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By *lixir of life OP   Man
over a year ago

knob Creek

I’m changing mine ..

I limited how old or young I was looking for ..

But I’ve relieved, age doesn’t matter ..

I could miss out getting to know amazing people through age discrimination..

I do well on here anyway.. but time to change my way of thinking..

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Yup, age is definitely irrelevant to me!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't care what age someone is on a social level, people are people but sexually I'm quite happy to stick within a range that I'm comfortable with

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By *lixir of life OP   Man
over a year ago

knob Creek


"Yup, age is definitely irrelevant to me! "

Me too now ..

It’s about the person..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"I don't care what age someone is on a social level, people are people but sexually I'm quite happy to stick within a range that I'm comfortable with"

Perhaps we should have 2 age preference, 1 for social engagement and the other for sexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'm starting to think the same way

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By *ony5Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"Yup, age is definitely irrelevant to me! "

So here, it's all about personality

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Yup, age is definitely irrelevant to me!

Me too now ..

It’s about the person.."

Yup same. I just don’t see the logic in having age ranges.

Idiots of all ages on here and the whole maturity thing really is rubbish! Lol.

If you get on and like the same things sexually does it matter if they are 30 and you didn’t wanna meet over 25?

I just don’t understand it lol... I appreciate if you have adult kids though it can be strange! X

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By *lixir of life OP   Man
over a year ago

knob Creek


"Yup, age is definitely irrelevant to me!

Me too now ..

It’s about the person..

Yup same. I just don’t see the logic in having age ranges.

Idiots of all ages on here and the whole maturity thing really is rubbish! Lol.

If you get on and like the same things sexually does it matter if they are 30 and you didn’t wanna meet over 25?

I just don’t understand it lol... I appreciate if you have adult kids though it can be strange! X"

I never went younger..

Thought that younger people just lacked the experience and confidence.

I’m obviously very wrong

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Yup, age is definitely irrelevant to me!

Me too now ..

It’s about the person..

Yup same. I just don’t see the logic in having age ranges.

Idiots of all ages on here and the whole maturity thing really is rubbish! Lol.

If you get on and like the same things sexually does it matter if they are 30 and you didn’t wanna meet over 25?

I just don’t understand it lol... I appreciate if you have adult kids though it can be strange! X

I never went younger..

Thought that younger people just lacked the experience and confidence.

I’m obviously very wrong "

Glad you’ve realised that lol!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our set preferences are more of a guideline. They aren’t ridged. We fancy whomever we fancy.j

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By *lixir of life OP   Man
over a year ago

knob Creek


"Our set preferences are more of a guideline. They aren’t ridged. We fancy whomever we fancy.j "

But putting age preferences limits the people who can message or possibly meet you ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In life it's always about the person and I have freinds/clients/family of every age imaginable

But for sex, then yes it does matter to me ... I have adult children and just don't find their age and younger sexually attractive! I've always preferred guys younger than me but on here actually found guys older than me to be the most entitled and rude to be honest so I'm definitely sticking with my age preferences.

Why parties/organised socials/clubs are an excellent way to meet all ages as it's face to face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At last a sensible forum topic !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our set preferences are more of a guideline. They aren’t ridged. We fancy whomever we fancy.j

But putting age preferences limits the people who can message or possibly meet you .."

Preferences stop no one messaging. Filters do.

We are highly unlikely to meet on site anyway. We prefer socials and clubs so we can chat face to face and Base our interest on that

J

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By *lixir of life OP   Man
over a year ago

knob Creek


"Our set preferences are more of a guideline. They aren’t ridged. We fancy whomever we fancy.j

But putting age preferences limits the people who can message or possibly meet you ..

Preferences stop no one messaging. Filters do.

We are highly unlikely to meet on site anyway. We prefer socials and clubs so we can chat face to face and Base our interest on that

J "

I think that is definitely the way forward, alas I don’t like going to clubs as a single guy .. too many idiots have got us all a bad name unfortunately..

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth

Its no fun in restricting yourself too much, you could miss out on someone great! I tend to prefer older but have set quite open filters at 23-50, although that may increase

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't care what age someone is on a social level, people are people but sexually I'm quite happy to stick within a range that I'm comfortable with

Perhaps we should have 2 age preference, 1 for social engagement and the other for sexual "

It's an idea but experience tells me that very few people use this site to meet purely socially

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By *onathan14Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm very very fussy about age range.

You have to be old enough to be legal at that end and not dead at the other end

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Received probably the best oral

Sex ever last week from a 26 Yr old guy on here. Fantastic meet.

Age means nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all down to personal preference

But I do know age and maturity do not go hand in hand. I've seen many man-children on here much older than myself!

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

We all make choices based on our preferences. We have friends both a lot older and younger than us but that doesn't mean we'd want to have fun with people in their age range.

It all comes down to what you want out of this and part of that is often physically based even though age and physical appearance doesn't necessarily detract from sexual performance.

I imagine there's quite a few guys here who'd happily sleep with very elderly women but I doubt they have many in their close circle of friends. Isn't that just their choice from a different angle?

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By *ereagainlolMan
over a year ago

Lerwick


"Yup, age is definitely irrelevant to me! "

Then why do you have an age limit on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't mind meeting younger, after all what choice do we have

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We don't mind meeting younger, after all what choice do we have "

. We were just about to say something similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't mind meeting younger, after all what choice do we have

. We were just about to say something similar"

We even outside your age range pmsl

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

No preference, just make me smile & laugh then i'm yours. Good baking skills a bonus

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd never go below about 35,I always get on better with men around my age give or take a few years or older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I fancy someone then their age is irrelevant... For the sanity of my inbox, on here, when I was meeting, it was strictly limited

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By *udemattMan
over a year ago

Tarporley

To me age is just an irrelevant number, I've found ladies in their 50s/60s more sexy than some in their 20s. So I mostly go on feel, how I feel about the individual rather than their numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our set preferences are more of a guideline. They aren’t ridged. We fancy whomever we fancy.j

But putting age preferences limits the people who can message or possibly meet you .."

Only if they set mail filters.

Age range on my profile means nothing as I don't have any mail filters on.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Personally, to me, age does matter. I've no desire to have Fab related meets with people young enough to be my kids or old enough to be my parents.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Age matters to me. I would not feel comfortable in the slightest meeting ladies of a similar age to my Daughters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish people would be honest of course age matters on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan of younger... There is the odd exception to the rule when I have met somone a bit younger than myself but mostly I don't like the idea of it and I hate terms like toy boy.... Not my thing

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I prefer people around my own age. My age filters are not set in stone but they are on to stop getting a load of messages as are a lot of the other filters.

If I like someone outside my age range I'll make first contact. In saying that I won't go a lot younger tho that is just my personal preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish people would be honest of course age matters on here!"

Honest in what way?

Even if you are within their age range you're not guaranteed a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As lover of younger men, my age limit is set as I don’t tend to find older men attractive sexually in the same way I do a younger guy.

However I have on numerous occasion got fed up with the attitude of a younger guys but just can’t help who I’m sexually attracted too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Typically my own age or older

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over a year ago

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

We wouldn't go below our lower age limit but are more flexible on the upper limit

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By *enksMan
over a year ago

hereford

A really difficult one, for a partner I would be looking for someone within probably 10 years of my age, for swinging that range is extended and its more about the mind/attitude I like a mature attitude and have had great experiences with people from 25 to 65. Can be frustrating being one year outside of what appears to be a great match

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I have no interest in anyone within 10 years of my kids ages so 38 and above only.

I don't engage in the forums with anyone outside my age limits either because from experience that engagement is misinterpreted as a willingness to meet.

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