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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anybody else find it incredibly sexy being with someone for NSA when you know they’re cheating? Being with a married lady seeing the ring on her fingers drives me insane. I know it’s low but sexually it’s really hot.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

No.

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By *eekin NSAMan
over a year ago

Ireland /Kilkenny areas

Not see any issues with it all are adults and fully know the Consequences if and when things could go wrong etc We all here for different reasons it’s life etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *eekin NSAMan
over a year ago

Ireland /Kilkenny areas


"Anybody else find it incredibly sexy being with someone for NSA when you know they’re cheating? Being with a married lady seeing the ring on her fingers drives me insane. I know it’s low but sexually it’s really hot. "
funny that we all know that each of personal on here are married or where married it’s their choice it’s not school playground here

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax


"Anybody else find it incredibly sexy being with someone for NSA when you know they’re cheating? Being with a married lady seeing the ring on her fingers drives me insane. I know it’s low but sexually it’s really hot. "

Would you feel the same way if it was your wife stepping out on you?

Cheating on someone is wrong

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

No. Wrong on so many levels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it sexy too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ours is hardly cheating when we always meet as a couple...behind a partners back is cheating along with all the lies and deciet, the betrayal of trust etc.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I've been on the other side of that, no it fucking hurts, it rips your ficking heart out

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Total opposite and turn off, unless his wife knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. You can try to justify it as much as you like but its just wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not, Morally and personally wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Absolutely not. Find it abhorrent

J

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Huge difference between swinging and cheating. I hate cheating and find it awful

Mrs N

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Fucking love it. Nothing hotter than having someone else's life trickling through your fingers like grains of sand and spunking over it with utter disregard and disrespect.

Have a read of my profile. You'll see how it feels from the grain of sand side, maybe you'll rethink with your head instead of your helmet.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Huge difference between swinging and cheating. I hate cheating and find it awful

Mrs N"

Agree with this totally.

There seems to be a misconception that swingers do not believe in respect and honesty.

That is so far from the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fucking love it. Nothing hotter than having someone else's life trickling through your fingers like grains of sand and spunking over it with utter disregard and disrespect.

Have a read of my profile. You'll see how it feels from the grain of sand side, maybe you'll rethink with your head instead of your helmet."

Definitely not reading all that lol

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Fucking love it. Nothing hotter than having someone else's life trickling through your fingers like grains of sand and spunking over it with utter disregard and disrespect.

Have a read of my profile. You'll see how it feels from the grain of sand side, maybe you'll rethink with your head instead of your helmet.

Definitely not reading all that lol "

Aye, real life emotions are way too much effort to concern yaself with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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Have to say, would anyone still find it sexy and exciting if the agrieved husband knocked on their door?

Probably not...

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Fucking love it. Nothing hotter than having someone else's life trickling through your fingers like grains of sand and spunking over it with utter disregard and disrespect.

Have a read of my profile. You'll see how it feels from the grain of sand side, maybe you'll rethink with your head instead of your helmet."

The old switcheroo!

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


" Not see any issues with it all are adults and fully know the Consequences if and when things could go wrong etc We all here for different reasons it’s life etc "

We all know? Even the poor sod being cheated on?

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Absolutely fucking not!

The last thing I want to be involved in is facilitating a cunt to cheat on some poor sod who is unknowingly heading towards having their life ripped apart.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Fucking love it. Nothing hotter than having someone else's life trickling through your fingers like grains of sand and spunking over it with utter disregard and disrespect.

Have a read of my profile. You'll see how it feels from the grain of sand side, maybe you'll rethink with your head instead of your helmet.

The old switcheroo!"

Well, a plain ole no wouldn't catch the attention and prick up the ears.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I'm afraid it's a no from me too.

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By *irtyd468Man
over a year ago

North

Its a no from me too.

I think most of us have been hurt in one way or another by matters of the heart. So knowing how it feels why would you want to put someone else through that.

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By *lexnNatasha1977Couple
over a year ago

wigan

It’s a no from us there seems to be some sort of confusion between cheating and swinging call us old fashioned but for us it’s sexy fun between 2 couples that are in a stable relationship and are open and honest with each other that’s the turn on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I would never knowingly put myself in a position where I am potentially hurting somone, ruining a relationship, being the cause of a family falling apart... I wouldnet be able to live with myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no P.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When anyone seems to confuse cheating and swinging all its shows is they haven't got a clue about swinging and are not swingers in any sense of the word.

Swinging is born from a place of honesty, a huge level of trust and respect. It's the furthest thing from cheating.

