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By *avess OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I've seen an increasingly large amount of womens profile stipulating if a man won't lick pussy then don't bother.

I find it remarkable that this has to be a thing as I love going down on women, and even more so if they ride my face. It's awesome! Why do guys not go down on a woman?!

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By *aughtyloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

Maybe they are closet gays

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By *arol321Woman
over a year ago

Poole

My first husband did until we were married then said he wasn't doing it anymore as he didn't really like it! Funny how he still expected blow jobs and anal - I hate anal!

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By *avess OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Maybe they are closet gays "

Oh damn. I hadn't thought of this Could very well be true!

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By *avess OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"My first husband did until we were married then said he wasn't doing it anymore as he didn't really like it! Funny how he still expected blow jobs and anal - I hate anal! "

THIS. The double standard that they still expect the world when then aren't prepared to do the same!

That's remarkable though to do a U Turn like that!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it. "

You aren't alone!..I love to go down on a woman. Surprising how many women don't like it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it. "

Me too. Some seem obsessed by it like there is nothing else to do.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it. "

This!!!! Like it’s expected I let them even though I can’t stand it xx

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"I've seen an increasingly large amount of womens profile stipulating if a man won't lick pussy then don't bother.

I find it remarkable that this has to be a thing as I love going down on women, and even more so if they ride my face. It's awesome! Why do guys not go down on a woman?! "

I can count on one hand the amount of meets that have asked if they could. I refuse mostly anyway... but its definitely not something guys do on a regular basis

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Ben gets lots of practice ...love it ...

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

I'd rather they didn't - it's really not my thing at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.

This!!!! Like it’s expected I let them even though I can’t stand it xx"

Why? Just say that you don't enjoy it and tell them what you'd prefer... Nobody is going to mind that

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.

This!!!! Like it’s expected I let them even though I can’t stand it xx

Why? Just say that you don't enjoy it and tell them what you'd prefer... Nobody is going to mind that"

I can assure you 90% of them mind lol. That’s why I said it’s expected. Xx

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.

This!!!! Like it’s expected I let them even though I can’t stand it xx"

I've never really had anyone get the arse when I've said I'd rather not... the funny thing is I adore it from my partner xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My experience has been that guys love a bj. Ive been in situations where theres more bj than sex so if a guy wants to go down on me i allow it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it. "

Exactly this ^^^ I avoid profiles that say they love it and do it for hours! Boring ... if I'm not in the mood then it's not going to happen

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By *avess OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.

This!!!! Like it’s expected I let them even though I can’t stand it xx

Why? Just say that you don't enjoy it and tell them what you'd prefer... Nobody is going to mind that

I can assure you 90% of them mind lol. That’s why I said it’s expected. Xx"

This annoys me though, that 90% of men will get pissy over it. If a woman turned around and said please don't I don't like that. I'd just ask what they do like and do that instead.

You shouldn't have to cater for mens weak egos!

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield


"My first husband did until we were married then said he wasn't doing it anymore as he didn't really like it! Funny how he still expected blow jobs and anal - I hate anal! "
but still did both to please him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.

This!!!! Like it’s expected I let them even though I can’t stand it xx

Why? Just say that you don't enjoy it and tell them what you'd prefer... Nobody is going to mind that

I can assure you 90% of them mind lol. That’s why I said it’s expected. Xx"

Wow I'm surprised. I have no interest in doing something that the other person doesn't enjoy. Where's the fun in that? Lol

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton

I love it! But it has to be a pretty V.

Would you kiss someone you didn’t find attractive?!?

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By *ranny hunterMan
over a year ago

Durham

It’s my forte . Love going down on a woman. Can stay there for hours . In fact my ex told all her friends how good I was . But never strayed. But single now and alway available. Any size

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield

I cannot belive i have read so many texts here from women saying they dont like men going down on them, OMG! I love it and always got them to orgasam and lap it up

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Some girls love being gone down on others not, ask their preference before you descend guys only good manners after all

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"I cannot belive i have read so many texts here from women saying they dont like men going down on them, OMG! I love it and always got them to orgasam and lap it up "

I guess it's a case of each to their own and every couple is different... we can't all be the same.

