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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me.

My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this.

Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Husband of the wives that I've had sex always seem to be full of pride, knowing that someone else finds the person they love sexy and wants them. I have some much respect for these men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fabbers not Father's...bloody autocorrect!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wife 1 - Me 0


"Husband of the wives that I've had sex always seem to be full of pride, knowing that someone else finds the person they love sexy and wants them. I have some much respect for these men."

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By *imbo2007Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

I totally agree most husbands are full of pride showing off and sharing their wives and as a guy that meet them fully respect and admire them for being proud and sharing the love.

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By *ANNABE CUCK2000Couple
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Total respect takes a true man to share in our eyes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am getting tanked...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am full of respect and admiration for you. I also think that you are a very lucky guy.

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By *op2Couple
over a year ago

North west


"Husband of the wives that I've had sex always seem to be full of pride, knowing that someone else finds the person they love sexy and wants them. I have some much respect for these men."
always wondered this myself about to find out I suppose x

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By *he BWCMan
over a year ago

Stafford

I fully respwct the couple and always thank the husband for the great expeeience.

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By *imbo2007Man
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Total respect takes a true man to share in our eyes"

I total agree with this

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

I've been lucky enough to play with two other couples.

My thoughts about both hubbies, were that they are lucky to have such understanding ladies. Plus that the hubbies themselves have a relationship that they should feel proud of. In that both of them have trust and respect of each other. That other couples, - primarily the more vanilla ones, - could only dream of. jmho.

Kudos to both the OP and his lady.

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I be met a few couples and some ladies with hubbies knowledge and have the deepest respect for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a massive turn on to have my woman desired.then see her get fulfilled and the reaction of the nen who get lucky enough ti have some fun with her. I couldn't care less what they think as we rarely have anything else to do with people we meet or play with in any other aspect other than swinging.

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

I've always felt it quite a honour to be allowed to share with a couple, especially when the husband sits back and allows his wife to enjoy without involvement.

Nothing but respect here.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Isn't it the same for wives who share husbands?

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

I can look at this from both sides.. we meet separately..

I don't feel slighted that he's met a lovely lady... he doesn't feel slighted that I met a new gent.

We really don't care what opinions other folk have of us... we know what suits.

Speaking for myself though... any guy who was remotely verbally that cheeky about him wouldn't see me for dust

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I’ve not been lucky enough to share my partner so your one up on me. I’m with your wife though, it takes a lot of mutual trust to be able to share her

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me.

My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this.

Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!"
Respect and admiration for the both of you.

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By *imbo2007Man
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Isn't it the same for wives who share husbands? "

I think you are quite right. Although some people seem to think that wives are controlled and made to take part to please their husbands. Thankfully those I have met have not been like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems a bit of a landslide...


"Husband of the wives that I've had sex always seem to be full of pride, knowing that someone else finds the person they love sexy and wants them. I have some much respect for these men. always wondered this myself about to find out I suppose x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total respect to all who share their partners

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By *arrySwindonMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Always been full of respect for any couple who pursue their fantasy of inviting someone to join them. Having also “shared” some playmates with single guys I know how hot it is to see your partner desired by another man. Not to mention how hot the “reclaim” sex is afterwards. A lot of us boys are competitive after all!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think the use of the words "share" and "allow" denote ownership. We don't think of each other in this way but know others do and I think their perceptions of the men in swinging couples stems from the assumption that men somehow own their partner's sexuality.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

I most agree with your wife on this one total resect for you both as long as your both happy thats what counts in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I've been both the husband and the extra guy in mmfs, I think being either is great! I really loved seeing my wife explore the potential of more than one man.

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

I always consider it a real privilege to be invited to play with a couple and have nothing but respect for both husband and wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't even consider what they think of you or your wife. What you two think of each other is all that matters.

On here you will overwhelmingly get "respect". Some will be genuine, others will,

unfortunately, just be hoping to get into your wife's pants.

Keep fabbing, stop wondering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta hand it to your wife, nothing but respect for any husband or boyfriend who wants to share their beautiful find with others

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By *oublethefunMan
over a year ago

royston

In my opinion and experience both as a single guy and one with a partner they simply don't understand.

When I was a single guy and into the so called life style I met lots of couples and single wimen, being invited to lots of private party's as well as holding them myself too.

