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What’s the first thing that sexually attracts you to someone?

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone

The eyes and the look for me.

What say tou?

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Respect

Manners

Energetic personality

Face

Nice body

Sexually adventurous

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By *ornylad80Man
over a year ago

Dundee

Legs

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Could be any number of things. What I find attractive on one could be different to someone else.

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By *heExcommMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant

Eyes. I like kind eyes

Also a pair of thick thighs

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Sparkling eyes and a warm sexy smile x

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By *rs RavensongWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham, Gloucestershire

Attitude...it's all about how they approach me and talk to me. It doesn't matter how good looking and fit a man is, if he has a bad, half hearted, arrogant, entitled attitude, it'll turn me right off.

V x

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By *jkuk72Man
over a year ago

London & Herts


"Respect

Manners

Energetic personality

Face

Nice body

Sexually adventurous

"

Ditto!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you mean not through here via photos or whatever. Then a nice smell of perfume, a confident way about themselves and if I noticed them from behind then a nice round bum. But most of all just a certain confidence and a lovely smile and a twinkle in there eyes.

If it is on here a good sense of humour or nicely thought out photos. Not 'look at what I have got between me legs' type of images.

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Sparkling eyes and a warm sexy smile x"

I forgot about the devastating smile lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes, smile and height

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Face, face and....face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Legs and heels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile...and great teeth

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Them being hot.

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By *ouplefor funCouple
over a year ago

near kilmarnock

Eyes smile and manners do it for us both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy eyes and a lovely smile always draw me in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their smile. Everybody looks deeply uninviting until they smile.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

A smile, a wink in the eye and an erotic manner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

his smile, and his broad shoulders and mahooosive hands Px

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Instant attraction and confidence- bordering on arrogance and cockiness for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies as much as people do ...

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Usually a a man in a nice pair of well fitted trousers and his bulge is visible , makes me tingle all over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mischievous eyes does it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hairy fit chest!

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By *ockdownerMan
over a year ago

Preston

Legs & arse in skin-tight leggings

#sl-av-ering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo eyes and a nice smile xx

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Sass & confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wit. I really like a sharp mind

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By *9089Man
over a year ago

Bradford

The eyes, if they keep them shut I seem more attractive

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

It has to be tgat smile and that look in the eyes, naughty glint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

General looks, nice smile, personality

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Sexy smile, sexy voice, mischievous twinkle in the eyes and respectful confident attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Femininity, dress sense, hands and nails.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

Hair. There’s a certain style and colour. Cant explain or describe it.

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By *parkybunnyCouple
over a year ago

Zurich. NOT London.

Intelligence, manners, well dressed, self confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant attraction.

Shallow I know but hey ho i don't care.

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

Redheads have a head start with me - but the good news for blondes and brunettes is that other considerations apply.

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Eyes as well but personality, it doesnt have to be about looks, shape or size

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone

Thank you for your involvement

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Their mind !!

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By *tealth888Man
over a year ago

dunfermline

Sense of humor

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By *cottyl1983Man
over a year ago

Tyne and Wear

Lips

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By *art8Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

Smile

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By *rchitectMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

A smile and cum to bed eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes, smile, bum

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By *verready5000Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Hair bum face

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I’d say how natural someone looks ..

Nothing fake ..

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Personality...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes if they have nice bright come to bed eyes x

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife

Eyes and smile

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By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

wirral

Personality, they need to make me laugh and not take themselves to seriously

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Smelling nice

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull


"Could be any number of things. What I find attractive on one could be different to someone else."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile, eyes, sense of humour

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

They find me attractive.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

A big nose will always catch my eye

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton


"The eyes and the look for me.

What say tou?

"

This and lips! Kissable lips please

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By *urflrCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Banter, respect, good chat and eye contact x

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

With you OP their eyes and how they react through them, Smile, dress and humour with flirtation as well as respect

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

A nice smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be anything really..

But Mrs.P's smile got me straight away..

Oh,.and she has crackng legs...

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Tits and Ass

Really smile, playfulness, eyes, healthy figure, etc.

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"With you OP their eyes and how they react through them, Smile, dress and humour with flirtation as well as respect "

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Could be anything really..

But Mrs.P's smile got me straight away..

Oh,.and she has crackng legs..."

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By *eirdscienceMan
over a year ago

Postwick

Tits

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By *oneybeesCouple
over a year ago

Worcs, West Midlands

Their smile

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By *eirdscienceMan
over a year ago

Postwick


"A big nose will always catch my eye"

Catch you in the eye !!!