Plenty of mutual O going on with us and we both love it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a huge fan of going down on women but I'll never force the issue if they're not into it.

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

I’d feel I short changed a lady by not going down

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

I find it odd how a lot of guys try to win us over by offering THE MOST AMAZING oral for hours on end. Don't mind it as a bit of a starter, but there's a lot more to it than oral. And after about 3 minutes I'll have had enough, because I really don't find it all that spectacular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone’s different. None of these things are game changers. We just respect people’s preferences.

J

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I cannot belive i have read so many texts here from women saying they dont like men going down on them, OMG! I love it and always got them to orgasam and lap it up "

It's good that you're meeting people you're compatible with

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.

This!!!! Like it’s expected I let them even though I can’t stand it xx

Why? Just say that you don't enjoy it and tell them what you'd prefer... Nobody is going to mind that

I can assure you 90% of them mind lol. That’s why I said it’s expected. Xx

Wow I'm surprised. I have no interest in doing something that the other person doesn't enjoy. Where's the fun in that? Lol "

Same here.

Most of my own enjoyment comes from seeing the person I'm with really enjoying it. If she hated it, I would too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not every man likes it. There's plenty of other fun to be had, so it's not a deal-breaker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.

This!!!! Like it’s expected I let them even though I can’t stand it xx

Why? Just say that you don't enjoy it and tell them what you'd prefer... Nobody is going to mind that

I can assure you 90% of them mind lol. That’s why I said it’s expected. Xx

Wow I'm surprised. I have no interest in doing something that the other person doesn't enjoy. Where's the fun in that? Lol

Same here.

Most of my own enjoyment comes from seeing the person I'm with really enjoying it. If she hated it, I would too. "

Precisely mate

I like to please and be pleased. Lol

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By *andD300Couple
over a year ago

london

D cannot get enough of going down on me and will get his tongue as far as he can in my pussy.

He then kisses me so I can lick my juice off of his chin. C.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It turns me on immensely licking a pussy especially starting off slowly and building it up teasing, caressing, stroking, finding the different eronorous zones and seeing how it reacts using different techniques then it’s can lead to mind blowing body shaking bed soaking explosive multiple orgasms and then it’s hammer time haha

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By *egvisir71Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

It’s the same as with anything, you’ve got to read them and gauge if they’re enjoying it, if not, move on. No enjoyment in laboriously continuing to do something your partner isn’t enjoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it as long as the man knows what he is doing

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By *N69Man
over a year ago

nantwich

I like going down if the women likes it. Could stay there all day if she lets me.

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands

I love doing it, but only if the woman wants me to do it. I get no enjoyment from doing anything thats not turning a lady on. Whats the point

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By *egvisir71Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"I love it as long as the man knows what he is doing"

I guess that helps

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By *oneymitchMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Being brought up around people with a predominantly jamaican background it was highly frowned upon as something guys really shouldnt do and it had so much stigma, i dont think i went down on a woman until I was like 30 years old. I must admit I do enjoy it tho.

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By *ensualnFunCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"I love it as long as the man knows what he is doing"

That! And they have to enjoy doing it too, if it’s just a box ticking exercise, I’ll know and it’s not enjoyable so no thanks!

But it also depends on the mood... like I don’t always feel like giving a bj I don’t expect men to go down on me either.

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By *arol321Woman
over a year ago

Poole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.

Me too. Some seem obsessed by it like there is nothing else to do. "

That’s why it’s best to find out what people are into and should take more note

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By *arol321Woman
over a year ago

Poole


"My first husband did until we were married then said he wasn't doing it anymore as he didn't really like it! Funny how he still expected blow jobs and anal - I hate anal!

but still did both to please him"

Not so much to please him more didn’t get a choice with the anal. Still older and wiser now and wouldn’t do it these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really my thing, prefer cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love giving oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first husband did until we were married then said he wasn't doing it anymore as he didn't really like it! Funny how he still expected blow jobs and anal - I hate anal! "

Trying hard to think if there’s anything I wouldn’t do with you

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.

