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"This is something that seems to irk the couples contingent of fab. So what is the problem if someone like myself fabbed a pic where someone had gone to the time and trouble to do an amazing pic. I personally fab anyone’s pic that looks cool and that’s it. However I am against admin giving couples the option of blocking fabs from single guys if it is deemed as unwanted attention. I feel that single guy’s get a bad rap on here and are treated like a unholy creature that has just ventured out of it’s crypt. The problem that I feel that blocking single guys fabbing couples is that it brings the site awfully near segregating entire groups of people on here, which nobody really wants I hope. A situation where couples only interact with couples, ts/tv only interact with bi curious/bi, single peoplle interact with single people only. Fab isn’t perfect and it never will be, but surely how it is now is better than making the site less fun because something that irritates you." Same here mate... If I see a pic or ten that I like. I'll fab it regardless of who it is! If these person doesn't want to be fabbed then don't allow it. | |||
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"We appreciate fabs from anyone but it doesn’t mean we would necessarily want to engage in conversation or arrange a meet. If the couple don’t wish to interact with single men that’s their choice and if it saves a single man from a wasted message then I’m sure most men see that as a positive. Too many complain that they don’t get a response when sending messages so it saves hassle all round if you just prevent those you’re not interested from contacting you. Lou x " Exactly this and if I message a woman or a couple. It's far easier if someone reads your message and doesn't respond if they don't wish to engage... Rather than read it and then leave it as marked unread. | |||
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"I don't think you can stop anyone one gender from fabbing pics. You can turn off everyone fabbing your pics tho ." This | |||
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"Fabs are just compliments aren't they? We get fabs from all types of people regardless of sex or sexuality. We don't read anything into it other than they liked the picture or video. " Great profile pic | |||
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"Fabs are just compliments aren't they? We get fabs from all types of people regardless of sex or sexuality. We don't read anything into it other than they liked the picture or video. " Same. I’m not looking for single guys but, still find it a huge compliment if they fab a pic. | |||
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"No issue here. Fab away!" I do | |||
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"This is something that seems to irk the couples contingent of fab. So what is the problem if someone like myself fabbed a pic where someone had gone to the time and trouble to do an amazing pic. I personally fab anyone’s pic that looks cool and that’s it. However I am against admin giving couples the option of blocking fabs from single guys if it is deemed as unwanted attention. I feel that single guy’s get a bad rap on here and are treated like a unholy creature that has just ventured out of it’s crypt. The problem that I feel that blocking single guys fabbing couples is that it brings the site awfully near segregating entire groups of people on here, which nobody really wants I hope. A situation where couples only interact with couples, ts/tv only interact with bi curious/bi, single peoplle interact with single people only. Fab isn’t perfect and it never will be, but surely how it is now is better than making the site less fun because something that irritates you." I don’t think this is an issue and the filters are about messaging not fabbing pics. Anyone is welcome to fab away. The rest of your argument is interesting, who and what folks interact with is down to personal choice. Folks can segregate who they like, it would be a very strange place if they couldn’t and certainly not worth bothering with. The mindless, cut and pasters harping on about their amazing and irresistible attributes or their other bizarre assumptions about meeting up, would certainly be out of control. The filters and blocking system is what makes fab useable. | |||
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"I don't think you can stop anyone one gender from fabbing pics. You can turn off everyone fabbing your pics tho ." Pity you look FAB in your pics! | |||
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"This is something that seems to irk the couples contingent of fab. So what is the problem if someone like myself fabbed a pic where someone had gone to the time and trouble to do an amazing pic. I personally fab anyone’s pic that looks cool and that’s it. However I am against admin giving couples the option of blocking fabs from single guys if it is deemed as unwanted attention. I feel that single guy’s get a bad rap on here and are treated like a unholy creature that has just ventured out of it’s crypt. The problem that I feel that blocking single guys fabbing couples is that it brings the site awfully near segregating entire groups of people on here, which nobody really wants I hope. A situation where couples only interact with couples, ts/tv only interact with bi curious/bi, single peoplle interact with single people only. Fab isn’t perfect and it never will be, but surely how it is now is better than making the site less fun because something that irritates you." I have been fabbing couples for a long time and many couples. Nobody has ever complained. | |||
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"No problem with that tbh.. If your pictures are up for public to see I don't see why it bothers people that a single guy likes it.. " Absolutely. I'm astonished that anyone would think otherwise. I fab pix because I like them, not because I want to meet the people in them. | |||
