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By *ersianpussy OP   Woman
over a year ago

hereford

My first BBC was a bit of a shock and I stopped it after a few strokes but these days I love it . Wondering how other women handled their first BBC x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first black guy was the best time with a guy ever. And every black guy since then except for one have been almost as good too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first (and only) was a lovely guy named Tony some years ago. It was fantastic.

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By *ersianpussy OP   Woman
over a year ago

hereford

I'd go with that too apart from first time I was worried how much it was going to stretch me but I've learned how to take it since x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice hearing your stories keep it coming ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a black and white tv id guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To start with i made sure it was positions where i could control how much was inside me.

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By *omnvixCouple
over a year ago

Gtr Manchester

Loved the first time I experienced a BBC. Loved being stretched and it felt amazing.

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By *ersianpussy OP   Woman
over a year ago

hereford

I love being stretched now and it also makes me gush which was something that never happened before x

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By *oonracerdanMan
over a year ago

torbay

I got a big cock if any woman fancys trying it lol

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By *lackhammerbbcMan
over a year ago

liverpool

think alot of woman are intimidated tbh

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By *oonracerdanMan
over a year ago

torbay

Yah but they just need to relax and go with the flow lol

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By *ersianpussy OP   Woman
over a year ago

hereford

It's not just the big cock for me its a type preference and soft velvet skin

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By *oonracerdanMan
over a year ago

torbay

And its how u use it its all about sensation

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By *oonracerdanMan
over a year ago

torbay

See u can have a massive cock as u want but a woman will only use what she wants or feels comfortable

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By *ersianpussy OP   Woman
over a year ago

hereford


"think alot of woman are intimidated tbh "
yes I see some women in clubs who seem intimidated when being chatted up even though God guy is polite and well mannered x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a licence, started off gently with Playschool and now I am right up there with Line of Duty!

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By *eeboCouple
over a year ago

basingstoke

Intriguing to hear how you adapted to enjoy something different and larger than you had before to then love it so much

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By *ixedracemaleMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Agree

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By *aby girl32Woman
over a year ago

Leigh lancs

The 1st time I slept with my fb it was very painful. I hadn't had sex in nearly 2 years before him so it took a couple of times to feel comfortable. Its not just his dick that's amazing I love his soft black skin against my pale white body.

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By *ustWhatYouNeededMan
over a year ago

Big Buddy

Always great to see so many successful encounters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So hot

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By *ands09Couple
over a year ago

West London

My first one in a club .. he was massive and literally tears running of eyes and had to stop him to midway.. took a good few years to try another BBC..

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By *ersianpussy OP   Woman
over a year ago

hereford


"My first one in a club .. he was massive and literally tears running of eyes and had to stop him to midway.. took a good few years to try another BBC.. "
same with me I was worried if ig was doing damage pulling me apart inside and I could feel him for days after x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet to try but was keen until i read some of these posts! By the sounds of it I'd struggle lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think im going to end up with 3 for my first time

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"I think im going to end up with 3 for my first time "
You should be OK as you're partner is big.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first ever man was a black guy so I thought his seven inches of cock was the norm! He felt huge inside me and it did hurt...at first. A few tears were shed but the initial pain was soon put aside to the pleasure of what he had done to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im mildly confused. Surely a 9 inch white guys penis has the same effect as a 9 inch black guys penis in terms of ‘stretch’ and ‘being filled’…….like a big dick does what a big dick does, regardless of the race of the penis owner. Please correct me if im wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im mildly confused. Surely a 9 inch white guys penis has the same effect as a 9 inch black guys penis in terms of ‘stretch’ and ‘being filled’…….like a big dick does what a big dick does, regardless of the race of the penis owner. Please correct me if im wrong "
Absolutely agree. It's the cock not its colour which gives the pleasure.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Im mildly confused. Surely a 9 inch white guys penis has the same effect as a 9 inch black guys penis in terms of ‘stretch’ and ‘being filled’…….like a big dick does what a big dick does, regardless of the race of the penis owner. Please correct me if im wrong Absolutely agree. It's the cock not its colour which gives the pleasure. "

It took a while but there you go

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Im mildly confused. Surely a 9 inch white guys penis has the same effect as a 9 inch black guys penis in terms of ‘stretch’ and ‘being filled’…….like a big dick does what a big dick does, regardless of the race of the penis owner. Please correct me if im wrong "
It's perplexing...I don't get it too ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im mildly confused. Surely a 9 inch white guys penis has the same effect as a 9 inch black guys penis in terms of ‘stretch’ and ‘being filled’…….like a big dick does what a big dick does, regardless of the race of the penis owner. Please correct me if im wrong Absolutely agree. It's the cock not its colour which gives the pleasure.

It took a while but there you go "
The question asked about your first bbc not which colour was the best or which is the biggest.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Mine was a bit of a let down as he came the minute I touched him. Obviously these things happen but still a disappointment at the time.