Still threads like this help us to block those who aren't swingers just cheaters.

KJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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When anyone seems to confuse cheating and swinging all its shows is they haven't got a clue about swinging and are not swingers in any sense of the word.

Swinging is born from a place of honesty, a huge level of trust and respect. It's the furthest thing from cheating.

Still threads like this help us to block those who aren't swingers just cheaters.

KJ"
very well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been having an affair with a married woman for about 4 years now. And we have now talked about her trying dogging. She's now up for the trial. Hopefully it will soon happen.

I love the fact that she goes home and climbs into bed next to her husband with him having no idea what I have done to her less than an hour before

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By *yn drwgMan
over a year ago

Camarthen

I find it far better when the husband or partner asks you to fuck his wife than going behind his back! Again swinging is totally different to cheating.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Lost count of the number of men who suggest I sneak a meet with them behind my hubby's back. What we get from this is that we are doing it together. Being deceitful doesn't turn me on one bit.

Mrs x

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Does nothing for us, quite the opposite.

We're all adults, and you do you, but it's not something we ever want to be a part of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will not meet anyone that is cheating on their partners and always ask if they are married or attached

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Wrong in so many ways , we have both been cheated on in past , was so much harder to learn to trust each other when we met , we play as couple now and will only do solo meets with each other’s knowledge , so much more hornier giving partner details while playing after

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I've been having an affair with a married woman for about 4 years now. And we have now talked about her trying dogging. She's now up for the trial. Hopefully it will soon happen.

I love the fact that she goes home and climbs into bed next to her husband with him having no idea what I have done to her less than an hour before "

Why? What is it that makes you feel so great about it?

Some kind of power ego rub or something? What has he done that's so bad he deserves to be living YOUR lie? What has he done that's so bad he deserves to have his love, time and finances stolen from him by you and her?

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

No does nothing

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By *plforme500Man
over a year ago

Shirley

I think it’s courteous to ask the question.

If they decide to tell you they’re single then it’s on them.

Pretty easy to sniff out the bullshitters 90% of the time anyway.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Been on both sides ( Mr4) and both time felt like utter s**** and someone getting their kicks or sexual thrill in ruining another humans life ???? all rather sad and it always ends in tears 99.5% of the time? used to be a bloke like it in Plymouth that was what he actually enjoyed doing and despite it being pretty much common knowledge women still fell for it and he tried it on with mrs4 once and didn't end as he planned and the kicker was when it really really blew up turns out he was married with kids ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a very young immature man I had an affair with a married women, who said they were living seperate lives, husband having come out gay (didn't question it). Ended up marrying her and a decade later became the one cheated on. Made me realise what a dick I was in the first place, besides totally wrenching the heart out of me and tearing it into shreds.

So no, I don't find it hot.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I absolutely adore fucking other men’s ladies, with full consent of the other guy ..

Won’t meet cheaters atall..

I’m not desperate so don’t have to ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been having an affair with a married woman for about 4 years now. And we have now talked about her trying dogging. She's now up for the trial. Hopefully it will soon happen.

I love the fact that she goes home and climbs into bed next to her husband with him having no idea what I have done to her less than an hour before

Why? What is it that makes you feel so great about it?

Some kind of power ego rub or something? What has he done that's so bad he deserves to be living YOUR lie? What has he done that's so bad he deserves to have his love, time and finances stolen from him by you and her? "

He hasn't had sex with her in over 6 years, he's told her he loves her but isn't interested in sex, he said she can have an affair if she likes but he doesn't want to know if she does!

I don't know him...and have no intention of splitting up their marriage, what they do and decide is their choice. Yes it turns me on but we all have things in life we like and don't like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been having an affair with a married woman for about 4 years now. And we have now talked about her trying dogging. She's now up for the trial. Hopefully it will soon happen.

I love the fact that she goes home and climbs into bed next to her husband with him having no idea what I have done to her less than an hour before

Why? What is it that makes you feel so great about it?

Some kind of power ego rub or something? What has he done that's so bad he deserves to be living YOUR lie? What has he done that's so bad he deserves to have his love, time and finances stolen from him by you and her?

He hasn't had sex with her in over 6 years, he's told her he loves her but isn't interested in sex, he said she can have an affair if she likes but he doesn't want to know if she does!

I don't know him...and have no intention of splitting up their marriage, what they do and decide is their choice. Yes it turns me on but we all have things in life we like and don't like "

So hubby doesn't know, she says he doesn't want to know. Whether it's true or not it will still end in divorce. You will have been a part of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ultimately its thier choice and their decision isn't it.

