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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would it not be great if you could see who has hot listed you ? I’m so curious to see who might have hot listed me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same, come one own up who has someone in this thread on their hot list

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford


"Would it not be great if you could see who has hot listed you ? I’m so curious to see who might have hot listed me. "

Luna was saying this to me yesterday.

Mr H.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure how but I’m on my own hotlist

It was by accident I’m not that much of a narcissist

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By *psidedown PineapplesCouple
over a year ago

East Sussex

We’ve hot listed so many! Would love to know who has hot listed us too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think a lot of floodgates will open post May 17th

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I'm not so sure. The hotlist feature is for people's own private use; who I choose to add is not really anyone else's business. If the change was made, I guarantee it wouldn't be 5 minutes before womens' profiles started saying things like "DON'T hotlist me without asking first"!

Women may also worry that they would be bombarded with messages from guys they'd chosen to add to their list.

Also, I believe some people also use their hotlist for the opposite purpose to which it is intended - a sort of "God no" list, in which case you might not want to know that you were on it! You couldn't draw any inferences unless you knew how the list was being used anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would it not be great if you could see who has hot listed you ? I’m so curious to see who might have hot listed me. "

Maybe not to see who it is but just to be notified that you have been added to someone hotlist ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because I have certain people added to my hotlist purely to keep an eye on them and not because I think they are hot

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

No, it wouldn't.

A. I wouldn't be on any.

B. I have only one or two on mine. People I intend to message, rather than for any other reason.

Would rather message than do something that really has little value to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would it not be great if you could see who has hot listed you ? I’m so curious to see who might have hot listed me.

Luna was saying this to me yesterday.

Mr H."

We've hotlisted you xx

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

There are definitely pros and cons to that feature some of which have been mentioned in the posts above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be a great feature, my hotlist is getting too big now though

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford


"Would it not be great if you could see who has hot listed you ? I’m so curious to see who might have hot listed me.

Luna was saying this to me yesterday.

Mr H.

We've hotlisted you xx"

Behave you'll make us blush x

Mr H & Luna.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah we would love to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hot listing" is a form of friendly stalking but with a smile on your face lol

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By *unnyLinguistMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

It would be interesting to know that you are on a hotlist, without knowing whose.

Equally, a notlist would be interesting

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By *llGoodFun76Couple
over a year ago

Angus

Don't think we'd make the grade for a hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think we'd make the grade for a hotlist "

Consider yourself hotlisted lol

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere Only We Know

Can you imagine the disappointment when you get removed from a hotlist though?

Lou x

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By *anny197097Man
over a year ago

knob Creek

I know I’m on nobody’s hotlist lol

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

People may think you're interested in meeting them, when that may not be the case

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

U can kinda know who has u on hotlist as as soon as I've updated status or come online I get messages on kik etc commenting on what I've put I have only 2 on my hotlist one i am hoping to meet after june and the other i would avoid meeting completely x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I’m not sure how but I’m on my own hotlist

It was by accident I’m not that much of a narcissist

"

I found myself on my friends list x

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By *oneymitchMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Haha love the hotlist feature its like having followers without knowing lol

I imagine am on more single mens hotlists than womens as I get the same guys fabbing all my pics to get my attention, like am gunna be like James201 you liked the same pic 15 times come suck my cock haha

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