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

news flash, not all black guys have a huge cock, same as not all white guys have a small one, went to a party a while back and all the colourd guys were no bigger than most others there, hate the bbc phrase, anyway do you chose a partner on the size of thier cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think im going to end up with 3 for my first time You should be OK as you're partner is big. "

My partner is definitely more than enough for me

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS
over a year ago

Midlands

Any guy with a bigger cock than me I tend to submit to, ive knelt in front of both bbc and bwc and enjoyed both x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im mildly confused. Surely a 9 inch white guys penis has the same effect as a 9 inch black guys penis in terms of ‘stretch’ and ‘being filled’…….like a big dick does what a big dick does, regardless of the race of the penis owner. Please correct me if im wrong Absolutely agree. It's the cock not its colour which gives the pleasure.

It took a while but there you go The question asked about your first bbc not which colour was the best or which is the biggest. "

Granted but many of the comment mention the feel, being stretched, the fullness, the post sex ache. Surely receiving penetration from a large penis in general causes these things. I get the OP but it just seems a bit odd to try and attribute these things to big black willies only. Thats just my 2penth worth. Its all love

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Mine was a bit of a let down as he came the minute I touched him. Obviously these things happen but still a disappointment at the time."

I can understand why that happened tbh

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

My wife needed a few meetings before getting used to his big cock

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By *uckoldDesiresMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Im mildly confused. Surely a 9 inch white guys penis has the same effect as a 9 inch black guys penis in terms of ‘stretch’ and ‘being filled’…….like a big dick does what a big dick does, regardless of the race of the penis owner. Please correct me if im wrong "

It's a placebo effect

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By *luttTV/TS
over a year ago

Duns

In theory the average size is almost identical across races… but I’ll be honest all the ones I’ve had in me have been pretty big and pretty damn wonderful

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By *xford_geekCouple
over a year ago

Cotswolds

Not a problem for me. I have always been able to just take any size (despite being 5ft3)

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"In theory the average size is almost identical across races… but I’ll be honest all the ones I’ve had in me have been pretty big and pretty damn wonderful"

Did you ever noticed that it wasn't black but brown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s 2021. Aren’t we past fetishising black penises?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a problem for me. I have always been able to just take any size (despite being 5ft3)"

Lucky you i was married for 15yrs who was wasnt blessed at all so defo want to make up for it now

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester


"It’s 2021. Aren’t we past fetishising black penises? "

obviously not

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By *luttTV/TS
over a year ago

Duns


"In theory the average size is almost identical across races… but I’ll be honest all the ones I’ve had in me have been pretty big and pretty damn wonderful

Did you ever noticed that it wasn't black but brown "

Full of creamy white cum at any rate x

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By *bione_1Man
over a year ago

Broxbourne

I've played with one couple and the guy had massive BBC

I loved playing with it and making him cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I watched the wife quite a few years ago with BBC,

Nottingham hotel,

It was an amazing experience just watching them both,

She loved it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love wife to try a bbc

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By *ack1HoffMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Looking forward to hearing more stories as it was quite refreshing reading the ones posted already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love playing with BBC

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By *isteaMan
over a year ago

Around

Never knew a trend like this will ever pop up. Glad to see the experience was a good one for most.

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By *riyalaWoman
over a year ago

London

Never tried, might be tempted

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I’m more interested in BBP to be honest

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By *y AmoreMan
over a year ago

london

Agreed. I’ve hate some not so pleasant things said a couple of times on here. But there’s always some. Great to see a positive thread

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By *teveNJessCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

Have had a few join us but none out the ordinary like some have said they have had on here. Maybe will get lucky soon for 1

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By *y AmoreMan
over a year ago

london


"Have had a few join us but none out the ordinary like some have said they have had on here. Maybe will get lucky soon for 1"

Fingers crossed you will

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By *oxyukCouple
over a year ago

hitchin

First I had was one of the best fucks of my life. Nothing to do with size although he was big but his energy and stamina were amazing. He fucked me for over 4 hours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranged one for a dominant woman I know in a cuckold setting. She told the same thing. She felt that she was walking funny for the next two days. She also mentioned that it actually hurt when she took it. I can vouch for it as I saw how her face went when she took it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its always an amazing experience for me, couples tend to be more fun as the lady seems more relaxed with her other half there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll have to let you know x

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1


"I'll have to let you know x"

I think you should join the boob competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might x

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby

First guy, he wasn't that good to be fair. The second time we were having a mmff in swingers club and the black guy was amazing regret not getting his number.

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By *eachcplCouple
over a year ago

blackpool/preston/normandy france


"My first BBC was a bit of a shock and I stopped it after a few strokes but these days I love it . Wondering how other women handled their first BBC x"

I was a bit worried about meeting my first one when we met for a 3some but the guy was so lovely and pleasant he put my mind at rest when we chatted before moving to the bedroom. He was a really considerate lover and it was a great meet. All my later meets with similar guys have been good and he loves seeing me enjoying myself with them

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading


"First guy, he wasn't that good to be fair. The second time we were having a mmff in swingers club and the black guy was amazing regret not getting his number."

well you will have to try many more and see if you can find him ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of foreplay so he just went straight to pounding and it was fine. Anal is best for large guys imo xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First bbc on Monday night what a night we had definitely try again

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By *LOVEBBCCouple
over a year ago

belfast

Amazing read folks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just the big cock for me its a type preference and soft velvet skin "

Exactly. Not all black men have big dicks like

Luckily mine does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m more interested in BBP to be honest "

What’s “BBP?”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"news flash, not all black guys have a huge cock, same as not all white guys have a small one, went to a party a while back and all the colourd guys were no bigger than most others there, hate the bbc phrase, anyway do you chose a partner on the size of thier cock?"