End of the day if it isn't me it would be someone else.

It's clearly not everyone's idea of fun. But for some people it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well ultimately its thier choice and their decision isn't it.

End of the day if it isn't me it would be someone else.

It's clearly not everyone's idea of fun. But for some people it is

"

I've been where you are now. I didn't think it at the time but it was my choice too. It ended in divorce partly due to me with me named on papers. I learned not to get involved again. Not worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So only partly due to you! Other factors were clearly involved.

Saying that being named on the divorce isn't fun

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away


"Anybody else find it incredibly sexy being with someone for NSA when you know they’re cheating? Being with a married lady seeing the ring on her fingers drives me insane. I know it’s low but sexually it’s really hot. "

No...just the opposite

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I've been having an affair with a married woman for about 4 years now. And we have now talked about her trying dogging. She's now up for the trial. Hopefully it will soon happen.

I love the fact that she goes home and climbs into bed next to her husband with him having no idea what I have done to her less than an hour before

Why? What is it that makes you feel so great about it?

Some kind of power ego rub or something? What has he done that's so bad he deserves to be living YOUR lie? What has he done that's so bad he deserves to have his love, time and finances stolen from him by you and her?

He hasn't had sex with her in over 6 years, he's told her he loves her but isn't interested in sex, he said she can have an affair if she likes but he doesn't want to know if she does!

I don't know him...and have no intention of splitting up their marriage, what they do and decide is their choice. Yes it turns me on but we all have things in life we like and don't like "

So she does have "permission"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...but he doesn't know about it

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Yes...but he doesn't know about it "

He probably does, but doesn't want to hear about it etc.

You see, they spoke.

They had the conversation.

They came up with the solution.

They are both now living with it.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"I've been having an affair with a married woman for about 4 years now. And we have now talked about her trying dogging. She's now up for the trial. Hopefully it will soon happen.

I love the fact that she goes home and climbs into bed next to her husband with him having no idea what I have done to her less than an hour before "

Something to be proud of!!

Let's hope for your sake he never finds out.. .

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Anybody else find it incredibly sexy being with someone for NSA when you know they’re cheating? Being with a married lady seeing the ring on her fingers drives me insane. I know it’s low but sexually it’s really hot. "

We guess this hasn't worked out the way you thought Shaun.

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By *tephenb001Man
over a year ago

stapleton

No not good!!!!

However, they do say the best wife you’ll ever have is someone else’s

;-)

X

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By *wan64Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

No I don't like cheaters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anybody else find it incredibly sexy being with someone for NSA when you know they’re cheating? Being with a married lady seeing the ring on her fingers drives me insane. I know it’s low but sexually it’s really hot.

We guess this hasn't worked out the way you thought Shaun.

"

Not at all, the reason I posted was for opinion. Either way, like most taboo subjects on here, they will always cause controversy however some people will find it a turn on. Representing the morale high ground doesn’t really worry me when there are a seriously high percentage of married individuals on the site.

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By *ittyndCouple
over a year ago

Oldham/Birmingham

Ermm no comments

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Anybody else find it incredibly sexy being with someone for NSA when you know they’re cheating? Being with a married lady seeing the ring on her fingers drives me insane. I know it’s low but sexually it’s really hot.

We guess this hasn't worked out the way you thought Shaun.

Not at all, the reason I posted was for opinion. Either way, like most taboo subjects on here, they will always cause controversy however some people will find it a turn on. Representing the morale high ground doesn’t really worry me when there are a seriously high percentage of married individuals on the site. "

No matter how many married cheats there are on here, it will never make cheating right.

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

This whole site is full of lyin cheatin 2timin shits shaggin behind your own partners/wives/hubbys

GOT TO B DISCRETE AS U STATE

JUST SHOWS U DONT HAVE NO RESPECT TO YOUR OWN PARTNERS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your wife loves it aswell, shes awesome, never gets any at home

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Anybody else find it incredibly sexy being with someone for NSA when you know they’re cheating? Being with a married lady seeing the ring on her fingers drives me insane. I know it’s low but sexually it’s really hot.

We guess this hasn't worked out the way you thought Shaun.

Not at all, the reason I posted was for opinion. Either way, like most taboo subjects on here, they will always cause controversy however some people will find it a turn on. Representing the morale high ground doesn’t really worry me when there are a seriously high percentage of married individuals on the site. "

And doing it the way you've done it, boasting about it, is pretty much a kick in the gut to every person on here that's had their world torn to pieces, their lives as they know it ripped apart and every ounce of heartache and pain rubbed in their face with your cock in your hand and a smile on your face.