Speaking to lots of single guys they were always of the opinion that the men were a bit sad and could never imagine doing the same if they were in a relationship.

I feel that this arrives from the fact that they simply don't understand the denamicks of it all beings as they are in fact single themselves so don't have any emotional ties to anyone.

It's a well known fact that most single guys will say anything to get the chance to fuck another man's partner but will never fully understand what it's like for a guy to watch his partner play with another man or men.

Only when you have a partner can you fully understand how it feels so there views are based purely on ignorance.

This is just my own point of view and based on personal experience.

A few guys may well think it's great but they tend to be the ones that would be wishing they themselves had a partner of there own and feel that they would enjoy watching themselves.!!!!!

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By *imbo2007Man
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I think the use of the words "share" and "allow" denote ownership. We don't think of each other in this way but know others do and I think their perceptions of the men in swinging couples stems from the assumption that men somehow own their partner's sexuality.

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Yes in my opinion definitely not 'allow' and somewhat not 'share' a partner but definitely a share experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did think this yes...Great points


"Don't even consider what they think of you or your wife. What you two think of each other is all that matters.

On here you will overwhelmingly get "respect". Some will be genuine, others will,

unfortunately, just be hoping to get into your wife's pants.

Keep fabbing, stop wondering."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is exactly my point...very well articulated...Nice one.


"In my opinion and experience both as a single guy and one with a partner they simply don't understand.

When I was a single guy and into the so called life style I met lots of couples and single wimen, being invited to lots of private party's as well as holding them myself too.

Speaking to lots of single guys they were always of the opinion that the men were a bit sad and could never imagine doing the same if they were in a relationship.

I feel that this arrives from the fact that they simply don't understand the denamicks of it all beings as they are in fact single themselves so don't have any emotional ties to anyone.

It's a well known fact that most single guys will say anything to get the chance to fuck another man's partner but will never fully understand what it's like for a guy to watch his partner play with another man or men.

Only when you have a partner can you fully understand how it feels so there views are based purely on ignorance.

This is just my own point of view and based on personal experience.

A few guys may well think it's great but they tend to be the ones that would be wishing they themselves had a partner of there own and feel that they would enjoy watching themselves.!!!!! "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think the use of the words "share" and "allow" denote ownership. We don't think of each other in this way but know others do and I think their perceptions of the men in swinging couples stems from the assumption that men somehow own their partner's sexuality.

Yes in my opinion definitely not 'allow' and somewhat not 'share' a partner but definitely a share experience "

Yes! A shared experience. If you understand that, you've got it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absaloute legends....

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I think most couples who share have a very solid relationship & it does not matter too much what others think about them

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've tried not to say this but I can't help myself. Why are men congratulating each other because women are having sex?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think most couples who share have a very solid relationship & it does not matter too much what others think about them "

You got that right .

We've chatted with guys who tell us very proudly that they would never swing in a relationship (which of course is their choice) then expect us to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've tried not to say this but I can't help myself. Why are men congratulating each other because women are having sex?"
we would be giving each other high fives but it's hard via a app

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

WE do it because WE enjoy it.

Providing we have a good experience at the time we don’t really care what they think about us afterwards. We were happy before we met them and we are happy after they’ve gone.

Mark

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've tried not to say this but I can't help myself. Why are men congratulating each other because women are having sex? we would be giving each other high fives but it's hard via a app "

I can't tell if you're serious

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By *amyam5627Man
over a year ago

Swadlincote

My first ever meet all those years ago was with a couple whose husband just wanted to watch/listen from the doorway, it then progressed to him watching from a chair opposite us in the front room…….I have total respect for those that want to do this, if they both enjoy it, what’s to stop them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total respect takes a true man to share in our eyes"

Are men that don't enjoy sharing not true men too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own if u both enjoy it who is anyone to tell u what to do

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By *ams12345Man
over a year ago

london

I respect that man highly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a really nice thread.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I've met a few couples ...and very much like to get on with hubby... the first couple I met I gave him a hug afterwards...they were both lovely....and I found it an amazing experience. I was nervous, but the intimacy of it was lovely...and it was lovely to see mrs enjoy herself...

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"This is a really nice thread. "

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me.

My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this.

Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!"

I’m not a huge fan of MFM but I’ve been in many situations where it’s me and the wife whilst the husband watched.

