FabSwingers.com forum: Kissing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This subject often divides opinion

Kissing other people if you are swinging?

My personal thoughts are I wont if i go dogging and happen to meet random women, however if I'm in contact with a couple or single F then I will kiss on meets

anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need the kissing, I wouldn't meet if you wouldn't kiss! Each to their own though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This subject often divides opinion

Kissing other people if you are swinging?

My personal thoughts are I wont if i go dogging and happen to meet random women, however if I'm in contact with a couple or single F then I will kiss on meets

anyone else?

We don't kiss anyone else, that is for just me and M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This subject often divides opinion

Kissing other people if you are swinging?

My personal thoughts are I wont if i go dogging and happen to meet random women, however if I'm in contact with a couple or single F then I will kiss on meets

anyone else?

i love to kiss lots but some men i find cant kiss and are either sloppy ot just shit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I need the kissing, I wouldn't meet if you wouldn't kiss! Each to their own though

yea thats kinda what im saying

if im chatting on here and meet il happily kiss as i enjoy it obv

however if its randoms when dogging then i wont, plus as an earlier post points out alot of couples keep that private as its a personal thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is all part of the fun. Sex without kissing is like being offered a cream cake and being told not to eat the cream!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely kissing when swinging - it heightens everything for me (f)

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Almost certainly the kissing is part of making a good intimate connection with others. People can seem a little cold when they don't want this, which cools me somewhat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Kissing is all part of the fun. Sex without kissing is like being offered a cream cake and being told not to eat the cream!!"

this is going to be my quote of the day awesome

i personally love kissing when having sex as you all say it adds to the fun and it can be a real turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you cant kiss dont bother meeting me as i will get bored

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

A 'no kissing rule' is a dealbreaker for me.....

I loves a good snog

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"if you cant kiss dont bother meeting me as i will get bored"

i remember going back to my college days i was seeing a girl for ages, and she was what i called a sharp kisser ha ha lots of tongue stabbing and really stiff lips

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

we love kissing, a meet without wouldn't do much for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you cant kiss dont bother meeting me as i will get bored

i remember going back to my college days i was seeing a girl for ages, and she was what i called a sharp kisser ha ha lots of tongue stabbing and really stiff lips

depends really as i have been known to almost make a man cum from just kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This subject often divides opinion

Kissing other people if you are swinging?

My personal thoughts are I wont if i go dogging and happen to meet random women, however if I'm in contact with a couple or single F then I will kiss on meets

anyone else?

i love to kiss lots but some men i find cant kiss and are either sloppy ot just shit"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"we love kissing, a meet without wouldn't do much for us"

as with everything swinging, it all comes down to choice really, but I mean if a profile has a list of no's as in

no kissing

no eye contact etc etc ha ha

its more likely to make you pass it by and not want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the kiss some men are very bad at kissing i like it when i can breath lol. i kiss some meets but not others

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends on the kiss some men are very bad at kissing i like it when i can breath lol. i kiss some meets but not others "

i personally think kissing is really intimate, slow, passionate kisses get me every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we love kissing, a meet without wouldn't do much for us

as with everything swinging, it all comes down to choice really, but I mean if a profile has a list of no's as in

no kissing

no eye contact etc etc ha ha

its more likely to make you pass it by and not want to meet

eye contact is a must as well

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"if you cant kiss dont bother meeting me as i will get bored

i remember going back to my college days i was seeing a girl for ages, and she was what i called a sharp kisser ha ha lots of tongue stabbing and really stiff lips

depends really as i have been known to almost make a man cum from just kissing

sound like my (A) type of girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is all part of the fun. Sex without kissing is like being offered a cream cake and being told not to eat the cream!!"

to you perhaps but for me kissing isn't a natural part of sex.. I enjoy it with master but that's often without sex involved.

I to be honest can find it a turn off to have a guy trying to kiss me.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on the type of meet..respect what the other person likes dislikes...some think anal sex is too intimate..so u wouldnt go trying to fuck someones arse because it was how u like to play..