And as I say in my profile text: Don't be that person. And just because you know people do it and get away with it doesn't make it fucking right. Be proud to be a good human, not proud you got away with something that could hurt someones soul.

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By *l and JenCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Oh hell yes.

But then pleasuring another man's lovely wife is about as good as it gets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody else find it incredibly sexy being with someone for NSA when you know they’re cheating? Being with a married lady seeing the ring on her fingers drives me insane. I know it’s low but sexually it’s really hot.

We guess this hasn't worked out the way you thought Shaun.

Not at all, the reason I posted was for opinion. Either way, like most taboo subjects on here, they will always cause controversy however some people will find it a turn on. Representing the morale high ground doesn’t really worry me when there are a seriously high percentage of married individuals on the site.

And doing it the way you've done it, boasting about it, is pretty much a kick in the gut to every person on here that's had their world torn to pieces, their lives as they know it ripped apart and every ounce of heartache and pain rubbed in their face with your cock in your hand and a smile on your face.

And as I say in my profile text: Don't be that person. And just because you know people do it and get away with it doesn't make it fucking right. Be proud to be a good human, not proud you got away with something that could hurt someones soul."

Spot on peach . Lets hope karma will not do the same to you when you are in a relationship with the love of your life. Been there myself and lets say the guy payed the price!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had sex with a man who thought I was cheating. I know he liked seeing my wedding ring. He even asked about me being married. I'm sure it turned him on. As it turned him on, it did turn me on as well.

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By *ewismixedbbcMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"Anybody else find it incredibly sexy being with someone for NSA when you know they’re cheating? Being with a married lady seeing the ring on her fingers drives me insane. I know it’s low but sexually it’s really hot. "
you asked for it pal backlash and half lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get a lot of messages along these lines, we don't mind if people have it as a kink L isn't cheating but they don't have to know that or can look beyond it by the time they see wedding ring etc...no harm being done to us and they enjoy it!

Having a liking for attached people doesn't make that person bad in our opinion...it is the person in the relationship that cheats NOT the extra (whether they were encouraging or not)!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anybody else find it incredibly sexy being with someone for NSA when you know they’re cheating? Being with a married lady seeing the ring on her fingers drives me insane. I know it’s low but sexually it’s really hot. you asked for it pal backlash and half lol"

Exactly mate, no tears shed here from the moral high ground gang!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"We get a lot of messages along these lines, we don't mind if people have it as a kink L isn't cheating but they don't have to know that or can look beyond it by the time they see wedding ring etc...no harm being done to us and they enjoy it!

Having a liking for attached people doesn't make that person bad in our opinion...it is the person in the relationship that cheats NOT the extra (whether they were encouraging or not)!

"

If 2 people eat an ice cream they're both responsible for that ice cream getting eaten.

If 2 people have sex they're both responsible for the sex being had. If that sex was in a cheating capacity, they're both responsible. Without that complicit person, it wouldn't be a cheat it'd be a solo wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody else find it incredibly sexy being with someone for NSA when you know they’re cheating? Being with a married lady seeing the ring on her fingers drives me insane. I know it’s low but sexually it’s really hot. you asked for it pal backlash and half lol

Exactly mate, no tears shed here from the moral high ground gang! "

I think swinging isnt cheating. Just my view thow. Having an afair were you go on holiday. Presents etc is. But so many vanila couples have afairs.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Not the moral high ground at all and our opinion for what it's worth if you are on here and are honest about being "Attached" fair play to you and 10 out of 10 for being honest as most of the so called "Single" males in our neck of the woods give the game away by their updates though ? and our so called "Vanilla " friends who think we are a tad weird ..99% of them have or have tried to have "Affairs" or get "Laid" behind their partners back ?? but think most men get a buzz out of trying to get a attached female in bed ?? and more than a few have tried it on with mrs4 and she just told them ( if she fancied them) that's she is up for it and they get all excited then she says ..only if i can watch as we are swingers not cheaters and that's a huge difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on the other side of that, no it fucking hurts, it rips your ficking heart out"

Been there, but switched it around for a few years not giving a shit who I was having sex with.

Now older, wiser and less angry I wouldn't do that again.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

No, the only married/attached men I have sex with is in the presence of their partner and she joins in too. If I so much as get an inkling a 'single' male is in a relationship then he won't see me for dust. I've been the wife of a cheater & could never knowingly put another woman through that agony, and they always find out eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get a lot of messages along these lines, we don't mind if people have it as a kink L isn't cheating but they don't have to know that or can look beyond it by the time they see wedding ring etc...no harm being done to us and they enjoy it!

