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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi Richy Bosher still a great name, remember me from chat Cheeley lol, i have some tit bits for ya oooooooerrr, all the info above is sound advice, the way i started 4 yrs ago was by going to a swing club!! (make a cuppa !st it's long winded!! lol)
Assure her you BOTH, don't have to touch anyone or vice versa, go on a COUPLES only night! and dress up and have a drink (but not too much) and socialise....!! Be in the environment and make friends which you will do, don't let ANYONE talk you into anything on the first or second (plus) visits....
Many couples never swing but like a safe environment with nice people....
You can both descide if its for you in time, you can always have sex with each other in a quiet place in the club to start with, where nobody else is invited. "Doing it" in a strange place is a turn on for most, graduate to having it front of others, still no one else getting involved. Next step is soft swing, basic touch no sex, some couples have a NO KISSING policy this is good, as kissing can be the biggest jelousy maker with couples. A lot of couples do not kiss, request this if you do swap in time, before you play !! very important to discuss before!! also have code words between you, if Mrs bosher is uncomfortable with a situation, she can say a word that only you know what it means (it might be a 4 letter one haha)
Anyways....?! the way i started was, drank a bottle of red, placed myself in the biggest room of people and got pleasured lol but thats me ha ha...
In all clubs NO means No and thats a RULE!!
I work in a swing club message me for details (wont advertise on here as people might think im trying to get new members) message me on fabs (cheeley) for more club info xxx Hope iv'e helped sweety x |
