips up and leaves. I was pleasantly surprised to hear that so many couples do this kind of thing. I’m reliably informed that the sex afterwards is amazing. Shout up if this is a bit of you x" I would absolutely loathe this kind of a meet. Zero interaction apart from sticking your cock in and then when you empty yourself just zipping up and buggering off. You may as well go and see a prostitute. I know it’s each to their own but…. no sir! Not for me. | |||
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"We prefer where the lady is actual treated as a lady not something just to use " Agreed | |||
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"Fuck and go with someone we already know sounds fun." ^^^^^^^ I agree... ``with someone ye already know`` not a total total stranger who expected to walk into my house & me bent over  without any connection or chemistry to me that's off the wall stuff... Expecting me to give an online stranger my address & he really thought I'd be on all fours waiting for him doggy style... not a fking chance jaaaaasssssussss 
No offense to anyone that's into giving a stranger their address & allows them walk in and fk them from behind and cums & goes quickly... but defo not my thing
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