Oh cool. What colours were there??

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"I’m more interested in BBP to be honest

What’s “BBP?”"

Beautiful Black Pussy

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


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By *otstuff17711Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Never ever thought about having a BBC until my Hubby talked about it to me. Me and my Hubby was staying at a Hotel with nothing planned until we got chatting on here and invited my First BBC over to Fuck Me and I handled it with no problem whilst enjoying watching my Hubby get off watching me fuck my first. Was amazing feeling his Cock

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By *edonist79Man
over a year ago

Trowbridge

My gfs first was with her black fwb in a mmf with me. Turns out she's someone who can take a pretty big one easily and I got to watch her have orgasm after orgasm as he pounded her deep. Not going to lie. Its horny as hell watching a partner cum like that

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Cock of choice to be fair! Just keep falling onto them! Defiantly have to position myself doggy style! But what a glorious full feeling! nothing finer than a solid, hard body pounding you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BBC has never and probably will never appeal to me! I also despise the fetishisation and the term as mother to a black man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lov to watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ex took one the size if a pringles can, literally when she got home to me I've never seen a gape like it.

She just sat on the kitchen work top as I looked at it in awe.

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By *rAMissJCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Something I am looking at trying. Might have to go the parties at xtasia for it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BBC has never and probably will never appeal to me! I also despise the fetishisation and the term as mother to a black man! "

I don't blame you. It's a pretty horrifying thread. Imagine one which talked about women in this way - the OP would be crucified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BBC has never and probably will never appeal to me! I also despise the fetishisation and the term as mother to a black man!

I don't blame you. It's a pretty horrifying thread. Imagine one which talked about women in this way - the OP would be crucified. "

There have been threads on BWC, BBW, Asian women, black women. No one was crucified. Nothing wrong with consenting adults exploring their fetishes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BBC has never and probably will never appeal to me! I also despise the fetishisation and the term as mother to a black man!

I don't blame you. It's a pretty horrifying thread. Imagine one which talked about women in this way - the OP would be crucified.

There have been threads on BWC, BBW, Asian women, black women. No one was crucified. Nothing wrong with consenting adults exploring their fetishes."

I've never seen threads which objectify people quite as much as this one does. Reducing them to a single body part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BBC has never and probably will never appeal to me! I also despise the fetishisation and the term as mother to a black man!

I don't blame you. It's a pretty horrifying thread. Imagine one which talked about women in this way - the OP would be crucified.

There have been threads on BWC, BBW, Asian women, black women. No one was crucified. Nothing wrong with consenting adults exploring their fetishes.

I've never seen threads which objectify people quite as much as this one does. Reducing them to a single body part. "

I can come up with a long list of fetishes which objectify people in different ways. Even the master/sl*ve relationship has bad historical connotations. Again, that's the reason why these are called kinks. As long as only consenting adults are involved, there is nothing wrong about it. I have seen some black men love the term bbc while some don't. They all have the choice whether to meet the people here who use the term bbc.

I understand that the term puts you off personally. That's totally fine too.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


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I can come up with a long list of fetishes which objectify people in different ways. Even the master/sl*ve relationship has bad historical connotations. Again, that's the reason why these are called kinks. As long as only consenting adults are involved, there is nothing wrong about it. I have seen some black men love the term bbc while some don't. They all have the choice whether to meet the people here who use the term bbc.

I understand that the term puts you off personally. That's totally fine too. "

Well said! Problems always arise when fabs fantasy world has real world morals and values applied to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BBC has never and probably will never appeal to me! I also despise the fetishisation and the term as mother to a black man!

I don't blame you. It's a pretty horrifying thread. Imagine one which talked about women in this way - the OP would be crucified.

There have been threads on BWC, BBW, Asian women, black women. No one was crucified. Nothing wrong with consenting adults exploring their fetishes.

I've never seen threads which objectify people quite as much as this one does. Reducing them to a single body part.

I can come up with a long list of fetishes which objectify people in different ways. Even the master/sl*ve relationship has bad historical connotations. Again, that's the reason why these are called kinks. As long as only consenting adults are involved, there is nothing wrong about it. I have seen some black men love the term bbc while some don't. They all have the choice whether to meet the people here who use the term bbc.

I understand that the term puts you off personally. That's totally fine too. "

The term doesn't put me off. The comments on the thread do - I don't think the BBC fetish is offensive - I think some of the comments on this thread are.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Started off nervous. But he was a complete gent. Went from shy and sensitive to a full on power fuck.

By the time the meet was finished my wife went from nervous to asking me to make the offer to the guy that she was prepared to do "ANYTHING" he wanted from her if they met again. Lol

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By *vvenloMan
over a year ago

Coventry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just a FUF ..