I always remember the first time it happened. He was a big guy and I was terrified that he was going to beat me for fucking his wife.

I was so naive and vanilla that after putting the condom and climbing on top of her, I asked him if he was joining in. They both laughed and told me she was all mine. He liked to watch.

Afterwards, they loved how I tried to involve him. We still speak to this day.

So in conclusion: I’d never look at you thinking you was a prick, I’d be grateful that you was willing to share her with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me.

My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this.

Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!"

I have nothing but respect for the husband’s of the couples I’ve played with....

He is letting me enjoy the most important thing in his life.... His wife and mother of his children....

I never question his motives nor do I try to understand his mindset....

I just enjoy the time we have together......

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I've always played as a single or without the person I play as a couple with being my soul mate.. that's hopefully going to change now... and thanks Op for your question.

I am worried that people will think that If I play its because he isn't enough, or not good enough ( which so isn't true)

My swinging interests have always been in group and bukkake type things... stuff me and one partner will struggle to do.

I am hoping like the OP my partner will grow to love the reality as much as he enjoys knowing others want to do things with me.

He is quite proud of my prior antics and has said if I so wish i can continue he just isn't sure he wants to watch as yet.. i worry about others opinions though

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me.

My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this.

Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!"

Frankly it would be an overwhelming offer and experience that a couple were willing and comfortable with doing this but also deserve the respect that goes with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we really dont care as we do this for us its always been about us and always will we've never had the view of owning each other we never do stuff just to please each other we are just us a loving trusting til the day we die type couple ..

ive met guys in the past who have shown disrespectful views to my hubs and in a insant never seen again some men seem to underestimate the couples thankfully most dont tho..

its the reason why you should never swing if your relationship is in trouble as it wont fix it it will just expose it even more ..

and yes even my single profile is about us just as our couples one is too we are very lucky as there is very little we've not done or liked

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By *etsorderpizzaMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Yeah OP I think I'd agree with your wife. I don't think most men could have their way with your wife and think that of you considering it's totally mutual and respectful fun.

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By *S2004Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove


"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me.

My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this.

Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!"

I really wondered where the post was going when it referred to fathers !!!!

However I think the answer lies somewhere in between. In a pub or workplace full of non swingers, the guys would probably think of you as weak. In the world of swinging then no doubt swingers would appreciate your wife and both of your open minded approaches. Certainly I would not think you were a prick for letting your wife get a facial. X

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes


"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me.

My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this.

Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!"

I'm sorry my good man.

I'm going to agree with your wife on this. I fully respect and understand why you like to share your lady.

I used to be the same with an ex of mine.

You enjoy it, so why not do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is interesting is the private messages we've received on this topic which does suggest quite a different view on this topic...however I do agree that our opinions, enjoyment and shared experiences is what's paramount...

Loving the community spirit tho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always full of admiration and respect for guys who share their wives. I'm also just very pleased then that they choose to share them with me. Nothing better than meeting a sexy hotwife.

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By *oublethefunMan
over a year ago

royston


"What is interesting is the private messages we've received on this topic which does suggest quite a different view on this topic...however I do agree that our opinions, enjoyment and shared experiences is what's paramount...

It does strike me as being a little biased and predicable in the responce from single guys.

I don't think for one minute that any single guy would have the balls to say that they think bad of any guy that likes to watch his partner play with other men as this would be classed as fab suiside and put any potenshal couples off from ever wanting to meet them, lol.

Loving the community spirit tho!"

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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago

n/wales

Pm sound too have the opposite views then possibly but most on here seem good

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By *onkyLemonsCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

It takes a very secure relationship to do this so total respect!

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Very interesting read as we have wondered this too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I tend to agree...


"What is interesting is the private messages we've received on this topic which does suggest quite a different view on this topic...however I do agree that our opinions, enjoyment and shared experiences is what's paramount...

It does strike me as being a little biased and predicable in the responce from single guys.

I don't think for one minute that any single guy would have the balls to say that they think bad of any guy that likes to watch his partner play with other men as this would be classed as fab suiside and put any potenshal couples off from ever wanting to meet them, lol.

Loving the community spirit tho!"

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"I tend to agree...

What is interesting is the private messages we've received on this topic which does suggest quite a different view on this topic...however I do agree that our opinions, enjoyment and shared experiences is what's paramount...