Exactly this ^^^ I avoid profiles that say they love it and do it for hours! Boring ... if I'm not in the mood then it's not going to happen "

I find that to be code for their cock doesn’t work

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By *ucksguy2000Man
over a year ago

aylesbury

If you expect a bj then you really should go down, I know some women are happy just to give bjs. I always offer, if they say no then fair enough

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By *arol321Woman
over a year ago

Poole


"My first husband did until we were married then said he wasn't doing it anymore as he didn't really like it! Funny how he still expected blow jobs and anal - I hate anal!

Trying hard to think if there’s anything I wouldn’t do with you "

Aww that’s sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving oral but if a woman asked me not to do it, then obviously I wouldn't. I guess there is a tendency to assume that everybody likes it. Thinking of my three long-term partners, one loved it and came every time, one was OK with it but preferred penetration (but strangely was excelelnt in giving oral to me and very happy to), and the third doesn't understand why I like it and isn't keen on it. So quite mixed views which seems to reflect this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little bit of foreplay is nice but not to much I always ask what they like and don't like

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I've seen an increasingly large amount of womens profile stipulating if a man won't lick pussy then don't bother.

I find it remarkable that this has to be a thing as I love going down on women, and even more so if they ride my face. It's awesome! Why do guys not go down on a woman?! "

Not a problem, if they earn it.

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By *est_Mids_Nice_GuyMan
over a year ago

willenhall

I love it!!! And making a woman cum from it is a massive turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insane, genuinely one if not my favourite thing to indulge in

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By *ellohiagainMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Can’t beat licking/eating pussy ... love it and like to think I’m quite skilled in that department I suppose my long tongue helps

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By *iglittleoneMan
over a year ago

B76 is home

It's natural to go down there I absolutely love it

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"It’s my forte . Love going down on a woman. Can stay there for hours . In fact my ex told all her friends how good I was . But never strayed. But single now and alway available. Any size"
I doubt any woman wants to be licked for hours....

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By *weetPea-kMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

I'm really surprised how many women here don't like recieving oral but it does explain why nobody is interested in what i'm looking for

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By *irtyold manMan
over a year ago

barnsley

I luv to lick a woman to orgasam before sex then shes fully turned on and enjoys the sex more if shes just cum and twitching

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Massive fan of giving oral and exploring with my tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To go down on a lady and lick and slide your tongue deep inside her sucking the clit as you use your fingers

What could be better than that

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

Genuine question - what is it than you ladies don’t enjoy about receiving oral? Is it you don’t feel anything, or too intimate to your most personal space?

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

I'm a British Olimpic freestyle muff diving champion if any of you ladies want to get in touch.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Genuine question - what is it than you ladies don’t enjoy about receiving oral? Is it you don’t feel anything, or too intimate to your most personal space?"

I just don't particularly enjoy it. I don't hate it and I've tried it of course, several times, my partner is very good at it. There is just so much more to foreplay. If a guy really loves to give oral I am not the woman for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Genuine question - what is it than you ladies don’t enjoy about receiving oral? Is it you don’t feel anything, or too intimate to your most personal space?"

I like it with the right person but only when I'm in the mood for it ... there is so very much more that can be done for foreplay! Also guys that like "to do oral for hours" it gets so very boring, literally mind can start thinking about other things! (Not sexual things ) Why limit yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first husband did until we were married then said he wasn't doing it anymore as he didn't really like it! Funny how he still expected blow jobs and anal - I hate anal! "

Your first husband sounds rather selfish

No offense

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west


"Genuine question - what is it than you ladies don’t enjoy about receiving oral? Is it you don’t feel anything, or too intimate to your most personal space?

I just don't particularly enjoy it. I don't hate it and I've tried it of course, several times, my partner is very good at it. There is just so much more to foreplay. If a guy really loves to give oral I am not the woman for him.

"

Ah right ok, so it’s along the lines of, “yes very nice, now move on to something else?”