*I'm for kissing, just respect my partners/partner's partners wishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you cant kiss dont bother meeting me as i will get bored

i remember going back to my college days i was seeing a girl for ages, and she was what i called a sharp kisser ha ha lots of tongue stabbing and really stiff lips

depends really as i have been known to almost make a man cum from just kissing

sound like my (A) type of girl

and yet you 2 are never in the same club

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We like kissing, after all, if you are going to have sex with someone, then surely kissing is just an extension of that, in that its an intimate part of foreplay.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"if you cant kiss dont bother meeting me as i will get bored

i remember going back to my college days i was seeing a girl for ages, and she was what i called a sharp kisser ha ha lots of tongue stabbing and really stiff lips

depends really as i have been known to almost make a man cum from just kissing

sound like my (A) type of girl

and yet you 2 are never in the same club

we have to get back to Chams soon, not been for ages

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"if you cant kiss dont bother meeting me as i will get bored

i remember going back to my college days i was seeing a girl for ages, and she was what i called a sharp kisser ha ha lots of tongue stabbing and really stiff lips

depends really as i have been known to almost make a man cum from just kissing

sound like my (A) type of girl

and yet you 2 are never in the same club

we have to get back to Chams soon, not been for ages "

anyway hope you all have an awesome sunday

bye for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both split on this one.

Hubby loves to kiss and will quite happily kiss all night.

I on the other hand wont instigate a kiss, we dont have a no kissing rule it's more i can take or leave it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are both split on this one.

Hubby loves to kiss and will quite happily kiss all night.

I on the other hand wont instigate a kiss, we dont have a no kissing rule it's more i can take or leave it.

Is vagina kissing ok?

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

Kissing is an integral part of sex. It's like telling me I can have anal but not virginal sex!

Plus a bad kisser is a turn off too. Kissing tells a lot about what you are gonna get if you go further. Passionate sweaty sex or a crap shag..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing tho to me it depends on the situation

In group sessions at club i dont feel the need to kiss everyone as i dont always fancy people in such situations enough to kiss, also sex in clubs just over all tends to be quicker and a bit more clinical than private meets

If i arrange a meet with someone off here and we have met for a drink, i fancy them and we have got on enough to have sex then kissing is very important to me, the build up just adds to better sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plus a bad kisser is a turn off too. "

i agree with that, i cant play with someone whos a bad kisser its just a turn off, and whats even worse is a bad kisser who insists on kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate kissing on meets, I save it for my personal relationships. Some things have to be kept personal.

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By *aldybiMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

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i fancy them and we have got on enough to have sex then kissing is very important to me, the build up just adds to better sex "

Absolutely! The anticipation, eye-contact, the flirting, caressing, kissing...

Thats what sets the tone for the whole event for me. The actual physical squelchy bit can only be enhanced by all that "social" foreplay, and then the building excitement of kissing, sucking one another's lips, tongues snaking, breath syncing...

To engage with one another at a level that involves the whole mind and body in wild passion, but without a kiss... Well how would that work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try bein married to someone who thinks kissing is waste of time and sex scenes spoil a good film

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing, insist on it !

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By *SandJ both BiCouple
over a year ago

Brandon

we never insist on kissing but when it just happens as part of playing we love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its only natural to kiss but its best ask before so everyone involved knows what the limits or boundaries are

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By *aldybiMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"try bein married to someone who thinks kissing is waste of time and sex scenes spoil a good film

That's heart-breaking...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"try bein married to someone who thinks kissing is waste of time and sex scenes spoil a good film

ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tongue-deep and balls-deep go together

Wolf

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I really fancy a snog right now.. sigh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

send ya a virtual one chick... mwahhhh!

Wolf

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By *aldybiMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I really fancy a snog right now.. sigh..."

Long, deep, lip-sucking, tongue-swirling, blood singin' in your ears, toe-curling, kiss-yer-face-right-off coming at you now... MMMWaah! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is However true luckily i have someone who does enjoy kissing me gets turned on my sex scenes and enjoys my body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate kissing on meets, I save it for my personal relationships. Some things have to be kept personal."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a huge turn on for me

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By *lex 1971Man
over a year ago

telford

Kissing eveytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't kiss others, strangely would kiss women, but not men. I save kissing for my bloke, it's something we have together and I love it

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"I won't kiss others, strangely would kiss women, but not men. I save kissing for my bloke, it's something we have together and I love it "

^^^ ditto

The kind of play we indulge in (bi/group play with strangers in clubs) doesn't require kissing or 'intimacy' so I actively avoid it.