Fat ugly fucker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loved it!

Was nervous, but he was gentle to start. I was soon begging to be pounded

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By *oeandjanCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We have tried Black & white guys

One thing we found a lot with black guys & you see in a lot of porn vids

If that their cocks don’t stand up rigid like most white guys do

As for the size & girth they are the same as white cocks

But it’s the contrast of white skin & black skin

Lovely thing to see you partner take a nice black cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love black men and only looking to enjoy experiences with black men in the future.

I love the contrast of my white skin & against the darker tones that they offer as well as the extras they bring to the table.

For me, despite being happily married, “once you go black you don’t go back”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t done it….yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BBC has never and probably will never appeal to me! I also despise the fetishisation and the term as mother to a black man!

I don't blame you. It's a pretty horrifying thread. Imagine one which talked about women in this way - the OP would be crucified.

There have been threads on BWC, BBW, Asian women, black women. No one was crucified. Nothing wrong with consenting adults exploring their fetishes.

I've never seen threads which objectify people quite as much as this one does. Reducing them to a single body part.

I can come up with a long list of fetishes which objectify people in different ways. Even the master/sl*ve relationship has bad historical connotations. Again, that's the reason why these are called kinks. As long as only consenting adults are involved, there is nothing wrong about it. I have seen some black men love the term bbc while some don't. They all have the choice whether to meet the people here who use the term bbc.

I understand that the term puts you off personally. That's totally fine too.

The term doesn't put me off. The comments on the thread do - I don't think the BBC fetish is offensive - I think some of the comments on this thread are. "

Agreed!

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"BBC has never and probably will never appeal to me! I also despise the fetishisation and the term as mother to a black man!

I don't blame you. It's a pretty horrifying thread. Imagine one which talked about women in this way - the OP would be crucified.

There have been threads on BWC, BBW, Asian women, black women. No one was crucified. Nothing wrong with consenting adults exploring their fetishes.

I've never seen threads which objectify people quite as much as this one does. Reducing them to a single body part.

I can come up with a long list of fetishes which objectify people in different ways. Even the master/sl*ve relationship has bad historical connotations. Again, that's the reason why these are called kinks. As long as only consenting adults are involved, there is nothing wrong about it. I have seen some black men love the term bbc while some don't. They all have the choice whether to meet the people here who use the term bbc.

I understand that the term puts you off personally. That's totally fine too.

The term doesn't put me off. The comments on the thread do - I don't think the BBC fetish is offensive - I think some of the comments on this thread are. "

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The term jangles me when it's expanded to describe human beings and not just their genitalia

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By *ockariaMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I'd love to get to grips with a BBC tv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was blindfolded my very first time. It was my Dom's friend and he didnt want me to see him.

The second, it wasn't very good. He was unable to fuck me, went soft etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love black men and only looking to enjoy experiences with black men in the future.

I love the contrast of my white skin & against the darker tones that they offer as well as the extras they bring to the table.

For me, despite being happily married, “once you go black you don’t go back” "

What about the poor yellow China man?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"We have tried Black & white guys

One thing we found a lot with black guys & you see in a lot of porn vids

If that their cocks don’t stand up rigid like most white guys do

As for the size & girth they are the same as white cocks

But it’s the contrast of white skin & black skin

Lovely thing to see you partner take a nice black cock"

looks fab and kinky during intimacy a real turn on felt myself go rock solid during and notified of same

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By *iss_Cali_xxCouple
over a year ago

Herne Bay


"My first BBC was a bit of a shock and I stopped it after a few strokes but these days I love it . Wondering how other women handled their first BBC x"

Like a champ

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By *each69Woman
over a year ago

doncaster

I’m lucky I’ve meet some lovely black guys but yes the first one was hard to take so to speak lol, but it’s been great since

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By *meliacdxTV/TS
over a year ago

Here

I'm still waiting unfortunately, ha x

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By *azsWoman
over a year ago

hoddesdon

I’m dying to try one

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By *ihullfunMan
over a year ago

hull

My wife tried years ago and I ask her I thought when you tried you won’t go back lol but she said who’s to say I’m not going to try again lol

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I loved my first BBC he fucked me anally to completion. I couldn't feel hubby afterwards. He just kept slipping out and eventually gave up and walked over me lol x

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By *meliacdxTV/TS
over a year ago

Here


"I’m dying to try one "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met our first black guy a couple of weeks ago for soft play, was amazing! Great guy in every way! Made Mrs cum orally 3 times over a couple of hours period!

Next meeting is booked and Mrs wants him to take her fully this time, so should be very sexy and a bit of a tight squeeze fun! Lol (he's the biggest she's ever clapped eyes, hands and mouth on!).

Both looking forward to her becoming a proper "snowbunny" to her black lover x

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe


"I got a licence, started off gently with Playschool and now I am right up there with Line of Duty!"

Hahahahahaha !!

