FabSwingers.com forum: Naming and shaming timewasters and fakes

By *asycouple1971 OP Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Getting out of hand now the amount on here.

Should be able to name and shame to warn other ppl.

Charting to a lady to meet for girl girl play when restrictions lift, she says very interested,swap pics and numbers and get on well then she vanishes. All messages gone and number blocked.

1 of many this is.

Admin needs to crack down on these ppl.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

How can admin crack down on people changing their minds ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She was probably a he that spunked up after some naughty pic sharing

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By *asycouple1971 OP Couple
over a year ago

midlands

"She was probably a he that spunked up after some naughty pic sharing "

Lol

Love it.

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By *asycouple1971 OP Couple
over a year ago

midlands

"How can admin crack down on people changing their minds ? "

They should allow us to name and shame..

Worse are the ones that no show and no messages to cancel.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

They're not going to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She was probably a he that spunked up after some naughty pic sharing

Lol

Love it. "

And he'll love that he now has pics of your mrs to share with others

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By *asycouple1971 OP Couple
over a year ago

midlands

"She was probably a he that spunked up after some naughty pic sharing

Lol

Love it.

And he'll love that he now has pics of your mrs to share with others "

Not that fussed about that, our pics dont show our faces.

Its just the timewasting side and maybe a "sorry I changed my mind" message wouldnt go amiss. Cost nothing to be polite.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It’s not going to happen as false allegations would be thrown about on these forums, by anyone who feels aggrieved by the actions of another.

I doubt the lady in question would just let it go, she would have the right to reply and just makes a counter allegation about you.

It’s frustrating it’s happened to me after hours getting ready, that’s why I only meet in clubs or pubs then it’s not a waste of time getting ready.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"Getting out of hand now the amount on here.

Should be able to name and shame to warn other ppl.

Charting to a lady to meet for girl girl play when restrictions lift, she says very interested,swap pics and numbers and get on well then she vanishes. All messages gone and number blocked.

1 of many this is.

Admin needs to crack down on these ppl.

Because the world (including the FAB world) is full of nasty spiteful vindictive people, naming and shaming would always be abused.

For example: A guy messages a couple, the couple are not interested, the guy can't take the rejection (as happens quite often) he then names and shames couple as "timewasters"

Just one of many examples as to why you can never have name and shame on a site like this.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Would it be wasting time to scroll through a long list of timewasters names to check if the profile you wanted to message was a timewaster ?

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"She was probably a he that spunked up after some naughty pic sharing

Lol

Love it.

And he'll love that he now has pics of your mrs to share with others

Not that fussed about that, our pics dont show our faces.

Its just the timewasting side and maybe a "sorry I changed my mind" message wouldnt go amiss. Cost nothing to be polite."

Welcome to our world. Apparently its ok to just not reply. There's some verbage somewhere that says no reply means no thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Timewasters whilst frustrating are not going to cause you any harm. Any violent/ aggressive/ abusive users should be banned but how would you even begin to police it? They'd just set up another account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can admin crack down on people changing their minds ?

They should allow us to name and shame..

Worse are the ones that no show and no messages to cancel."

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Would it be wasting time to scroll through a long list of timewasters names to check if the profile you wanted to message was a timewaster ? "

If only there was some sort of system here where other people who'd met you could leave a message saying that you'd met, for other people to read and...

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By *oneymitchMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Frustrating we know but this wouldn’t change anything and don’t think it would be fair for the people who would typically get named and shamed for simply not replying

You gotta just accept it wasn’t meant to be and get yourself back in the game

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Getting out of hand now the amount on here.

Should be able to name and shame to warn other ppl.

Charting to a lady to meet for girl girl play when restrictions lift, she says very interested,swap pics and numbers and get on well then she vanishes. All messages gone and number blocked.

1 of many this is.

Admin needs to crack down on these ppl.

Try to look at it positively - they were never going to meet you anyway, so think of all the time they saved you from sending loads more pointless messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been on here as singles and a couple - its seems to be that couples get ghosted and catfished, women get abuse for not being interested in dick pics and men get excited when someone looks at their profile

. Such is life on the internet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Getting out of hand now the amount on here.

Should be able to name and shame to warn other ppl.

Charting to a lady to meet for girl girl play when restrictions lift, she says very interested,swap pics and numbers and get on well then she vanishes. All messages gone and number blocked.

1 of many this is.

Admin needs to crack down on these ppl.

I completely agree, but I don't see how they can clamp down on it. ...

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"Would it be wasting time to scroll through a long list of timewasters names to check if the profile you wanted to message was a timewaster ?

If only there was some sort of system here where other people who'd met you could leave a message saying that you'd met, for other people to read and... "

I think they call it "verifications"

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

I don’t agree with naming and shaming as it can be abused by mostly men. Put false allegations that someone is a time waster because they didn’t respond in a nano second. Also I saw someone’s profile yesterday where their bio does that and honestly it made me think he was childish honestly.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Would it be wasting time to scroll through a long list of timewasters names to check if the profile you wanted to message was a timewaster ?

If only there was some sort of system here where other people who'd met you could leave a message saying that you'd met, for other people to read and...

I think they call it "verifications"

Yes, that's the joke.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"She was probably a he that spunked up after some naughty pic sharing

Lol

Love it.

And he'll love that he now has pics of your mrs to share with others

Not that fussed about that, our pics dont show our faces.

Its just the timewasting side and maybe a "sorry I changed my mind" message wouldnt go amiss. Cost nothing to be polite.

Welcome to our world. Apparently its ok to just not reply. There's some verbage somewhere that says no reply means no thank you. "

Yes of course everyone should reply to every message. Not just here but in the real world as well.

I can't say much more because I've got a very busy day today. I'm writing to 7 double glazing firms, 3 banks, and a couple of Chinese restaurants. Thanking them for their flyer but explaining why I'm not interested in their product.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"She was probably a he that spunked up after some naughty pic sharing

Lol

Love it.

And he'll love that he now has pics of your mrs to share with others

Not that fussed about that, our pics dont show our faces.

Its just the timewasting side and maybe a "sorry I changed my mind" message wouldnt go amiss. Cost nothing to be polite.

Welcome to our world. Apparently its ok to just not reply. There's some verbage somewhere that says no reply means no thank you.

Yes of course everyone should reply to every message. Not just here but in the real world as well.

We'll check the Chinese restaurant on TripAdvisor, look at the menu and may eat there

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By *inranWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I've been called a time water for saying no thank you after the second message because our play interests didn't match up.

A lot of people think you are wasting their time if you don't want to fuck them. Which I guess is true if that's what they are on here for.

Everyone has different processes and everyone's invited to change their mind. Being on here means you are going to put effort into things that don't work out.

If people have varied positive verifications then they are on here to play. That doesn't have to be with you though.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"Getting out of hand now the amount on here.

Should be able to name and shame to warn other ppl.

Charting to a lady to meet for girl girl play when restrictions lift, she says very interested,swap pics and numbers and get on well then she vanishes. All messages gone and number blocked.

1 of many this is.

Admin needs to crack down on these ppl.

“Avoid Easycouple, they w**k off donkeys round the back of Morrison’s in Upper Bumbleford”.

Sorry, I’m being a bit daft, but it’s just a way of illustrating how hard it’d be to police when it’s one person’s word against the other

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm Googling Morrison's Upper Bumbleford. Sounds like my sort of place !

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Admin have said they will never allow naming and shaming.

I'm the case of the op it sounds like the profile was deleted by the profile holders

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Making and shaming is also against forum rules

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