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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is something that seems to irk the couples contingent of fab. So what is the problem if someone like myself fabbed a pic where someone had gone to the time and trouble to do an amazing pic. I personally fab anyone’s pic that looks cool and that’s it. However I am against admin giving couples the option of blocking fabs from single guys if it is deemed as unwanted attention. I feel that single guy’s get a bad rap on here and are treated like a unholy creature that has just ventured out of it’s crypt. The problem that I feel that blocking single guys fabbing couples is that it brings the site awfully near segregating entire groups of people on here, which nobody really wants I hope. A situation where couples only interact with couples, ts/tv only interact with bi curious/bi, single peoplle interact with single people only. Fab isn’t perfect and it never will be, but surely how it is now is better than making the site less fun because something that irritates you.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

No issue here.

Fab away!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I wasn't aware you could block anyone from fabbing pics apart from individuals on your block list. Men are blocked from contacting me but the vast majority of fabs I receive are from men

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't think you can stop anyone one gender from fabbing pics. You can turn off everyone fabbing your pics tho .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is something that seems to irk the couples contingent of fab. So what is the problem if someone like myself fabbed a pic where someone had gone to the time and trouble to do an amazing pic. I personally fab anyone’s pic that looks cool and that’s it. However I am against admin giving couples the option of blocking fabs from single guys if it is deemed as unwanted attention. I feel that single guy’s get a bad rap on here and are treated like a unholy creature that has just ventured out of it’s crypt. The problem that I feel that blocking single guys fabbing couples is that it brings the site awfully near segregating entire groups of people on here, which nobody really wants I hope. A situation where couples only interact with couples, ts/tv only interact with bi curious/bi, single peoplle interact with single people only. Fab isn’t perfect and it never will be, but surely how it is now is better than making the site less fun because something that irritates you."

Same here mate... If I see a pic or ten that I like. I'll fab it regardless of who it is! If these person doesn't want to be fabbed then don't allow it.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We appreciate fabs from anyone but it doesn’t mean we would necessarily want to engage in conversation or arrange a meet. If the couple don’t wish to interact with single men that’s their choice and if it saves a single man from a wasted message then I’m sure most men see that as a positive. Too many complain that they don’t get a response when sending messages so it saves hassle all round if you just prevent those you’re not interested from contacting you.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No issues here either

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We're always happy to be fabbed - by anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We appreciate fabs from anyone but it doesn’t mean we would necessarily want to engage in conversation or arrange a meet. If the couple don’t wish to interact with single men that’s their choice and if it saves a single man from a wasted message then I’m sure most men see that as a positive. Too many complain that they don’t get a response when sending messages so it saves hassle all round if you just prevent those you’re not interested from contacting you.

Lou x "

Exactly this and if I message a woman or a couple. It's far easier if someone reads your message and doesn't respond if they don't wish to engage... Rather than read it and then leave it as marked unread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think you can stop anyone one gender from fabbing pics. You can turn off everyone fabbing your pics tho ."

This

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

We couldn't care less about being fabbed because we never check anyway. What irks us is guys who send us messages without having read even the first few lines of our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabs are just compliments aren't they? We get fabs from all types of people regardless of sex or sexuality. We don't read anything into it other than they liked the picture or video.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabs are just compliments aren't they? We get fabs from all types of people regardless of sex or sexuality. We don't read anything into it other than they liked the picture or video. "

Great profile pic

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By *ountry PeaksCouple
over a year ago

In The Surrey Hills

Fab’s are just a way of saying you like what you see aren’t they ? How could that cause offence?

Never an issue with ours, quite the opposite

If you don’t like it, don’t show your pictures publicly

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Fabs are just compliments aren't they? We get fabs from all types of people regardless of sex or sexuality. We don't read anything into it other than they liked the picture or video. "

Same. I’m not looking for single guys but, still find it a huge compliment if they fab a pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem here. Feel free to fab - love single guys fabbing our pics.

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By *elshman1967 99Man
over a year ago

The Shire

it wouldn't bother me if admin enabled this facility for couples or single fems , it doesn't prevent you from looking and admiring the pics so what difference does it make if you can fab them or not ? after all isn't fabbing a pic just a way of drawing someone's attention to the fact you like the look of them? If they're not looking for a single guy then why would fabbing a pic make any difference

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By *otwife2002Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Anyone..please feel free to fab away..more the merrier as we see them as a complement xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the majority here, we take any kind of fab as a compliment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"However I am against admin giving couples the option of blocking fabs from single guys if it is deemed as unwanted attention."