It does strike me as being a little biased and predicable in the responce from single guys.

I don't think for one minute that any single guy would have the balls to say that they think bad of any guy that likes to watch his partner play with other men as this would be classed as fab suiside and put any potenshal couples off from ever wanting to meet them, lol.

Loving the community spirit tho!"

This is a swingers site ... when couples play together the vast majority on this site I would guess, a guy will watch his wife with another guy...

I would be amazed if many guys ,singles or as part of couples thought badly about someone sharing their wife

In fact it would be pretty illogical being on here if you had that view I think...

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By *oublethefunMan
over a year ago

royston


"I tend to agree...

What is interesting is the private messages we've received on this topic which does suggest quite a different view on this topic...however I do agree that our opinions, enjoyment and shared experiences is what's paramount...

It does strike me as being a little biased and predicable in the responce from single guys.

I don't think for one minute that any single guy would have the balls to say that they think bad of any guy that likes to watch his partner play with other men as this would be classed as fab suiside and put any potenshal couples off from ever wanting to meet them, lol.

Loving the community spirit tho!

This is a swingers site ... when couples play together the vast majority on this site I would guess, a guy will watch his wife with another guy...

I would be amazed if many guys ,singles or as part of couples thought badly about someone sharing their wife

In fact it would be pretty illogical being on here if you had that view I think..."
the question was directed at single guys not couples as they were asking what single guys think of the male half of a couple in a mmf thresome!!!

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

On most of the “cuck” style meets I have had over the years my view of the hubby is that he has tended to be a decent guy and he has enjoyed the fact that his wife is enjoying herself.

I have had a couple of situations where I thought the hubby was basically an arse but that was simply because he was quite simpering and clearly under the thumb.

If you are in this as a couple and hubby enjoys the fact that his wife enjoys other men then I think that is great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your comment on the PM opinion suggests men are saying they don't respect you.

But how can their opinion be respected if they won't post it openly on this thread.

What are they afraid of?

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By *ands09Couple
over a year ago

West London

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By *ands09Couple
over a year ago

West London

Frankly speaking we give a shit about what other men think and we are in this to fulfil our desires and pleasures .. however I must admit few jerks who we refused to accept their friend’s invite or chat or meet - have been very harsh with their messages to us saying that I am not a man enough hence my mrs wants to fuck other men ( funny thing is those guys who called me “ that I am not man enough” - have smaller willies than me and I am sure would have fucked fewer women in their whole life than I get to fuck in a year)..

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By *ickyMac69Man
over a year ago

alfreton

If you enjoy watching and she enjoys being fucked then go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the use of the words "share" and "allow" denote ownership. We don't think of each other in this way but know others do and I think their perceptions of the men in swinging couples stems from the assumption that men somehow own their partner's sexuality.

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Couldn’t have said it better myself. Thank-you. Vixen x

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"I tend to agree...

What is interesting is the private messages we've received on this topic which does suggest quite a different view on this topic...however I do agree that our opinions, enjoyment and shared experiences is what's paramount...

It does strike me as being a little biased and predicable in the responce from single guys.

I don't think for one minute that any single guy would have the balls to say that they think bad of any guy that likes to watch his partner play with other men as this would be classed as fab suiside and put any potenshal couples off from ever wanting to meet them, lol.

Loving the community spirit tho!

This is a swingers site ... when couples play together the vast majority on this site I would guess, a guy will watch his wife with another guy...

I would be amazed if many guys ,singles or as part of couples thought badly about someone sharing their wife

In fact it would be pretty illogical being on here if you had that view I think... the question was directed at single guys not couples as they were asking what single guys think of the male half of a couple in a mmf thresome!!! "

I know but I'm just making the point it's all about sharing..and if any guys think negatively about that then it doesn't make sense as the purpose of the site is for the most part about sharing

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By *heTallGuy81Man
over a year ago

london

I consider it a great honour to be invited by the lady to have sexy with her and gain her husband’s approval.

I am Polite and respectful of both them and their relationship and I most certainly do not think that the husband is some sort of lesser man. Quite the opposite.

I admire him greatly because he knows that I’m not goi g to be some immature clown and try to take his place. That’s for schoolboys.

