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Name and Shame Timewasters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

You can't

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meets wise there should currently be no time wasters as no one is supposed to be meeting.

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By *mma_EvansTV/TS
over a year ago

Colchester


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By *nvincible ButterflyWoman
over a year ago

LEEDS

Doesn't that go against fabs rules?

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

It not allowed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe it should be allowed as it would deter said timewasters and hopefully leave the site to the genuine folk. As a part of a couples profile a few years ago the amount of times we drove to then get ghosted was crazy so nameing and shameing would have been helpful if it stopped others from getting messed around.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I believe it should be allowed as it would deter said timewasters and hopefully leave the site to the genuine folk. As a part of a couples profile a few years ago the amount of times we drove to then get ghosted was crazy so nameing and shameing would have been helpful if it stopped others from getting messed around."

Shall I tell them about the time you wasted my time?

Of course this never happened but this is how it would be abused. You piss someone off and they blast your name all over the site as a time waster.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

I can say why it’s not allowed without even checking the rules. Abusing the system. If you just don’t like someone and you’re an asshole, what’s to stop you posting someone’s name just to be a dick? It can’t be policed. So to make it easier, they say no, you can’t name and shame. Block people you don’t want anything to do with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe it should be allowed as it would deter said timewasters and hopefully leave the site to the genuine folk. As a part of a couples profile a few years ago the amount of times we drove to then get ghosted was crazy so nameing and shameing would have been helpful if it stopped others from getting messed around.

Shall I tell them about the time you wasted my time?

Of course this never happened but this is how it would be abused. You piss someone off and they blast your name all over the site as a time waster. "

Totally agree with this, there’s always one shut stirrer

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Ye cos that wouldn't be abused at all and wouldn't end up with people who being named and shamed even tho they did nothing wrong bar probably saying no to someone.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I can say why it’s not allowed without even checking the rules. Abusing the system. If you just don’t like someone and you’re an asshole, what’s to stop you posting someone’s name just to be a dick? It can’t be policed. So to make it easier, they say no, you can’t name and shame. Block people you don’t want anything to do with. "

Exactly this is why it's a bad idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If naming and shaming were used legitimately it would be great however I would imagine that being allowed to name and shame someone on here would open the floodgates for anyone with a grudge to ruin someone’s good name.

You can now report a profile for being fake, or not turning up to a meet ect.

It’s a shame this site is spoilt by idiots who never intended to meet in the first place though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe it should be allowed as it would deter said timewasters and hopefully leave the site to the genuine folk. As a part of a couples profile a few years ago the amount of times we drove to then get ghosted was crazy so nameing and shameing would have been helpful if it stopped others from getting messed around.

Shall I tell them about the time you wasted my time?

Of course this never happened but this is how it would be abused. You piss someone off and they blast your name all over the site as a time waster. "

Sadly i agree that some would abuse it to be spiteful but i think most folk would genuinly want to warn others about timewasters. Sadly the site is flooded with them and i cant see this changing anytime soon but it is really unfair on all the genuine singles and couples.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Naming and shaming anywhere on the site is against the rules.

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