Having a liking for attached people doesn't make that person bad in our opinion...it is the person in the relationship that cheats NOT the extra (whether they were encouraging or not)!

If 2 people eat an ice cream they're both responsible for that ice cream getting eaten.

If 2 people have sex they're both responsible for the sex being had. If that sex was in a cheating capacity, they're both responsible. Without that complicit person, it wouldn't be a cheat it'd be a solo wank.

"

You are absolutely entitled to your opinion, which seems to be a little different to ours.

Ice cream from one perspective, we may explain it as speeding with a passenger. Both are in the car...but only one persons actions are breaking the law

To be clear, we think cheating is absolutely dreadful and the impact as explained by many above is appalling for all involved. Alongside that view we also believe the responsibility for the relationship sits solely with the two people in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get a lot of messages along these lines, we don't mind if people have it as a kink L isn't cheating but they don't have to know that or can look beyond it by the time they see wedding ring etc...no harm being done to us and they enjoy it!

Having a liking for attached people doesn't make that person bad in our opinion...it is the person in the relationship that cheats NOT the extra (whether they were encouraging or not)!

If 2 people eat an ice cream they're both responsible for that ice cream getting eaten.

If 2 people have sex they're both responsible for the sex being had. If that sex was in a cheating capacity, they're both responsible. Without that complicit person, it wouldn't be a cheat it'd be a solo wank.

You are absolutely entitled to your opinion, which seems to be a little different to ours.

Ice cream from one perspective, we may explain it as speeding with a passenger. Both are in the car...but only one persons actions are breaking the law

To be clear, we think cheating is absolutely dreadful and the impact as explained by many above is appalling for all involved. Alongside that view we also believe the responsibility for the relationship sits solely with the two people in it. "

Sometimes the passenger is also breaking the law.

Marital infidelity is not illegal. Society has deemed it morally wrong. And as Mr Clinton found out, even a bj is "sexual relations" .. ship.

And in the case of cheating there is always more than 2 people involved or it wouldn't be cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely fucking not!

The last thing I want to be involved in is facilitating a cunt to cheat on some poor sod who is unknowingly heading towards having their life ripped apart.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get a lot of messages along these lines, we don't mind if people have it as a kink L isn't cheating but they don't have to know that or can look beyond it by the time they see wedding ring etc...no harm being done to us and they enjoy it!

Having a liking for attached people doesn't make that person bad in our opinion...it is the person in the relationship that cheats NOT the extra (whether they were encouraging or not)!

If 2 people eat an ice cream they're both responsible for that ice cream getting eaten.

If 2 people have sex they're both responsible for the sex being had. If that sex was in a cheating capacity, they're both responsible. Without that complicit person, it wouldn't be a cheat it'd be a solo wank.

You are absolutely entitled to your opinion, which seems to be a little different to ours.

Ice cream from one perspective, we may explain it as speeding with a passenger. Both are in the car...but only one persons actions are breaking the law

To be clear, we think cheating is absolutely dreadful and the impact as explained by many above is appalling for all involved. Alongside that view we also believe the responsibility for the relationship sits solely with the two people in it.

Sometimes the passenger is also breaking the law.

Marital infidelity is not illegal. Society has deemed it morally wrong. And as Mr Clinton found out, even a bj is "sexual relations" .. ship.

And in the case of cheating there is always more than 2 people involved or it wouldn't be cheating.

"

Again we respect your opinion, although it isn't how we run our relationship. No-one is responsible for what happens between us apart from the two of us and we are happy with that.

This is also the beauty of FAB, everyone is different and it provides a platform for likeminded people to meet and do what they want as consenting adults.

As mentioned initially we get a lot of messages from guys who want to meet L purely because they get off on the thought of M not being there. L isn't cheating, so if they like the idea then so what?! Doesn't impact us if someone wants to pretend L is cheating.

If they were looking to cheat on a partner with 'us' then we would run a mile...this is only about guys liking the idea of someone elses partner and that it wouldn't worry us as a couple if they did - we would respect the honestly of them admitting it and it's far more likely to be a successful meet if everyone is honest about what they want from the outset - also gives everyone a chance to opt out early if someone disagrees.

Happy FABbing all.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

No.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I have met a couple of married women. It never sat easy with me.

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By *wan64Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

No I don't believe in cheating have been cheated in past as my current male friend works away I wouldn't cheat on him as I know he wouldn't do that to me

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