I used to love sharing my ex with multiple men and it was a huge turn on. A couple of times we booked a hotel room for her to entertain a number of well trusted regular play mates. I think the most we got was six in a day one pretty much after the other.

She’d call me at work when they were fucking her or send me clips, and after I went round the corner to the hotel where she was absolutely used and knackered. She hadn’t had the energy to shower and reeked of sex and cum, so I dived right in and had my own turn.

My idea of a fantasy woman is an insatiable whore who spends all day on her back with her legs spread taking cock after cock while I’m at work. In my fantasy she has 10+ men a day and then me in the evening.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

I think it's very considerate of a man to share their lady, to want someone else to experience what they must consider to be an amazing experience. It's also a great feeling to think a couple think you have something to bring to the party too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

My idea of a fantasy woman is an insatiable whore who spends all day on her back with her legs spread taking cock after cock while I’m at work. In my fantasy she has 10+ men a day and then me in the evening."

Take it she doesn't have a job?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me.

My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this.

Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!"

You love it and the wife does so thats all that matters. I respect every individual in life so should everyone else

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

This has been a very interesting read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Frankly speaking we give a shit about what other men think and we are in this to fulfil our desires and pleasures .. however I must admit few jerks who we refused to accept their friend’s invite or chat or meet - have been very harsh with their messages to us saying that I am not a man enough hence my mrs wants to fuck other men ( funny thing is those guys who called me “ that I am not man enough” - have smaller willies than me and I am sure would have fucked fewer women in their whole life than I get to fuck in a year)..

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Well posted, except for your definition of a man. It has no correlation to the size of his cock and the number of women he has fucked. There are more important aspects than those.

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By *heTallGuy81Man
over a year ago

london


"

My idea of a fantasy woman is an insatiable whore who spends all day on her back with her legs spread taking cock after cock while I’m at work. In my fantasy she has 10+ men a day and then me in the evening.

Take it she doesn't have a job?"

That was my FANTASY woman, not my actual one unfortunately!

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By *iking SoftiesCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

We would agree with this, it is a shared experience that brings us both a lot of pleasure and intensifies the bond we have between us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having met a few hotwives, I can't say their partner have ever crossed my mind positively or negatively

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never understand what a guy gets from seeing me beat his Mrs with my cock. To watch him clean up my mess made me sick in my stomach

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

North Wessex Downs

Good and interedting question. If i don't like/ get on with the guy in a couple i play with the experience is just wrong - and unenjoyable - on so many levels.

If it's enjoyable and we get on it would NEVER occur to me to think ill of him at all. Instead i tend to think 'what a lovely/ great/ fun/ playful / amazing/ besutiful couple thinking of either the guy or his wife sepsarately is quite rare - they come as a package.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never understand what a guy gets from seeing me beat his Mrs with my cock. To watch him clean up my mess made me sick in my stomach "

Really admire your frank honesty buddy...

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

As a cuck I love my wife immensely but she’s always loved the attention from other guys and I’ve always been supportive enough to support her if and when she wants to play.

Sex is just an act, I don’t consider it a big deal if my wife wants to enjoy being fucked differently by different shape and length of cocks.

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By *ornyj37Man
over a year ago

Devon

Have the utmost respect for guys who share their wives

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By *ullman1Man
over a year ago

Aldershot

The are a gift from heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never made judgement on any male half of couples I have met. As has been said, it's just a sexual act and I serve a purpose just as the couple has for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never understand what a guy gets from seeing me beat his Mrs with my cock. To watch him clean up my mess made me sick in my stomach "

I don't think you'll need to worry about beating some guy's mrs with your cock again

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Some men will get it, some won't. It's more about who you pick and their attitude towards you and your wife. In a cuck situation, the couple might prefer the guy to disrespect the husband, whereas, in a more stag/vixen dynamic, mutual respect for all parties will often be paramount.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I respect both the husband and wife and as long as everyone knows boundaries then men are usually very respectful of hubbies who like to share their wives. I have always got on with hubbies ive met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never understand what a guy gets from seeing me beat his Mrs with my cock. To watch him clean up my mess made me sick in my stomach

I don't think you'll need to worry about beating some guy's mrs with your cock again "

Someone said above, if they have a negative view, why not be big enough to post it on the forum instead of PM the OP. There's your answer, any guy who posted a negative view in public, would immediately be blocked by I'm guessing nearly every couple on here, FAB suicide.

