FabSwingers.com forum: Have you ever regretted having sex with someone?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you ever felt or feel bad right now that you had sex with someone that you wouldn't if you could take it all back?

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

No , not till this day

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

Yes but only because they became emotionally attached and it details really awkward

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Nope

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Have you ever felt or feel bad right now that you had sex with someone that you wouldn't if you could take it all back?"

.yes quite a few times.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

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Non ! Je ne regrette rien

In the voice of Edith Piaf ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes because it took a nasty turn.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

None as yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe one or two in my younger days but not now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, ive enjoyed the times ive had sex with others and hope they feel the same too

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Oh totally. Oddly it built my confidence significantly, as I was able to move to a place where I felt I had choices, rather than needing to grab every opportunity that came along.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Not in the moment no, but some of the ghosting afterwards could have been avoidable

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Yes

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Yea, I would take back loads of my fucks if I could.

Some I would happily do over and over.

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Once yes and lesson learnt

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By *ands09Couple
over a year ago

West London

We never regret for what we have done or who we met...god has been kind to us

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By *ollymollWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

One I regret because he turned out to be a total weirdo, and one because I know I really shouldn’t have. (Went against my own morals

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Other than that....... nope!

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I am an old man so much more likely ( imo) to have made some bad choices, esp in my younger carefree days when I would fuck anything that moved

But I believe regrets are futile, I can't change it so it is how it is.

More aware today of what I want but even then sometimes I get it wrong but it's no big deal.

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By *ick270Man
over a year ago

Here

Only one when i woke up in a bed wet and it wasn't me as id not had a drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh absolutely. Some one off club meets have been awful!

Hence why they were one offs! Lol.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes a couple of times .

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yes, some of my early meets on here left me feeling awful. It’s why I’m so uncompromising now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a few times

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By *otnew16Man
over a year ago

Dartford

Yes.... the mother of my kids!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, because that would mean I make poor choices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my early meets were poor choices, but I've learned from them and am much more discerning now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of my early meets were poor choices, but I've learned from them and am much more discerning now. "

This

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By *ilkandhoneyxWoman
over a year ago

leicester

yes absolutely. there’s a few people i wish i’d never even met at all, things have gone badly before and i think about it a lot , how much i regret stuff. but that’s life init

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By *asterandGenieCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Yes running Buddy who said she’d wanted to fuck for a long time but now it’s just awkward.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Yep.

Some bad decision making, some lack of red flag spotting, one person (abusive ex) where it was that or have my life made more hell than normal for the next however many days/weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my early 20’s I ended up sleeping with my bf’s parents.made it so awkward after

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By *uiet confidenceMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Sort of. One woman tried to use me to get back at her ex and showed him pictures of us shagging that I was unaware of her taking. Another (fab user) wanted no strings but got very clingy very quickly.

I don’t regret the sex with either of them, but I do regret not being more switched on in the first instance and regret not spotting the signs in the second. Both were things I could/should have spotted before they went OTT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, never, though it has not happened that often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not for me, although I sometimes feel wank guilt ! !

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Have you ever felt or feel bad right now that you had sex with someone that you wouldn't if you could take it all back?"

Not at all! I’m choosy who I play with, and have walked away from sex on a plate many times

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By *ockforplay66Man
over a year ago

Southampton/isle of wight/ everywhere

From a swinging point of view, no, never had any regrets

However, from a “normal” sex point of view, yes a few times. Usually it’s just because the emotion-monster rears it’s head. 1 woman started wedding planning (seriously!!) before my cock had softened! That started 6 weeks of very awkward conversations, lots of tantrums and some very abusive outbursts from her

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

A few. Always after the event, one guy turned into an absolute idiot mid play and the other really isn't worth mentioning, a wtf was that all about moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some one off here we had been chatting a while looked good in her pics she came over to mine in the middle of the night looked nothing like her pics more like she had eaten the woman in the pics I was horny so we had sex, sex was ok but I just really didn't fancy her at all, first and last time I ever sleep with someone I don't fancy felt really bad next day alot of regret won't ever happen again, also now prefer to get a selfie sent to me so they can't use angles and old pics to get meets.