I don't know where you get this idea from,if you can see the pics,you have the option of fabbing them,unless the picture owners have opted out of having their pics fabbed,and that's by everyone,not specific gender.

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By *ral_isthenewblackMan
over a year ago

london

I am seriously finding it difficult to get the issue here... am i missing something??? I just feel if u not allowed to fab a particular pic... move on to a next and a next and a next.. no need to cry over it...

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By *onsey83Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Fab away no problem here with single guys fabbing our pics T x

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By *r and Mrs GravestoneCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town

Fab away

It’s just the pestering from single guys that gets you a block from us, that and being disrespectful

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By *ustfun009Man
over a year ago

oxford

We all love a fab dont we ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always love a fab ....

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By *heshireguy69Man
over a year ago

saddleworth


"No issue here.

Fab away!"

I do

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By *inkyCouple1927Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

If it wasn’t for single guys nobody would fab our pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is something that seems to irk the couples contingent of fab. So what is the problem if someone like myself fabbed a pic where someone had gone to the time and trouble to do an amazing pic. I personally fab anyone’s pic that looks cool and that’s it. However I am against admin giving couples the option of blocking fabs from single guys if it is deemed as unwanted attention. I feel that single guy’s get a bad rap on here and are treated like a unholy creature that has just ventured out of it’s crypt. The problem that I feel that blocking single guys fabbing couples is that it brings the site awfully near segregating entire groups of people on here, which nobody really wants I hope. A situation where couples only interact with couples, ts/tv only interact with bi curious/bi, single peoplle interact with single people only. Fab isn’t perfect and it never will be, but surely how it is now is better than making the site less fun because something that irritates you."

I don’t think this is an issue and the filters are about messaging not fabbing pics. Anyone is welcome to fab away.

The rest of your argument is interesting, who and what folks interact with is down to personal choice. Folks can segregate who they like, it would be a very strange place if they couldn’t and certainly not worth bothering with. The mindless, cut and pasters harping on about their amazing and irresistible attributes or their other bizarre assumptions about meeting up, would certainly be out of control.

The filters and blocking system is what makes fab useable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no problem with guys fabbing we look at it as a compliment. I think the problem is some single guys and seems to have hot worse since lock down, are very disrespectful in messages, and seem to think you'll play with anyone because your on a swinging site.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I have no problem with any gender fabbing my photos. I would however have to leave this site if they took away my message filters!

I don’t want to be inundated with messages from single guys. I turn them off occasionally and I also contact those I am interested in by sending a message or a wink.

Shouldn’t everyone be able to use Fab the way they like?

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Can understand being messaged but not fabbing. No one would hardly get any fabs without the single guys.

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By *nobMan
over a year ago

newport


"I don't think you can stop anyone one gender from fabbing pics. You can turn off everyone fabbing your pics tho ."

Pity you look FAB in your pics!

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We love fabs from anyone, we take it as a compliment.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

As far as I can see there is only a simple... "allow fabs" or "don't allow fabs" tab

so not sure where you got that from Op

Can't say I've heard any couples complaining about being fabbed either lol

Anyway, fab away everyone lol

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

Fab our picks as much as you like, we take it as a compliment, it's nice to know people are enjoying them xxx

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

No issues here either

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

No issues with it, I'd be flattered if Bigfoot fabbed us.

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We accept Fabs! No issue here.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

If anyone doesn't want their pictures fabbing they can remove the option to have them fabbed. As for us, I enjoy posing and it's a turn on if anyone likes the resulting photos. So fab away - the more the merrier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep fabbing guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is something that seems to irk the couples contingent of fab. So what is the problem if someone like myself fabbed a pic where someone had gone to the time and trouble to do an amazing pic. I personally fab anyone’s pic that looks cool and that’s it. However I am against admin giving couples the option of blocking fabs from single guys if it is deemed as unwanted attention. I feel that single guy’s get a bad rap on here and are treated like a unholy creature that has just ventured out of it’s crypt. The problem that I feel that blocking single guys fabbing couples is that it brings the site awfully near segregating entire groups of people on here, which nobody really wants I hope. A situation where couples only interact with couples, ts/tv only interact with bi curious/bi, single peoplle interact with single people only. Fab isn’t perfect and it never will be, but surely how it is now is better than making the site less fun because something that irritates you."

I have been fabbing couples for a long time and many couples. Nobody has ever complained.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would have thought with 18 views so far today I would have gotten a fab but no

I better get some better pictures sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never come across anyone being bothered who Fabs their pics. If they were bothered, they’d turn off the option to Fab them.