It was actually a great question, but unfortunately, never going to get honest responses in public.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Never understand what a guy gets from seeing me beat his Mrs with my cock. To watch him clean up my mess made me sick in my stomach

I don't think you'll need to worry about beating some guy's mrs with your cock again

Someone said above, if they have a negative view, why not be big enough to post it on the forum instead of PM the OP. There's your answer, any guy who posted a negative view in public, would immediately be blocked by I'm guessing nearly every couple on here, FAB suicide.

It was actually a great question, but unfortunately, never going to get honest responses in public. "

I tend to agree.

I also think most of the responses on this thread show that men *still* think it's about them rather than it being a joint or shared experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never understand what a guy gets from seeing me beat his Mrs with my cock. To watch him clean up my mess made me sick in my stomach

I don't think you'll need to worry about beating some guy's mrs with your cock again

Someone said above, if they have a negative view, why not be big enough to post it on the forum instead of PM the OP. There's your answer, any guy who posted a negative view in public, would immediately be blocked by I'm guessing nearly every couple on here, FAB suicide.

It was actually a great question, but unfortunately, never going to get honest responses in public. "

There are probably more tactful ways of expressing something that's not for someone

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

Both my hubby and i don't care what guys think about us, we both enjoy what we do.

There is lot worse things going on in the world than a guy spunking on my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every couple I have meet I have treated both of them equally with respect. The way I see it I am joining them as a couple, I am the addition not myself and the hotwife with the husband being the spare. If they get off on humiliation and cuckolding then I am more than happy to ‘play’ that part but it does not mean I respect the husband any less.

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By *ands09Couple
over a year ago

West London


"Never understand what a guy gets from seeing me beat his Mrs with my cock. To watch him clean up my mess made me sick in my stomach "

You don’t need to understand - you are not any more worthy than a Dildo .. couples use the Dildo’s for their own pleasure and neither they care about how a dildo feels about it ... so next time don’t try meeting a couple of you can’t understand why a man likes to watch his wife get fucked by other men.

Perhaps the couple you met is conveying to you that she belongs to him and you are nothing more than a dildo to be used for her and his pleasure only .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have complete respect and understand the mindset, I also value and respect the fact that I’d be sharing even briefly one of the most important aspects of their lives, it’s about all 3 enjoying the scenario.

But I’ve not had the pleasure of experiencing this yet personally

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16


"I think the use of the words "share" and "allow" denote ownership. We don't think of each other in this way but know others do and I think their perceptions of the men in swinging couples stems from the assumption that men somehow own their partner's sexuality.

"

Interesting thought we play with both couples and singles we have always considered this as sharing our partners. Whether that is the female sharing the male or visa versa not a matter if ownership more a case of allowing others to enjoy our partnership. Interested to what you call it and why.

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By *0FLHMan
over a year ago

Devon

I'd love to share her but she won't have it.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Well....as a Male happy to share his partner i find it a massive turn on her being wanted and of course her wanting another and the then the trust/honesty between us and the respect the other person shows to mrs4 that they are indeed very very very very lucky to be able to enjoy her !!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I have nothing but admiration and respect for a couple who allow a third person into their relationship be it male or female, the trust and bond that they have is incredible.

The freedom to express and explore their sexuality, wants and desires. Knowing that their partner is satisfying their need

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"I think the use of the words "share" and "allow" denote ownership. We don't think of each other in this way but know others do and I think their perceptions of the men in swinging couples stems from the assumption that men somehow own their partner's sexuality.

Interesting thought we play with both couples and singles we have always considered this as sharing our partners. Whether that is the female sharing the male or visa versa not a matter if ownership more a case of allowing others to enjoy our partnership. Interested to what you call it and why."

Unfortunately, discussion type threads are discouraged on here because of the easily offended. I'm happy to share my wife and she's happy to share me, there is no ownership there, quite the opposite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really thankful that they exist, Nice to see them enjoying seeing their wives having fun and being turned on by the sight. Love see the husband excited watching me fuck his wife and see his erect cock, even better if he allows me to touch it also. Nice to feel my cock inside his wife and his cock in my mouth.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

As a couple it is hard to find a single male who does understand the dynamics and the fact that is and always be Mrs4 choice to play and that in turn doesn't make Mr4 any less of a man for doing so ?? it's just one of the many things we enjoy doing as a couple though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a bad experience afterwards .