Kind of like having your favourite meal every day, soon get sick of it?

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By *abble-onMan
over a year ago

Minehead

If anyone finds they're stuck in this situation, I would be happy to help remedy the issue

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Genuine question - what is it than you ladies don’t enjoy about receiving oral? Is it you don’t feel anything, or too intimate to your most personal space?

I just don't particularly enjoy it. I don't hate it and I've tried it of course, several times, my partner is very good at it. There is just so much more to foreplay. If a guy really loves to give oral I am not the woman for him.

Ah right ok, so it’s along the lines of, “yes very nice, now move on to something else?”

Kind of like having your favourite meal every day, soon get sick of it?"

No it's a case of please don't do that . There are lots more things I'd rather do and I don't believe in doing something that I don't particularly enjoy unless I really have to. It's on our profile that I don't like it so nobody gets disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing better than licking a nice pussy.

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan
over a year ago

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"I've seen an increasingly large amount of womens profile stipulating if a man won't lick pussy then don't bother.

"

Is it worth licking the pussy though? IMO, I love licking pussy; it's kind of one of those expected steps between the sock gap and full penetration. Foreplay isn't complete if you haven't gone down on her.

Having said that.......... there's some girls I wouldn't go down on or wished that I hadn't.

To be brutally, blunt: Good hygiene and being in shape makes it appealing. If it already smells bad and I haven't put my head down there, no matter what you put on your profile if the milk is sour, I ain't the pussy that's going to be lapping it up. Equally, if there's rolls of fat, a gut hanging down and I can't get in there, put how much you want to be licked out on your profile as much as you like, but if it's not going to be a good experience for me, I'm not doing it!

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I must admit, I love just giving oral meets. I joined FAB looking, for someone local, just to do so, but was quite amazed to find how unpopular it is and I wont even mention facesitting

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"I've seen an increasingly large amount of womens profile stipulating if a man won't lick pussy then don't bother.

Is it worth licking the pussy though? IMO, I love licking pussy; it's kind of one of those expected steps between the sock gap and full penetration. Foreplay isn't complete if you haven't gone down on her.

Having said that.......... there's some girls I wouldn't go down on or wished that I hadn't.

To be brutally, blunt: Good hygiene and being in shape makes it appealing. If it already smells bad and I haven't put my head down there, no matter what you put on your profile if the milk is sour, I ain't the pussy that's going to be lapping it up. Equally, if there's rolls of fat, a gut hanging down and I can't get in there, put how much you want to be licked out on your profile as much as you like, but if it's not going to be a good experience for me, I'm not doing it!"

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.

This!!!! Like it’s expected I let them even though I can’t stand it xx

Why? Just say that you don't enjoy it and tell them what you'd prefer... Nobody is going to mind that

I can assure you 90% of them mind lol. That’s why I said it’s expected. Xx"

I love giving oral but would never dream of it if she didn’t like it.

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I've seen an increasingly large amount of womens profile stipulating if a man won't lick pussy then don't bother.

Is it worth licking the pussy though? IMO, I love licking pussy; it's kind of one of those expected steps between the sock gap and full penetration. Foreplay isn't complete if you haven't gone down on her.

Having said that.......... there's some girls I wouldn't go down on or wished that I hadn't.

To be brutally, blunt: Good hygiene and being in shape makes it appealing. If it already smells bad and I haven't put my head down there, no matter what you put on your profile if the milk is sour, I ain't the pussy that's going to be lapping it up. Equally, if there's rolls of fat, a gut hanging down and I can't get in there, put how much you want to be licked out on your profile as much as you like, but if it's not going to be a good experience for me, I'm not doing it!"

And of course your perfect, with a perfect body and gods gift to Women, with comments like that no wonder Women dont enjoy oral.

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan
over a year ago

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"I've seen an increasingly large amount of womens profile stipulating if a man won't lick pussy then don't bother.

Is it worth licking the pussy though? IMO, I love licking pussy; it's kind of one of those expected steps between the sock gap and full penetration. Foreplay isn't complete if you haven't gone down on her.

