FabSwingers.com forum: Strapon play did wife ask to do it or hubby ask to try it

By *istressdandsubt OP Couple
over a year ago

caterham

Always wondered who asked to use the strapon first the male half asking to be fucked or the female saying I want to fuck an ass . How did you bring the subject up

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough

I've always been the one to ask for it (male half). Guess I'm just an eager butt beaver.

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By *istressdandsubt OP Couple
over a year ago

caterham

"I've always been the one to ask for it (male half). Guess I'm just an eager butt beaver. "

Cool

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By *C7995XCouple
over a year ago

London

We use a strap on but male uses it on female. Not the other way round. We just thought that’s what everyone did lol.

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

Roger asked, I obliged.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

The women we meet generally request it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked and huney obliged , I find being taken makes for a very intense session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner asked me to use one on him, as he had enjoyed it in his pass relationships ,and would I be up for giving it a go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Mr) asked and she happily obliged. I like it when she takes control every now and then.

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By *amy8179Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

The Mr asked first and I obliged, I often used to finger his arse when sucking him off so I suppose it was the next logical step xx

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Hubby asked me and I gave it a good go. But discovered it wasn't for me. I just didn't like the feeling of the strap on between my legs it made me feel unfeminine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hubby asked me and I gave it a good go. But discovered it wasn't for me. I just didn't like the feeling of the strap on between my legs it made me feel unfeminine"

You can get a strapless one

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough

"Hubby asked me and I gave it a good go. But discovered it wasn't for me. I just didn't like the feeling of the strap on between my legs it made me feel unfeminine

You can get a strapless one"

I mean, you've still got a rubber dick hanging between your thighs, whether it's anchored in your fanny or not

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Hubby asked me and I gave it a good go. But discovered it wasn't for me. I just didn't like the feeling of the strap on between my legs it made me feel unfeminine

You can get a strapless one

I mean, you've still got a rubber dick hanging between your thighs, whether it's anchored in your fanny or not

Yes this lol

It was just something I tried and didn't enjoy. But I will give anything a go. You don't know until you've tried it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure who originally mentioned it. But now we love a Sunday bumday

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By *iscreetDonerMan
over a year ago

hartlepool

Wife's keeps asking me but I havnt got the bottle

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough

"Wife's keeps asking me but I havnt got the bottle

I wouldn't recommend using a bottle fella. Have you not seen that infamous old internet classic?

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By *iscreetDonerMan
over a year ago

hartlepool

"Wife's keeps asking me but I havnt got the bottle

I wouldn't recommend using a bottle fella. Have you not seen that infamous old internet classic? "

as if man you know what I ment and if its what I'm thinking yes I have bork haha

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By *ick111Man
over a year ago

Swindon

"Wife's keeps asking me but I havnt got the bottle

its wonderful give it a go, whats the worst that can happen

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By *imandHer9396Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

He asked, I bought one for Christmas as a present. Couldn't bring myself to try for years of him asking, so I got d*unk and gave it a go.

Love pegging him now! I'm not dominant by nature, but I love the way he squirms under me and that it brings him pleasure.

Wish I tried years ago

Her x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Always wondered who asked to use the strapon first the male half asking to be fucked or the female saying I want to fuck an ass . How did you bring the subject up "

Anita wanted me to buy her a strapon and let her peg me as a birthday treat.

We both enjoyed it

Cal

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By *umblebiMan
over a year ago

ayles

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By *enzg1987Man
over a year ago

Winchester

I met a lady that I didn't know was a domme... she suggested it, I wasn't sure at first but tried bondage and spanking etc then built up to it.

Now I'd be willing to look for it, it seems impossible to find.

Do women that are into it prefer uninitiated men?

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By *ustcyberMan
over a year ago

North Herts

Years ago for me. I asked my wife and we went shopping together. Just wish she was interested these days, I love it.

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Male asked ….. but she loved obliging

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By *urvycocoaminxWoman
over a year ago

london

It’s always been the guys suggestion…but I did own a strap on long before a guy had ever mentioned it…maybe I was just preparing for the inevitable!!

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By *havencoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Intially I asked the missus and she obliged though now having moved up to a bigger strap on she loves the control pounding me hard gives her & finds the noise I make a real turn on

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Wife asked first. X

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

How it feels?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to try it x

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

It takes trust but it feels great.

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By *Sweet94Couple
over a year ago

dunfermline

Mr really enjoyed me playing with his ass, so i bought a strap on the surprise him one night we both loved it

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By *key1980Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

Iam too scared too ask mine!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My gf asked to do it

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We’d both done it previously so it just naturally happened..

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By *witch Roy-MrsKarenCouple
over a year ago

york

We’re watching porn and strap on play clip came on. Wife said she would like to try that. So ordered one for our next date night. Is regular thing for us now

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By *rchitectMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I have always asked in a very nice way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have asked but not always been well received (no pun intended)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have asked wife, but not interested, thats why I'm on here for the real thing

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town

I just came out out with it.

Got denied though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife suggested it after I came out as bi. I suggested using her bbc dildo in the strap on with her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife suggested we get one, we both love it

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By *wingingSam93Man
over a year ago

Leeds

For those males who have asked - or would like to ask but haven't yet - was their any concern that Mrs (wrongly) thought you might be at the very least bi?

Whilst having not done it myself, whenever the conversation has arisen amongst various vanilla friends over the years, I have heard several say that they would never peg a man because they would be worried he was either gay or bisexual.

Of course, that's obviously not true, but I wonder how prevalent that viewpoint is. I anticipate it's less widely held by people likely to be on the site in the first place, however.

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By *rChanceMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Personally I was initiated by surprise a very cute amount of finger-force and a fair deal of confusion in myself about if i really enjoyed it. However these days, it just feels quite normal to let the girls have a bit of very enjoyable revenge! its in the category of bi

Certainly enough to get you in trouble if you talk about it openly in church, but its not really more than 0.5% bi in my opinion (if it really needs to be thought about)

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By *entlemale69Man
over a year ago

nuneaton

I suggested to my now ex as she liked anal sex and we gave it a go. We both enjoyed it and as soon as we got into a certain position, I knew the strap on was coming out the drawer.

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