In fact probably me that feels more awkward if they shake my hand or something afterwards lol

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

A lot of the guys I chat with tell me I’m lucky to have a wife who enjoys having fun with other guys ,I have become good friends with a few of them , she don’t fuck them everytime we meet , but she knows how turned on I get and that she will reap the benefits after , I also know how pleasurable it is when I am playing with another wife for her husband , my wife was a very sexual person when we met and does enjoy sex .As you get older it’s always good to give a hand ,she also discovered her bisexuality in this lifestyle , I often here the so call single guys in the club saying how they wish their wife’s would be more liberated, they really do need to ask them , they may get a surprise, I did and will let my wife fuck any guy she wants to in or out of club , especially our fuck buddy friend when he comes to town , he gets as horny as me when he finds out she has had fun with someone new ,we have learned to separate sex from love , and try to have fun when we can , been together 30yrs plus still going strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lot of single guys we talk to don't seem to understand the dynamic. Too many expect S to roll over not be involved and just have "their" way with me. Even though our profile says no cuckolding.

He very much enjoys me having the pleasure of two guys himself and another.

We're lucky that his best mate has become a regular play mate of us. He totally understands the dynamic. It's got better everytime.

I wish more single guys would take time to learn how each couple works and what they want from a single guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this.

Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!"

Too many guys too narrow minded and "macho" of them believe "how could you share your wife" you can't be a man. Complete opposite takes trust and confidence to share your wife. Something we both have.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think the use of the words "share" and "allow" denote ownership. We don't think of each other in this way but know others do and I think their perceptions of the men in swinging couples stems from the assumption that men somehow own their partner's sexuality.

Interesting thought we play with both couples and singles we have always considered this as sharing our partners. Whether that is the female sharing the male or visa versa not a matter if ownership more a case of allowing others to enjoy our partnership. Interested to what you call it and why."

I think my opinions are formed mainly from the number of people who talk about men happy to share their wives rather than couples, three or four people sharing an experience. To me (and I stress this is a personal opinion) you can't share a person but people can share an experience.

We don't actually call it anything

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By *ot Wife BeckyCouple
over a year ago

Near Bergerac

We have a good relationship with the guys that Becky has slept with, either on her own or with me present.

When she has slept with a guy, he always respects us a couple. He might just show it to continue getting into her knickers of course, but we're sure we'd pick up on that if it were the case.

If he doesn't show the respect Becky deserves, we wouldn't see him again.

It hasn't happened yet and hope it doesn't in the future

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some really interesting, honest responses...really glad I poses this question now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I applaud the men who are willing to consider sharing their wives. Lots fantasise about it but never take it further. Some wives may not Be keen, but those who do share I have huge respect for. It shows the strength of their relationship and if I’m lucky enough to be involved I get to enjoy time with a gorgeous wife and get a buzz out of the dynamic in putting on a hot show!

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By *ittyndCouple
over a year ago

Oldham/Birmingham

My guys loves watching me play with others anc then joins

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By *alton2Couple
over a year ago

huddersfld

We both were taught to always shares toys with the others.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

They are national heroes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of interest how many females enjoy watching their partner with a another woman or like their man go to meet other females? X

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

MRS4 has watched me enjoy another fem a couple of times !! and again it's getting pretty hard to meet any really really single male ( not just on here though) who fully understands we don't ever play as a cuck couple or any other kind of play but are and always will be a strict hotwife/stag

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...


"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me.

My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this.

Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!"

Sorry to say it but your wife is right.... the trust between you two is great, the sex is fun, and should be enjoyed. We arent a cuck couple just a couple that enjoy having fun with others....

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By *olo911Couple
over a year ago

wigan

Let’s be honest no single male is going to put ‘ I think of you guys that share wives of gf as total losers’ are they? They will say anything to get a chance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Let’s be honest no single male is going to put ‘ I think of you guys that share wives of gf as total losers’ are they? They will say anything to get a chance. "

Beginning to think this is fairly accurate...a shame but accurate...

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me.

My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this.

Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!"