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Eyes and how they carry themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely eyes and naughty cheekiness.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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To be honest, quite often it's their facial hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their bank balance

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Eyes and lips for me

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

There brain and there ability to articulate well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s different from person to person, and then it’s so difficult define what it is. It’s certainly not physical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A twinkle in the eyes and a sparkle in the smile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And a sense of humour (their going to need it)

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

their attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice smile and similar sense of humour.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes and bum

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By *anPsurreycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Attitude and ... height , I seem to often be drawn to very tall men.

Not set in stone but there's definitely a pattern

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All in the eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There eyes, I have a weakness for blue eyes

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

Smile

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By *eamworkboyMan
over a year ago

Irvine

Ass, i love a nice ass in tight jeans with heels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes and smile

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Attitude and confidence but not arrogance. A sexy smile and a cheeky glint in their eye. And a pert bottom is a bonus

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

Their eyes and how the are in themselves. A sexual confidence that you pick up on is so horny.

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"Attitude and confidence but not arrogance. A sexy smile and a cheeky glint in their eye. And a pert bottom is a bonus "

I think I may be able to tick all if not most of those boxes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That naughty look in there facial expression

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"Attitude and ... height , I seem to often be drawn to very tall men.

Not set in stone but there's definitely a pattern

"

What does the sexy lady class as very tall 6ft 2 here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way they laugh

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By *ilmissplumpyWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Personality & eyes, usually you can spot the first in the latter

LMP

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough

Eyes!

Personality....

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

Depending if its a male, female or couple,but attraction, manners and politeness

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Eyes!

Personality.... "

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Attitude and ... height , I seem to often be drawn to very tall men.

Not set in stone but there's definitely a pattern

What does the sexy lady class as very tall 6ft 2 here. "

Yes that’s tall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has got to be flirting for me with women and for my hubby...it is boobs for definite lol x

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Their presence followed by their eyes and then teeth.

If the latter are like bombed down railings then it’s an instant bye bye.

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Their presence followed by their eyes and then teeth.

If the latter are like bombed down railings then it’s an instant bye bye."

lol

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By *ryingitout19Man
over a year ago

Wales

Eyes. A sexy pair of eyes looking back at me gets me everytime!

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By *lirt and funCouple
over a year ago

ilford


"Eyes. A sexy pair of eyes looking back at me gets me everytime!"

Same here x You can tell so much about a person through their eyes (and communicate a whole lot more) x

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

I think smell is up there!

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By *ryingitout19Man
over a year ago

Wales


"Eyes. A sexy pair of eyes looking back at me gets me everytime!

Same here x You can tell so much about a person through their eyes (and communicate a whole lot more) x"

Yep definitely, although that’s an appealing profile photo too!

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By *xbanana2Man
over a year ago

addlestone

Eyes and pretty feet do it for me

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By *ligible GentMan
over a year ago

Wilmslow

Purely sexually.... cleavage.

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By *urlyCatzWoman
over a year ago

Blackpool

Sense of humour and eyes

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Good manners, being polite and respectful.

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

A nice face and then a great personality

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Their eyes, sexy bum and mischievous minds.

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"A nice face and then a great personality"

I like that

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Eyes. A sexy pair of eyes looking back at me gets me everytime!

Same here x You can tell so much about a person through their eyes (and communicate a whole lot more) x"

I agree

A glint in the eyes gies a long way

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

Body, looks, married, submissive

In that order.

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Body, looks, married, submissive

In that order.

"

Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice beard

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"A nice beard "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face, nice smile and nice eyes.

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Face, nice smile and nice eyes."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye's & Personality.

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Warmth and humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour

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By *avana8817Man
over a year ago

Consett

Teeth, need to have a good mouth hygiene regime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their face... I need to see that something ya can't quite put your finger on... Not just how good looking someone is but a face I just like the look of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely the body for me. Followed by the face. No point having the sexiest eyes or smiles if your body hasn’t captivated me. The attraction won’t happen lol

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Overall facial features, sound of the voice (not accent), preferably between size 14-20 with a dirty laugh. Sort of Hattie Jaques with Sid James' laugh.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Cameltoe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The face is first for me. I very attracted to a pretty face... Nice skin, piercing eyes, soft lips

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Their face... I need to see that something ya can't quite put your finger on... Not just how good looking someone is but a face I just like the look of "

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