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"This is something that seems to irk the couples contingent of fab. So what is the problem if someone like myself fabbed a pic where someone had gone to the time and trouble to do an amazing pic. I personally fab anyone’s pic that looks cool and that’s it. However I am against admin giving couples the option of blocking fabs from single guys if it is deemed as unwanted attention. I feel that single guy’s get a bad rap on here and are treated like a unholy creature that has just ventured out of it’s crypt. The problem that I feel that blocking single guys fabbing couples is that it brings the site awfully near segregating entire groups of people on here, which nobody really wants I hope. A situation where couples only interact with couples, ts/tv only interact with bi curious/bi, single peoplle interact with single people only. Fab isn’t perfect and it never will be, but surely how it is now is better than making the site less fun because something that irritates you." I'm the same as you If I look at a profile with hot pics then I fab them I've often looked through maybe about 150 pics and probably fabbed close to 100 of them if their the sort of pics I find a turn on I believe that's what the fab function is for | |||
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"We're always happy to be fabbed - by anyone" Same for us | |||
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"We're always happy to be fabbed - by anyoneSame for us " . Just as well you don't mind lol | |||
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"It's already cruel enough to see what you can't have" This comes across as so entitled. People post pics for all sorts of reasons on here, some enjoy exhibitionism, others enjoy being fabbed as it gives them a confidence boost. I'd say very few do it to wind you up. Do you go out and see nicely dressed women with a husband and think the same? Probably not. So why is it different here? Best solution for your issue I think is to adjust your thinking, or leave. Because this kind of attitude isn't healthy for anyone. | |||
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"I'm very cautious about who I Fab nowadays. Some years ago I Fabbed a guys photo because I thought it was just a great pic. I obviously wasn't what he was looking for and I got a tirade of abuse from him in a message which basically questioned how dare I Fab his photo followed by an immediate Block. I now only view in stealth mode and never Fab any photos if I think it would cause consternation. " Don't let one guys prejudice and entitlement stop you from enjoying and participating in the site as much as anyone else | |||
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"This is something that seems to irk the couples contingent of fab. So what is the problem if someone like myself fabbed a pic where someone had gone to the time and trouble to do an amazing pic. I personally fab anyone’s pic that looks cool and that’s it. However I am against admin giving couples the option of blocking fabs from single guys if it is deemed as unwanted attention. I feel that single guy’s get a bad rap on here and are treated like a unholy creature that has just ventured out of it’s crypt. The problem that I feel that blocking single guys fabbing couples is that it brings the site awfully near segregating entire groups of people on here, which nobody really wants I hope. A situation where couples only interact with couples, ts/tv only interact with bi curious/bi, single peoplle interact with single people only. Fab isn’t perfect and it never will be, but surely how it is now is better than making the site less fun because something that irritates you." I don’t fully agree with you here, yes I’m with you that single men get a difficult time here and some women and couples are extremely rude even when there profile states they are looking for single men. However the flip side of that there are a LOT of single male profiles on fab and a lot of them are fake/pic collectors/time wasters/just knobs and as a woman or a couple I would imagine their inbox is inundated with messages from these profiles. So of course they should be able to block these profiles if the attention is unwanted. | |||
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"This is something that seems to irk the couples contingent of fab. So what is the problem if someone like myself fabbed a pic where someone had gone to the time and trouble to do an amazing pic. I personally fab anyone’s pic that looks cool and that’s it. However I am against admin giving couples the option of blocking fabs from single guys if it is deemed as unwanted attention. I feel that single guy’s get a bad rap on here and are treated like a unholy creature that has just ventured out of it’s crypt. The problem that I feel that blocking single guys fabbing couples is that it brings the site awfully near segregating entire groups of people on here, which nobody really wants I hope. A situation where couples only interact with couples, ts/tv only interact with bi curious/bi, single peoplle interact with single people only. Fab isn’t perfect and it never will be, but surely how it is now is better than making the site less fun because something that irritates you." Fab away we don't mind | |||
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"No issue here. Fab away!" Done | |||
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"I don't think you can stop anyone one gender from fabbing pics. You can turn off everyone fabbing your pics tho . Pity you look FAB in your pics!" Ah thank you. | |||
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"We love our pics being fab’d. Doesn’t mean we want to meet every fabber but we put our pics out to be enjoyed. If you enjoy them, fab them, whoever you are, we love it. Normally have a cheeky return browse too " Love the B&W pics... | |||
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"We love our pics being fab’d. Doesn’t mean we want to meet every fabber but we put our pics out to be enjoyed. If you enjoy them, fab them, whoever you are, we love it. Normally have a cheeky return browse too Love the B&W pics... " Thanks! | |||
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