Have a great time with people sharing and understanding your interest, and just don't care about whatever the others think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m all up for letting a partner be naughty as long as I get to play with other women and do the same to them as she joins in or is made to watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it matters what anyone else thinks, as long as it works for both of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full respect to them at the end of the day the invited guy is there to enhance an element of your sex life not to degrade the male partner in any way even in a cuckold relationship the cuck is still to be respected the humiliation aspect in this scenario is just part of the enhancement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never shared any of my ex's, I say shared there like it's even my choice, which it ain't

Its a feeling I know nothing about but I think I'd be ok with it, respect to those that already do and even more respect to those couple's who have that ability to trust one another and are that open to each other

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Most of the guys we play with don't consider it as me being "shared" at all - it's just three (or more) people sharing the fun together.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Personally I admire you for having such an honest relationship..

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By *ovelaughliveCouple
over a year ago

Oldham


"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me.

My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this.

Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!

I’m not a huge fan of MFM but I’ve been in many situations where it’s me and the wife whilst the husband watched.

I always remember the first time it happened. He was a big guy and I was terrified that he was going to beat me for fucking his wife.

I was so naive and vanilla that after putting the condom and climbing on top of her, I asked him if he was joining in. They both laughed and told me she was all mine. He liked to watch.

Afterwards, they loved how I tried to involve him. We still speak to this day.

So in conclusion: I’d never look at you thinking you was a prick, I’d be grateful that you was willing to share her with others. "

Hahaha although I think really you fancied a bit of the big guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had anyone say why do you let this happen!

More the opposite,

I get a little respect if anything,

I love guys enjoying her,

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me.

My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this.

Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!"

I think you have to be confident and sexually secure to be willing to share your wife with other guys so I have a lot of respect.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me.

My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this.

Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!

I’m not a huge fan of MFM but I’ve been in many situations where it’s me and the wife whilst the husband watched.

I always remember the first time it happened. He was a big guy and I was terrified that he was going to beat me for fucking his wife.

I was so naive and vanilla that after putting the condom and climbing on top of her, I asked him if he was joining in. They both laughed and told me she was all mine. He liked to watch.

Afterwards, they loved how I tried to involve him. We still speak to this day.

So in conclusion: I’d never look at you thinking you was a prick, I’d be grateful that you was willing to share her with others.

Hahaha although I think really you fancied a bit of the big guy

"

Yes, I fancied seeing him wait on me hand and foot if that’s what you meant.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"

My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)..."

I'm sure some guys do think like that but they usually can't help making it obvious and I'm just as sure most couples avoid them like the plague.

You see it on here all the time. They post things like "I'd never share any woman I was involved with" and things like that.

I'm also sure that a lot of guys don't think like that and they are the ones we look for.

Attitude is the the thing we look for above looks etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...

I'm sure some guys do think like that but they usually can't help making it obvious and I'm just as sure most couples avoid them like the plague.

You see it on here all the time. They post things like "I'd never share any woman I was involved with" and things like that.

I'm also sure that a lot of guys don't think like that and they are the ones we look for.

Attitude is the the thing we look for above looks etc."

Agree with this 100%. Probably the kind of guys that “think” they are a bull.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near


"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me.

My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this.

Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!"

Let this be solely a link, each to their own. It's not for everyone, the Kinksters would appreciate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have total admiration for a guy who is willing to share his good lady with others. Its a sign that the relationship is strong enough where the couple can enjoy the pleasures of sex with others how they please. Anyone who has a problem with it, well its their problem find a profile for someone who is more in line with what you like.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

We have a very strong bond and marriage - fucking and being pleasured in front of him by others (one or group) is part of our eroticism. He joins in when either of us wants this ... otherwise he is the viewer and the person who reclaims me at the end of the session. x Anne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a very strong bond and marriage - fucking and being pleasured in front of him by others (one or group) is part of our eroticism. He joins in when either of us wants this ... otherwise he is the viewer and the person who reclaims me at the end of the session. x Anne "
completely agree,x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never felt the guys we meet feel any way but privileged and part of the experience. Same as if I meet the couple, I respect their boundaries and am very grateful to them both for allowing me to share their experience. I love a guy cumming on my girl and I love it when a guy gets totally off on me cumming on his girl, that look in the eye is priceless!

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Sorry OP, but your wife is right!

Every couple I’ve had the pleasure of being with I’ve had nothing but respect and a little bit of envy for the guys who are lucky enough to have such an open life.

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