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe


"Im mildly confused. Surely a 9 inch white guys penis has the same effect as a 9 inch black guys penis in terms of ‘stretch’ and ‘being filled’…….like a big dick does what a big dick does, regardless of the race of the penis owner. Please correct me if im wrong "

Get you being all sensible and mucking up the fantasy hahahaha !!

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By *rnynhrdguyMan
over a year ago

plymouth


"Mine was a bit of a let down as he came the minute I touched him. Obviously these things happen but still a disappointment at the time."

TBF looking at your pics so would I

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe


"news flash, not all black guys have a huge cock, same as not all white guys have a small one, went to a party a while back and all the colourd guys were no bigger than most others there, hate the bbc phrase, anyway do you chose a partner on the size of thier cock?"

I always feel more sorry for the ‘average’ black guys because there’s greater expectation on them than me (mr average…)

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"news flash, not all black guys have a huge cock, same as not all white guys have a small one, went to a party a while back and all the colourd guys were no bigger than most others there, hate the bbc phrase, anyway do you chose a partner on the size of thier cock?

I always feel more sorry for the ‘average’ black guys because there’s greater expectation on them than me (mr average…)"

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I feel sorry for black guys who are only regarded as walking genitals!

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By *ark eyesMan
over a year ago

city center


"news flash, not all black guys have a huge cock, same as not all white guys have a small one, went to a party a while back and all the colourd guys were no bigger than most others there, hate the bbc phrase, anyway do you chose a partner on the size of thier cock?

I always feel more sorry for the ‘average’ black guys because there’s greater expectation on them than me (mr average…)

............................

I feel sorry for black guys who are only regarded as walking genitals!"

The fact that this is still a trope and the vast majority of this thread is white people arguing about how it's ok to fetishise a race is upsetting.

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By *nfucktuationMan
over a year ago

London

Lurking, interesting debate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking forward to seeing my misses with her first black cock . Bbc is abit disrespectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking forward to seeing my misses with her first black cock . Bbc is abit disrespectful "

This isn’t any more respectful tbh! Black man would be respectful rather than reducing them to just their body part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"news flash, not all black guys have a huge cock, same as not all white guys have a small one, went to a party a while back and all the colourd guys were no bigger than most others there, hate the bbc phrase, anyway do you chose a partner on the size of thier cock?

I always feel more sorry for the ‘average’ black guys because there’s greater expectation on them than me (mr average…)

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I feel sorry for black guys who are only regarded as walking genitals!

The fact that this is still a trope and the vast majority of this thread is white people arguing about how it's ok to fetishise a race is upsetting. "

I can imagine that it is upsetting. Not all white people think it's ok.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Looking forward to seeing my misses with her first black cock . Bbc is abit disrespectful

This isn’t any more respectful tbh! Black man would be respectful rather than reducing them to just their body part."

Yet so many appear perfectly happy to advertise themselves this way?

I also see others boasting of big tits. Blond hair. Tight ass. Etc

Like many on fab we have used this term without any insult or disrespect intended. It is used as a form of shorthand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This country seems to pick up on words and phrases and twists them so much that it now offends them.

This really wasn't a thing 10 years ago.

Snowflake generation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking forward to seeing my misses with her first black cock . Bbc is abit disrespectful

This isn’t any more respectful tbh! Black man would be respectful rather than reducing them to just their body part.

Yet so many appear perfectly happy to advertise themselves this way?

I also see others boasting of big tits. Blond hair. Tight ass. Etc

Like many on fab we have used this term without any insult or disrespect intended. It is used as a form of shorthand. "

Some black men may be okay with it, doesn’t mean it’s respectful. Those examples aren’t even comparable!

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By *oodymonsterMan
over a year ago

Near Shrewsbury

My wife enjoyed hers. I can see ger face now as she pulled it out of the guy's shorts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This country seems to pick up on words and phrases and twists them so much that it now offends them.

This really wasn't a thing 10 years ago.

Snowflake generation "

It definitely was a thing ten years ago!

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Looking forward to seeing my misses with her first black cock . Bbc is abit disrespectful

This isn’t any more respectful tbh! Black man would be respectful rather than reducing them to just their body part.

Yet so many appear perfectly happy to advertise themselves this way?

I also see others boasting of big tits. Blond hair. Tight ass. Etc

Like many on fab we have used this term without any insult or disrespect intended. It is used as a form of shorthand.

Some black men may be okay with it, doesn’t mean it’s respectful. Those examples aren’t even comparable! "

Then we have to agree to disagree. I think they are perfectly comparable.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"This country seems to pick up on words and phrases and twists them so much that it now offends them.

This really wasn't a thing 10 years ago.

Snowflake generation "

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Yes it absolutely was 'a thing' ten years ago, you weren't listening to or hearing the right people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking forward to seeing my misses with her first black cock . Bbc is abit disrespectful

This isn’t any more respectful tbh! Black man would be respectful rather than reducing them to just their body part.

Yet so many appear perfectly happy to advertise themselves this way?

I also see others boasting of big tits. Blond hair. Tight ass. Etc

Like many on fab we have used this term without any insult or disrespect intended. It is used as a form of shorthand.

Some black men may be okay with it, doesn’t mean it’s respectful. Those examples aren’t even comparable!

