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By *impsons3 OP   Man
over a year ago

high wycombe

Hi everyone, I hope everyone is staying safe

Question, is it me or do people really leave their age range at 18-99 deliberately, or are they lazy or just forget. I must admit I find “forget “ har to believe as its part of the set up process

Just curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it as meaning they like to meet people and aren't constrained by age.

I don't know why some people see it as an issue. No matter the age range on their profile it doesn't mean they will meet everyone within that age range.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

I would think the first thing a woman does on setting up a profile is to change the age range to that which appeals to her . Conversely a man will skip past it in the rush to start looking at profiles and photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have 18-99...ok we aren't going to meet a 99 year old... But there's always the chance we could miss out on some one by one year... So we leave it open. We have met people that set their age at 99 that obviously weren't, but it helps them avoid filters

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By *kblokenorthMan
over a year ago

Any


"We have 18-99...ok we aren't going to meet a 99 year old... But there's always the chance we could miss out on some one by one year... So we leave it open. We have met people that set their age at 99 that obviously weren't, but it helps them avoid filters "

Indeed many of the locals I see with statuses complaining they can’t find a match often have restrictive filters where the “plus (or minus) one year” could make a lot of difference.

When you go to a club you don’t have to wear an age badge - you see all sorts of liaisons that would never happen via online connection lol.

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By *impsons3 OP   Man
over a year ago

high wycombe

To all have responded, thank you, makes sense re + or - a couple of years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50-99

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take it as meaning they like to meet people and aren't constrained by age.

I don't know why some people see it as an issue. No matter the age range on their profile it doesn't mean they will meet everyone within that age range. "

Pretty much this, I have an age range on my profile, but I havent filtered messages based on it. Its more like what youd call guidlines...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine says it because I want all ages to come to the social... I am not looking for anyone but if I was my age range would be 25 to 40... That was one of the first things I changed when I joined the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest think lady’s after younger guys it is what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have 18-99...ok we aren't going to meet a 99 year old... But there's always the chance we could miss out on some one by one year... So we leave it open. We have met people that set their age at 99 that obviously weren't, but it helps them avoid filters "

This is why I haven’t got my filters on, but have set the desired range. I don’t look 41 and could pass for younger, so age as a complete restriction is a bit annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest think lady’s after younger guys it is what it is "

I’m a younger guy and I bet you get more attention than me

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester

I frequently can't message people who look interesting due to filters and I see many of the ladies complaining about the idiot mails they get. Perhaps consider us politer oldies?

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

I think it's very mature of people to not have a limited age range and go off what they see and read on a profile sometimes ignoring age to decide if they want to chat etc. The point is proven about age ranges having been contacted by a few women who's age ranges I am outside after posting new photos so it proves they sometimes limit themselves by assuming men over 50 let themselves go and I think they could be missing out on some very healthy and virile old dudes on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's very mature of people to not have a limited age range and go off what they see and read on a profile sometimes ignoring age to decide if they want to chat etc. The point is proven about age ranges having been contacted by a few women who's age ranges I am outside after posting new photos so it proves they sometimes limit themselves by assuming men over 50 let themselves go and I think they could be missing out on some very healthy and virile old dudes on this site."

It just limits the inbox craziness... We can also look for ourselves

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Ours is up to 45, but that doesn't mean we wouldn't go a bit older, depends on the people themselves. We do get quite a lot of offers from the over 60's for some reason, which is just too old for us.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

I hope if I reach 98,I'd be able go a year older.

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By *ostonJoeMan
over a year ago

Boston

Age is but a number.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I often adjust mine by a few years each way, but it soon goes back to my preferred range after the types of messages I get

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By *C7995XCouple
over a year ago

London

Our age range is ten years either side. But we leave it at 18-99 because imagine if the most sexy and amazingly good looking man was 11 years older lol

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

In most cases we've come across it's been a combination of laziness and desperation.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

O have a fairly broad age spectrum Not that I expect anyone under the age of 40 to be remotely interested.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Weird we just are just considering increasing ours as we have been here 10 years and never amended it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all,

Do you have to be a site supporter before you can cam on fab?

I presumed when others left verifications saying “webcam” I just initially thought they FaceTimed?

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