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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

It seems we're in the minority! Are there many couples who play this way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems we're in the minority! Are there many couples who play this way? "

We have done and have enjoyed it. We do full swap aswell though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play and Ady watches it works for us

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We love soft play x

Mrs N x

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

~~

Something we’ve considered but not yet experienced

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

As long as we find the couple attractive (and they us) any form of play can be really enjoyable; soft, full and all shades in between.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We are a bi female and soft play couple so your not alone in that but as some have said already soft play is quite popular too

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"It seems we're in the minority! Are there many couples who play this way? "
Seems so...something we like to do ....girly fun first ...

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By *iking SoftiesCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

It certainly works well for us, great fun. We decided from the start that we would only have full sex with each other and have never seen a reason to change that.

L enjoys some play with other women too so it is ideal.

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By *randMrsPCouple
over a year ago

Nr Salisbury

Hello from us!

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

You aren't alone and main reason we joined is so mrs4 can explore her Bi side more and yes mr4 is more than happy to watch and not just say he is but we do and have played other ways but fem on fem is strictly for mrs4 pleasure

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By *appy2100Couple
over a year ago

kensington

Same same.

A lot more of ue arround than you think. Debs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi soft play is our preferred meet scenario because without any shadow of doubt it is the most erotic, hedonistic and sensuous kind of sex there is.

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By *ame-room-no-swapCouple
over a year ago

Taunton


"It seems we're in the minority! Are there many couples who play this way? "

Yes , this is us

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By *he Secret OnesCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Hello from us too

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

We have as we do soft swap as well as full swap , both are lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as we find the couple attractive (and they us) any form of play can be really enjoyable; soft, full and all shades in between."

In total agreement with this attractive couple x

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By *lexnNatasha1977Couple
over a year ago

wigan

It gets our vote

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

We are very much soft swing and never thought we’d ever go further but we got to see a few couples quite regularly so things just moved on. There was no pressure from either side.

At the moment we’re looking forward to being able to be naked around others.

We would be more than happy to meet nice couples and take things as far as their boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems we're in the minority! Are there many couples who play this way?

We have done and have enjoyed it. We do full swap aswell though"

This xx

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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

Roll on the green light for fun

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By *entCouple12Couple
over a year ago

south kent

This seems to be a description that fits us as a couple. Girl fun and soft swap...roll on the first meet

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We enjoy soft as well as full swap.

It is all about different experiences.

Kx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoke full plays and plays with other ladies. Fire does soft play with other ladies. We’re both more than happy like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no issues with soft play. We need to be really into people we want to play with anyway.

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are x

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"As long as we find the couple attractive (and they us) any form of play can be really enjoyable; soft, full and all shades in between."
Agree

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By *wo on wireCouple
over a year ago

london

We love to soft play...it’s so sensual . X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all good for us love it

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We like soft and full swap.

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By *erwentsidersCouple
over a year ago

Derwentside

We like soft and full swaps too.

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Soft swap only here xxx

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

We only soft play. With couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally us is this .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeee. I am seeing a guy at the moment and we want to do it this way once or twice before trying more but haven’t found anyone interested in playing soft only.

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh


"Roll on the green light for fun "

Your not wrong there

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

We only soft play. But same sex fun mmmm I think a bit more would be lovely. lol

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By *ent and bratCouple
over a year ago

here there everywhere

We love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft swap is what we are about, with C and the other lady exploring their bi side a bit. Happened a couple of times and has been amazing...can’t wait til it can happen again

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By *acky RacersCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

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By *acky RacersCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

We were chatting about this last night. We would like to do soft swap meets where the ladies play and the gents play with thier own partners, with perhaps the odd touch here and there. After not playing with others for 18 months or so now due to Covid, we feel this would be the best way to get back into the swing of things. We are in no way ruling out full swap in the future though....Soft swap couples please get in touch.

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By *exywoman77Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

I think it's a good idea to start soft swap, we will do this when we start meeting again

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"As long as we find the couple attractive (and they us) any form of play can be really enjoyable; soft, full and all shades in between."

Yeah this

No hard and fast rules. All about the people and the vibe.

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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands


"We were chatting about this last night. We would like to do soft swap meets where the ladies play and the gents play with thier own partners, with perhaps the odd touch here and there. After not playing with others for 18 months or so now due to Covid, we feel this would be the best way to get back into the swing of things. We are in no way ruling out full swap in the future though....Soft swap couples please get in touch. "

We've played that way, had horny times

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By *ands09Couple
over a year ago

West London

It happened to us few times ... for the first few meets it was only girl on girl play and slowly we progressed to all 4 parties involved once there is familiarity ..

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By *ands09Couple
over a year ago

West London


"We were chatting about this last night. We would like to do soft swap meets where the ladies play and the gents play with thier own partners, with perhaps the odd touch here and there. After not playing with others for 18 months or so now due to Covid, we feel this would be the best way to get back into the swing of things. We are in no way ruling out full swap in the future though....Soft swap couples please get in touch. "

Totally agree .. it’s gonna be hard to go for a full swap straight way after so many months of lockdown..though we want to get back sooner than later in to swinging ways pre lockdown - I guess soft play is the best play to ease slowly back to swinging ways after literally 1.5 years.