Then we have to agree to disagree. I think they are perfectly comparable. "

Do people get discriminated against for having a tight ass?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely there is a guy attached to the cock you all going on about, with a name, a face and a personality??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely there is a guy attached to the cock you all going on about, with a name, a face and a personality??"

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Looking forward to seeing my misses with her first black cock . Bbc is abit disrespectful

This isn’t any more respectful tbh! Black man would be respectful rather than reducing them to just their body part.

Yet so many appear perfectly happy to advertise themselves this way?

I also see others boasting of big tits. Blond hair. Tight ass. Etc

Like many on fab we have used this term without any insult or disrespect intended. It is used as a form of shorthand.

Some black men may be okay with it, doesn’t mean it’s respectful. Those examples aren’t even comparable!

Then we have to agree to disagree. I think they are perfectly comparable.

Do people get discriminated against for having a tight ass?"

Oh I thought we were talking about guys being objectified for a particular part of their anatomy? It seems to be in this case they are being positively discriminated against. A fact recognised by the many black guys who are perfectly happy apparently to use this phrase to their advantage.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"

Some black men may be okay with it, doesn’t mean it’s respectful. "

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Indeed, how hard can it be to refer to a preference for black men as just that..black men instead of using snappy, porn inspired acronyms that identifies them as genitalia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange how they refer to themselves as bbc ?? Only saying

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Surely there is a guy attached to the cock you all going on about, with a name, a face and a personality??"

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Hallelujah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Some black men may be okay with it, doesn’t mean it’s respectful.

................................

Indeed, how hard can it be to refer to a preference for black men as just that..black men instead of using snappy, porn inspired acronyms that identifies them as genitalia."

Exactly! It’s not rocket science!

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Strange how they refer to themselves as bbc ?? Only saying"

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Who are "they"?

Some women refer to themselves as sluts/whores, that doesn't mean the terms aren't seen as offensive by other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strange how they refer to themselves as bbc ?? Only saying

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Who are "they"?

Some women refer to themselves as sluts/whores, that doesn't mean the terms aren't seen as offensive by other women."

I agree! Just because a small group want to use an offensive term to refer to themselves doesn’t mean we all want to be classed as that. Respect my race and accept I’m no different! If you like my cock and think it’s big then let that be it, you don’t need to find names for it. It’s a PENIS! That’s it!

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Just wondering if anyone has ever contacted a guy on fab who describes himself this way to lecture him on how disrespectful it is?

And what the response was?

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

never have

suspect I wouldn't cope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if anyone has ever contacted a guy on fab who describes himself this way to lecture him on how disrespectful it is?

And what the response was?"

Awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking forward to seeing my misses with her first black cock . Bbc is abit disrespectful

This isn’t any more respectful tbh! Black man would be respectful rather than reducing them to just their body part."

Black man is also disrespectful imo . Black gentleman is more appropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking forward to seeing my misses with her first black cock . Bbc is abit disrespectful

This isn’t any more respectful tbh! Black man would be respectful rather than reducing them to just their body part.

Black man is also disrespectful imo . Black gentleman is more appropriate "

What are you on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking forward to seeing my misses with her first black cock . Bbc is abit disrespectful

This isn’t any more respectful tbh! Black man would be respectful rather than reducing them to just their body part.

End of the day who cares about race it's far too discussed about alot of white men on here seem to have a hang up about black guys . It's just some people's preference . In our case definitely ours .

Black man is also disrespectful imo . Black gentleman is more appropriate "

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

So unfair why do black guys have such big cocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking forward to seeing my misses with her first black cock . Bbc is abit disrespectful

This isn’t any more respectful tbh! Black man would be respectful rather than reducing them to just their body part.

I just feel disrespectful saying black man . They are a person lol . Alot of white men on here get hung up on black guys I noticed to. Everyone's here for the same reason no matter the race

Black man is also disrespectful imo . Black gentleman is more appropriate

What are you on?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all do "

Just the same as any race some are big some are average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking forward to seeing my misses with her first black cock . Bbc is abit disrespectful

This isn’t any more respectful tbh! Black man would be respectful rather than reducing them to just their body part."

Isn't this a sex forum ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking forward to seeing my misses with her first black cock . Bbc is abit disrespectful

This isn’t any more respectful tbh! Black man would be respectful rather than reducing them to just their body part.

Isn't this a sex forum ? "

And? Your point is….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking forward to seeing my misses with her first black cock . Bbc is abit disrespectful

This isn’t any more respectful tbh! Black man would be respectful rather than reducing them to just their body part.

Black man is also disrespectful imo . Black gentleman is more appropriate "

You were just referring to men as "black cocks".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares what they are called.they label themselves as that and some don't . What do you want me to say. Stop throwing around terms . You need to go on a proper interracial forum you don't know anything about the interracial scene I been on forums for years . That's the whole point of a hot wife scenario. Just because I haven't lived it doesn't mean I don't know what I'm talking about

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By *heirry84Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Love how this turned into a race debate and what's pc. Fab is a breeding ground for confrontation at times. Almost like people enjoy arguing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love how this turned into a race debate and what's pc. Fab is a breeding ground for confrontation at times. Almost like people enjoy arguing..."