Having said that.......... there's some girls I wouldn't go down on or wished that I hadn't.

To be brutally, blunt: Good hygiene and being in shape makes it appealing. If it already smells bad and I haven't put my head down there, no matter what you put on your profile if the milk is sour, I ain't the pussy that's going to be lapping it up. Equally, if there's rolls of fat, a gut hanging down and I can't get in there, put how much you want to be licked out on your profile as much as you like, but if it's not going to be a good experience for me, I'm not doing it!

And of course your perfect, with a perfect body and gods gift to Women, with comments like that no wonder Women dont enjoy oral."

Isn't basic hygiene something that everyone would expect? If you flip it, would you have a smelly cock, nob cheese and a gut then by putting in your profile "If you don't deep throat my cock, don't bother"? Just because someone puts "I expect..." in their profile doesn't mean you're obliged to do it.

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

I can't understand why more people don't love going down on a woman. I really like a 69 while she is taking a man doggy and i get to lick her clit as he fucks her. Just finding a couple who also enjoy that is difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first husband did until we were married then said he wasn't doing it anymore as he didn't really like it! Funny how he still expected blow jobs and anal - I hate anal! "

Then don’t do it

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By *he Jizz PlayerMan
over a year ago

Hatfield

For me the most important thing is for people to enjoy what they are doing or what they are having done to them, without any pressure.

I like going down on a woman but would be mortified if I was doing something she didn't like.

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By *arol321Woman
over a year ago

Poole


"My first husband did until we were married then said he wasn't doing it anymore as he didn't really like it! Funny how he still expected blow jobs and anal - I hate anal!

Your first husband sounds rather selfish

No offense "

No offence taken - he was!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.

Me too. Some seem obsessed by it like there is nothing else to do. "

Totally this!

We have has many messages from single guys obsessed with oral on a women and many saying that's all they want to do.

Experience has taught us quite often there's a reason SOME single male profiles veer to heavily on just going down on a women.

Some examples

There penis is significantly below average in size (i.e. below 5 1/2 inches).

They struggle to get an erection.

They have problems maintaining an erection to the level needed for penetrative sex and when using condoms.

They have significant problems with premature ejaculation.

They are unable to perform in front of other men or groups of 3 people or more.

Before anyone thinks this is a bashing post I highlighted some men not all. Also as a guy myself I absolutely adored going down on a woman the scent, taste mmmm its incredible. I don't however like to "lick for hours" that's just ridiculous and if you ever find yourself in that position then I waver your doing it wrong. Not all women like oral the same way by a long shot. If you know how to read a women's responses then you should be able to adjust your technique to be able to ensure she enjoys it.

As much as I love going down on a woman after she has cum then I'm totally ready to move on to the next stage, including fucking. It's best when its an early course in a banquet.

KJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If thats what she wants and then thats what she gets. My aim is to tease and please

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By *aughty Nas xxxMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I love licking pussy ....nothing more arousing and horny x

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"I've seen an increasingly large amount of womens profile stipulating if a man won't lick pussy then don't bother.

I find it remarkable that this has to be a thing as I love going down on women, and even more so if they ride my face. It's awesome! Why do guys not go down on a woman?! "

Why wud you not I love doing it so I can’t answer your question sadly but I guess like everything else not everything is for everyone and we shud never judge although I still don’t understand lol

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.

This!!!! Like it’s expected I let them even though I can’t stand it xx

Why? Just say that you don't enjoy it and tell them what you'd prefer... Nobody is going to mind that

I can assure you 90% of them mind lol. That’s why I said it’s expected. Xx"

I'm not keen I like a hard long pounding

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"I've seen an increasingly large amount of womens profile stipulating if a man won't lick pussy then don't bother.

I find it remarkable that this has to be a thing as I love going down on women, and even more so if they ride my face. It's awesome! Why do guys not go down on a woman?! "

There's more than one reason a guy doesn't some I know of is due to selfish behaviour where they just want head but not give it back.

Some have come in contact with unclean pussy and it scars them and puts fear into them trying another woman orally.