How do you know they’re not keen on them being Fabbed, OP?

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

No issues here either. I have even, on rare occassion, been known to send a private pic or 2 to respectful guys. Never going to meet them, not interest in seeing anything myself but if they enjoy then what's the harm?

To be honest though I wonder where this has come from? Has the OP got wind of some new functionality planned for the site? Because to my knowledge you can't stop a certain group of people from fabbing your pics, its open to everyone or no-one (as long as you're not blocked!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been through the tread and done my bit of fabbing

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Just because you get a pic fabbbed doesn't mean the fabber wants to do anything else but people seem to think a single guy has an ulterior motive for doing so

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By *r_LickCouple
over a year ago

aberdeen

No problem with that tbh.. If your pictures are up for public to see I don't see why it bothers people that a single guy likes it..

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By *ookinforfun6972Couple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

No issues with anyone fabbing us. It's a compliment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No problem with that tbh.. If your pictures are up for public to see I don't see why it bothers people that a single guy likes it.. "

Absolutely. I'm astonished that anyone would think otherwise. I fab pix because I like them, not because I want to meet the people in them.

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

But then how would you show your appreciation especially if you don't meet their age requirements or gender preferences & can't thank them for sharing by sending a message?

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

Ya we welcome and appreciate any fabs we get!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is something that seems to irk the couples contingent of fab. So what is the problem if someone like myself fabbed a pic where someone had gone to the time and trouble to do an amazing pic. I personally fab anyone’s pic that looks cool and that’s it. However I am against admin giving couples the option of blocking fabs from single guys if it is deemed as unwanted attention. I feel that single guy’s get a bad rap on here and are treated like a unholy creature that has just ventured out of it’s crypt. The problem that I feel that blocking single guys fabbing couples is that it brings the site awfully near segregating entire groups of people on here, which nobody really wants I hope. A situation where couples only interact with couples, ts/tv only interact with bi curious/bi, single peoplle interact with single people only. Fab isn’t perfect and it never will be, but surely how it is now is better than making the site less fun because something that irritates you."

I'm the same as you

If I look at a profile with hot pics then I fab them

I've often looked through maybe about 150 pics and probably fabbed close to 100 of them if their the sort of pics I find a turn on

I believe that's what the fab function is for

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

It's already cruel enough to see what you can't have fabs & sometime if allowed winks are the few options left, I know I so enjoy any compliments I get or fab & winks or if it's just thx but no thx so works for me that's why I'll never set my filter so darn high life is too short & the variety that could be missed in the lifestyle is kind of a shame for those that's so restrictively limit themselves to all the wonderful possibilities of folks say otherwise would not get a chance to elaborate with

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

So many state if you don't want to meet they don't want to chat with you and Penn State can't meet until the virus is behind us make me go HMM why are there filters set so high then to me it's kind of a dilemma why then so many post very arousing and enjoyable photos on the any member can see gallery instead of just keeping them in friends only and private

Maybe it's just some folks deep down be cruel and others just don't think about the consequences they're restrictive filters

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By *heeseandWineCouple
over a year ago

Reading and Southampton


"We're always happy to be fabbed - by anyone"
Same for us

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"We're always happy to be fabbed - by anyoneSame for us "

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Just as well you don't mind lol

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm very cautious about who I Fab nowadays. Some years ago I Fabbed a guys photo because I thought it was just a great pic. I obviously wasn't what he was looking for and I got a tirade of abuse from him in a message which basically questioned how dare I Fab his photo followed by an immediate Block.

I now only view in stealth mode and never Fab any photos if I think it would cause consternation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys get treated awful in all walks of life. The sad thing is untill they got a girlfriend or a wife then those in couples were also single guys at one time in life.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I didn’t even know this was an issue!

If you don’t want fabs or people to see them then don’t put them online haha!

I don’t meet couples outside of clubs but always can hot pics!

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon


"It's already cruel enough to see what you can't have"

This comes across as so entitled. People post pics for all sorts of reasons on here, some enjoy exhibitionism, others enjoy being fabbed as it gives them a confidence boost. I'd say very few do it to wind you up.

Do you go out and see nicely dressed women with a husband and think the same? Probably not. So why is it different here?

Best solution for your issue I think is to adjust your thinking, or leave. Because this kind of attitude isn't healthy for anyone.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I have lots of pics on my profile. If I didn't want people to see them or fab them they wouldn't be there.