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By *rett1111Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"One I regret because he turned out to be a total weirdo, and one because I know I really shouldn’t have. (Went against my own morals

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Other than that....... nope!"

Lol Molly what did you mean by went against your morals? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my early 20’s I ended up sleeping with my bf’s parents.made it so awkward after"

Best post award imo

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By *eekin NSAMan
over a year ago

Ireland /Kilkenny areas

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By *eekin NSAMan
over a year ago

Ireland /Kilkenny areas

Yes while on holiday s in my younger days With a married woman was fine until her husband found out Same hotel the next 4 days were very uncomfortable .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wife went on holiday with her friends before we met. She was 18 at the time.. didn't have full sex but regrets it. Can't say to much lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Truthfull answer yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some ladies don’t realise I’m a human being with feelings and just treat me like a piece of meat so yes I regret those ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes the male half of a couple became very obsessed with wife turned very stupid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no regrets . Live life to the max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not regretted per say, had some crap meets though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a best mates sister dont get me wrong she was a blinding shag but completely fucked up a good friendship definitely should of left that one alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I met a couple. The sex was dismal, there was no connection at all, and then my partner thought she had an infection as a result. Luckily it was just a bad reaction to some pesky bacteria but all the same, I'd rather it hadn't happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.. It was a very strange situation and i was very young

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By *eekin NSAMan
over a year ago

Ireland /Kilkenny areas

Yes totally had sex with a woman of a best friend sister at a wedding 10 years She was the single Pringle and totally ?? come on to me at 1am in the bar. Totally upset the family afterwards she told her younger sister Not really friendly with anyone since should have said no Evan the sex was wonderful

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

A few times yes

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By *mids LadMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

There was an older woman that I sort of regret sleeping with , only because of the trouble it caused after .

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Sort of.. Was invited into a 3som and things got kinda complicated after, when things stopped.

Dont regret the actual sex, it was great, just the scenario of it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes because I wasn't a good judge of character. He became a bit of a stalker so lesson learnt. Always go with gut instinct.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Christ yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Christ yes "

that was very definitive. do you need a moment to think about it

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

I broke the unwritten rule, a day after a mate dumped his Mrs I ended up in bed with her

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

too many when i was younger never learnt to say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course xxxx

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By *amesleonard12345Man
over a year ago

heathrow/feltham/sunbury

Yes my wife cousin

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Yes, several times.

I always felt dirty and used afterwards.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

Yes. A vanilla one. It ruined an amazing fab relationship.

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By *imBanksMan
over a year ago

Letchworth

My first swinging experience, pushy couple, no foreplay & passionless almost mechanical sex. Nearly put me off.

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By *ust Liz sexy babeWoman
over a year ago

Carterton

Ohhh yes sometimes i feel sorry then almost fall asleep as its so boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once or twice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never, I have enjoyed every sexual encounter I have had ! Probably because I get to know someone before sleeping with them;-/

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yes an ex as she would've assumed it was on the bases she was forgiven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not ever, I have loved and enjoyed the lady's I have been fortunate to have sex with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah had a close female friend. Both got d*unk 1 night, one thing led to another and we started having sex. Both agreed it felt weird and afterwards our friendship has never quite benn the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah had a close female friend. Both got d*unk 1 night, one thing led to another and we started having sex. Both agreed it felt weird and afterwards our friendship has never quite benn the same. "

It’s that wanting more feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only on the odd occasion, try to avoid if possible ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once or twice yeah. I've also regretted not having more sex with some people, so it balances out

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

Now put the shoe on the other foot... has anyone regretted shagging you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

Live and learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. A lot.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Yes, once.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Lots of times

Mainly d*unken one night stands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few. A great idea at the time but very regretful afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. A d*unken one-night stand during a rough patch with an ex. Felt guilty for her and the other girl involved

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