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By *ame-room-no-swapCouple
over a year ago

Taunton


"Soft swap only here xxx"

And right on our doorstep!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How’s everyone getting on finding meets?

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By *ilts softiesCouple
over a year ago

marlbourgh

Its what we like best

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By *abriellajackCouple
over a year ago

Newport


"It seems we're in the minority! Are there many couples who play this way? "

We prefer this style of play. Certainly what we generally look for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we like that play happy to be a voyeur if Clara is with a girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs is fine with it, it's just trying to find another couple that want the same as us (M only interacting with their F).

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

We are this

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish


"Mrs is fine with it, it's just trying to find another couple that want the same as us (M only interacting with their F)."

That’s not what call soft swap…. Opening a can of worms here! I think many have different ideas of soft swap

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

Stands and waves hands at the crowds...

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

I'd like ff only with the guy watching but it's really difficult to find couples who don't get all offended when I say I only want the guy to watch/interact with his partner. Sometimes they say it's fine, then I get pressured. Makes me wary. It's a shame ... it's still fun that way

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By *abriellajackCouple
over a year ago

Newport


"I'd like ff only with the guy watching but it's really difficult to find couples who don't get all offended when I say I only want the guy to watch/interact with his partner. Sometimes they say it's fine, then I get pressured. Makes me wary. It's a shame ... it's still fun that way"

We find the opposite! Jack isn't bothered whether he plays with the other lady at all but we find it almost impossible finding women who are happy to not have full sex with us both during an mff.

Many have said its fine and then as the meet gets nearer it becomes apparent they aren't actually ok with those boundaries!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like ff only with the guy watching but it's really difficult to find couples who don't get all offended when I say I only want the guy to watch/interact with his partner. Sometimes they say it's fine, then I get pressured. Makes me wary. It's a shame ... it's still fun that way"

We would love to find a lady that just wants girl girl play.

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts


"I'd like ff only with the guy watching but it's really difficult to find couples who don't get all offended when I say I only want the guy to watch/interact with his partner. Sometimes they say it's fine, then I get pressured. Makes me wary. It's a shame ... it's still fun that way

We find the opposite! Jack isn't bothered whether he plays with the other lady at all but we find it almost impossible finding women who are happy to not have full sex with us both during an mff.

Many have said its fine and then as the meet gets nearer it becomes apparent they aren't actually ok with those boundaries! "

good to know ... makes me feel a bit better about my own experiences ...at least I am not the only one! in a reverse kind of way

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By *ame-room-no-swapCouple
over a year ago

Taunton


"Mrs is fine with it, it's just trying to find another couple that want the same as us (M only interacting with their F)."

You’re so far away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems we're in the minority! Are there many couples who play this way? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are looking to arrange something next month..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its something we want. Weve been on here for ages but not yet taken the plunge! Life just keeps getting in the way!

S

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By *abel-AshCouple
over a year ago

Wrawby

We like soft swing, I the male like to see my wife with other guys getting pleasured, she isn't Bi but doesn't mind close contact and a bit of ff touchy feels. She doesn't want to see me with another female which I have to respect and have no issues with so our couple / couple fun is a bit restricted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like soft swing, I the male like to see my wife with other guys getting pleasured, she isn't Bi but doesn't mind close contact and a bit of ff touchy feels. She doesn't want to see me with another female which I have to respect and have no issues with so our couple / couple fun is a bit restricted "

Well how’s goes like this..

Mr wants to see Mrs have some girl girl play and Mrs wants to tease Mr for a bit but Mrs mainly wants to see Mr with another female as that’s what really turns her on.

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By *inabushCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes us too xxxx soft play is our thing x

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By *he LsCouple
over a year ago

East Midlands

It's reassuring to hear.

We enjoy soft swap but Mr L does like standing back and watching me full swap.

It's hard to then explain to others when we mfmf that he will only soft swap.....

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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

Nice to see other couples play the same way too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can’t wait to get the green light to do this again

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By *leopatra 64Couple
over a year ago

Poole


"It seems we're in the minority! Are there many couples who play this way?

Yes , this is us"

And it's a ditto from us too

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By *leopatra 64Couple
over a year ago

Poole


"Its what we like best"

And the same for us

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

We started out with bi fem soft play. But found it to be a little frustrating for Mr Brum. Now we soft swap with couples, so everyone gets to have some fun but stop at full sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are out in London this Saturday 31st I’f anyone is free?

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By *E_13Couple
over a year ago

Burton on trent

For us it's like making a cake, licking the bowl, cutting the cake but not actually getting to eat it lol

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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

Maybe we should have titled this thread "Bi-fem soft swap couples"!

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By *ecretsAndPleasuresCouple
over a year ago

Swingville

Quite partial x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet tried but I do like the thought, it's on the list when we get back meeting again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are in Bath on the 20th-21st of this month if anyone fancy a few drinks and see how the evening goes. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving soft play meets

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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands


"We are in Bath on the 20th-21st of this month if anyone fancy a few drinks and see how the evening goes. X"

We're in Bath September 22nd-25th, first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it’s our first time too. Looking forward to see what it has to offer in the evening too. C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we enjoy soft play and girl on girl!

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