Lastly there are some females that don't like oral done to them so if a guy comes across a few of those women its fair that he'll assume his luck is about crossing paths with that type but that doesn't make it right for him to just assume that. That is why communication is so important however communication won't really tell a man how clean a lady's kitty is till he meets it personally.

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By *0FLHMan
over a year ago

Devon

You have to it's part of the foreplay, I love tounging clits and sucking long pussy lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first husband did until we were married then said he wasn't doing it anymore as he didn't really like it! Funny how he still expected blow jobs and anal - I hate anal!

Trying hard to think if there’s anything I wouldn’t do with you

Aww that’s sweet "

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By *r_LickCouple
over a year ago

aberdeen

No use me commenting on this thread

Lol

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By *igcock123123Man
over a year ago

Newport

Love licking a women and watch them cream and have a good orgasm mmm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it myself

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By *igcock123123Man
over a year ago

Newport

And then I love giving them my big cock after I’ve licked them x

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

My current o/h is amazed that I'm into it.

I'm thinking whoTF has see been with?

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I love going down also love it when they sit on my face and ride my tongue until they cum again and again xx

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By * and debbsCouple
over a year ago

Winchester

Both me and my husband love going down on beautifull ladies xx

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By *oreThanCurvyWoman
over a year ago

Bucks

I received a message on fab from a local guy. He said that he doesn't like BBW, so he can fuck me, but he won't go down on me. I wasn't even bothered to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I received a message on fab from a local guy. He said that he doesn't like BBW, so he can fuck me, but he won't go down on me. I wasn't even bothered to reply. "

Really?? You mean you didn't ask for his address and run straight round there? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love a blow job and like to think I’m giving the same pleasure back,

I’ve only come across one lady that wasn’t into it and respected that,

I work with a number of black guys who all think it’s disgusting and refuse to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to go down on a woman x it's one of my favourite things x i would rather give oral than receive. But I love to receive too. I know that there are some guys who don't like to lick pussy can't understand why but each to their own x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The taste of a woman is something that sets my senses reeling

Cant describe it properly - very primeval - but just so horny

It’s not real sex without the taste xx

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By *asualandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Uxbridge

Communication. Be bold and tell people what you want.

I love going down on a woman, but I love seeing a woman enjoying herself far more. I'm sure most of us are here to experience new things, so by design I'd expect a bit of direction to be given when meeting new people.

None of us are here to just go through the motions surely.

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By *avess OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I received a message on fab from a local guy. He said that he doesn't like BBW, so he can fuck me, but he won't go down on me. I wasn't even bothered to reply. "

Weren't bothered to reply because you were so turned on by his offer that you went straight round?

Some guys really do have a special way of treating women!

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By *hetalltravellerMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen

Surely its only fun to do if the woman's enjoying it anyway, otherwise whats the point? I absolutely love going down and building her up to orgasm but if she was just lying there bored it wouldn't be the same!

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far


"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.

Exactly this ^^^ I avoid profiles that say they love it and do it for hours! Boring ... if I'm not in the mood then it's not going to happen

I find that to be code for their cock doesn’t work "

You are beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving oral to a lady, probably more than receiving it and more than sex, but the enjoyment comes from seeing the pleasure she gets out of it. So if she doesn't enjoy then it is pointless. I love looking up over a woman's pelvic bone and boobs and watching her face as she cums. That is a real turn on.

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By *ieselJuiceMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I went down on a woman once coz she said she tasted like the rainbow. Silly me thinking she meant skittles, but I didnt know she meant trout.

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

I love giving oral to a lady, and even better after sex when i get to go down on her and clean her up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to go down on a woman, the smell, the taste, the warmth, love it.

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By *ormladMan
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

I love going down on a woman and at the same time respect her wishes as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love going down but its about respecting the woman's wishes if she doesn't like or want oral ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first husband did until we were married then said he wasn't doing it anymore as he didn't really like it! Funny how he still expected blow jobs and anal - I hate anal! "

What a waste of a good woman, guessing he's not hubby anymore then? Lol

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