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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone experienced people playing games and never stating what they want? Had a few times where people either haven't messaged me back and then claimed I wasn't trying hard enough to get their attention or just now I've been chatting with someone for a week or so and thought it was going well, and with today being my first day off in a week and for a week decided to message throughout the day and been told I'm too full on wanting to talk socially and blocked.

I have no problem with personal preference, everyone has the right to ask for what they want. I just wish People would be honest and respectful about what they want rather than expecting people to jump through hoops guessing what it is that they want. Ghosting or simply being cryptic just strikes me as immature and disrespectful especially in a space where trust is so essential. That's all, good luck all

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By *onkyLemonsCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I feel your pain in some aspects, but it’s a bit of a double edged sword on here sometimes.

If you reply to say no thanks to everyone, occasionally you get someone that keeps pushing it, even though you’ve made it clear that you’re not interested. If that happens enough times, it’s easier to just block / ghost anyone that doesn’t take your fancy and avoid the negativity that way.

As for the chatting thing, we’ve been guilty of that ourselves. Sometimes the profile might match up to what you’re looking for, so you start up a conversation to see if there’s any chemistry. Ultimately, if there’s no chemistry, for whatever the reason, it’s just one of those things that can’t be helped.

I wouldn’t worry about it too much bud. Just keep doing what you’re doing and I’m sure you’ll find someone compatible with what you’re looking for.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Aww big hug op

Furthing on from _onkylemons you need to understand you are extremely young to alot of members on here.

However it doesn't give anyone a right to be dishonest and mis lead you. I had my fair share of people disappointing me myself though.

I hope through interaction on the forums you gain a more genuine connection with those that tickle your fancy and vice versa best of luck OP xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers pal. Just demoralising, for me if there's nothing there in terms of chemistry it's much better to be told rather than have it be faked. I've had situations where the chemistry is great and then goes once she cums lol. Oh well, all part of it, just wish people were more honest and mature

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aww big hug op

Furthing on from _onkylemons you need to understand you are extremely young to alot of members on here.

However it doesn't give anyone a right to be dishonest and mis lead you. I had my fair share of people disappointing me myself though.

I hope through interaction on the forums you gain a more genuine connection with those that tickle your fancy and vice versa best of luck OP xx"

Thankyou Rejection is all a part of it and there's nothing wrong with it, I'd rather be outright rejected than strung along until they find someone better though haha. We all have to deal with it, onwards and upwards

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Yeah I'm the same, I always say rather be hurt with the truth than comforted with a lie.

I can use my time where its genuinely wanted.

Onwards and upwards for real OP xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah I'm the same, I always say rather be hurt with the truth than comforted with a lie.

I can use my time where its genuinely wanted.

Onwards and upwards for real OP xx"

Beautiful profile and thanks for the help

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire


"Anyone experienced people playing games and never stating what they want? Had a few times where people either haven't messaged me back and then claimed I wasn't trying hard enough to get their attention or just now I've been chatting with someone for a week or so and thought it was going well, and with today being my first day off in a week and for a week decided to message throughout the day and been told I'm too full on wanting to talk socially and blocked.

I have no problem with personal preference, everyone has the right to ask for what they want. I just wish People would be honest and respectful about what they want rather than expecting people to jump through hoops guessing what it is that they want. Ghosting or simply being cryptic just strikes me as immature and disrespectful especially in a space where trust is so essential. That's all, good luck all "

No need to be so rude to you OP and they have shown to be not worthy of your social character, regardless of your age, just think of it has a lucky escape! I enjoy the social chats to be had and it makes for a much better meet I think. Keep smiling and keep looking we are not all rude on here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally feel you OP.

It’s so hot and cold on here. At one point you think your making connections, being told your great and just what some that’s been looking for and then complete ignorance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone experienced people playing games and never stating what they want? Had a few times where people either haven't messaged me back and then claimed I wasn't trying hard enough to get their attention or just now I've been chatting with someone for a week or so and thought it was going well, and with today being my first day off in a week and for a week decided to message throughout the day and been told I'm too full on wanting to talk socially and blocked.

I have no problem with personal preference, everyone has the right to ask for what they want. I just wish People would be honest and respectful about what they want rather than expecting people to jump through hoops guessing what it is that they want. Ghosting or simply being cryptic just strikes me as immature and disrespectful especially in a space where trust is so essential. That's all, good luck all "
I'm honest in what I want but still get asked....all I want is for some people to read my profile and respect my choices

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

Thought this was going to be a post about actually gaming haha

I don't have much to add but I read through the responses here and took a look at your profile.

Yeah your age is going to be against you here but you come across as so genuine and level headed. Your profile is great. And if your messages are half as good as everything else I've seen then you'll really do well here.

Nevermind about other people acting the bollocks. Don't dwell on any of that stuff. Very often it's not as personal as it feels and you're actually dodging a bullet.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Anyone experienced people playing games and never stating what they want? Had a few times where people either haven't messaged me back and then claimed I wasn't trying hard enough to get their attention or just now I've been chatting with someone for a week or so and thought it was going well, and with today being my first day off in a week and for a week decided to message throughout the day and been told I'm too full on wanting to talk socially and blocked.

I have no problem with personal preference, everyone has the right to ask for what they want. I just wish People would be honest and respectful about what they want rather than expecting people to jump through hoops guessing what it is that they want. Ghosting or simply being cryptic just strikes me as immature and disrespectful especially in a space where trust is so essential. That's all, good luck all I'm honest in what I want but still get asked....all I want is for some people to read my profile and respect my choices "

I know exactly how you feel its not easy here. I seen some say fab is as hard as you make it.

That's not entirely true, nothing stops a liar from lying and nothing stops the honest being honest.

Its simply pot luck and the forums is where I seen the most level headed people my inbox isn't always made up of a level headed respectful person big hugs butterfly xx

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By *el and jayneMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

I was supposed to have a meet tonight but got stood up and blocked

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Some time being a fish in a barrel isn’t worth advertising.

There are many Vampire fun suckers on here.

Have fun, forget the suckers.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"I was supposed to have a meet tonight but got stood up and blocked "

Oh no sorry to hear this can't stand people like that.

I always have video chats with any potential meets to work out how well we could get along etc

Maybe try that and see if it helps less disappointment xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thought this was going to be a post about actually gaming haha

I don't have much to add but I read through the responses here and took a look at your profile.

Yeah your age is going to be against you here but you come across as so genuine and level headed. Your profile is great. And if your messages are half as good as everything else I've seen then you'll really do well here.

Nevermind about other people acting the bollocks. Don't dwell on any of that stuff. Very often it's not as personal as it feels and you're actually dodging a bullet. "

Thanks for the kind words. Yeah I am best off without the bullshit really just always strange when it happens so suddenly. Needle in a haystack type job I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was supposed to have a meet tonight but got stood up and blocked "

Serves you right for meeting strangers for sex in a pandemic!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear you it’s crazy on here so are woman I get the same like had a meet she adored my cock then deleted her profile

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