I agree everyone has to make it about race who cares . It's sex we are all humans lol

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By *heirry84Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Love how this turned into a race debate and what's pc. Fab is a breeding ground for confrontation at times. Almost like people enjoy arguing...

I agree everyone has to make it about race who cares . It's sex we are all humans lol"

You can get offended by anything if you look into it long enough. We all bleed red and our existence will be much better if we are nice to each other. It's not rocket science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love how this turned into a race debate and what's pc. Fab is a breeding ground for confrontation at times. Almost like people enjoy arguing...

I agree everyone has to make it about race who cares . It's sex we are all humans lol

You can get offended by anything if you look into it long enough. We all bleed red and our existence will be much better if we are nice to each other. It's not rocket science "

Well said mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love how this turned into a race debate and what's pc. Fab is a breeding ground for confrontation at times. Almost like people enjoy arguing...

I agree everyone has to make it about race who cares . It's sex we are all humans lol

You can get offended by anything if you look into it long enough. We all bleed red and our existence will be much better if we are nice to each other. It's not rocket science "

You're talking about being nice to each other yet a black man has written how upsetting he finds it to see other black men reduced to genitals. That doesn't seem nice or kind to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So unfair why do black guys have such big cocks"

Lol windup surely

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Love how this turned into a race debate and what's pc. Fab is a breeding ground for confrontation at times. Almost like people enjoy arguing...

I agree everyone has to make it about race who cares . It's sex we are all humans lol

You can get offended by anything if you look into it long enough. We all bleed red and our existence will be much better if we are nice to each other. It's not rocket science

You're talking about being nice to each other yet a black man has written how upsetting he finds it to see other black men reduced to genitals. That doesn't seem nice or kind to me. "

And there are a great many who don’t. In short this rabbit hole that everyone now is getting their panties in a bunch about is pointless. No one side is entirely in the right. Or in the wrong.

Now I am clocking out of it because I have more important things needing done with my time. My sock drawer has to be reorganised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love how this turned into a race debate and what's pc. Fab is a breeding ground for confrontation at times. Almost like people enjoy arguing...

I agree everyone has to make it about race who cares . It's sex we are all humans lol

His too sensitive then isn't he maybe he shouldn't be on a forum like this . Don't like it don't come on here

You can get offended by anything if you look into it long enough. We all bleed red and our existence will be much better if we are nice to each other. It's not rocket science

You're talking about being nice to each other yet a black man has written how upsetting he finds it to see other black men reduced to genitals. That doesn't seem nice or kind to me. "

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By *heirry84Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Love how this turned into a race debate and what's pc. Fab is a breeding ground for confrontation at times. Almost like people enjoy arguing...

I agree everyone has to make it about race who cares . It's sex we are all humans lol

You can get offended by anything if you look into it long enough. We all bleed red and our existence will be much better if we are nice to each other. It's not rocket science

You're talking about being nice to each other yet a black man has written how upsetting he finds it to see other black men reduced to genitals. That doesn't seem nice or kind to me. "

I'm a black man. I don't think that when people talk about bbc they are implying that we are walking black penises devoid of a person. They are probably saying that they like black men with big cocks. Again, if you look into anything long enough you can be offended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love how this turned into a race debate and what's pc. Fab is a breeding ground for confrontation at times. Almost like people enjoy arguing...

I agree everyone has to make it about race who cares . It's sex we are all humans lol

Thank you ! Finally someone with some sense

You can get offended by anything if you look into it long enough. We all bleed red and our existence will be much better if we are nice to each other. It's not rocket science

You're talking about being nice to each other yet a black man has written how upsetting he finds it to see other black men reduced to genitals. That doesn't seem nice or kind to me.

I'm a black man. I don't think that when people talk about bbc they are implying that we are walking black penises devoid of a person. They are probably saying that they like black men with big cocks. Again, if you look into anything long enough you can be offended"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love how this turned into a race debate and what's pc. Fab is a breeding ground for confrontation at times. Almost like people enjoy arguing...

I agree everyone has to make it about race who cares . It's sex we are all humans lol

You can get offended by anything if you look into it long enough. We all bleed red and our existence will be much better if we are nice to each other. It's not rocket science

You're talking about being nice to each other yet a black man has written how upsetting he finds it to see other black men reduced to genitals. That doesn't seem nice or kind to me.

I'm a black man. I don't think that when people talk about bbc they are implying that we are walking black penises devoid of a person. They are probably saying that they like black men with big cocks. Again, if you look into anything long enough you can be offended"

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love how this turned into a race debate and what's pc. Fab is a breeding ground for confrontation at times. Almost like people enjoy arguing...

I agree everyone has to make it about race who cares . It's sex we are all humans lol

You can get offended by anything if you look into it long enough. We all bleed red and our existence will be much better if we are nice to each other. It's not rocket science

You're talking about being nice to each other yet a black man has written how upsetting he finds it to see other black men reduced to genitals. That doesn't seem nice or kind to me.

