FabSwingers.com forum: How did you get into the lifestyle?

By *rMrs84 OP Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

How did you end up finding yourself in the swinging scene?

Couples who brought it up? Was the other hesitant? Singles why swinging instead of just random one nighters on tinder?

Tell your stories.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I use this the same as tinder anyway.

It’s 90% the same people.

The way men act on here is different to other apps in my opinion.

The same men will be asking me on a date on tinder and telling me what they really want on here purely because they think on each it’s what the other wants to hear.

I don’t know if singles can be classes as swingers lol, but I’m here for the club vibe!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I (Luke) joined the scene while I was in a sexless relationship. My wife said I wouldn't get it from her to I might as well get it somewhere else. A friend of the family was on the scene and introduced me to it.

As my marriage was breaking down, Hannah and I came across each other via the Internet while she was living in America. There was never any expectation of getting together. I made no secret of my swinging involvement as we talked about our lives past and present. I said that I wouldn't be interested in a monogamous relationship and expected to be single if my marriage broke up and meet my sexual needs without romantic relationships.

Hannah had also had bad experiences in conventional relationships and as things developed between us we started thinking and talking about what a non-monogamous relationship between us might look like that met both our needs.

This was a much more healthy relationship than my marriage and I stopped having the desire to shag around and wanted to focus on her. She moved away from the idea of monogamy that she was used to and liked the idea of involving other people to some extent. So we very naturally met in the middle and have a desire to be open to involving other people in our sex life without it being a free-for-all. So here we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were having a little break camping we,d had a few drinks and got a little frisky in the tent Lucy ended up riding me but was conscious of the noise as there was a fairly hot couple on the pitch next to us, mid flow I said dnt worry they can just come join us and that was it she went like the clappers so assumed it had turned her on. Mentioned it again when we got home and it came about she was a little bi curious so wanted a ffm threesome. We ended up on here searching and just went from there. We have now done most things but the thing we originally came on here for lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm unsure why I'm here, wanting something different I guess

Although I'm yet to experience whether or not fab women are different to the previous women iv encountered

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By *rMrs84 OP Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

"We were having a little break camping we,d had a few drinks and got a little frisky in the tent Lucy ended up riding me but was conscious of the noise as there was a fairly hot couple on the pitch next to us, mid flow I said dnt worry they can just come join us and that was it she went like the clappers so assumed it had turned her on. Mentioned it again when we got home and it came about she was a little bi curious so wanted a ffm threesome. We ended up on here searching and just went from there. We have now done most things but the thing we originally came on here for lol. "

We’d have come and joined you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was so long ago I don't think the term 'swinging' had been invented! My then wife and I fantasised about mmf threesomes after looking at a Danish porn mag featuring one.Later, after several parties at which it was obvious men fancied my wife and she liked the attention, we discussed it and agreed we would open up our marriage. We both had other partners, one of hers joining us for regular threesomes. That's how we started. I'm now with another partner who is happy for me to pursue mmf's with other couples, as she isn't interested.

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

A longtime ago in a galaxy far far away...

Seeing my then GF sucking a guys cock without either of them knowing I was watching.

Found it so horny & on the drive home from the party i told her what I’d seen her do and how it made me feel. It must have hit a chord with her as she suck my cock for the rest of the journey home. We talked bout it and decided to try it. Went to a local club and had our eyes well and truly opened.

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