But each to their own and I wouldn't criticise anyone who likes it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate kissing on meets, I save it for my personal relationships. Some things have to be kept personal."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won't kiss others, strangely would kiss women, but not men. I save kissing for my bloke, it's something we have together and I love it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we love kissing, a meet without wouldn't do much for us"

Perfectly put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it I'm a lush kisser … just ask me I'm the best lol

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By *lbecCouple
over a year ago

Whitstable

If you are willing to suck a mans cock , why not kiss him.

Think its all in the play !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you are willing to suck a mans cock , why not kiss him.

Think its all in the play !!

To you perhaps but I don't need to fancy a guy to suck his cock but I do to kiss him plus kissing does little for me. So why would I do something that I don't like?

For some kissing is part of sex for others it's not

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it interesting that it always seems to be the couples who dont kiss, ive never met a single guy who dont kiss

Do you think its because as a couple you have each other to kiss so as long as your getting that fix it dont matter your not getting if from your meet or maybe because they more not kissing to keep each other happy and if they was single they maybe would kiss?

of course i know some couples do kiss and some singles will now pop up and saying i dont kiss but over all when you see a post saying i dont kiss it seems to be off a couples profile never seems to be a singles

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

As stupid as this is.....some people find kissing "intimate" and don't like their partners doing it with meets!!

If a guy refused to kiss me....I would tell him to jog on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't kiss even if I was single. We don't have a no kissing rule. It just has little place in my play style.

Master actually loves to see me kiss other men but I just don't enjoy it. Master always kisses when meeting.

I'd rather a guy didn't try but I'm great at avoiding it without it being awkward.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This subject often divides opinion

Kissing other people if you are swinging?

My personal thoughts are I wont if i go dogging and happen to meet random women, however if I'm in contact with a couple or single F then I will kiss on meets

anyone else?

I usually rule it out if they have hepatitis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need kissing most important when having great sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This subject often divides opinion

Kissing other people if you are swinging?

My personal thoughts are I wont if i go dogging and happen to meet random women, however if I'm in contact with a couple or single F then I will kiss on meets

anyone else?

I usually rule it out if they have hepatitis "

only the kissing you rule out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is one hell of a turn on for me. A damn good passionate tongue twirling kiss sets shivers down your spine and gets the blood and juices flowing! I love it. I could happily snog for hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This subject often divides opinion

Kissing other people if you are swinging?

My personal thoughts are I wont if i go dogging and happen to meet random women, however if I'm in contact with a couple or single F then I will kiss on meets

anyone else?

I usually rule it out if they have hepatitis

only the kissing you rule out?

Of course, I've got pockets full of johnnies and I don't do oral, it's all about my pleasure

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the odd occasion Im not particulary horny, kissing imediately puts me in the mood.

If they are good at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont want to boast but Ive been known to snap knicker elastic with a deep french kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont want to boast but Ive been known to snap knicker elastic with a deep french kiss

Try aiming for the mouth next time!

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By *damandeve4funCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I usually need the intimacy of kissing to get an erection...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually need the intimacy of kissing to get an erection..."

I feel the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is definitely important during sex but I find it a turn on with my OH and not someone I've just met. Kissing a stranger cannot equal kissing a partner in my opinion.

I am mindful that guys we play with enjoy kissing as part of the sexual act, similarly with couples during sex then some people need that.

We don't have a no kissing rule but I prefer kissing my OH. Both of us do kiss others but neither of us has long drawn out very intimate kissing with strangers.

I know that I don't kiss strangers in the same way as my OH, I don't put my 'all' into it. Its not a conscious thing I set out to do but it isn't the same with strangers and they don't get the same intimacy obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i Gotta kiss and be kissed, it's all part of foreplay and a massive turn on if done correctly...soft n sensuall, a wee nibble of the lip, suck of the tongue..softly bite the bottom lip as your pulling away looking into his eyes...all that and more, Ooooh god yeahhhhh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i Gotta kiss and be kissed, it's all part of foreplay and a massive turn on if done correctly...soft n sensuall, a wee nibble of the lip, suck of the tongue..softly bite the bottom lip as your pulling away looking into his eyes...all that and more, Ooooh god yeahhhhh..."

love neck kissing..grabbing the hair controlling the head

fucking hard to do in the mirror though..especially when my hairs short!!!

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