I'm a black man. I don't think that when people talk about bbc they are implying that we are walking black penises devoid of a person. They are probably saying that they like black men with big cocks. Again, if you look into anything long enough you can be offended"

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love how this turned into a race debate and what's pc. Fab is a breeding ground for confrontation at times. Almost like people enjoy arguing...

I agree everyone has to make it about race who cares . It's sex we are all humans lol

You can get offended by anything if you look into it long enough. We all bleed red and our existence will be much better if we are nice to each other. It's not rocket science

You're talking about being nice to each other yet a black man has written how upsetting he finds it to see other black men reduced to genitals. That doesn't seem nice or kind to me.

I'm a black man. I don't think that when people talk about bbc they are implying that we are walking black penises devoid of a person. They are probably saying that they like black men with big cocks. Again, if you look into anything long enough you can be offended"

I think that's exactly what (some) people are implying. I see the same thing in my inbox - treating me like an object with a pair of tits. It's so common on this site. I'm surprised you don't have empathy for a fellow black man who finds it dehumanising to be viewed like this. It's dismissive of others to say "if you look into anything long enough you can be offended".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think people just need to get over themselves , its human nature we will never all have the same views , what makes one person's view anymore important than the next, far to many opinionated peeps on here.

If you don't like someone's comments or opinions just pass them by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least this thread has shown me who to block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very uppity for someone who is soo pretty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least this thread has shown me who to block! "

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By *x cplCouple
over a year ago

North of Oxford

We dont like the term BBC either but with so many guys reffing to themselves as having a BBC. Then it is hard not to follow when looking for such, but we dont use the phrase at all. It's not just about cock size, plenty of BWC out there as well. For us first its the person, then it's also about the visual contrast of skin tones as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very uppity for someone who is soo pretty "

Call it uppity if you’d like, IDGAF

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By *heirry84Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Love how this turned into a race debate and what's pc. Fab is a breeding ground for confrontation at times. Almost like people enjoy arguing...

I agree everyone has to make it about race who cares . It's sex we are all humans lol

You can get offended by anything if you look into it long enough. We all bleed red and our existence will be much better if we are nice to each other. It's not rocket science

You're talking about being nice to each other yet a black man has written how upsetting he finds it to see other black men reduced to genitals. That doesn't seem nice or kind to me.

I'm a black man. I don't think that when people talk about bbc they are implying that we are walking black penises devoid of a person. They are probably saying that they like black men with big cocks. Again, if you look into anything long enough you can be offended

I think that's exactly what (some) people are implying. I see the same thing in my inbox - treating me like an object with a pair of tits. It's so common on this site. I'm surprised you don't have empathy for a fellow black man who finds it dehumanising to be viewed like this. It's dismissive of others to say "if you look into anything long enough you can be offended". "

How do you know what they're implying? Or are you thinking that so you can take offence? There are people that detach themselves from the person because they are just looking for aesthetics and not wanting to care about the lesson behind the cock or tits. But that's their choice.

If this was an overtly racist thread I would take a different stance. However it's not, it's people moaning about the site wide terminology that is used. I don't find bbc offensive any more than I would bbw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love how this turned into a race debate and what's pc. Fab is a breeding ground for confrontation at times. Almost like people enjoy arguing...

I agree everyone has to make it about race who cares . It's sex we are all humans lol

You can get offended by anything if you look into it long enough. We all bleed red and our existence will be much better if we are nice to each other. It's not rocket science

You're talking about being nice to each other yet a black man has written how upsetting he finds it to see other black men reduced to genitals. That doesn't seem nice or kind to me.

I'm a black man. I don't think that when people talk about bbc they are implying that we are walking black penises devoid of a person. They are probably saying that they like black men with big cocks. Again, if you look into anything long enough you can be offended

I think that's exactly what (some) people are implying. I see the same thing in my inbox - treating me like an object with a pair of tits. It's so common on this site. I'm surprised you don't have empathy for a fellow black man who finds it dehumanising to be viewed like this. It's dismissive of others to say "if you look into anything long enough you can be offended".

How do you know what they're implying? Or are you thinking that so you can take offence? There are people that detach themselves from the person because they are just looking for aesthetics and not wanting to care about the lesson behind the cock or tits. But that's their choice.

If this was an overtly racist thread I would take a different stance. However it's not, it's people moaning about the site wide terminology that is used. I don't find bbc offensive any more than I would bbw"

Because they're talking about men in terms of their cocks only. I think it's dehumanising and unpleasant to talk about human beings that way. As though all they are is body parts. My opinion. I also find it dehumanising and unpleasant when men talk about me in the same detached manner. I'm not aesthetics. I'm a person not just a pair of nice tits. I don't expect others to agree with me, I am just putting forward an alternative take.

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By *nlyfunsMan
over a year ago

UK

I watched my wife with a black guy, loved it!

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By *aloo42Couple
over a year ago

preston

My first was a disappointment, second, third, fourth...... definitely not. Though do have a favourite ?? friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yawning, ffs arnt we all objects looking to be used for our own gratification, its a sex site not a dating site

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