Most of my fabs are from other men but I always appreciate any acknowledgement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very cautious about who I Fab nowadays. Some years ago I Fabbed a guys photo because I thought it was just a great pic. I obviously wasn't what he was looking for and I got a tirade of abuse from him in a message which basically questioned how dare I Fab his photo followed by an immediate Block.

I now only view in stealth mode and never Fab any photos if I think it would cause consternation.

"

Don't let one guys prejudice and entitlement stop you from enjoying and participating in the site as much as anyone else

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

Refreshing to read from as honest man as I am

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

I'm not really sure why people would get upset about it. If you don't want people to see it, like it and 'love' it, then don't post it, or keep it private.

For me, I 'love' a pic either because it's of someone I find attractive, or because I like the image (arty photo, attractive woman with group of guys, etc). I'd guess that more of the likes on my pics are from guys. I have no big issue with that, they do nothing for me but I'm not going to get upset either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is something that seems to irk the couples contingent of fab. So what is the problem if someone like myself fabbed a pic where someone had gone to the time and trouble to do an amazing pic. I personally fab anyone’s pic that looks cool and that’s it. However I am against admin giving couples the option of blocking fabs from single guys if it is deemed as unwanted attention. I feel that single guy’s get a bad rap on here and are treated like a unholy creature that has just ventured out of it’s crypt. The problem that I feel that blocking single guys fabbing couples is that it brings the site awfully near segregating entire groups of people on here, which nobody really wants I hope. A situation where couples only interact with couples, ts/tv only interact with bi curious/bi, single peoplle interact with single people only. Fab isn’t perfect and it never will be, but surely how it is now is better than making the site less fun because something that irritates you."

I don’t fully agree with you here, yes I’m with you that single men get a difficult time here and some women and couples are extremely rude even when there profile states they are looking for single men. However the flip side of that there are a LOT of single male profiles on fab and a lot of them are fake/pic collectors/time wasters/just knobs and as a woman or a couple I would imagine their inbox is inundated with messages from these profiles. So of course they should be able to block these profiles if the attention is unwanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No issues here with our pics being fabbed. More the merrier

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire


"This is something that seems to irk the couples contingent of fab. So what is the problem if someone like myself fabbed a pic where someone had gone to the time and trouble to do an amazing pic. I personally fab anyone’s pic that looks cool and that’s it. However I am against admin giving couples the option of blocking fabs from single guys if it is deemed as unwanted attention. I feel that single guy’s get a bad rap on here and are treated like a unholy creature that has just ventured out of it’s crypt. The problem that I feel that blocking single guys fabbing couples is that it brings the site awfully near segregating entire groups of people on here, which nobody really wants I hope. A situation where couples only interact with couples, ts/tv only interact with bi curious/bi, single peoplle interact with single people only. Fab isn’t perfect and it never will be, but surely how it is now is better than making the site less fun because something that irritates you."

Fab away we don't mind

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By *igBanMan
over a year ago

kidlington


"No issue here.

Fab away!"

Done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t see the issue. If you don’t want your pictures fab’d then remove the option.

P enjoys having her pictures fab’d. If anything it is just a compliment.

Fab away guys.

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

There's no option to block one group fabbing pics. You either remove everyone fabbing them or you don't.

It's your own single guy bias making you think that way I fear.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I don't think you can stop anyone one gender from fabbing pics. You can turn off everyone fabbing your pics tho .

Pity you look FAB in your pics!"

Ah thank you.

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By *psidedown PineapplesCouple
over a year ago

Sussex

We love our pics being fab’d. Doesn’t mean we want to meet every fabber but we put our pics out to be enjoyed. If you enjoy them, fab them, whoever you are, we love it. Normally have a cheeky return browse too

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By *oberts_onMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn


"We love our pics being fab’d. Doesn’t mean we want to meet every fabber but we put our pics out to be enjoyed. If you enjoy them, fab them, whoever you are, we love it. Normally have a cheeky return browse too "

Love the B&W pics...

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By *oberts_onMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn

If the picture is sexy, has a bit of humour and is well thought out, ill fab it! Surely, somebody fabbing them should be taken as a compliment?!

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

No objections to single guys fabbing !! but as already has been said it's when they message or they themselves have no pictures or just the infamous dick pics we then do block them ..

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By *psidedown PineapplesCouple
over a year ago

Sussex


"We love our pics being fab’d. Doesn’t mean we want to meet every fabber but we put our pics out to be enjoyed. If you enjoy them, fab them, whoever you are, we love it. Normally have a cheeky return browse too

Love the B&W pics... "

Thanks!

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